THE BUTTERFLY EFFECT

One man, One blog, One point of view

[dylanzacheryvisser]

BACK TO BLOGGING

At first i used this space for a project but now ive decided to start blogging again but what the hell why do people blog about... Yet to find out... Aren't we all just venting or showing our perspective on what society is or what people want to see...

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...WHAT DID I LEARN...

SOOOoooo what did i learn... society is blind and boring. Unless you put yourself infront of them and doing that is hard work... social networking is a waste of time... don't bother wasting your time with people who dont have time for you... SOCIAL KINGS/DICKS... being a DICK is hard work who enjoys seeing other peoples anger because you think its cool... being nice does the same effect for your social status and you might get a smile sometimes... NOT CARING/BUNKING has put me chapters behind everyone and probably in trouble with teachers but i do enjoy socialising in class and wondering off for a few seconds to get air... STANDING OUT is fun making people notice you is cool but what it means is having a weird sense of style or being so outspoken you barely have a voice... yes we all do wana stand out but dont look like an idiot like me. Class clowning is stupid and pointless all for a laugh... wow amazing ... =| So what does it mean to be an EXTROVERT... standing out, looking different, acting the fool, thinking some people are lesser then you, doing whatever you want, and so much more... well yeah i guess that kinda is it... but dont get me mistaken there is nothing wrong woth being one i just enjoy being me... and i think im more of an AMBIVERT a bit of both....

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DAY 10- EXTRA EXTROVERT

SOOooo what does it mean to be an EXTROVERT... is it the fact you DONT CARE or do as you please... SOCIALISE with whoever... seek attention... or simply just being a DICK or NOT ONE whenever... its really hard to put a distinct meaning of being an extrovert... BUT my last day kinda explains my perspective... So this morning i woke up with a "SPRING IN MY STEP"... ok im talking SHIT... today i woke up with a COLD... FUCK YOU WINTER AND YOUR DROPS IN TEMPRETURE... BUT that didn't stop me... i listened to some good viby music... got me on a hyped level of "i dont give a fuck"... YES Big Sean shot for the hype... did my basics, showered, ate breakfast and spoke to my ma and i was fucking ready for the day... dressed in my bright neon formal gear... I made my way to my old school to teach a class of grade 9's on "Picasso and South Africa" (yes art history) and with a class full of +/- 30 students, who think there egos are bigger then me, my old art teacher (who sat back to watch) and myself, scared as SHIT for public speaking... The children had to read the essay discuss and answer questions... what could i expect? Biggest thing i learnt, that i was in control... a simple loud voice, threatening of detention etc made me BOSS it wasn't as bad as i thought a few jokes... loud voices... meeting small people and having a blast... Campus was good... greeting/talking to strangers making people smile and just chilling really... doing what i wanted was fun doing my own thing in classes... walking around... talking out loud... getting a few "SHHHH's, SHUT UP, etc... but everything has to come to an end...

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DAY 9- LAZY DAY (SOCIAL MEDIA)

FUN IN THE SUN... NO NO NO this fucking phone lied to me yet again... Social media- total joke really in my books... people builing what is seemed to be a relationship or friendship based on converstaions on social media WITHOUT meeting the other person... nigga nigGA NIGGA, did you mom or dad not let you see the sun... and dont get me started with people thinking they can read how other people feel based on text... FUCK THAT SHIT!!! First things first ... "its COLD" is an understatement ... stupid weather apps... OK today was a boring day but tried to make it interesting by chatting to people on various social media platforms... what a waste of my fucking time I'm not one to chat really on social media unless its my girlfriend but today i tried talking to people... i swear its worse then supporting LIVERPOOL... people are like robots, saying the same shit... How you doing?... havent seen or heard from you in quite some time?... what you doing?... etc etc etc People have became boring... its as simple as that.. we are losing basic social skillz and are to scared to approach some one and just say hi... is it to simple to ask for a decent intellectual conversation or just an interesting one...

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DAY 8- ...WHERE IS MY WATER...

So FUCK THE BASIC look ... I'm going to do me today... where what i want ,when i want to, ‘ain’t’ no one telling me jack SHIT... 

so what did i wear today some FUCKING bright ass NEON GREEN SOCK, jeans (CASUAL) and my NEON PINK SWEATER and my red shoe... so what if i looked like a clown... who do you think you are to judge me?

and you know what i didn't care i was given the DAHM FUCKING VUIL KYK, UP-DOWN (YES), LEFT-RIGHT (NO), thumbs up and a casual frown... but that no longer bothered me... it was like society didn't phase me anymore... i still greeted people, the casual wave, hi, how you (basic talk was actually getting boring)... 

everything i was afraid to do was getting boring... TO BORING.

i wanted something better something more, something fun, i craved the thrill of being seen noticed... (i wasn't a circus act though, people demanding a smile, joke,photo... NIGGA behave)... i just wanted to experience the thrills of being KING (not an actual one)...

BEING A “DICK”....

A KING... better known as a social “DICK”... people who demand attention and want people to do things for them... Socially accepted but hated and no1 can do much of anything because “THE KING”

so for a very late lunch, early supper i took my friend (Jarred) to SPUR at Kenilworth Centre (KC)... nothing amazing trust me... but i wanted to act like a DICK (after all i was top of the “social-chain”)... the waiter greeted me and my friend with a smile and introduced himself as ...(Can’t spell it)... and he will be our waiter today... i gave him a stern look and told him i wanted a glass of water ... before anything... i drank the water and shouted and called him back and asked for another 1... i let him place our order and called him for more water... i probably called him 7 times throughout the duration of the service... till he eventually brought me a jug of water... with a angry look on his face...

eventually i asked for the bill feeling sorry i tipped him and told him my story i wanted some else to tell me how it felt... 

and what i learnt being a social DICK isn't nice at all even if it mean being a social king... 

so treat people equally and don't be a DICK...

life on an extrovert...

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goths are people who want to stand out... or what... but how are they happy based on stereotypes... 

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DAY 7- “COLOUR-MORPHIC”

...PROBABLY ONE OF MY MOST BORING DAYS...

GETTING SICK... is so not COOL...FUCK you flu...(BTW I hate mosquitoes)...

relax day, holy day, family day, its a SUNDAY, the day before MONDAY and the end of the weekend... so basically its a love hate day... so today wasn't much fun... over slept missed church,  cooked, (YES I CAN COOK- pretty JAS BTW), chilled watched some movies, went to my girlfriend ate some DELICIOUS braai and chilled some more... although i was outspoken today could say what came to my mind and etc... was super fun

so why am i writing this post... is it just to fill the day.... NNNNNNNOOOOOO!!!!

...I've got STUFF TO TELL YOU...

So what i learnt today is that Im am “colour-morpic”... but firstly an anthropomorphic- is basically a human that has beast-like or other animal traits... 

so “colour-morphic”- is a human developing traits based on colour... therefore I've learnt that the colour i wear determines the way i act or portray myself during the day... (yes i basically made up the word... sounds legit though)...

like why do GOTHS wear BLACK why not PINK OR YELLOW... think about it... and who the fuck determined these stereotypes....

SOCIETY IS FUCKED

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set your own pace... don't be that nigga who follows the crowd...

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DAY 6- SOCIALLY UNAWARE

Society in FUCKED UP, there is no better way to explain it then that. we live in such a fast paced world that we are so scared to blink because we might miss something... but have you ever just paused to ask yourself. WHAT THE FUCK am i doing here.. WHY THE FUCK am i here... 

i woke up today with a smile (THERE IS A FIRST FOR EVERYTHING) singing in the shower, yes i sing in the shower now, but still wearing this boring dahm outfits but adding a twist... my sock are so on point... HAPPY “FUCKING” SOCKS... 

...DATE DAY...

took my GIRLFRIEND to watch PITHCH PERFECT 2... and clothing shopping, lunch, dinner ...etc, etc... fuck it was a good fucking day... 

...BUT...

what i learnt today was that society is so fast paced that people don't bother to look at you even if you standout... you've gotta make yourself stand out and put yourself in peoples face... society has no need to worry about the unknown person next to them or anything... only if they are forced to know...

i was buying water at Cinnabon and some guy came demanding for his money back because his product was “doughy”, the lady gave him his money back.. but i could see she felt bad... i decided to make her day a bit more special and greeted her and asked her about her day, etc... she smiled and said thank you, as if i was doing her a service...

its simple... modern society is annoying... they lack the need to make everyone else around them happy but themselves we are all self-centred and just want for ourselves 

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WHYYYYYYYYY???????? DONT BE MAD CAUSE IN DOIN ME BETTER THAN YOU DOING YOU!!!! BETTER THAN YOU DOING YOU!!!!!! WHYYYYYYYY??????

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(via https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ExVtrghW5Y4)

IM WINNING!!!... don't be mad because I'm doing me, better then you doing you

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DAY 5- ...SURPRISE...

well first things first FUCK YOU ESKOM ... you basically FUCKED UP my WI-FI... soooo back to my DAY hmmm how to explain my day... well ill tell you it wasn't exactly boring but it was or the verge of being boring till i spiced things up a bit... :P (hence my title surprise)

well firstly i started my day with some music :P some “TROUBLE” and then some hyped up SHIT like “THROW SUM MO”, “KING KUNTA”, yah you get the picture...

I dressed in the boring toned down colours (still missing the neon)  ... (boo hoo) mint shirt, jeans, and a mustard colour shoe... yes nothing amazing trust me... 

car drive to school was great, nearly got in a few accidents... swore out a few people... i guess i did have a voice after all :) and fuck it was loud... screaming at people (YOH MASE ...)  is so much fun... i felt empowered i wanted fight with every single FUCKER who nearly knocked me... 

campus #boring... (Fast forward button) 

i was having an ordinary day nothing special... spoke to a few new people, etc ,etc (same shit just a different day)... so i decided to spice things up a bit...the people who really were not affected by EXTROVERT DYLAN was my girlfriend and my parents... well i was always an extrovert around them so it seemed like nothing changed to them but my dress... 

(my ma thinks I'm handsome everyday regardless of anything i wear.. dad thinks I'm going through a phase, till i told him about the project... mom wanted to know EVERYTHING...)

but back to my day... you know how all those professors claim that modern romance is dead, well i say FUCK YOU, FUCK YOU, FUCK ALL OF YOU 

I TOOK THEIR STATEMENT AND ... (can't say)... well i decided to surprise my girlfriend, i bought her 2 tickets to “PITCH PERFECT 2″ and a bouquet of flowers and a day with me,  surprise... well the movie was for the next day so we made a day out of it...

but what i wanted to say is that MODERN LIFE is pretty boring, don't FUCKING sit on your cellphones, go out and do STUFF, surprise some1, do something out the ordinary....

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(via https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9L9AShaXoxs)

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YOU DO YOU and ILL DO ME!!

all i can do is be ME whoever that is...-BOB DYLAN (was named after him) 

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...R-E-S-P-E-C-T, find out what you mean to me... Aretha Franklin

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Day 4- “TO LITTLE COLOUR”

SO today i decided to tone it down... was told “not to look to much like a clown” (STEPH’s orders (lecturer)...) but in attempts of not looking like a clown. I became NORMAL, nothing different then the person sitting next to me or the man walking down the road drinking his coffee, fuck i want coffee... it didn't feel the same really, i wanted the attention back...

attention felt like a drug and i wanted it back, craving the need to be seen even if i was going to get the normal VUIL KYK, laugh, high-5 or any reaction for that fact. Was i conforming to societies needs of being wanted...

SOCIETY is one big F*#K UP really there is no “right” really we will always be wrong in one way or the other. there is NO middle ground... you are wrong 99% of the time and if your not wrong cherish the moment because it only comes once in a while...

In todays activities: wear: jeans, mustard coloured shoes, pink sweater and NO F*#KING reaction, was to normal. I had to get reactions out of some one so i tried being an extrovert without the need to look like a butterfly... 

ordering a PIZZA: shouting- definitely not the place nor the time... they lady must have thought I'm RUDE or something.  Realising that there is definitely a place and time for everything... because what happening next was to funny... I shouted to be served and for some one to place my order and when some one did come it was a lady and she said, “HAAIBO BOETIE you can't shout so... its rude, you must ask me nicely” and i realised she's right there is a level of respect needed to be maintained...

SOCIETY is RIGHT about something after all. Being an extrovert doesn't mean being a DICK and demanding attention, each place/situation your in is different... so YOU BE YOU but DO it with RESPECT for OTHERS.

F*#K being an Extrovert is tough...

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No harm in being one or the other or a bit of both... YOU DO YOU no one else can DO YOU BETTER!!!

I THINK IM A BIT OF AMBIVERT...