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@im0nline
hi! I'm Marina!
Welcome to my pro-endogenic blog, we're a medically recognised Endogenic DID system (Yes, including the Endogenic part)
We have Tourette's, BPD & NPD and Autism & ADHD-C
Our hosts are Leyley ⚰️ and Bubbles 🫧
Posts will have tags with the name of the alter who posted followed by their member tag (Example in the tags)
We like Pokémon and Cookie Run: Kingdom! They're our two special interests!
thanks that's all for now 😄
Does anyone else feel a little weird about Jax being referred to by she/her pronouns?
Yes, Jax is trans.
If Jax had been given time to come out and let go of the internalized transphobia, I'm sure Jax would have eventually been comfortable going by she/her pronouns. But... at the time of Jax's death, Jax went by he/him pronouns.
Not only that, but Jax would have been vehemently against being called she/her pronouns if you tried, and would mock and degrade anyone who did so. Jax's preferred pronouns in the show at the time of his abstraction were he/him.
I know Jax isn't a real person so it doesn't really matter if it's disrespectful towards the fictional character... but it still does feel sort of disrespectful to him.
And to be clear, this only applies to canon Jax. Obviously, if you're referring to a version of Jax in fanart or fanfiction who is out as trans and going by she/her pronouns, call her by those pronouns! That's a different instance of Jax.
And the above applies to any character for that matter. Even ones not confirmed trans in any way in canon. I would even encourage people to make their own fanon versions of characters trans.
But if we're talking about canon Jax who was insecure and chose to go by he/him pronouns, it feels weird. I don't want to say it's misgendering per se. But you aren't using the character's preferred pronouns.
And in a way, I find this more upsetting with Jax than if it had been some cis characters Because some characters might not mind going by different pronouns.
Steven Universe would happily wear a dress and didn't seem concerned with gems who used she/her pronouns to refer to him. I don't think Steven Universe is trans, but he also doesn't seem to care one way or the other what gender people see him as or what pronouns they use for him.
If you believe Steven Universe was trans and used she/her pronouns to refer to him, I don't think Steven Universe would be that bothered by the pronouns you used.
In contrast, Jax, despite being a trans egg, would hate it.
Maybe someday, Jax would have been comfortable going by she/her pronouns. But Jax never got that chance.
I realize this is a complicated issue though. Obviously, the trans community is happy to have representation in a piece of media that became so popular. And I think there's a feeling of... Nobody really being prepared to talk about a character like Jax because there just isn't another character like him in media.
The trans characters you typically get are already out as trans, or you get a satisfying coming out arc where they get to learn to accept themselves.
What you don't get is a cautionary tale of somebody who spent their whole life pushing everyone away, never accepting who they are, and then essentially dying before they get that chance.
Jax is incredible representation because he shows this darker side to the closet than traditional media presents. He's an amazingly written character who was never able to accept himself or what he was, consumed by this internalized transphobia.
But what that means is that at the time he abstracted, he was still a person who would not have wanted people to refer to him by she/her pronouns.
I guess really, my main issue is not with how people refer to a fictional character. Jax isn't real. But I think normalizing referring to Jax by pronouns he wasn't comfortable with also normalizes doing the same things to real people you believe to be trans eggs. And when I see people disrespecting a character by using pronouns they know the character wouldn't have wanted them to use, I have to ask myself if those same people would treat a real person the same way.
This isn't a big issue, but I wonder if anyone else feels uncomfortable about this.
"Jax, look, I know we don't get along, but I think you need to transition so we can start yuri maxxing the circus"
I’ve done sm to try and revive my hair cause it’s so frizzy all my waves totally disappear in it and I have sm dandruff.
yea except I went to a barber and actually everything I did was exactly why it looked that way.
My hair was so fucking dry that’s why. And I don’t actually have dandruff at all my scalp is totally fine. Bro. My whole hair routine has basically been turned on its head isn’t that funny. At least I’ll have hair that doesn’t stick straight out idk?
Hi, an “endogenic” refresher course, right here!
1. We introduced the term “endogenic” into the community August 2014, along with some other terms! It was in response to exclusionists (wrongly) complaining about “systems without DID” using “their words”. It was an attempt at creating nonmedicalized terms that any plural system could use.
2. It was also a way to do away with terms that had fallen into disfavor— specifically “natural systems”, a term that had been in use possibly as early as 1994. It was disliked because people felt it implied that trauma-caused systems were unnatural. “Endogenic” fixed that.
3. The word “endogenic” was lovingly created to help systems put their experience into words. All it means is “a system not formed by trauma”; it doesn’t imply any other cause, set of beliefs, or experiences. It doesn’t imply the system is nondisordered or doesn’t have trauma. It doesn’t mean any other system’s origins in trauma or dx status is “invalid” or whatever.
4. Though the terms were eventually posted to tumblr, the idea didn’t start there. Tumblr was created in 2007; the concept of systems not caused by trauma has, again, been online since the 90s. Nor was the term created by singlets! We’re a trauma-caused system with DID.
5. “Endogenic” wasn’t created as an insult or to exclude anyone. We have loved ones who are endogenic. Many of the terms in use now were created by endogenics. They have helped preserve plural history, and defended the community. They are good people, and real systems. The hate they get is completely senseless.
Thanks for coming to our talk. Please stop insulting endogenic systems, and educate yourselves instead, thanks. (Unless it’s just pure malice at this point in which case, fuck off I guess.)
https://endogenichub.weebly.com/ is a decent site to learn more.
I have very complicated feelings I would love to express but because I'm so open about yapcomics being my sideblog, I just wouldn't want to jeopardize it.
your phobia is a serious issue that is inherently worthy of both being treated seriously and also treating you with compassion. a phobia is a genuine disability, regardless of what said phobia is about. and i really do hope that one day you shall have access to appropriate care in which you are able to live the kind of joyful life you deserve, unhindered by your phobia.
please stop showing me heterosexual couples that get married and are happy ever after, I am severely uncomfortable for I would never be happy in that situation thank you
wow guys I got into game development college/high school (gymnasium). I will now become a pro developer and make DID games trust.
These are the skills I’ll graduate with:
(does this even need translations bruh)
1. Game developer, Level designer, Game programmer, Procedural artist, Technical artist
2. Game graphics, Concept artist, 3D-Graphics, Animator, Art director, Game animator, Level designer
wow guys I got into game development college/high school (gymnasium). I will now become a pro developer and make DID games trust.
Sorry if we've ever sent something that made no sense on here 🥹 we mean no harm with how shitty we word things, and we just have a very disorganized thought process /gen
WHATTT HOW DARE YOU THINK I’D EVER DISLIKE YOU OMD YOU’RE AWESOME not at any point have I ever felt any negative way about y’all we love u sm moot 🫶🫶🫶 /platonic
we’re also very bad with phrasing and words cause small vocabulary and not natively english so I get y’all dw :3
bro my ethnicity is really something cause I somehow manage to be from 3 entirely different major tribal groups but all of them are exclusively European
A non-ordered list of our collective names because ouh identity disturbance ouh:
Mai, Ончао, Keo/Keokeo, Leja, Maja/Maya, Freja, Marina, Tempo, Dottern/Dot, Tahvana + way way more
A name that we had a while ago was Ончао and I still really like it. I need to make a name list sometime.
Oh and it’s a reference to Onchao from Mia And Me
Btw you DO put people at risk of suicide if you intentionally make people with NPD crash. You are not saving people from "abusers" you are putting vulnerable people at risk. Do not do this. "How to isolate a narcissist" "How to cut off a narcissists supply" "How to kill a narcissists ego" stuff like that is putting people who are already traumatized at a high risk.
To all endogenic/non traumagenic systems :
I'm sorry that your existance is boiled down to a stance. You are more than a topic of debate, theres more to you than just your system origins. It's disgusting that so much of the community, sometimes even on the pro endo side boils your entire existance down to if you're real or not.
You are real beings, with real lives. You are more than just "non traumagenic." I wish more people could see that
now WHO is this James that randomly appears in my head.
It’s almost like I have DID wow I have to remind myself sometimes that that kinda happens
hey guys so my boyfriend just let me know that we have a pretty recent inside joke that I’ve dissociatively amnesiad about a random guy named James so I guess I just introjected James.
