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Anything goes uncredited all due to my habit to forgetting things or because I made it
I'm Dxoy and I go by they/it. I would prefer if you aren't flirting with me and that if you using heavy typing quirk /_1√<£ 7#!5 [PT: like this /End PT.], please add a transliteration/translation
Romance-Averse, Sex-Averse so do not trying to date with me, having sex with me, etc too
I may accidentally repost some anti endo, radqueer, queerphobes posts unknowingly due to misunderstanding some!
If I tagged any post with something like "tw csa", etc then that only because some people get triggered by and wish not to saw those, it's not because CSA or anything is worth censored
Have memory problem, can repeat things because I forget I done it before
No DNI but prefer not to get follow by blog with minors in DNI criteria
myrtle shipping term coining post (link)
My stances: (link)
Homeless resources:
Resource one (link)
Resource two (link)
Resource three (link)
Resource four (link)
Resource five (link)
Resource six (link)
Resource seven (link)
Resource eight (link)
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our languages are not 'pretty' or 'cute' or aesthetic. they are languages, as much of a language as english or german is - and yet i don ' t see half as many who use those as decoration or to place 'pretty - looking quotes' in their bios and such.
unless you actually know the language and that is why you are using it as a quote or something , if you don ' t know what it ' s saying .. why are you using it? google translate is NOT reliable for asian languages, at least, in comparison to languages like french or spanish (but even then it still isn't the best!)
using REAL languages as DECORATION for your posts is downright disrespectful and is considered such by a lot of people. here's a masterlist of symbols that are letters / numbers in languages and other sources for commonly used as decoration in the mogai and close communities
if you have any symbols you want added 2 this masterlist , PLEASE send me an ask or dm me !! or even respond 2 this post with MORE resources && symbols 2 avoid !!!
if you use this as a post 4 symbols 2 use , i am disgusted with you.
CHINESE
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人 , 乂
THAI
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ฅ , ๑
CANADIAN ABORIGINAL SYLLABICS
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゛, ミ , つ , ゛, ゞ , ヽ , ヾ , イ , キ , リ , ツ <- the use of this one can be debated , seeing as kaomojis were made by japanese people and it ' s most commonly used for kaomojis ..
OTHER LANGUAGES THAT DO NOT HAVE ENOUGH SYMBOLS USED 2 CONSTITUTE AN ENTIRE SECTION
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SOURCES: SYMBOL USAGE CARRD , LANGUAGES ARE NOT AESTHETIC , NON - LANGUAGE SYMBOL MASTERPOST , UNICODE CHARACTER INSPECTOR ( can be used 2 check if a symbol is apart of a language or not! )
[ PT: Sources: Symbol Usage Carrd(link), Languages are Not Aesthetic(link), Non-Language Symbol Masterpost(link), Unicode Character Inspector(link) (Can be used to check if a symbol is apart of a language or not!) END PT. ]
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[PT: i stumbled across this tweet (link) and was instantly reminded of a post something like this and i cackled
i'm a chinese-thai and i also don't really care
use them however you want, it's not cultural appropriation when it literally means nothing! /End PT.]
(first time sending an ask to a blog like this so forgive me if im doing this wrong lmao)
so i see autospec and similar terk coining stuff kinda frequently, mainly on pinterest , and theres always one comment on them, "that's actually narcissism" or something similar
you can see it here actually its the top/preview comment
it not only to me seems automisic or whatever the right word would be it also seems anti npd or at least really stereotyping npd which is kinda in itself anti npd. it just pisses me off. and its soooooo common too
You underestimate how much KriSOULers craving KriSOUL fics
Kris/Kris' Red Soul tag on AO3 only have approximately 155 works while Kris/Susie, Kris/Noelle, Noelle/Susie, Kris/Berdly, etc are like over 1000 works
I’ve been called a tme and a theyfab by people who think I’m a AFAB enby, I was assigned male at birth and raised a boy and want to go on E one day. I’m a minor (15) and I shouldn’t have to tell you that though, I shouldn’t have to tell you about my genitals just for you to not insult me. I’ve had adults, people in their 20s, ask me my AGAB. I don’t want to tell you I have a penis because me having a penis shouldn’t affect my gender. I shouldn’t have to pull out the “I was born with a dick” card for you to see me as a person or respect me or not call me a slur.
And even if I try to say “well you don’t actually know if I was assigned female” I’ve had people tell me “only AFAB people try and and reject their AGAB” or some stuff like that. Have you maybe considered that I don’t publicly share my AGAB because I’ve been sexually harassed or because I don’t want people to see me different.
I feel like a lot of conversations about the porn industry and how it abuses trans people generally neglects to mention trans men, which isn’t surprising but it’s disappointing nonetheless.
I feel like it’s worth talking about how the vast majority of transmasc porn is detrans kink and how trans men are forced to market themselves as “fakebois” or “pussyboys” and do mostly detrans kink content. Please include trans men in these conversations.
Anyone can be a misogynist whether or not they grew up as a woman and whether or not they are a woman now. Trans men and trans women both experience misogyny on top of transphobia, transmisogyny, and transandrophobia. This has to be a baseline understanding we all have.
Cisqueerhet: identifying as and/or with/being cis*, queer, and het.
This includes: queer people identifying as/with be cis*het; straight cis*genderqueeries; cissex qingender hets; cisgender strayts reclaiming the q-word, and many other experiences.
Disclaimer: despite it encompasses many life experiences, it's about consensual self-determination, if someone doesn't want to be refferred by it but still identify with/as cisqueerhet, let them alone and don't misdenominate.
Whilst I understand where you’re coming from, life does not come with trigger warnings. These are not just self harm scars, these are people’s bodies, these are people.
If someone genuinely can’t handle sh scars, then they need to figure out how to.
I’m not trying to be mean but no one’s body should ever have to come with a TW, these are real people.
Not everyone have a way to handle scars or injuries imagery though
What about people with OCD who avoid self harm scar, injury imagery because it could festering them into self harm while they want to avoid that? What about people who due to trauma related to scars and injuries that it triggered them? What about people who triggered by self harm scars, injuries but can't afford any way of recovery - emphasize on "any way of recovery" - to even feel okay with self harm scars, injuries later?
The only thing problematic is that people should STOP shaming people with injuries or scars or calling those people promoting self harm, especially anyone who get affected by misogyny, they can be triggered by it but that doesn't mean they should shaming people. Triggering doesn't equal to being a bad person, that just having bad moral compass I think you already know
That's what make it deformisic (OP used ableist here but I think deformisic fit too)
I literally struggle to handle injury image the more it is bloody, gorey and to be fair, I only could handle it if it wasn't image or it happens in real life but then I still feel uncomfortable. I could handle injury images if I trying but I'm still struggling with
And that is come from a person who easily to be injured to a point they used to have to see injury on their body everyday
I could handle scars well enough though, whether it's self harm scars or not. That way long before I have scars too and honestly I would hate it if someone scar shaming me, told me that I was promoting self harm for having scars, specially consider how they are scars that aren't related to self harm at all
Xenosatanists will say youre ageist for not supporting their shitty ideology as if it's not pro-sexual harrasment and assault, pro canibalism, pro-incest, pro-self harm (No, you should not encourage people to get worse and inevitably end their life), etc.
No, we should not legalise cannibalism. Human flesh isn't edible and will only make you extremely ill.
No, you should not legalise public sex, that's just sexual harassment and WILL traumatise most people.
No, you cannot abolish the age of consent as it is practically the only thing protecting children from rape. A twelve years old CANNOT consent to sex with an adult.
No, they don't have the maturity to do so, and neither can their body handle it.
No, you should not legalise CSEM, built upon the exploitation of children.
No, children should not participate in sex work. Again, they don't have the maturity to do so and their body isn't even developped enough to handle it.
No, you shouldn't legalise and encourage incest, which is almost always abusive aside from that one case of seperated at birth.
No, you should not legalise bestiality. Animals cannot consent.
No, you shouldn't promote self harm, not matter if it's "barely harmful" or not. It always goes deeper and deeper into the harm.
No, you should not legalise rape, ALL rape is harmful. "We don't want harmful rape to be fully legal" is such a stupid statement when all rape induces trauma to the victim.
No, you should not legalise any non consensual acts. These, too, are harmful. Get a grip and respect boundaries instead of trying to legalise sexual assault and harrasment.
Also, for fuck's sake, why do you want people to NOT have their disorders treated ?
And listen. I can see the vision for wanting to give people with paraphilias right, but only if it means giving them the ability of seeking help for it rather than ENCOURAGING them. And please, fuck off that transage bullshit you're using to approach children.
"Also "political bisexualism" (similarly to the radfem political lesbianism) refers to wanting everyone to choose to be bisexual, due to them assigning it moral and political value, which is just fuck off; not wanting to fuck or date someone is by itself neutral and trying to get people to adopt this kind of "identity" is the same as forcing someone to adopt any other label, and making them feel bad when they dont fit it (like how general society forces straightness, or political lesbianism tries to make lesbianism seem "morally correct", making bi and straight women feel like traitors), its harmful essentialist bullshit"
-@/vtsomenenjoyer
Political bisexualism is aphobic, anti-monosexualist and may be mspecphobic if only people who equally attracted to men, women, (and maybe enben) is considered as "right"
No sexuality should be considered as default or any sexuality should be forced onto anyone
