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anxiety: they hate you

me: who hates me

anxiety: they

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Sometimes I’m like “I wish I was pretty like that” but I’m pretty like me so who cares

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Remember when Aang told Katara “you’re like a secret hero” because he was just so in awe of Katara’s kindness and compassion. Listen I know its het but his crush on her was so genuine and pure like yeah he thought she was pretty but he truly looked up to her and loved her drive and passion and loved her for who she was and was inspired by her. She really was his hero

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Guys het ships/romances aren’t bad, even if you’re gay. It’s fine to like well written het romances, and they’re actually something we should continue to support and encourage if we are ever going to see healthy straight relationships portrayed on TV

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And it’s uncommon to see a relationship between a light skinned and a dark skinned person, or between 2 poc in general. I have so much appreciation for kataang

mrbulian

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This is the funniest thing I’ve seen in weeks. Literally, I’ve never been this funny in my entire goddamn life

circamortem

“wrong! you owe me seven dollars”

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“WHA -HA-ADO YOU MEAAAN????”

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this man gives off wildly chaotic trickster fey vibes

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“WRONG ITS A KING OF DIAMONDS”

kurosmind

this man is channeling Mollymauk Tealeaf so hard

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Do not let adults steal this generation from you. Relish in selfies. Snapchat pictures of coffee to your friends, huddle around an iphone to watch Vines. Shamelessly love this generations commodities, like how your parents loved THEIR commodities, like disco or Hammer Pants or whatever else. Do not let angry adults take away your chance to experience the uniqueness of right now.

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how do you know if you're in love???

I honestly asked my friend this same question just hours ago as I was clueless myself but thinking about it now I think it’s when for the first time after what seemed like a dreadful year (or life), you look forward to waking every morning knowing he (let’s use he as it’s me talking) will be there for you. I think it’s just plain seeing him and being happy that’s he’s around. It’s being happy just by hearing his voice. No matter how bad your day is, one message from him would make your entire day. It’s when he makes you want to write long letters and huge poems. It’s not all about “lust”- it’s more of the intimate relationship you have together. It’s when the simplest of things count. It’s when you start to mature and start to plan something with him for the future. It’s when he makes you want to start fixing your life. It’s when he’s always in your head 3 pm or 3 am. It’s when you can’t stop talking or thinking about him. It’s when you just really always miss him even if he’s right beside you. It’s the “I used to like green eyes but now blue eyes are my favorite”. It’s when all love and cheesy stuff just apply for him. It’s when you begin to see nothing but him and you value him like you value yourself. It’s not the “heart pounding, hands sweating” feeling but more of the “I feel home” feeling. It’s more of like talking to yourself- being yourself with someone without worries. It’s when you begin to really trust him with everything and that includes your happiness. It’s when he’s your happiness. It’s when subconsciously you change for the better. It’s when you once again start opening up after a long time. It’s when you are denying it at most cause you are afraid of how strong you feel and last I think while you’re reading this- there’s someone in your head right now and you’re just contemplating whether you’re in love with him or not but hey the fact that he or she is the person (out of billions of people) in your mind while you read this must say a lot.

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What do you do when you lose this kind of love?

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I broke up with the person I was thinking of while writing this because that’s what you do when you lose this kind of love- you let go and you move on.

You don’t cling onto the person because “two and a half years has been a long time and it’s a waste to end it here”. You end it because you’ve had enough thinking twice whether the person is still worth staying with or not. You let go because you find yourself looking back, comparing and missing the old times than cherishing the present. You let go because you have to stop defending that person and start facing the truth that things have changed. You let go because you let go of anything that upsets you whether it be work, hobby or a person.

And you let go because you have to stop being selfish. There is someone out there wanting to love the person you’re holding onto and they deserve to feel this genuine love from someone and not a pity love from you.

When you lose this kind of love, you move on. You do it because it’s the best choice for you. You move on because you’ve been hurt enough and it’s time to be happy. You move on because you don’t deserve to doubt the love that someone gives you. You move on and whenever you crumble, remind yourself on why you left in the first place.

And you move forward because you won’t find the right person for you while you’re holding onto the wrong one.