a dyke who is also a blacksmith

27 / poly trans stone butch / she/they nsfw 18+ only!!! no terfs, no men

[dykesmith]

this is an nsfw sideblog, men and minors are not welcome here! no terfs no racists

dms are open to mutuals ! 

trans women are women

support sex workers

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my photos are okay to reblog ! my posts are tagged “the dyke herself”

if you want me to tag anything let me know!

put your age in your bio!

[metamasoch-deactivated20250610]

*circling you like a vulture* would it boost your ego to fuck me like you own me? would it make you feel good about yourself? would it make you feel powerful? you deserve to feel good about yourself, don't you?

[slut-fungus]

Same pose but now you get feet 😌

[dykesmith]

[tiredyke]

the time to be a mean dyke is now. be a killjoy feminist and take things too seriously, we’ve been too nice about girl math and girl dinner and pink jobs and the general infantilization of women and it’s gotten us nowhere. be a buzzkill now, for our future and our dignity

[tiredyke]

gently grabbing your shoulders as i say yes you are & it’s very important that you do, we need every trans woman and girl standing up for herself right now. i’m not saying it will be easy or that you won’t be met with backlash but these are conversations we need to have and misogynists, particularly transmisogynists need to feel uncomfortable and think twice before spouting off some regressive bullshit. we can do this!!

[chainmail-butch]

Anyone else annoyed that the default gender for a hypothetical butch is, "He"?

[chainmail-butch]

Prev, my beef is indeed the fact that Butch seems to be considered a transmasculine identity by default. I'm transmasculine butch supporter #1. But the flattening of the Butch identity into transmasculinity is annoying.

Not only from my own position as a Transfeminine Butch but also from my experiences with other butches IRL who, when the identity is discussed, will invariably bring up the fact that many of the queer people in their lives pressure them towards taking T or otherwise transitioning.

The tendency to over-correct and over-define Butch from She to They to He is just. So. Goddamn. Annoying.

[chainmail-butch]

You heard him! more 'pretty boys' for femmes!

[slut-fungus]

Idk, you may as well have the rest 🤷🏼‍♀️

[chainmail-butch]

I'm going to talk about being transfem and butch.

I get misgendered in public a lot. Never cruelly. Just a lot. Which makes sense.

I'm 190lbs of muscle with a deep voice. Which I enjoy. Typically I'm wearing leather and jeans. The vast majority of people are going to gender me as male because my gender presentation is inherently masculine, and other parts of me are also masculine.

This is a problem that cis butches face regularly, and that fact helps me cope with constantly being read as male. But it aches the most when I see other lesbians/queer women.

I don't really get to be 'publicly' lesbian. If I see another dyke on the street, I'm just a man. There's no quiet solidarity there. There's no recognition.

Femmes don't preen under my gaze at a bar. Instead, I have to walk up and explain my whole situation and hope that they're cool. Which is rough, because sometimes they're not. Or, worse, they say they are, but they aren't. Which results in a lot of wasted time for everybody.

It takes a supreme amount of self-confidence to walk up to a cute girl and boldly declare yourself also a girl in a voice that immediately gives some kind of lie to what you're saying.

So, baseline, I'm pushing and establishing boundaries. I'm already testing her just by talking to her. Which makes flirting hard, you see? If I feel like I'm already toeing a line, then I'm not going to make a sly comment about her dress. I am, instead, going to be as non-threatening as possible.

This is a great way to make new friends and acquaintances (I have a lot), but a terrible way to get laid.

So, my point is that if you meet a transbutch girl understand that she's already putting up a LOT of work just be here. So, you know, maybe touch my her arm and give me her a compliment if you're interested.

[chainmail-butch]

Hi, me again.

A lot of people relate to what I've said here, which is great. But a lot of people also don't understand what a butch is. I'm not gonna explain that, but I am gonna explain some more about myself.

I enjoy being masculine.

I enjoy having a deep voice. I enjoy dressing in leather and jeans. I enjoy being muscular. And, while I do feel isolated, that's just a result of my condition. Which I accept.

I'm not repressing myself. I'm not 'boymoding.' And, most importantly,

I do not want to pass.

I do not want to look like a cisgirl. I do not want be mistaken for a cisgirl. I don't want to read as feminine. I'm a trans dyke and I'm quite pleased with that.

I'm glad everyone relates and supports, but I think a lot of you are getting the wrong message.

Also, gay transmasc femboys you have my entire heart and I would die for you. You guys get it, may your quest for dick be fruitful.

[chainmail-butch]

I am talking, exclusively, to my sisters. Reblog if you feel like it.

Sometimes, I try to write this post over again. I want to nail down the feelings of frustration and isolation that I glazed over in the original. I want to take the nebulous blob of emotions that I'm feeling and pin them to a corkboard.

I'm sure you're familiar with the quiet and often accidental ways transwomen get misgendered: assumptions, requests, warnings, expectations. Things that you can't really say something about without sounding insane. Wounds that get triggered by something completely innocuous. And I'm sure you're familiar with the latent paranoia that comes with all this.

I'm sure you're familiar with the sensation of your teeth on your tongue.

I'm sure you're familiar with the smile, the nod, and the gesture of acceptance. I'm sure you're familiar with standing silently in the circle. I'm sure you're familiar with politely excusing yourself and walking away.

I'm sure you're familiar with taking a long drag off something that's going to end your life sooner or later while you stare at Orion in the night's sky.

I know you know. I know, too.

I know you think about why so many of us fetishize weakness.

I know that you're walking through life this way because you don't have a choice. I know that you choose everyday between yourself and the world.

It's the looks and the whispers or it's death, isn't it?

No need to answer. I already know.

I love you so much.

[blushedfemmes]

butch pixie mechanic who loves to crawl inside engines and work out what’s going on, but gets absolutely filthy with grime and engine grease. clicking my tongue and pinching one of their wings when they try to come inside like that, shaking my head. filling a bowl with warm water and soap and stripping off their little mechanic jumpsuit, ignoring their squeaks of protest. holding them in the water and washing them, using a soft toothbrush to scrub off all the grease. they relax eventually, the heat of the water soothing their sore muscles. by the time they’re clean, wrapped up in a fluffy warm hand towel, they’re all limp and sleepy and their wings are still too damp to fly, anyway. so i tuck them into my bra to nap while i go about my day

[peachy-doodle]

Lesbian aliens lol

[xxpuppyx]

Butch arms if anyone cares

[sweetieboydyke]

what would you do if you had a butch on their knees like this?

[temptresstitania]

new bra <3 it's still a tad too small but it does the job ❂

[knottydevil]

Anyway here’s a clip of the original video featuring Adorgeous_ (IG) and @pixseabait

[mossysatyr]

One weird trick for always winning wet t-shirt contests is to be the only one participating

[femmetragedyke]

lazy bed time 💖

[blushedfemmes]

breaking hiatus one more time to ask my butch followers whether or not they’d hit on me at the club (testing potential nye outfit) (femmes pls also weigh in)