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[this-is-automisia]

Intro

This is a blog run by Yaldi from @this-is-anti-objectum!

It will mainly be run by me (she/he/thon/it) and two alters, Marsey (she/blood), and Hans (he/she/it) - as they are better with Para topics - so we will have name sign-offs

This is just some general info about me, it feels a little important to share, but I am a Grace fictive, because of statements by the creator supporting bigotry, I am source separated - Hans

This blog is for autospec beings to share their experiences with automisia (auto-self in the context of autospec, misia-hatred/prejudice towards)

BYI - We are anti-radqueer but they’re free to interact - Xenosatanists and pro-contact for “the big three” stances will always be blocked - We support paraphiles, and people with them are free to interact - especially autopara beings - we are ANTI CONTACT for MAPs (with bodily minors), zoos (with theriform animals), necro, incest, and biasto (but we are pro kink and recovery as needed*) - I struggle with tone, so tone tags are appreciated if tone is unclear - If speaking about a specific F/O or specific kintype please add sharing/double stance - feel free to add pronouns for if you/your/yourself is uncomfortable to use - any anti-NPD asks will either be called out or deleted, especially if they use “narc abuse” in a serious manner - not all autospec beings have NPD or NPD traits, not all beings with NPD or NPD traits are autospec

*We say recovery as needed, as not all beings feel a need to recover, are already content with recovery, or may feel they need to recover

Tags #this is automisia - pointing out automisia #this isn't automisia - non-automisia stuff #silly this is automisia - joking automisia (ex: Silly automisia is my phone camera breaking) #autosaneism - automisia + saneism (ex: Autosaneism is being called "insane" for being attracted to myself) #autoparamisia - automisia specifically towards autoparaphilias (ex: Autoparamisia is being called "disgusting" for being paraphilically attracted to myself as my kintype) #ectonormativity - see definition here - link

Taken Anons: ❄️🪽, 🦔🪱

q&a: link

[this-is-automisia]

Automisia and deitykin alterhumisia(/anti-religion?) is the constant demonization of self-pride. Whenever people are proud of their appearance, their work, or especially who they are, other people are quick to tear them down, calling them shit like egotistical, selfish, and narcissistic (which is also ableist) even if they've done nothing wrong and are just sharing their joy. Meanwhile, people who self-deprecate are praised for their humility (which is harmful to them too). This culture has made me deeply ashamed of not only my attraction to myself, but even worse, my worship of my divine aspect. These are not only parts of who I am, but ways I cope with my mind telling me I'm an evil person. To be learning to love myself through romantic, sexual, and religious love, only to hear constantly that loving yourself in these ways is evil, makes me have to start all over again repeatedly. I just wish people share in others' joy rather than being assholes whenever they see someone uplifting themself and being who they are instead of tearing themself down for validation.

I'd call this culture misogynist and queermisic too as women and queer people are the most common victims of this I've seen.

This is automisia, alterhumisia, ableism - also has ties to misogyny and queermisia

woah, what a list, but all very true!

[this-is-automisia]

(first time sending an ask to a blog like this so forgive me if im doing this wrong lmao)

so i see autospec and similar terk coining stuff kinda frequently, mainly on pinterest , and theres always one comment on them, "that's actually narcissism" or something similar

you can see it here actually its the top/preview comment

it not only to me seems automisic or whatever the right word would be it also seems anti npd or at least really stereotyping npd which is kinda in itself anti npd. it just pisses me off. and its soooooo common too

Yep, this is automisia and npd ableism!

[this-is-automisia]

This is internalized but like, I feel like shit for fetishizing the ways that my mental disability disables me. Like no i dont just have an age play kink, im attracted to the thought of me being physically the small child that I feel like all the time, and freely engaging in and being treated like an adult despite the fact that I am/act like a small child (I am well into adulthood, just very developmentally stunted in a lot of things)

Im autopedophilic and im really annoyed by how people make me feel for it

-🍵

There is internalized automisia, but I’m sure others treatment of you doesn’t help.

[this-is-automisia]

not autospec, just want to say this is the first time we've heard this term and it seems cool as fuck actually.

This is solidarity!

Thank you!

[this-is-automisia]

internalized automisia is feeling like i'm transphobic/transmisogynistic for being both FtM and autogynephilic

This is internalized automisia.

I feel it also can be argued this type of automisia stems from transphobia, as transphobes like to use “autogynephilia” as an anti-trans talking point, I go over how using it as such really doesn’t work in this post. Link

-marsey

[this-is-automisia]

Being kicked put of a server because I was being "disgusting" for describing my looks as a late elementary/early middle school age kid who went through an early puberty as "a poorly drawn loli with hyper tits" because thats the only words I could think of to describe MY OWN BODY AS A CHILD DUE TO EARLY PUBERTY.

(This was in a proship rpf (real person fiction) server that allowed rpf incest shipping btw)

This is automisia. (I’m assuming there were no rules that stated members would be uncomfortable with that)

I personally don’t like shipcourse, I used to be in the proship community and ended up in dangerous situations, and also used to be in the antiship community which I never really felt I fit in.

I find it so bizarre that they draw the line at someone talking about themselves in a way they consider “disgusting”, meanwhile they talk about other real people in a way that many would consider “disgusting”.

[this-is-anti-subtliden]

Hello, and welcome!

This blog is for calling out those who are against contradicting labels, statements/experiences that may harm those who identify as contradicting labels, ect.

Even though this blog is centered around people who would be concerned a subtliden (link), we accept asks from EVERYONE who considers themselves a contradictory label user. Even if others wouldn’t consider you so!

We also accept pro contradictory labels and contradictory label solidarity asks!

This blog is run by a large (pro-endo) DID plural system and is currently run by three headmates as mods; Celeste (he/him), Tyranny (ey/it/he), and Aurora (she/he/they).

Many of us use contradictory labels! We are also intersex and that sometimes serves as an explanation as to why!!

This blog has no DNI! Everyone can ask and submit stuff :)! Keep in mind as well that we are pro para just very anti contact for ones that could cause harm to oneself or others!!

We interact from @legglesscat

Our mainly used blog is @thepolymorphexperience

Our other blog that’s similar to this is @beingcultureis

Flag in pfp;

lesboy butch (made by us!)

Flags in banner (left to right);

lesboy, turigirl, transfemmasc boy girl, m-spec gay, m-spec lesbian

Could I get a promo? (Other blogs like this one.);

(Feel free to ask to be removed!)

@this-is-multigenderphobia

@this-is-neuropsych-ableism @this-is-physi-sensory-ableism @this-is-automisia @this-is-deformimisia @this-is-anti-masculinity @this-is-anti-fiction-factkin @this-is-antixeninity @this-is-anti-homeless @this-is-anti-fandom-culture @this-is-body-positivity @this-is-fatphobia @this-is-fatnoirism @this-is-intersexism @this-is-internoirism @this-is-youngism @this-is-plural-joy @this-is-solidarity @thisisparamisia @this-is-seizurism @this-is-saneism @this-is-cluster-b-saneism @this-is-cluster-c-saneism @this-is-infantilization @this-is-trans-solidarity @this-is-trans-joy @this-is-anti-pica @this-is-sexism @this-is-whorephobia @this-is-orientalism @this-is-xenophobia @this-is-anti-brain-injury @this-is-varsexism-transphobia @thisis-transspecimisia @this-is-anti-religion @this-is-purity-culture @this-is-metapluralmisia

[marseys-auto-archive]

Intro

This is a blog primarily run by Marsey from @this-is-automisia to archive autospec information, and for others to ask questions about autospec identities

This blog is/...

pro-para (anti abuse) endo safe anti-xenosatanist (and any other labels like LSDqueer Basedqueer, you count too if you think any fully non-consensual acts should be legalized) and doesn't follow shipcourse (we believe both sides have a lot of extremes that we don't believe ourselves)

Inspired by: @paraphiliaresearcharchive (go support them!)

Meet the main mod :3

I'm Marsey! I use she/it/mew/blood as main pronouns, feline "viv"terms (though I consider myself dead and don't mind the label "corpse" or "body"). I'm a source separate fictive, I don't like my source, if you think you may know my source, do not bring it up.

I'm autosexual with a few autoparaphilias

I alongside two alters, Hans (he/she/it) and Gummy (jelly/cat) will be working on this blog!

Tags:

#MAA - info : information about the blog #MAA - auto___ - the underscores represent the suffix for an info post, aka one about autosexuality would be tagged #MAA - autosexual

tags to block just in case i cover anything along these lines: suggestive, nsfw, explicit, trauma, abuse

tagging for a boost: @thisisparamisia

[this-is-automisia]

TW for mentions of transphobia, sexual harassment, arousal, and predatory individuals

The misunderstanding around autogynephilia and autoandrophilia, leading them to be used as transphobic talking points is automisia, paramisia, and transphobia.

What is autogynephilia and autoandrophilia?

Autogynephilia is paraphilic attraction towards either perception of oneself as traditionally feminine or attraction actively transitioning/displaying oneself as traditionally feminine.

Autoandrophilia is paraphilic attraction towards either perception of oneself as traditionally masculine or attraction actively transitioning/displaying oneself as traditionally masculine.

Why do I show two different sides of attraction?

It's just something I personally believe that autophilia is displayed in two main ways, self perception and action.

Example: One autogynephile feels arousal when imagining oneself as feminine, they don't feel a need to express femineity to gain said arousal, another autogynephile feels arousal when actively expressing feminine, wearing fem clothing, fem makeup, going by fem terms. I believe this applies to other autophilias, and there could be many more ways that it's expressed beyond those two boxes, attraction is complex and has a lot of nuance.

What's the misunderstanding around autogynephilia and autoandrophilia?

Transphobic groups such as TERFs often use autogynephilia to paint trans women as predators, stating that autogynephiles display feminine to go into women's bathrooms to sexually harass women.

There are so many misconceptions in that belief.

Most trans women are NOT autogynephiles, nor to most autogynephiles claim to be trans women, if someone happens to be both, who cares, they're still trans, and they very likely aren't planning to harass women.

Very rarely do autogynephiles go to public restrooms displaying feminine for the sake of arousal, MOST people know the safest place to engage with paraphilia in the context of arousal is at home in privacy with someone they trust.

Autogynephilia and autoandrophilia relate to ones own self, nowhere within either paraphilia is attraction derived from another body, auto means self. An autogynephile, if they publicly go into a women's bathroom for the purpose of arousal, that arousal won't be focused on another woman, only themself.

The claim that trans women and autogynephiles go into women's restrooms to harass cis women takes attention away from the actual people harassing women, that being predatory individuals, who don't care about a gender sign.

@thisisparamisia feel free to correct any information you deem fit

-Hans

[stfloweronreddit]

@transmeds-confuse-me LIBTARD LIBTARD LIBTARD LIBTARD

[revvingantlers]

@transmeds-confuse-me we miss you

[transmeds-confuse-me]

lmao okay, mb for not liking words based off slurs

Since you hate to acknowledge the history of how the word harms people with IDD, whilst telling others to read your long posts, here's some things you can read. (Though I doubt you'd care.)

The Truth About the R-Word, From the People It Hurts Most

The R-word is not just a word—it’s a slur that harms people with intellectual and developmental disabilities. Read powerful firsthand storie

Why the R-Word Is the R-Slur

Practice Inclusion: End the Use of the R-Word

Words Can Hurt What Words Should We Use? Words You Should NOT Use People First Language Don’t Overreact! Words Can Hurt Everyone knows words

[revvingantlers]

retard is not a slur but when i say it to people like you specifically i mean it like one.

[transmeds-confuse-me]

Glad to see you don't care about disability history <3

[revvingantlers]

taps the sign, last reblog

[transmeds-confuse-me]

uh huh and did you even try to read any of the articles I linked?

[revvingantlers]

i am currently attempting to mod a ps3 i do not have enough brainRAM to read your bullshit and listen to a guide at the same time

[transmeds-confuse-me]

You are the proudest ableist I have ever talked to.

I link backed articles about the effect of the slur, and all you ever give is links to your own posts. If you want people to believe you, start backing your opinions with sources beyond your own word.

[revvingantlers]

actually i'm autistic @this-is-ableism kill her. its all because of my autism im just a soft owo boy ive never done anything wong

[transmeds-confuse-me]

Hey, could you not bother Six, this is a conversation between us, and it runs a very busy blog.

I'm also autistic, crazy thought, you can be autistic and ableist at the same time, which is what you've been displaying this entire conversation.

I can try to encourage you to learn why what your saying is harmful, but you'd rather bitch and moan to people online. I'm convinced at this point you enjoy the drama, and as happy as you say you are, you act miserable, actively going to others to harass them. This really isn't healthy behavior, and I think you need time offline.

[revvingantlers]

hey uhmmmmm

you're ableist because im autistic and dont understand social cues and you assume im allistic and know not to tell people stuff @this-is-ableism @this-is-ableism @this-is-ableism even if you are autistic you can still be ableist like YOUUU. @this-is-agorableism @this-is-anti-idd

and youre descriminating again being rapey is in my blood im a male you're being antimale @this-is-anti-masculinity @this-is-transmisandry @this-is-transandrophobia @thisishomophobia @thisistransphobia oh and it's also because i'm a furry and i want to touch anyone i perceive as an animal @this-is-anthromisia because since im a furry im a zoophile. also i like kids because im a MAP because im a male @this-is-paramisia @this-is-paramisic and crazy @this-is-saneism @this-is-ocd-saneism

also i have a small penis and since you're not attracted to me or appreciative of me and my micropenis you're also intersexist and transgynephobic @thisis-intersexism @this-is-transgynephobia @this-is-transmisogyny @this-is-transmisogyny-rq @this-is-transmisia @this-is-varsexism-transphobia @this-is-deformimisia (i'm transfem afab, #CONTRADICTORYLABELPRIDE) oh and i'm also nonbinary @thisisexorsexism and catgender @this-is-antixeninity and lesbian @this-is-lesbiphobia

oh and im therian @this-is-alterhumisia @this-is-kinmisia and objectum @this-is-objectumphobia @this-is-anti-objectum . also im fat @this-is-fatphobia @this-is-fatmisia @this-is-lookism and i have a brain injury @this-is-anti-brain-injury and is made me a little deaf @this-is-audism . also im panreligion and transchristian @this-is-anti-religion @this-is-anti-paganism-animism @this-is-anti-paganism and have no true home @this-is-anti-homeless and im transage (5 1/2 permakid) @this-is-ageism @this-is-youngism @this-is-adultism

also im trisenglishspeaker @this-is-linguicism i dnt udnerstand english very well and youre discrimianting me and im translowerclass which youre above @this-is-classism and iwant to suck my own dick @this-is-automisia

oh im also plural traumaendo mixed origin @this-is-pluralphobia

youre so discriminatory get well soon

[this-is-automisia]

Man fuck off, y’all block this revvingantlers person, one look at their posts tells me all we need to know.

Remember, block, don’t harass.

-Marsey

[thisisparamisia]

Internalized paramisia is feeling shame for being an autoandrophile because of how transphobes have used the words autogynephilia and autoandrophilia against members of the trans community.

This is the result of paramisia.

You know, I never understood the "what if they're transitioning because...they're into it 😱" argument. It's literally just purity culture. If a person wants to transition because it attracts or arouses them, literally let them. It's their body, their autonomy, their life. What is the problem with that?

I couldn't care less if your reasoning for transitioning is dysphoria, dysmorphia, disconnect, euphoria, kinky, or a combination of those factors. I just care that you're happy. You shouldn't need to justify why you want to transition.

[this-is-automisia]

Also a result of automisia

Purity culture surrounding autospec, especially autophilic, identities is confusing because like, Heaven forbid someone experiences something that only pertains to them and no one else, therefore doesn’t effect others lives.

-Hans

[this-is-automisia]

this one is more of a mildly annoying thing but i hate updating my prns cc because i cant find cute flags for autospec labels because autospec labels are not well known so i have to make my own

- 🦔🪱

I agree, mildly annoying, maybe a result of automosia (because there are likely less flags due to less awareness)

[this-is-automisia]

im a yumeshipper who yumes with characters i relate to because im autospec and people treat me weird because i kin mostly characters who are bad people, what they dont know is that most said characters are on the cluster b spectrum and im on the cluster b spectrum and its soo annoying

- 🦔🪱

This is automisia, cluster B ableism, and potentially kinmisia.

I don't like people who judge others because of who they relate to or maybe have kintypes of just because in my eyes that's outside of the person relating or with the kintypes control. I'm saying this as a source separated headmate who formed from media present around a dark time in our host's life. You aren't bad for having kintypes of characters that are "bad people", and the people treating you weirdly are, quite frankly, obtuse.

-Marsey

[this-is-automisia]

i think people should give malatorix more attention

- 🦔🪱

Had to look this one up and that's super cool!

Definition Malatorix (alternatively Malaux): "An autospec term for those who are attracted to themselves as a man, or man-aligned individual"

fem version Wolatorix (alternatively Wolaux): An autospec term for those who are attracted to themselves as a woman, or woman-aligned individual"

Here's a link for the terms and flags for Malatorix and Wolatorix (as well as where I got the definitions) - link

The creator of the term has a side note that isn't in plain text and uses symbols to censor so I'll rewrite that here: "Loosely comes from the words 'man', 'woman”, and 'auto'. These are autospec terms and are meant for self identification. Important to note that the terms 'autogynephillia' and 'autoandrophillia' are often used to denote this same kind of definition, however, because of how many terfs use these words, these are alternate terms without that association, due to how uncomfortable it would likely make many transgender people."

[this-is-automisia]

im someone with hpd symptoms and im autospec but i hate it when people are like "oh you might just have NPD!!" because no😭😭they arent the same thing please do your research

- 🦔🪱 (do you do emoji anons ?)

This is automisia and I believe can count as hpd ableism

also yes! We take emoji anons

[thisisparamisia]

Join the sunset paraphile servers!

[ID: Join the sunset paraphile servers! /End ID]

Hello paraphile community! So, I made a post a few days back [link] about this, and have started up two servers - an 18+ server and a SFW (not age specified) server, both for paraphiles!

For the SFW server, sex can only be vaguely referenced or only discussed for educational (sex ed) purposes.

It is open to all types of paraphiles, so long as they are:

-Inclusive to nonsexual paraphilias (ie; romantic, queerplatonic, alterous, etc paraphilias.) -Anti radqueer/radfem (Note: This server is not anti harmless transIDs, like "transbrunette", get fun with it, idc as long as you're not using transIDs as an excuse to be racist/ableist/appropriating people's trauma.) -Pro endo -Pro alterhuman -LGBTQIA+ inclusionist -Anti censorship and anti psychiatric abuse of paraphiles (ie; conversion therapy) -Anti abuse and anti contact for paraphilias that could cause impactful harm or breach consent (including anti-contact for incest) -Intolerant to bigotry (including anti-religious and anti-masculine sentiments) -Intolerant to misuse of disabled language (narcissist, sociopath/psychopath, psychotic, brain damaged, brain dead, conflation of empathy/sympathy to kindness, etc) -Pro choice -Anti-Trump, anti-Elon Musk, anti JK Rowling, anti-USA/anti-Israel/anti-Russia (the government, not the people)

The server is not on discord as I have a lot of important things on discord and my life would be a disaster if I got IP banned on there. So instead, it is on Element.

For those who don't know what Element is - on web, it is app.element.io. On mobile, it is Element Classic. The logo is green with four white spikes forming a circular logo. It is more or less a discord clone.

And the best part about element is that if you dont want to see content for a room, you're not forced to join it! Its not like Discord where when you join, you are a part of every room, and have to mute each room individually. You choose which rooms you want to join when you initially join (and can opt in or out at any time!)

For both the 18+ and SFW servers, we have channels for:

-General chatting, tips & coping mechanisms, questions, coining & flags, vents -Objectophilia/Objectum (conceptums welcome too!) -Fictophilia/fictospec -Autophilia/autospec -Hierophilia (attraction/arousal to religious or spiritual things - godspousers, you can chat it up here!) -Partialism & genital centric paraphilias -Paraphilias for scent, bodily substances, or hygiene -Fashion-centric paraphilias -Weight & eating paraphilias -Size difference paraphilias -Transformation & body modification paraphilias -Breeding/pregnancy/oviposition paraphilias -BDSM -Bigotry/bioessentialism fantasies (obviously not in support of real oppression) -Ageplay -Chronophilias -Zoophilia -Petplay & anthrozoophilia -Teratophilia (monsterlovers & monsterfuckers, this is for you!) -Necrophilia -Violence-centric paraphilias -Acrotomophilia & apotemnophilia (inclusive of those with BIID) -Medical-centric paraphilias -Biastophilia/Noncon/Dubcon -Exhibitionism & voyeurism -Somnophilia -Incest -Fauxcest -Other paraphilias these channels dont cover -Combos of paraphilias

I won't be making it public as to avoid harassment and trolls, so to join, you'll need a private invite. And please let me know if you want to be a moderator! The moderator team is very small right now.

If you wish to be a part of it (as a moderator or otherwise), please DM me! (I will check over your account briefly, but I will not expose who joined. Our DMs will be 100% private.)

Even if you dont personally plan to join, any reblogs from anyone would mean a lot!

@this-is-automisia @this-is-objectumphobia @this-is-objectum-joy @this-is-purity-culture @this-is-antikink @comprehensive-sex-ed would appreciate it greatly if ya'll could help to spread the word!

[this-is-automisia]

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