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quick note: i'm absolutely not an astrologer. these are just a collection of some observations, thoughts, theories, and personal experiences based on astrology. above all this is just for fun.
you can apply the astrology notes below to your mars, venus, pluto, lilith, and eros placements since they relate to sex, desire, seduction, and attraction. and for those same reasons, those planets, points, and asteroids may be mentioned repeatedly throughout this post in addition to aries, scorpio, and the 8th house. so, apply it how it fits according to your chart.
keep in mind that iâm not reading your birth chart and i know nothing about you. these are just some possibilities that may or may not apply to you.
lastly, minors do not interact - sexual content - mature readers only! enjoy đ
đˇlilith in the 5th house: could be into provocative or sexual ways of performing like being a stripper or burlesque dancer. if theyâre not the oneâs doing the dancing then they may like going to strip clubs or burlesque shows. regardless, 5th house placements might like to dance on their partner, like giving them a lap dance. or they like playing strip games that lead to sex such as strip poker, beer pong, twister, etc. and like gemini, those with mars in the 5th house are most likely a big tease.
đˇsag is considered the type to go from person to person, but for the right person theyâll be willing to wait for marriage if thatâs something sag and their partner wants. that could also be something that attracts sag to that person - their unwillingness to compromise their faith in God or their observance of their religious principles such as not having sex before marriage, but also the fact that their person isnât quick to give in to what sag wants or to fall for sagâs charm.
đˇ leo may prefer to have the lights on rather than off. they want to see theirs and their partnerâs body, but they also want their partner to see theirs. how else is their partner supposed to compliment them on how good they look naked? and like 2nd house placements, they may like to watch themselves having sex in the mirror. they could even want a mirror on the ceiling above their bed.
đˇ virgo risings may come off as innocent but with aries in their 8th house, not only do they prefer a partner who is dominant because they're typically the submissive types, but they also have their moments where they want to take over and express a little bit of their dominant side. they can take it but they can also give some of that same energy back. in this case, their looks may be deceiving and their sexual side may come as a surprise. this individual, including those with mars in virgo, can be quite picky with their sexual partners. and if youâre going to have sex with them, theyâll most likely make sure youâre clean first. this can mean taking a shower first or at least having clean hands/nails and no body odor. in addition, they could be the type to want you to get tested first to make sure youâre clean from STDs, and for these reasons they might not be interested in one night stands.Â
đˇ asteroid eros (433) in aries and even other aries placements may like their head held and caressed or having fingers running through their hair, and they might like pulling on their partnerâs hair. theyâre also the types to want to see and stare at your face during sex because they want to see you moan and react to the things theyâre doing to you. it boosts their ego & turns them on knowing that theyâre the cause of the pleasure that you're feeling.
đˇmercury in the 8th house, pluto in 3rd house, and gemini mars: might c*m quick via masturbation, but they're also talented with their hands in general when it comes to sex. so handjobs and the like may be their area of expertise. their words are powerful and can be used effortlessly in order to arouse you. theyâre the type to guide their partners, whispering sexy things in their ears, giving them instructions and talking them through to an orgasm (for themselves and their partner).
đˇ mars-saturn aspects: it might some time for them to c*m but they usually have a high libido and can easily go several rounds. however, they could also go without sex for years and years, so being celibate probably isnât difficult for them.Â
đˇmars-venus aspects: may enjoy some degree of pain during sex so they may be a bit of a sadist or masochist. for example, whipping or performing actions that leave a visual representation of pain like bruises or red hand prints from spanking. if itâs not to that extent then a little bit of biting could really turn them on. this can apply to aries/scorpio placements too.
đˇ aquarius: some of them probably like to kiss their friends on the lips - not even in a sexual way but just because. they could have an array of sex toys and may prefer a solo session because they feel like they know their body and can please themselves best. even if theyâre having sex, they might want to include the use of a toy. probably have some interesting or uncommon kinks. could prefer friends with benefits and it may work out for them since theyâre good at not getting attached. they can also invent new ways to keep things exciting in the bedroom. the type to surprise their partner and make them c*m unexpectedly because they did something to catch them off guard.
đˇ scorpio & pisces: i feel like these two would have such a profound sexual experience together and i think their similarities would play a big role in that. theyâre both water signs making them both emotional and those emotions would definitely come out to play during the act. and sex could even be a means of catharsis for them.Â
pisces relates to all things spiritual and scorpio is familiar with the occult side of spirituality, but this isnât outside of the realm of pisces either because as the ruler of the 12th house, theyâre no stranger to the deep & dark mysteries of life.Â
and i definitely believe that sex has a spiritual aspect to it. they might try Tantric sex or Kama Sutra positions, or they just have some form of a spiritual experience. maybe sex between the two of them feels like an out of body experience. or they experience la petite mort, the little death in english, which is an expression that describes an orgasm that feels like death - but a pleasant death. in addition to this, pisces and scorpio both have this desire to merge their souls with the person they love and sex is definitely one of the ways of doing so.Â
all in all, the both of them together could have some of the most spiritual and emotional sex & since scorpio and pisces are both prone to addictions, sex between these two could be very addicting.
đˇ if you have libra 8th house synastry with your partner, you may have the thought or desire to partake in anilingus with each other. this could be something that you are totally against and cannot imagine doing, but with that person it could be something you are willing to consider. this could catch you by surprise and make you think, âomg who am i?â lol.Â
đˇ iâve noticed that a lot of celebrities that have genital piercings (whether it be something theyâve willingly revealed themselves or something that was revealed due to a wardrobe malfunction) have a combination of sag or scorpio in uranus, neptune, and/or as their moon sign. and to my surprise, they also have their mars in an earth sign. so, some you who have or want genital piercings may also have these placements. if these placements fall in your or 8th or 12th house, that would also make sense since those houses have to do with things that are hidden.
đˇ eros in the 10th house: iâd say this placement definitely desires a dom/sub dynamic. if they like playing the dominant role then they could like being called master, sir, or daddy. if theyâd rather play the submissive role because they desire a dominant partner then they may like being called babygirl, my girl, or princess. they like having their partner telling them what to do & how to do it. in return, it pleases them to please their dom. they might also like sitting on their partners lap because it feels like their personal throne but it also makes them feel protected which this placement finds attractive. they like that protective energy in a partner since it gives them a sense of safety and comfort. if eros is aspecting neptune then they might fantasize about messing around with their boss or supervisor, even more exciting if it actually ends up happening at their place of work. oh, and they may like reading episode or wattpad stories with this kind of plot.
if you read this until the end, go rinse your eyes lol but i hope you enjoyed this post & thank you so much for reading. âĽď¸âĽď¸âĽď¸, those hearts are for you.
Aries Venus: Your bold attitude. Being unapologetically yourself. Your strength. The fact that you'll do anything once. Straightforwardness. Confidence. Your style, you're not afraid to experiment. Knowing what you want and getting it. Carefree attitude.
Taurus Venus: Your mannerisms. The way you move, like a dancer. Your reliability. Independence and work ethic. Your loyalty and devotedness. The way you take care of yourself and others. Your strong morals and values.
Gemini Venus: Your intellect and curiosity. Being laidback and worry free. Childlike wonder. Your humor and open-mindedness. The way your eyes light up when you talk about the things you love. Your ability to teach and listen to others.
Cancer Venus: Your softness and femininity. Your emotional and nurturing nature. Leading with your heart. Vulnerability. The way you stand up for the people you love. Having a heart of gold. Caring about others. Your unconditional love.
Leo Venus: Your style and confidence. Your creativity. Knowing what you want. Showing just how much you love someone or something. Your unwavering loyalty. Being effortlessly yourself. Making others feel good about themselves. Being thoughtful.
Virgo Venus: Helping others, being selflesss. Being intellectually stimulating and not afraid to debate with others. Knowing your shit. Having your priorities in order. Generosity. Maturity. Your clean girl aesthetic. Always looking "clean".
Libra Venus: Being sweet and kind. Your femininity. Being effortlessly beautiful. Your social media. How you love love. The way you put yourself first. Being the friend people call for advice. Your childlike disposition. Creativity.
Scorpio Venus: Being trustworthy and devoted. Having depth and the ability to talk about deep/dark things. Your wonder. Your authenticity. Mysteriousness. Loyalty. Being a vault for other people's secrets. Being magnetic. Your sultriness.
Sagittarius Venus: Your always doing something fun. Your humor and generosity. Being a good time. Not taking things too seriously. Your honesty and straight forwardness. Having a lot of friends or having friends that love you. Always up for trying something different.
Capricorn Venus: Your drive and ambition. Being successful and smart. Coming across as being put together. Maturity. Your taste. Your independence and not needing anyone. Having goals. The way you invest in yourself. Your deep sense of responsibility.
Aquarius Venus: Being non judgmental. Your intellect and relaxed attitude. Being a good time. Your ability to talk about anything. Your authenticity. Being different and loving it. The way you perceive things. Your skills.
Pisces Venus: Your compassion. The way you love animals. Your ethereal beauty. Being kind and thoughtful. Being a dreamer. Loving love. Your need for a connection like no other. The way you're a safe place. The way you show people how much you love them. Your innocence.
venus in 1st- the way you look , your aura, your energy, your presence, the impressions you give on others, the attitude you have about things, how put together you come off, your beauty, your charismatic spirit, your aesthetic, your clothes, your make up, your forehead, your hair or hairstyles, your masculine features/energy
venus in 2nd- your financial situation, your ranking in your work place, if you come off/dress rich, the things you own, house decorations, your roomâs aesthetic, your work ethic, your career, if you own expensive things, your neck area, collar bone, your voice, your lips, jaw, your beauty
venus in 3rd- your way with words, how flirting/ talking is easy for you, the way you speak, the way your brain works, your social group, your siblings, your creative writing, your journal/ notes, the elementary school you went to, your neighborhood, your thought process, your shoulders, collarbone, hands, how youthful you look/act
venus in 4th- how you regulate or cope with your emotions, your family or the family youâve created, your household, your furniture, your decorations, your family roots, your background, the way you mother people or your children, your motherly energy, your femininity, the way you express your femininity, your self care routine, your self care products, how you grew up, how your family treats you, your chest, your boobs, your rib cage, your round face shape, the softness in your features
venus in 5th- your relationship, your lover, your youth, your inner child or the fact you can express it, your children, your features that your children have/will inherit, your aesthetic, the way you express yourself, your art style, the art you make, your spirit, how easy it is for you to get along with people,how easy it is for you to attract people, how many kids you have, the people youâve hooked up with, the way you express your happiness, your stomach, bellybutton, your confidence, thick hair
venus in 6th- your work out routine, your work out equipment, work out clothes, your health, your pets, work ethic, your organization or organized nature, your resourcefulness, the way that people need you, the service(s) you offer, the way you analyze things, your waist, hips, your youthful appearance,
venus in 7th- your relationship(s), your marriage, how fair you are or act, the way you go about justice, how giving you are, the contracts you have with businesses, your skin, your lower back, your symmetrical features, hair, your feminine features/ energy, your beauty, your aesthetic, the effort you put into your look, your music taste
venus in 8th- your sensual side, your sex appeal, your financial situation, the money or things youâve inherited from your family, things that you own, your properties/house(s), your mysterious energy or aesthetic, the way your partner spoils you or the way you spoil your partner, sexual organs, your groin, the way people seem to lust over you
venus in 9th - your community, your religion, your culture, your traditions, the places youâve traveled to, how often you traveled, your intelligence, the degrees youâve earned, the college you attend to or used to attend, the philosophies you have, the beliefs you share or follow, the way you learn, how learning is fast or easy, your thighs, your waist, your height
venus in 10th- your career, the goals youâve achieved, your popularity, your influence, your fame, your reputation, your status, your father or father figures in your life, the way you father your children, your masculinity, your masculine features/vibes, your bone structure, teeth
venus in 11th- your social group/ friends, the way you care about the world or a certain community, the amount of social awareness you have, the technology you own like iphone/ ipad/ laptops, etc, the way you dream big, your individuality, your uniqueness the people you surround yourself with, your calves, your ankles, your unique features
venus in 12th- your healing journey, the way you heal from things, your spiritual journey, your spiritual knowledge, spiritual experiences, you connection with spirituality, your connection with your after life, your connection with your subconscious mind, your manifestations, your feet, toes, feminine features, your empathy, your compassion, your emotional intelligence, your intuition
HELLO!!!! To all of my sweet, sweet Kosmic Baddies, Oh!! How Iâve missed you!
I cannot believe itâs been over a FRIGGIN year, but GOODNESSâŚ.believe me, when I say this past year has been a roller coaster for me, I truly mean it. I can only imagine whatâs been going on in your lives as well. Just TOO MUCH!!!1111!!!!!111!!!!!1 But welcome to 2024! A universal 8 year and the year of the Dragon!!! WE IN THIS THANNNNGGG!!!! Hard work, discipline and accountability is the theme, and we canât lose!!!!!
Believe it or not, I actually STARTED writing this to have to you for Halloween, but ummmmâŚ.this is looking like a Valentineâs Day post instead! HA!!!! Blame it on my Saturn in Piscesâ my relationship to time isâŚ.non existent. But, I think this timing is better anyways. The theme is very fitting so we are going to turn apples into oranges.
***Even funnier update, now itâs past Valentineâs DayâŚ.GOODNESS!!! This has been the longest itâs taken me to write anything. LikeâŚINSANE. Almost 6 months Iâve been steadily working on this!
Thank you to those who have continued to support me! Thank you to those who have continued to share and interact with my post through myâŚletâs say, hiatus! I am planning to put more energy and effort into this blog post. I LOVE writing for yâall, it is really one of my favorite things in the world.
I am going to take a moment to apologize in advance and say, the typos are probably going to be real with this one. Because Iâve been working on it for so long, Iâm just ready to get it out, so it wonât be my cleanest work. I will probably be updating and editing, so bare with me!
đŻ INTRODUCTION đŻ
SoooooâŚ.where to start? I wanted to do something fun and interesting this go round because I missed yâall so much, but I also wanted to do something light so I could get back into the rhythm of writing againâŚ.aaaaaaaaaand I thought you would enjoy something a little smexiiiii as we move into cuddle buddy season. So, in this post, we are going to talk about Mars and Your Sexxx language.
One day, as I was driving around town, it dawned on me that we always talk about Love Languages (check out my Mercury post if you havenât already) and we never talk about sex languages. And yâall know me, and if you donât know, youâll soon find out, I am a Bharani moon (atmakaraka at that); and the blending between Mars and Venus is my soulâs most valuable asset to share with the worldâŚ(Did I mention my moon is the 11th House?) Sex is one of the most taboo topics (in Western puritan culture, at least), yet such a powerful resource in our human tool box and itâs ridiculously important in our relationships. The 7th House is followed by the 8th House for a reason. Intimacy, of course not always sexual, is what leads to self-discovery, the 9th House. So we cannot overlook the important step that is sexual relations. Even the word âorgasmâ means âlittle deathâ and death baby, is as close as you get to God. (See how those houses flow together so well?) Hence why things such as Tantra are a sexual AND religious experience all in one. Donât be fooled by western/christian ideals into thinking that sex is unholy or ungodly. If you think Jesus was a virgin, think again. I mean, whatâs the point of turning water into wine if youâre just going to roll over and go to sleep? Yâknow what I mean?
Donât worry! If youâre a less experienced reader, and havenât engaged in aaaaallll thhhaattt⌠this post is still for you! In fact, this is one of the reasons I love astrology so much, because hopefully this post will give you some context about yourself and what your SOUL craves, not just your body, so when you do start âdoing the doâ you can be spiritually comfortable with your wants and desires instead of ashamed or even afraid of them.
Not to put all my business on the streetâŚbut, hey, I love yâall, so I wonât keep too many secrets from you (mercury in the 8th, HA)âŚbut, I had to do quite a bit of bumping and grinding to discover what my soul needs in an intimate relationship and I wish there was more of âguideâ for me on that journey! So HEREâŚIâm giving it to you!
WHAT IS A SEX LANGUAGE? đ
To be completely honest, a âsex languageâ isnât something as defined as a love language, so please, bear with me as we discover this together. Please feel free to share any experiences or insight with me. Although I may not always respond, I TRULY appreciate you taking the time to share with me. I try to read everything that I can!
Iâm defining sex language as how one creates and shares intimacy in their close relationships. This is particularly expressed through physical interactions and outward expressions. Mars is a planet that governs our passions, drives and desires, meaning our sex language is guided by what we deeply want and crave from our partners on a spiritual level. Venus represents more of the external notions that we have for love and relationships, while Mars represents our internal needs from love and relationships. Mars is inherently a more personal and âself-centeredâ planet, so interestingly enough, your sex language is all about you! I go as far to say, when you find a partner, donât forget to check your Mars compatibility as well. If you have extremely incompatible Mars signs, you will have to do a lot more work in the relationship to overcome the constant friction. Moreover, if you have more compatible Mars signs, then WOOOO BABY, the sexual tension could be off the charts!
⨠ABOUT MARS â¨
Mars placements wonât make or break a relationship, per say, but it is a very important layer to help maintain a relationship. How many of you have heard of sexless marriages and people being unsatisfied in their relationships in a sexual way? Does that mean the couples always break-up because of the lack of sex or chemistry? NoâŚ..But does it help a HECK OF A LOT when you are wildly attracted to your partner? YES! (Of course this isnât always a good thingâŚbut for the sake of this post, we are only talking about rainbows and sunshine.) Just keep this in mind as you start to use this knowledge in your journey. Mars is a really important planet that is easy to overlook because itâs not in the Big Three! (Yet, it iiissss the natural ruler of the 1st House).
WHY IT ALL MATTERS đ
I truly believe there is a shift in the collective and many couples are going to be coming into union over the course of the next year or so. Why? Because Ketu is FINALLY transitioning out of Libra and entering Virgo. If youâve noticed, weâve seen quite a bit of celebrity break-ups and covid relationships coming to a screeching halt. Hence why I say, if youâve been single, or havenât been in a serious connection in the last few years or even ever, now is the time that your next partner might be going through some significant ending with an ex. Union is on the horizon for a lot of souls who have been doing theeee spiritual work. Thatâs why I couldnât think of a better topic to get started to set the mooooooooood. Bow-chicka-wow-wow.
So without further ado, letâs get into the nitty gritty. Iâm going to do something different and start with Mars in Pisces/12th House and work backwards to Mars in Aries/1st House! I thought âHey! Why not switch it up a bit? Pisces shouldnât be forced to scroll ALL the time!â
***Note: If youâre feeling extra spicy, you can read for whatever sign is in your 1st House and 8th House as well because those are traditionally Mars ruled Houses. And you can read for your 12H, because the 12H is also the house of bedroom pleasures! Always keep in mind that we are complex creatures and astrology is like a puzzle, so itâs okay for some things to resonate and other things to not. Learn as many perspectives as possible so you can define yourself!
With Love & Lust,
Enjoy!
A-D đ
Mars in Pisces/Mars in the 12th House
âCut me like a rose, turn me like a beastâ Only- Ry X
If your natal Mars is in Pisces or the 12H, you may actually have a hard time knowing what your desires are. Why? Because Mars can feel as if itâs drowning in the deep spiritual waters of Pisces. Your wants can be quite dreamy. You crave a sexual experience that transcends space and time, forcing you to leave your body and touch God himself in ecstasy. (Iâm a western Mars in Pisces, soâŚI get it). When it comes to your sex language, you want your partner to just get âyouâ. You donât want to have to explain or talk or direct, youâd rather just receive and give a special type of unconditional love that knows no bounds. Because of this âboundless loveâ, you may actually, literally, lack boundaries. This doesnât have to be a bad thing, so we are going to focus on the positive. You are truly accepting of those who are accepting of you. Because Pisces is a mutable sign, you are willing to fit into whatever box your partner wants to put you inâŚand you receive great pleasure from making a deep seeded fantasy of your partner come true. You could be just as playful and imaginative when it comes to role-playing as a Gemini.
Because Mars is in Pisces or the 12H, youâll find that a lot of partners will project their wishes and dreams onto you. Hence why you want a love that is really deep, because people can get washed away in the shallow end of your energy without ever fully realizing how deep your waters flow. This can be frustrating. And because Mars isnât the most comfortable here, you can have some unhealthy ways of expressing your sexual frustration. Particularly if your Mars is in the 12H, you can be attracted to self-gratification through self-pleasure and also self-harm. You may even conflate the two, harm & pleasure, and have a dark side to your sexual fantasies. Your passions and desires can end up being repressed because people may not understand them, or be able to meet your high expectations. Amd babes, I love you, but just know, your expectations out of partnership are OTHERWORLDLY. But no worries!! You are SUPER DUPER freaky and almost a guaranteed partner that will go down in history books, particularly after you get comfortable in your own sensuality.
One of the things to watch out for with this Mars, is you can be passive-aggressive in the bedroom. You can take a more passive role, expecting and energetically demanding that your partner take the lead. You may not realize you even give off this energy, but the internal need that you have to dissolve into your partner, like sugar into water, can be very intense. And the gag is, sugar doesnât really fully dissolve, so what youâre seeking can be impossible to satisfy on the earthly plane. Because of this, it is IMPERATIVE for you to have spiritual outlets within your sexual connections. It may be that you and your partner practice Tantra, or you simply pray together. With this Mars, you can absolutely use sex as a tool for manifestation. Watch your thoughts during sex, because you truly can create MAGIK!
Mars in Aquarius or Mars in the 11th House
âI believe in aliens, I donât believe in loveâ Familiarity by Teezo Touchdown
If your natal Mars is in Aquarius or the 11th House, you are something special. Why? Because out of all the signs, you are the most unique lover. I KNOW!!! How frigginâ cliche, Aquarius=Unique, blah blah blahâŚboring. YES! Itâs said all the time, but itâs the truth. In Vedic Astrology, it is important to note that Aquarius is ruled by Saturn and Rahu. This is hugely impactful as to why you are unlike anyone else. Even as you read this, you wonât be exactly like the next person reading this, because the Saturn Rahu combination can be influenced by so many different factors. Aquarians are the hardest sign to write for in general, simply because you are going to be very individualist when it comes to how you express yourself. Now, all that being said, you still crave, very deeply, a sense of belonging. So please, donât ever take for granted how special you are. If someone is lucky enough to break through your hard exterior, they really are in for an extraterrestrial experience!
Because Mars is in an air sign here, you may or may not be the most sensual and/or sexual person on the planet. You could be. But you could not be. And that is the giftâŚor curseâŚof this Mars placement. I have Mars in Aquarius myself, and I remember reading an article that said âthis placement can be infuriating to your partner because you are so nonchalant.â And I can definitely say Iâve lost relationships because the other party assumed I was disinterested because I wasnât the most expressive when it came to my emotions. Itâs important to remember that Mars in Aquarius/11H is actually a neutral placement. It isnât a death sentence or the worst thing on the planet, but itâs not necessarily the best. So donât be too hard on yourself if your partners donât understand you very easily. You will just have to do more work to learn how to communicate and accommodate in your relationships. This may be something that follows you throughout lifeâŚand forget your partnerâŚ.it could be infuriating to you! BUT NO WORRIES! Mars in Aquarius or Mars in the 11th house is usually more concerned with developing and nurturing friendships, which seems to contradict the more lustful side of Mars. Longing for friendship and connection versus longing for sensual pleasure and connection can be seen as two different things.
What Mars in Aquarius/11H wants more than anything is L. O. Y. A. L. T. Y. Because this Mars placement can grant so much freedom, it is imperative for the person with this placement to feel safe and secure in the sexual relationship they are building. This is NOT to be confused with possession. Expecting loyalty from a partner isnât the same as feeling as if you own your partner. You believe that your partner should have freedom to express and live their life the way they want to, and you expect the same in return. However, you do expect your partner to consider you when they make their decisions in life. It is very much âgive a dog a bone, leave a dog alone, let a dog roam and heâll find his way homeâ (S/o DMX, may he rest in peace). Meaning, in your sexual language, you want your space and privacy, but you want to feel a belonging no matter how far away you are from your partners.
NOW, for the fun stuff. You are one of the most explorative lovers on the planet. You may have a âthe more the merrierâ type attitude and be interested in group smexii time or oragies. You may have a dream to experience Amsterdam and the Red Light District. The beauty in having your Mars in an air sign/house is that you can remain detached from the sexual experience and partnerâ therefore, you may not experience jealousy because you arenât super possessive. Again, youâre all about freedom baby!!! You may also have some pretty âfar-outâ kinks. You may be interested in different genders, or same gender, or mix gender or no gender or latex or pantyhoes or dress up or furries or hentai or tentacle pornâŚ.and if youâre not into it, chances are you will at least click a questionable link or two. You donât carry the same shame as others do when it comes to what turns you on sexually. You donât like anything boring or too routine, so your search history could be a bitâŚoddâŚ.BUT HEY!!! As long as itâs not hurting anyone or anything and pleasure is being derived from all parties involved, then let adults do what adults do is kind of your attitude.
Friendship is the key to your heartâŚand to yourâŚuhâŚbiological boxâŚ.lol. When it comes to long-term relationships, I can bet my bottom dollar that youâre far more interested in the friendship aspects than the inherent relationship drama. When your friends ask âwhy are you still dealing with themâ, you will follow up with âwell, we are friends before anything else.â And you mean that deeply. The really funny thing isâŚon the other hand, you are also very likely to get down with complete strangers and never think about it again. You can hook-up and detach with the best of them, or your loyalty to a confidant can keep you in a relationship for a very long timeâŚit. Just. depends.
The one thing that is true about your sex language, is that you speak ALL different kinds. When you look back at your life and your experiences, if you are more of an adventurous Aquarian, lets say you have a lot of air and fire in your chart, you will most likely have all kinds of stories from all different people and places. You will be one of the most interesting partners and friends to talk to about all the mixed bags of experiences that youâve had..which is awesome. If your Mars in Aquarius/11H is paired with a more âearthyâ sign or even water, you will most likely have a rom-com type love thing happeningâŚthat tugging âwill they/wonât theyâ energy at the beginning of relationships, only to fall head over heals with the âguy/gal next doorâ. You may also find your sexual partners online, in a group setting or be hooked up by natural friends. âHowâd you meet?â âOh, I heard from a friend of a friend that that d*ck is a ten out of ten!â
Mars in Capricorn or Mars in the 10th House
âMy vicious love, My lethal heart, I wanna screw you up into meâ - Bad Bad Bad by Ramsey
If your natal Mars is in Capricorn or in the 10th House, then your sexual language is money, moneyâŚandâŚ.uhâŚ.more money. I kid, I kidâŚbut not really. It would be easy and predictable for me to say you just lust after money, but it goes much deeper than that. Believe it or not, Mars is actually exalt in Capricorn, so, you couldnât have a better Mars placement. Your natural ruler Saturn and Mars truly are the best of friends. And if youâre familiar with Tarot, then you know The Devil represents Capricorn energy and The Devil is all about seduction and temptation. Unlike some of the more dreamy Mars placements like Pisces/12H or Cancer 4H that use their sexual language as an escape from reality, or the detached air placements like Gemini/3H or Aquarius/11H, who are too aloof to harness Marsâ energy, YOU my Capricorn/10H individuals are acutely aware of how powerful the nature of sex can beâŚand most importantly, how it can be used to your advantage.
To the average person on the street, you may not seem like the super sexual type. You prefer a sophisticated lover to a âcuteâ one, so people can assume that your standards are too high. And perhaps, your standards are high, because you understand the value of your presence and your time. In fact, you HATE wasting time, so why would you waste time on lovers who donât bring anything to the table? Sadly, for most of the public, they wonât ever have the experience to be with a Capricorn/10H Mars because quite frankly, they canât afford it.
Funnily enough, Iâm sure as youâve been reading this, youâre like âdangâŚam I that shallow?â And the answer is yes and no. Youâre shallow because we live in a shallow worldâ and you know in order to survive it, you have to use what you got to get what you want. The other side of this is, youâre not shallow at all because you are willing to work and discipline yourself and sacrifice for those that you truly care about. There is such a depth to you in the long run, that it makes sense that you make it really difficult for people to get to you. Because you know and I know, once youâve committed to someone, youâve committed for as long as you possibly can. Your sexual language is all about stamina and endurance. This is true in and and out of the bedroom. As an earth sign/house, you are a sensual being. You enjoy each and every bit of romance that you can get. A nice meal, some good perfume, dressed to the nines is all considered foreplay to you. You entice your partners with a certain dignified class and only the brave will approach. In your younger years, you could find this extremely frustrating at times because men will really have to get their sh*t together before they can even THINK to approach you on that level. But the more that you use your Mars to get you where you want to be in life, partners will follow behind you and constantly buzz around as if you are the Queen Bee and they are mere workers for your attention.
Funnily enough, you are quite the heart-breaker with this Mars placement. Because you are so focused on your goals outside of love, and yet, you can crave sensual pleasures, you will be very direct with a partner, but they may not be aware of how serious you take yourself. How can this manifest? Letâs say you meet a partner and everything is groovy, but you are working on a big project for work, youâre working on a degree of some kind, or youâve said you wonât rest until you make partner at the big companyâŚunlike other Mars placements, you wonât let romance sway you or take you off track. You are probably the best example of âright person, wrong timeâ. You donât have as much of an issue as other signs walking away from a situation that is distracting you from your more worldly desires. This can leave people utterly confused, because you seem like a perfect partner, but honestly, youâre just not focused on aaaalll the drama that can come with fully committed relationships. People may actually take this energy and say that youâre a playerâŚor worseâŚa floozy (one of my favorite words lol, definitely needs to make a comeback). You actually arenât. You will be one of the most committed partners they could find, but if itâs not the right timeâŚit just ainât happening. So your partners will have to maintain some level of patience or they will miss out. On the other hand, because Mars is a planet of extremes, you may go through periods in life where you are celebate. It may take you awhile to stop channeling that Martian ambitious energy into your career and put it towards your sexuality. That being said, you will enjoy the more sensual side of sex. You could have great stamina and endurance. Because sex may not come around as often as youâd like, you will learn to savor every drop of your partners and please them in a calculated, thoughtful and masterful way! How smeeexxxiiiiiii!!!!!
Mars in Sagittarius or Mars in the 9th House
âIâve been everywhere, man, looking for someone. Someone who can please me, love me all night longâ Where Have You Been by Rihanna
If your natal Mars is in Sagittarius or the 9th House, your sexual language is that of many languages. You fall in love with the exotic, unknown and unexplored. You like your partners like James Bond likes his carsâ foreign. You appreciate partners who expand your understanding of reality. Your partners have to expand your mindâŚand bodyâŚinto positions that you never thought were possible. If you donât attract partners who are of a different race, culture or class from you, then you will be attracted to partners who are otherworldly and spiritual or are just as serious about their religious beliefs as you are. Like Mars in Pisces/12H, your planet is ruled by the planet Jupiter, aka Guru. You NEED to learn from your partner. You NEED to explore with your partner. And you NEED to be able to teach your partners something as well. âI wanna knowâŚcan you show meâŚI wanna know about the strangers like meâ...Itâs givingâŚTarzan and Jane. I have Mars in the 9th House, and it has manifested in a very fun way! So with my bias, I believe that this can be one of the more fun placements if you just go with the flow. Unlike other Mars placements, you donât necessarily feel the need to control your partners. Youâd much rather experience them, learn the lesson and move on to the next new shiny thing. Much like your brother, Gemini, you are equally as invested in getting the knowledge and seeking more knowledge. You of all signs are unlikely to overstay your welcome in a relationship. You can come off quite restless and unsatisfiedâŚUNLESS you are just fascinated and enamored with an individual.
You can find yourself attracted to people who have accents, or speak a different language than you. But you will be even more turned on by someone who shares the same religious beliefs as you. You may actually be willing to convert religions for your partner OR, and this is more likely, you have a partner who is a different religion than you are, and instead of being ashamed by it, or making it an obstacle, you embrace itâ ultimately respecting their religion, while maintaining the traditions of your own.
You will naturally desire to travel with your partner. Making some of your favorite memories in life when you made-love in some far off land. If the sentence, âI made love to a Frenchman I met while eating a baguette at the local cafe under the Eiffel tower and Iâll never see him again, but heâs the love of my lifeâ turns you onâŚcongratulations, youâre in the right spot.
This Mars placement is fueled by your deepest desire to see the world and its deepest truth, and then just imagine how much you can learn about the world through the lens of an intimate partner. Your sexual language, like I said earlier, involves language in and of itself. You want to hear the stories of distants lands, fascinated by the foreign nature of your divine counterpart. You will want to be intimate with partners who can speak for hours and hours about their adventures and endeavors. You need to be intrigued at the very least.
I also find that with this placement, there may be an age difference in your relationships. You either will be attracted to someone who is much older and wiser, OR, interesting enough, you could find yourself with someone younger. Why is this? You will appreciate a person who still has zest for life. You will be equally attracted to partners who are bright eyed and bushy tailed! Plus, I know Iâve talked a lot about your partner entertaining and teaching you, but the truth of the matter is, you will want to be as much of a sage to your partner as well. You will enjoy teaching them the ways of life and the pursuit of happiness. They will look to you with eyes of wonder as you paint beautifully vivid pictures of your life experiences that have shaped your view of the world.
Another element to this Mars placement, is you are one to challenge authority. This may manifest in your sex language by liking to explore BDSM culture in some way. Because this Mars is all about freedom, you may be turned on by the thought of your partner controlling youâŚjust so you can say no. You can come off as a âwell, make meâ...kind of lover when it comes to foreplay. You love a challenge and you like partners who challenge you in some way when it comes to living out your sexual fantasies. Another way this may come out is you AND your partner may have a knack for getting into trouble or enjoying sex with some kind of risk involved. You get off being able to sneak away for a quickie. Youâll have sex in the backseat of a car. Joining the mile club is definitely on your bucket listâŚall the things! Because you are such a rebel, you tell stories that have ânormiesâ clutching their pearls and leave their mouths open. You want to have memorable sex that is worth writing a book about!!!
I can not drive home enough how spiritual your sexual relationships have the potential to be. You are not a shallow lover. You are a lover full of wonder and full of lustâŚwanderlustâŚif you will. Sagittarius/9H is a very serious zodiac/house. You're destined to seek truthâ so your sexual partners HAVE to enlighten you in some way. You donât want to get stuck in the mundane, boring stuff of a relationship, (and please, donât get too carried away, because we do live on planet earth!) you want to experience shrooms, talk about God and make love in the forest! Smexxiiii!!!!
Mars in Scorpio or Mars in the 8th House
âEvery breath you take, every move you make, every smile you fake, every single day, Iâll be watching youâ Every Breath You Take by Sting
Okay, okay, it would be all too easy to say your love language is stalking, and more stalking and even more stalking, butâŚthatâs only a small fraction of what this Mars placement has to offer. If your natal Mars is placed in Scorpio or in your 8th House, your sexual language is that of raw passion and intensity. That being said, it is also about restraint and self-restriction, and sometimes self destruction. I tend to find Scorpionic energy and 8H energy to be radically internal. You, actually, may not be the most expressive lover. You are more comfortable waiting, studying and planning to pursue a lover, rather than going in full force. Because Mars is your natural ruler, Mars is more than comfortable here, but unlike your brother sign, Aries, you are more of the âplanningâ part of war, rather than action. This is the strategy of self-defense more than anything. You donât want to walk into an intimate situation to be intimate yourself, you want to extract vulnerability from your partner like a detective solving a murder crime. Your sex language is more of a riddle than a question. And you would like a partner who intrigues you and leaves a lot of mystery. In my many many years of dating, and many many encounters with Scorpionic energy (I attract them like fliesâŚitâs crazy) I always find that Scorpios are nowhere near as mysterious or hard to figure out as they perceive. Behind all that black and dark stares and gazed is usually a pretty pretty boring, but shy person. There is such a caution with this sign when it comes to acting on those very deep and sometimes all consuming desires, so you are very careful to not put yourself in harm's way. Another hot take that I have on this placement that may seem a bit contradictory to the Scorpionic stereotype is YES YES YES, you are smexxxxiiii and all of the things, but that doesnât necessarily make you the most sexual person. You take intimacy and sexy very seriously, more seriously than most, because for you intimacy and vulnerability can be used against you and be seen as a weakness, so you are hard pressed to just be going around willy-nilly swinging from partner to partner. You also view sex/intimacy as more of a âpowerâ thing than a âloveâ thing. And what do I mean by that? You know that deep intimacy and truly being intertwined with another individual gives you an unreal amount of access to that person on a personal and spiritual level. It is always important to remember where Scorpio/8H lines up in the grand scheme of things. It follows the Libra/7H of partnership. The 8H is actually the house that dictates how a relationship will play out. This. Is. Imperative. To understand this placement. You are far more focused on how the partnership plays out, rather than the partnership itself. Again, unlike your predecessor, Libra, who is ruled by Venus and may be more interested in the looks of a relationship and romantic partner. Your sexual language is more interested in the psychology of your partner. You donât care nearly as much about the outside as you do the inside. What draws you to your partner is a need to access the ultimate truths through your partners. Hence why, you are followed by Sagittarius/9H of Truth and Liberation. Your sex language involves restraint, power and hidden truths.
As I said before, it may be really difficult for you at times to truly connect with your partners because your energy can demand sooooo much from them. You will require partners to go through such depths in their relationship with you, that they may not be able to handle it. And on the other side of that, you may stay away from relationships because you may mistakenly feel like it brings out some of your âworstâ qualities. With this Mars, you may go through a very intense relationship when youâre young, one where you give your all, I meanâŚyou would kill or be killed for those you love, and because that relationship fails, you may never want to experience those types of lows again and stay away. You are one of the most loyal of the Mars placements, so you are very careful to study who exactly you are giving your loyalty to. I recommend with this placement, you may find yourself oddly attracted to Aquarian/11H energy. It sounds weird, water and air, but in this case, Aquarian energy is endlessly fascinating because they are so unorthodox, you will never truly figure them out, so youâre constantly intrigued by them. Aquarians also value loyalty the same way you do. They will allow you the freedom that you need to sit in your own emotions, but value the friendship in such a way, you wonât feel abandoned by them. Even if the people you are attracted to donât have Aquarius in their chart, I think that quality is something you should consider when looking into intimate partners. It is probably the partner who gives you the most space and it is the hardest to figure out, that will give you the most in life. If you have a partner that is easy to conquer, not only will you be bored, but you can easily slip into those darker energies of control and manipulation to get you wayâŚeven when itâs unnecessary.
AAALLLL that said, you are still a hell of a lover! I meanâŚwow. You intricately know how to please and conquer. You use sex as a language itself when youâre ready and willing. And man, do you have a way with words. You can easily hypnotize a lover to fall under your command, so be careful with this gift. You are more than comfortable in this arena once you move past your fears in the subconscious. You can channel this energy, much like the exalt Mars in Capricorn to succeed with some of your greatest ambitions. You will put your sexual energy into your work and projects in a way like no other! Just donât take everything so seriously! Itâs okay to have a good time. Be intimate and open up some! Youâll enjoy getting your head out of the sand!
Mars in Libra or Mars in the 7th House
âWhat a rush & what a high, cause when your love donât fight, smoke gets in your eyesâ Smoke In Your Eyes by Skepta, Ossie, Harry Stone
If you came to this section thinking that I was going to talk about how sweet and balanced you are when it comes to your sexual languageâŚTHINK. AGAIN. BABE. You are nothing of the sort. Seems contradictory, huh? Because Libra/7H is all about balance, right? WellâŚnot when it comes to this Mars placement.
If you have your natal Mars in Libra or the 7th House, you are quite the spicy lover. To be completely honest, Mars is VERY uncomfortable here. Why? Because Libra is naturally ruled by the planet Venus, which is essentially the opposite frequency of Mars. I like to think of Mars and Venus as the brother and sister planets of the Milky way. Traditionally ruled by Ares and Aphrodite in Greek mythology respectively, they are technically half-siblings. So when you think of this Mars placement, this of how a girlie-girl would feel surrounded by all boys at a football camp. Sure, she may attract a lot of attention and she may have plenty of optionsâŚbut she will CERTAINLY have to set clear boundaries to command the respect she deserves, as well as deal with the fact that no one around her may have the same interest. See how this can be uncomfortable? Itâs not the worst thing to happen, but it can cause you to feel like you have to play the field a little bit differently because of Mars being in the House of Libra.
Okay, so now that we covered why this placement might be different than what you were imagining, letâs get into what this post is actually about!
If you have this natal placement, your sex language is all about breaking up to make-up. Because youâre on this constant quest of seeking balance, YOU will subconsciously or consciously seek chaos in order to regain balance. Your indecisive and somewhat aloof nature in relationships can be a source of frustration when it comes to your sexual expression with your lovers. If you have Mars in your 7H, you genuinely LOVE conflicts and attract conflicts to your relationships. You can be quite passive aggressive, honestly, and stir the pot to get attention. AAALLLL this being said, you still enjoy the finer things and love the idea of love, even though you may not have the most direct way of going about it. Your partners may even find you hard to read, and this can frustrate you, because your wishy-washy-ness is so innate to you, you may have a tendency to think that everyone is as back and forth with decision making as you are.
Ironically, more so than any of the previous placements I have discussed before, I will focus more on what sexual language you like from your partner rather than yourself. Of course, you like good food, good wine, good clothes, good banter, good companyâŚyou have Libra, like DUH, but I want to offer a different perspective on this placement.
So when it comes to your partners, you truly like a partner who takes charge, regardless of sex. You crave a level of masculinity and directness in your love language because as I stated earlier, it can be difficult for you to make decisions for yourself. You overemphasize how people will perceive you, and this can cause you to stunt your decision making, so youâll find yourself craving a partner who can be unabashedly unapologetic in their approach to life. You seek partners who are brave and courageous and you will find yourself testing anyone you fall in love with to see if they have that spark of passion in them. You may find yourself seeking different things from different people, so you may have multiple loversâ and just like how it may take you forever to pick out your outfit in the morning, it may take you forever to figure out what you value in a partner. It is important to note that Libra/7H energy is indeed a masculine energy. Iâm sure most would assume itâs feminine because of the âsophisticatedâ and charismatically social nature usually associated with Libras, but when it comes to sexual relationships, Taurus/2H energy is the feminine side of Venus. Libra energy in this way is more detached than people would think. As stated earlier, because you enjoy dates, chatting, getting to know people, you may be a really good casual dater! This could send mixed messages to potential lovers because you may have never really had any intention of dating them long-termâ or, you really just havenât decided yet. Now are we starting to see how this Mars placement can attract certain conflict? You will desire and crave a partner that can make decisions for you. This may lead to some kinkiness in the bedroom because youâre open to compromise and you can be bossed around in this regard.
Overall your sexual language is complex because of the inherent contradiction of this natal placement. You can make this work in your favor as long as you keep open communication with your partner, even if itâs to tell them that you need some more time before youâre comfortable making any lasting decisions. When you date, you will have to allow your partners to understand your up & down nature. Most people will probably take your pragmatic nature personally, so if you can find a way to channel this into being sexually playful with your lovers, it can be a great way to keep romance fun and interesting. As stated in the beginning, you are most likely to end up in an on-again-off-again kind of relationship because you like for the scales to be tipped, so you can rebalance them. You are far more detached in commitments than most people would assume, so it is essential for you to date like-minded people who understand that your coldness is not a reflection on your feelings. You choose to remain objective in your judgements and seek fairness in your relationshipsâeven if you are the one who was unfair to begin with! Kiss it kiss it better baby!!!!
Mars in Virgo or Mars in the 6th House
âI got commitment issues, but Iâm tryna fix that for youâŚI donât believe in love, but that doesnât mean I donât take you seriousâ Commitment Issues by Central Cee
With Mars in Virgo or the 6th House, you may be surprised to find how non-committal you are when it comes to relationships. Why? Because you find relationships to be impractical. So when it comes to your sexual language, you are quite all over the place. Lovers can find you hard to catch, almost like trying to keep a fairy in a jar. You prefer to flutter around and keep things light in the sexual department. To you, sex can scream responsibility. After all, sex can be a pretty risky and dirty affair. All the fluid exchange and, ultimately, the required vulnerability, can make you quite uneasy. With this Mars placement, you can go between the two extremes of putting too much emphasis on sex or not enough emphasis at all. This is due to the natural ruler of Virgo/6H being Mercury, which, I find to be, an asexual planet. You are more interested in the intellectual connection than the physical connection.
BUT PLEASE, donât get me wrong! You know youâre way around the bedroom. Your sexual language is constantly evolving. You do well with long-term partners that you can trust, study and get to know. You prefer a lover that is loyal, so you donât have to worry about where theyâve been, or better yet, who theyâve been with. You find joy in repetition with one partner. OR, you are really open to âprotectedâ one-night stands. You are either all in or all out. You donât like to waste time on sexual relationships that you donât see a return for a long-term investment. That being said, if you are unable to invest in the long-term, you can find yourself in a position of sexual frustration. You may really desire a person, but because of your deep need for perfection first, you may stall connections & find a lot of pleasure in masturbation for the time being. You, like your opposite sign, Pisces, can really get into your fantasies. You may find that erotica and romance novels can be great resources to pass the time while you likely toil between celibacy and being a whore (this is particularly funny to me because Virgos are known for being the Virgins of the zodiacâ hence the contradiction in Mars in Virgo. The planet of sex and desire ruled by a âVirginâ is, uhâŚ.a difficult juxtaposition to say the least.) â again, itâs all about mental stimulation with you.
When you do meet a partner that you can FINALLY settle down and feel comfortable with, you will be a very giving lover. Because Virgo energy is usually associated with servitude, you better believe that you will make it your duty to service the object of your affection. You care very deeply about the satisfaction of your partnerâ far more than you care about your own. As stated earlier, you donât mind finishing up solo as long as your partner is satisfied. You will find every nook and cranny, every deep desire, every love spot that your partner has, because you will analyze their body with astute detail. You will break your partnerâs sexual language down and adapt it to be your own, because after all, you are a mutable sign. As well as being an earth sign, you do have a very deep sensual nature to you. Although you can come across as quite guarded with new partners, once you blossom, you really enjoy heavy petting and physical touch. You can spend so much time in your head and alone with your thoughts in other aspects of your life, you may find it very powerful to have a partner that literally grounds you and brings you back to planet Earth by holding you in their arms. Again, after youâve bent over backwards (pun intended) to please your partner, you, more than any other sign, except maybe Leo, really needs to be acknowledged and celebrated for your hard work. You donât take kindly to being undervalued or under appreciated when it comes to your romantic relationships in this context.
Believe it or not, this placement can actually be quite kinky! Why? Because of the influence of Mercury again. As stated before, you want to learn your partnerâs as well as you possibly can to make sure you are seen as perfect in their eyesâ sooooo, that means youâll have some exploring to do. Mercury is such a curious planet, that it may not be kinky for the sensual pleasures of it all, but it will be interested in testing out sex & kinks for âresearch purposesâ. This can give you a sort of detached feeling when it comes to sex, which may or may not work in your favorâ youâre able to disassociate in a way that makes sex almost an out of body experienceâŚit may take you some time to actually feel pleasure from sex. You are so focused on the other and pleasing your partner, you can forget that sex is supposed to be a two way street! I just want to reiterate, that this placement is so mutable, that you may find yourself pretty ambivalent towards sex at different times in your life. Youâre kind of like âehâ. But there is hope, when you find a partner that lights your fireâ you will find yourself wanting sex like a child wants candy! There is plenty of potential here for a beautifully active and engaging sex lifeâ it just may take more time to develop than others.
Learn your own kinks! Have fun! Explore the more sensual side of life for yourself!
Anyone who is able to win you over (which is NOT an easy feat by any means) will be able to revel in the fact that you are such a wonderful lover! But donât forget, sex is not a test that you can get an A + in, itâs supposed to be the culmination and celebration of it all!
Mars in Leo or Mars in the 5th House
âShe may be the queen of hearts, but Iâm the queen of your body partsâ - Cockiness, Rihanna
If you have Mars in Leo or Mars in the 5th House, you are Britney Spears, all eyes on me in the center of the ring just like a circus, bay-bee. You LOVE to put on a show. Your sexual language can make love-making a spectacle! Youâre over the top, youâre loud, you roar. You LOVE LOVE LOVE the attention. So much so, you may not even need sex to fulfill that internal desire for you. Huh? What do I mean? I mean, you may be satisfied using your creative gifts for sexual gratification. Chances are with this placement, you are highly creative and charismatic. You find sensual pleasure in being able to share your creative gifts with other people. Havenât you heard of entertainers saying they had so much fun on stage, it was orgasmic? Thatâs where you come in.
Ironically, I donât naturally find this placement to be the most sexual. Donât get me wrong, you are DOWN DIGGITY for a good time, but you really use sex as an ego booster. You may even be quite lazy in the bedroom. You could easily live by the code âmy present is my presenceâ and be a dazzling pillow princess. This isnât a bad thing, and it definitely doesnât have to be the case all the time! When youâre turned on, youâre turned on, but when youâre just casually engaging in sex, or are in a long-term commitment, you may feel like sex is something that is owed to you. Not in a weird entitled way, but more like a Queen sitting on a chaise lounge being fed grapesâ like, âduh, you should have sex with me, Iâm beautifulâ, type energy. This, if you havenât been able to guess already, can lead to a selfish attitude in the love-making department. You must remember that sometimes, your partner wants to be catered to as well. That being said, you wonât shy away from Valentineâs Day. You are the type to go all out! Youâll put on the lingerie. Youâll lay out the rose petals on the bed. Youâll pay extra for that honeymoon suite. OR, you will expect your partner to do all of this without you asking. You treat holidays and sex as if itâs a royal affair.
Due to your standards being so high, I cannot express to you enough that you may really put all your sexual energy into your creative pursuits until you find a lover of high-value and high sex drive. You love and somewhat need to feel desired in order to break down your walls. You donât play hard to getâ you ARE hard to get, so this may leave you with extended periods of non-sexual activities. You are more than willing to give up sexual pleasure for your own personal pursuitsâ in fact, you are more likely to do that if you have specific career goals.
You may be a tad bit surprised at my interpretation of Mars in Leo, perhaps you were assuming it would be a bit spicier, but I challenge you to look at your ruler, the Sun (yes, the actual burning ball of fire in the sky) . Not literallyâŚwell, you can, but make sure you wear sun-glasses. But in all seriousness, the Sun shines alone. The Sun is too hot to let anything near it, and it carries such a gravitational pull, that things simply orbit around it, but can never get too close. With Mars in Leo/5th House, you may find yourself in this position when it comes to your sexual nature. You attract a lot of people towards you, but they are unable to get too close, for fear they will burn up in your presence. Or, you shine so bright, you are forced to do it alone. Being the Sun and the center of the Universe is a hard job, but ultimately an isolating job. Your being, your creative gifts, your star power and the way you shine can cast such a shadow on those who dare come near you. It really can be one of the most challenging placements because you probably wonât understand why people canât/donât come near you. Again, youâre just soooo great, people can have an overwhelming and unrealistic ideal of what it will take to make you happy. Itâs a double-edged sword. On one hand, itâs flattering, but on the other hand, you can suffer from being put so high up on a pedal stool that you never asked for!
One tip for you, is to keep your hair beautiful and lushes! People will be attracted to your wild side and want to bring that out of you. You can either really love having your hair pulled or be turned off by it because you spend so much time making it look perfect. Either way, your hair may be an essential part of foreplay for you and something that suitors may find undeniably sexy.
As long as you are mindful to share the spotlight from time to time and not always prioritizing your needs & your desires, you can be a remarkably loyal partner. Fierce is the word that comes to mind and you can be very fierce in the bedroom. (When you want to be.) You can outshine any of the competition. Most people truly canât hold a candle to you when it comes to how committed you are in an intimate relationship. You are proud and you protect those that are around you and that you deem worthy. You have a royal air that surrounds you and it loudly and proudly screams `bow down bitches' when it's time to get down and dirty!
Mars in Cancer or Mars in the 4th House
âLet me kiss you hard in the pouring rain, you like your girls insaneâ Born to Die- Lana Del Rey
If you have Mars in Cancer or Mars in the 4th house, ironically, your sex language involves a knack of overwhelming emotional destruction. Dramatic, yes, yes, I know, but very true. Mars is VERY uncomfortable in the deep waters of Cancer/4H. Mars in the 4th House, in particular, is a naturally difficult placement because it sits in the House of happiness, as well as aspects the 7th House of partnership and the 11th House of friendshipâ making that native, uh, a little difficult to deal with. Why? Because your emotions can be so erratic and illogical, it can be difficult for people to understand what you want. Heck, you probably donât understand what you want most of the time. I promise Iâll get to the good stuff, but keep in mind that this Mars placement is in detriment! (Itâs exalted in Capricorn, the opposite sign.) So when it comes to your sexual language, you value such a deeply emotional commitment from your partner, you could constantly try to test them by pushing their emotional boundaries.
There is a mixture of pleasure and pain. You love an emotional outburstâ this can be good and sexy, or bad and scary. Emotionally bonding make-up sex, is your cup of teaâŚESPECIALLY if you are the one who caused the âbreak-upâ in the first place. You truly enjoy engaging with your partner in a loving way, when you can, but because Mars is so unstable here, it can be hard for you to maintain emotional consistency within long-term relationships. You can find that your passions wax and wane for your partner. Sometimes, you just want to run into their arms and kiss them in the pouring rain, other times, you want them to LEAVE YOU DAFUQ ALONE. This can be quite jarring to your intimate partners, but also to yourself. I recommend embracing this quality and being as honest as possible! Instead of literally creating a sh*t storm in order to be left alone, just communicate to your partner that you need a little space from time to time. But also be willing to give your partner that same courtesy and grace if they ask for the same.
You can feel a need to wrap yourself up in your partner's desires. It may come from a genuine place, but because Mars is an aggressive planet, you may be quite aggressive in how you demonstrate your love to your partner because your deepest desire is to be able to emotionally control them. This can manifest in an extremely emotionally manipulative way through passive aggressiveness and just causing overall uneasiness within your dynamics and partnerships. One of the lovely sides about this particular placement, is when you mature, you can have an extremely high emotional I.Q. Because you are naturally very sensitive to your surroundings, you can literally sense the emotional and physical needs of your partner without them having to say a word. You can be so emotionally intune with your lovers, it can feel like telepathy if they need anything from you. You just know, yâknow?
In the bedroom, you can go from one extreme to another. Sometimes you want to be dominant, and sometimes you want to be dominated. It is important for your lovers to be able to ride your waves and learn what is needed from them at any given moment. Again, Mars is all about conquest. So when Mars is in the 4H in particular, you want to be able to be the leader in your home, but you also want someone who can take the reins when necessary. Again, this can be a difficult balance to strike within your sexual relationships because people may not understand the method behind the madness, typically because there really isnât a methodâŚitâs just kind of madness AND THATâS OKAY!
Because Mars is so uncomfortable here, it is imperative for you to be able to channel your energy in creative ways or you can fall victim to your own emotional tirades. You want a clear line of communication with anyone you are interested with and they absolutely need to have some emotional intelligence or else they will drown in your water. You donât want to suffocate your lovers with so much emotional intensity, that you both are unable to remain somewhat grounded in the chaos. You of all people understand just how powerful emotions and sex can be together, so be careful to use it wisely!!! When done right, you can have anyone wrapped around your finger.
Mars in Gemini or Mars in the 3rd House
âTalk is cheap my darling, when youâre feeling right at home. I wanna make you move with confidence. I want to be with you aloneâ Talk is Cheap by Chet Faker
If you have Mars in Gemini or Mars in the 3rd House, then you are all about an intellectual connection when it comes to your sexual language. You want to catch viiibbbeezzz. You want to be razzle-dazzled with the lingo. You want someone hip, cool, in the knowâŚbecause, well, youâre hip, cool & in the know, yâknow? Itâs only fitting that your partner be the same. You, of all placements, may truly crave âyour other halfâ. And I know, I know, we live in a world now, where people are saying âyou are a whole person and youâre looking for another whole person yadayadayadaâŚâ, but youâre a TWIN. You want to be able to connect with someone as if you share the same brain, the same thoughts, the sameâŚeverything. This isnât to say that youâre not sexualâŚyou just enjoy mental jousting for foreplay. Think of how beautiful the dance between two evenly matched fencing partners isâ the ebb and flow of tension â playing both parts of the aggressor and the defenderâ gliding almost effortlessly with a weapon in hand. Itâs like the tangoâŚbut with swords. Thatâs how you envision your love. Beautiful art, yet dangerous. You may not be the most sensual lover at first, but in time you will certainly warm up. Why? Because at the very least, you are a curious partner! You. Want. To. Explore. You may be the type of lover to want to try almost anything once. You want to be surprised. You donât want your bedroom to be boring. You resent repetitiveness and you welcome new experiences. You may even fall into the âswitch my wig, make âem feel like he cheatingâ category. You like to switch up your look, your styleâŚsexual positions (lol). This can even translate into role play! (Especially teacher/student).
I cannot express to you enough how much learning from your partner turns you on. You love asking questions & consider getting to know someone a conquest. The more difficult the puzzle, the more you yearn to solve it and this type of stimulation oozes over into your sexual pleasure. Youâre curious to know what your loverâs love. You can have an objective perception of sex, because you arenât the most naturally emotional person, so you can look at the love making process as getting to know every nook and cranny of a partnerâs bodyâ learning what makes them tick & âickâ. You become more emotionally open with a partner, the more confident that you are that you know them. You like learning, but you donât like unpleasant surprises. This may be counter intuitive, but I find that after you go through your âlemme try any & everything eraâ, you will genuinely enjoy one partner. It will make you feel secure and like you have that missing piece in life. You donât come across as the most committal type, but when you do commit, you commit fr fr, you just need a certain level of freedom in life to continue to expand your horizons far past the mundane in life.
Another element you may add to your sexual reservoir isâŚâŚdrugs. âDONâT DO DRUGS, KIDS & STAY IN SCHOOLâ...alright, there is my disclaimer. Now back to what I was saying, you may be curious to try mind-expanding drugs & smex. Because you can be so cerebral, drugs like ecstacy can help you actually feel your body. The tingle will start from your subconscious mind, and venture into your conscious body, possibly making love-making a more pleasurable experience. If this doesnât interest you, donât worry, no pressure! Just making a note that this placement is more likely to think outside of the box when it comes to making their sex lives thrilling and exciting! Not saying that vanilla sex is boringâŚjust saying in general. You do you!
Overall, this is a curious placement. Itâs a fun placement, but it can be an extremely flighty placement in the beginning. Donât let your fear of getting stuck, stop you from finding a true partner that you can really see the world with. You can find that âother halfâ, that âtwin soulâ that really knows how to light a fire in you and warm your cold cold cold gemini heart. In your moments of passion, you will prefer to keep things fun and light. Only when someone truly captures your mind, can they capture your body and soul! SEXYYYYYY!!!!
Mars in Taurus or Mars in the 2nd House
âPeople stop to ask me, how do you please your man? Take it from the black sheep baby, any way I can. Sometimes itâs with fire and sometimes, with iceâŚJust donât get it twisted, his bodyâs gunna pay the price.â
- Rock My Boyâs Body by Joseph Stephens
If you have Mars in Taurus or Mars in the 2nd House your sexual language is about sensuality, sexuality, & seduction. You believe in making love an all encompassing experience and you will stop at nothing to make sure your partners have an all exclusive pass to your BO-DAY. IF it is earned. Because Taurus is naturally slow moving energy, you may be slow to open up. As Iâve studied astrology for years nowâŚIâve come to realize that Taurus energy is just as private and cautious and itâs opposite sign, Scorpio. If you have this placement, you feel the need to study your lovers and you wait and wait and wait and wait and wait before you make your move. But if you are able to wrap them in your warm embraceâŚyou wonât want to let go and they wonât want you to either.
Like Leo, when it comes to your sexual language, you believe in putting on a show. But your show is subtle, quaint and slow burning. You will have the candles burning, the scented lotion and fresh out the shower smell, you will have the most luxurious sheets on the most comfortable mattress. You donât believe in cutting corners when it comes to your comfort and whoever is lucky enough to wind up in your bed, simply gets to enjoy how you live your life. I could bet you have an impeccable taste in music and truly know how to set the tone when it comes to seduction. As stated before, you are able to create a world of pure pleasure for those you love and make them spell-bound to you, because chances are, they havenât been able to match with a sexual partner who cares so much about the details of ALL 6 senses. (Iâm including intuition because, yâknow, Iâm a tarot and an astrology girlie.) For example, I dated this guy with heavy taurus placements a few years ago. I very much remember and very much miss this awesome TV room that he made for himself. Instead of having a regular degular couch, he had a couch that was also a bed. It wasnât a couch that converted into a bedâŚ.it was just a couch that had a bed in itâŚand massive 70 inch television mounted on the wall. When I TELL you, I wanted to marry that man becauseâŚ.UGH!!! I was so comfortable! I could melt into the floor when I was with him. And I have YET to be with anyone who has a room set up quite like that. The feeling has stayed with me long after we have been together. THAT is what I mean by the power of Mars in Taurus. It lingers when youâre done!
On the other side, you of all signs, can be extremely jealous and possessive over your sexual partners. You DO NOT LIKE TO SHARE. AT. ALL. The 2nd House is all about owning and possessions and you may take this mindset with you into your romantic relationships. To the right person and in a healthy way, this can be enduring and make your partner feel safe and secure in your presence. In turn, you also want to know that your partner is crazy about you and cares deeply about your well-being. Again, in a healthy dynamic, a little jealousy and possessivness isnât bad. It can show that someone does have an interest in you and takes pride in the fact that they are able to claim you as their own. This is just something to be mindful of in this placement, because if underdeveloped, it can lead to issues of selfishness & strong resistance to allow your partnerâs freedom. Of course this can bleed over into the bedroom as well. You donât want to get so focused on your own comfort that you end up putting your partner into a routine that they no longer enjoy. Your favorite position may not be their favorite positive. It can feel like eating lobster every single day. Like, yeah, Lobster is great day 1, maybe even day 2, but by day 5âŚ.yuck. Depending on other placements in your chart, you may attract partners who are very much like you, in the sense they prefer routine, OR you may attract partners who are so wild and out of the box, it forces you out of your comfort zone. All I can do is say embrace whatever floats your boat.
There is no doubt that you are one of the most sexual, sensual and passionate lovers of the zodiac. Your innate knowledge of pleasure makes you an expert in the bedroom and you can be hard to beat. Although it may take you a while to warm up, either physically or emotionally, you eventually show your partners that it is absolutely worth the wait! Because you tend to be safe and secure in yourself (the 2nd house rules self esteem) you share that safety and extend your protection to those you love the most. Your sexual language is unforgettable. You know how to love someone head to toe! WOOOOO!!!
Mars in Aries or Mars in the 1st House
âDollhouse, dressed up, perfect messed up, Torture me to sleep, paint the air I breathe. Fishbowl, chokehold, dirty water, Iâm cold. Dirty as can be, have your way with me.â Dollhouse (with Lily Rose Depp) by The Weeknd
If you have Mars in Aries or Mars in the 1st House, your sexual language is intense & powerful. You have a way of pulling people into your orbit just by being your unapologetic self! The force is with you! Best believe! And people feel it. You get what you want and you want what you get and you have a way of luring in your prospective sexual partner by projecting your lust onto themâ so much so they feel it when they walk by you. Much like your sister, the Mars ruled Scorpio, there is a carnal desire that surrounds you. Itâs magnetic. Itâs magnificent. And itâs very fleeting.
When it comes to your bedroom pleasures, you can be a pioneer of the âWham! Bam! Thank you maâam orâŚsirâ (not as cute of a rhyme) mindset. You may have a habit of treating your lovers like conquestâ wanting to overpower them and wrap them up in your passionate fantasies. You deeply enjoy power play in your sex life. Yes, you could easily be the dominant one in your relationships, BUT you could also seek refuge in being submissive to your partner. How? I know it seems contradictory. But chances are, with this placement (unless itâs in a water sign in your first house) you are more than likely the boss and the leader in your everyday lifeâŚso when it comes to sex, you may want to just ârelaxâ and let your partner do all the hard work for once. If thatâs the case, you may be a bit of a brat in the bedroom because you still like to challenge your partner for shizz & giggles, but you are certainly fun and definitely unforgettable.
Your sex language is raw and real. You donât like to hold back your passion and you appreciate a partner who can match your enthusiasm in the bedroom. You love the runner chaser dynamic, and again, you can easily play both parts. You are strong and competitive and donât like to lose the interest of your lovers, even though you can get bored pretty easily. You may prefer quickies over long drawn up love sessions, but that doesnât mean you donât like to indulge your sinuses from time to timeâ youâre just not one of the most lovey dovey of the zodiac and prefer loud, wild, hot, steamy sex opposed to soft caresses and whispers of sweet nothings. You may also be a person who uses sexy time to advance a certain agenda. You could use sex as a tool of manipulation to get what you want. That may seem extreme, but think about a stripper using her sensuality as a means to make money so she can pay her way through law school. THATâS what I mean. Because you may not be so shy about your sex appeal, if used correctly, it can be your weapon of choice when it comes to getting what you want from someone.
Passion matters to you more than most. You would prefer a risky lover than a predictable one. You also may be a fan of the oleâ break up to make-up trope. Make-up sex is always better. And you donât mind starting a fight in the streets, simply to uhâŚyou knowâŚend itâŚ.in the sheetsâŚ..if you catch my drift. You arenât one for subtleties. You are probably one of the most straightforward and upfront people in the world and you may play shy, but once you allow a person to get to know you, you donât hold anything back. Because you are a cardinal energy, you always have a childlike flair to you! You keep things interesting and youthful. Youâre not afraid to cross boundaries and push the limits of yourself & your partner in the midst of a sexual act. You really may think that sex is something that can be âwonâ. You want to be the best. You want to be the one that lovers canât get enough of. You donât appreciate being compared to others and honestly hear partners talking about their past as if it was some sort of challenge. You definitely have a jealous and possessive streak, but like I always say, when this is a healed energy it can be enduring to the right partner. As long as itâs not obsessive and unhealthy, you can provide comfort to your lovers that you are there for them and only them. You expect loyalty in return, of course, but you donât mind protecting and defending what you see as your own. Your love is real. Your love is honest. Your love is young and wild and free!
Aqua mars are the true embodiment of "it's above me now". I've noticed most of them rarely if ever get angry or pissed off and even when they do, there's like no passion. My mother has this placement and almost nothing bothers her. They could also have some very weird kinks.
Sag mercuries speak too much and think they know everything. Very condescending, know it all energy. Doesn't matter whether they're right or not.
taurean women's romantic relationships tend to be noticeably unequal in some sort of way, usually physically, financially, or status/fame wise; also are the hallmark of loyalty, mired with struggle.
virgo sun, asc, and 10th house will produce a polished person. classic with a hint of sexy. they will not publicly twerk in a bikini or flash you their thong. virgos in general (sun, moon, asc) have no issue with plastic surgery. they won't talk about it because it breaks the illusion of their perfection.
I feel sorry for people who have Venus/Mercury/Mars in Scorpio and Moon in Capricorn. How does it feel to always walk around like you're constipated emotionally, verbally,physically and spiritually?
venus and mars in aries is pure xes, lust, and passion, it's tango. to chase and be chased is the answer to them.
Libras with Taurus rising are the definition of HOT. Double Venus is the best combo in terms of beauty.
Someone doesn't need to fall into your 5, 7 and 8h for you to be interested. They could also just aspect the rulers or contain that influence in their natal.
I find most Aries moons to have a very fighting spirit. Can be quite annoying sometimes.
Mercury conjunct Uranus : Mercury/Uranus aspects gives one who is intelligent/book smart yet the native may have issues with sleep. The mind is moving nonstop! Similar to mercury/mars aspects.
Sun square asc. What you see is not what you get.
Capricorn Mars women. Have an iron fist in a velvet glove demeanor about them. People donât take them seriously at first but eventually they outlast all the rest.
Taurus Venus men. Physical touch is their love language.
Venus sq Saturn women. They really love to stick with their man. Through thick and thin. For better or worse. No matter how degrading and embarrassing it is. They need to work on their self worth.
Pluto in the 12th - cult like following. Donald Trump, Taylor Swift, Ted Bundy, Tom Brady.
Saturn in hard aspect to MC - disliked by the public for no real reason, subjected to âcancel cultureâ
Cardinals are pimps.. they start things with no intentions in finishing them. In hopes to use people to finish it, That's why they constantly "networking"... it's to fund a lifestyle
Mars opposite Saturn is such a nasty placement to have because of the whole "timing" thing. It literally feels as if there's some outside forces working against you and stopping your motives and actions. I still have no idea how to work with this placement. It literally feels like bad luck.
When you, Person A, has one of your planets/asteroids conjunct Person B's 'Aura', and you we're asked to describe a trait about them, you will often describe or see Person B as your planet/asteroid that's conjunct it. You can use this situation vice versa to see how they view you as well
Look at what house your Aura or theirs is in to decipher what Aura is also possibly talking about! Ok? Okie
Aura in the houses
Whatever house your asteroid Aura sits in, in the other person's chart, shows what Aura they give off in your perspective. An example. My friends asteroid Aura (in her natal 2nd house) sits in my natal 12th house. She has told me before (we we're describing each other) that I'm mysterious, spiritual and artsy (some 12th house qualities) She said she never really knows much about me even if we are really close friends đđ. Hopefully the example helped I may suck at explaining things at times đ OH ALSO take into account signs of course!
Sun conjunct Aura
Positive outcome
If you met them or know them, you would describe them as sunny of course! A ball of light. They are really fun to be around. They may remind you of yourself at times. You may feel as though they are a soulmate or you were destined to cross paths. They have an energy of positivity and extrovertedness. They can come across as confident and a leader. They could possibly remind you of your dad. Can also remind you of a field of flowers under a rainbow and a theme park
Negative outcome
When you are with them you can think they have an inflated ego or get cocky at times. They could seem bossy and come off too strong. They can give off the undeveloped traits of your sun sign which may make you feel uncomfortable and like you aren't learning anything valuable from them. For some they may be into drama or be a player
Moon conjunct Aura
Positive outcome
The person comes off as emotionally developed. They have this nurturing quality of energy around them that just makes you feel safe. They are 'home' in a way. They may even remind you of your mother figure or just give off those feminine stereotypical vibes. Gentle. Could be very healing and seem like they have a knack for making people feel better. They can also come off as introverted. A calm and pleasing energy to be around. This person can remind you of blankets and a sanctuary
Negative outcome
Too emotional. Emotional imbalance. Can come off as manipulative. Someone who can seem like they are playing the victim too much or like they host a pity party. Someone who is clingy and dependant. Drains energy. Unstable energy. Undeveloped energies of your moon sign
Mercury conjunct Aura
Positive outcome
Chatty, may come off as an extroverted energy at times, you see this person as silly and someone you can have multiple topics of conversations with. This person may even remind you of a sibling or may just feel like they are one. You could see them as intelligent. I saw this in the chart of someone that was a school friend. For some this person may seem clean or hygenic in general. They may seem like they like animals and are observant. For a select few the person could love artistic things (sister sign to leo and libra/sun and venus). This person could remind you of fairs and nature
Negative outcome
The person comes across as gossipy or they may tell white lies from time to time. They can seem too talkative and annoying. Maybe they have a picky attitude about something too? Sibling problems. Could boast about their intellect. Could criticize small things a times. Unorganized. Coming across blunt. Opinionated.
Venus conjunct Aura
Positive outcome
Of course, you knew it was coming, for some of you, you may love this person a lot or have a crush on them âĄ. Besides the obvious, the person could come off as friendly to you. They are charming in the way they approach things in life (and most definitely the house these are placed in). They have a loving attitude. You see this person as artistic minded and maybe even someone who attracts admirers effortlessly. For some the person could seem like they are stable in life and have luxurious qualities about them. Maybe they are financially stable. They could have a beautiful voice or love to sing, cook, garden, draw, paint, play musical instruments, etc! They seem fair minded and understanding. Either way this person reminds you of an arts and crafts shop and candy
Negative outcome
Comes across as stubborn, too indulgent and sometimes lazy. May seem like a people-pleaser or a player at times too. Maybe they like to show off their artwork or money a lot too? Can seem unfair or illogical at times. Seems dependant, most likely on relationships or financial security. Takes things for granted. Could be an unhealthy foody. Being fake with a motive. Coming across as vain and insincere.
Mars conjunct Aura
Positive outcome
This person has a 'go-getter' energy about them that you just can't seem to shake. It's a very active vibe that can be felt physically or even with how they come across. For some they may be into competitive activities. They could look physically appealing and pretty, keeping up with how they look or appear to others. This is the person you can go to places for thrills. You may be sexually attracted to them (depending on the relationship and etc). They also could come across as straightforward at times. This person reminds you of a rollercoaster and parade
Negative outcome
The person comes off with an aggressive nature. Unemotional. May come across impatient. A risk taker without caution. Argumentative. Immature. Controlling. Sometimes selfish?
Jupiter conjunct Aura
Positive outcome
The person has an air of open-mindedness. You can see them as very open and maybe even a bit of joy in your life. The person brings you happiness and honestly you could feel like they just "get" you. You may feel like you can have all kinds of philosophical conversations with them. Talking about anything from the spiritual to the physical. This person expands something in your life revolving around the house your Jupiter is in. The person can seem very knowledgeable about random subjects in general and can be into many different cultural things. This person is definitely someone you'd enjoy spending time with and getting to know on a deeper level. They could even broaden your perspective at times. They are wise. Possibly a religious vibe from them too! They remind you of a museum and tea time!
Negative outcome
They could seem full of themselves. Maybe even too ambitious or over optimistic (in their head about everything or something? It all just depends on who it is xD). Over traditionalism or strictness in religious beliefs can be a theme. It may also just mean there's some over expansion wherever Jupiter is (Example - Jupiter conjunct Aura, Jupiter is in the 11th house, the Aura person could have too many friends that the Jupiter person can deal with // idk just something like that xD I've only seen this placement in 1 synastry relationship so far so I'm also adding things I'd assume can happen based on what I know! :)
Saturn conjunct Aura
Positive outcomes
You could view this person as having leader qualities. This placement may also remind you of your father figure (the sun can too). They can seem very hardworking and practical in general. This is the person you would want to be with for advice regarding the house saturns in. They may also help structure a healthy amount of restriction, again, regarding the house saturns in. They are someone who can be knowledgeable about certain things and is straight forward. I've often seen the saturn person respect them in some way. Good at managing! A stable and consistent person overall. They can remind you of a teacher and a modern aesthetic!
Negative outcome
They are too controlling. Overall stern and bossy. Serious and can be stubborn headed. They restrict your freedom wherever saturn is in the chart. Closed off and nit picky. The kill-joy of the room. On a good/harsh note! Can teach ya karmic lessons
Uranus conjunct Aura
Positive outcome
The person comes off as eccentric for sure. You could say they are your bizarre friend (in a good way!) They are a bit unusual to you but in a way that makes you intrigued. Sometimes you may not understand what to expect from them. There's also some form of "shock factor" element here? Like they may surprise you sometimes, whether it be opinions or things you didn't know about them or if you had previous assumptions about them then they may be contradicted later on. You will see this person as unique or different from the norm in general. Since this is the positive outcome, they may be rebellious in nature but in a good way. It's doesn't matter if this rebellion is radical and very unconventional, if they aren't harming anyone or anything then it's not considered bad in this aspect. They may love technology and be up-to-date with it. In fact you may view them as tech-savvy at times. I've also seen this aspect in a relationship where the Aura person was considered distant. Like they didn't want to open up to the Uranus person or they are just indifferent at times (for the relationship I saw, these 2 we're physically distant emotionally + physically but they were from the same family). You will see them as independent. They are a humanitarian and it's easy to see that they are into making the world a better place and more open. They remind you of an alien and a confetti popper!
Negative outcome
They can be too inconsistent to the point it may cause bad decisions. They may seem too rebellious or different in your eye (maybe they rebel against law or something that can get them in deep trouble) Depending on the relationship they can seem too distant and you could want to be closer. Different opinions and social beliefs can arise which may differentiate from yours (can cause clashes). Could be that they are addicted to technology which effects their health. All depends on the person :P
Neptune conjunct Aura
Positive outcome
You see them as dreamy. They are artsy and very imaginative. They can make you hopeful and often bring in some form of creative aspect into your life. I've noticed they can come off as calm and level-headed. You want to be near them just because they are a muse. Could definitely be a music junkie too! ⥠Being near them is healing and can bring out the inner you that you never knew about. They could be into meditation, asmr, ambience, anything calming. They could enjoy escapism (a healthy amount). Maybe they smoke, drink, do drugs? Doesn't matter but it's something that stands out but not in a worrisome way, it's kinda just like an observation really. A daydreamer. They are a passive type. They can also, just like Uranus, come off as distant sometimes but just because they have some form of an introverted nature or quality about them. Maybe they are into paranormal stuff and the hidden aspects of life. Quite spiritual. They can remind you of the darkness around a spotlight/fog amidst a forest and an art fair!
Negative outcome
They may be overall dependant on drugs (alcoholic/always high/takes many medications/smokes 24/7) they can be too caught up in their head, maybe even lazy or just too passive to everything. It can seem like an uncaring nature when things need to be taken more seriously. Maybe they're also very judgemental in the realms of art. Instead of healing they could be the opposite as well. The neptune person could see them as too spiritual when they need to be more grounded. Unrealistic. Too distant. Etc.
Pluto Conjunct Aura
Positive outcome
They have some sort of "shock factor" like Uranus. They have this powerful or heavy Aura about them that stand out. They could be into true crime and the occult. Maybe their appearance shows it too. You can see them as shadowy in a way, mysterious. Maybe you don't know as much as you want to about this person? Like there's some things beneath the surface. You can look but not touch. Also somewhat of a distant/reserved energy. They have dark qualities. Observant. Depending on the relationship, you can see them as a sexual magnet. Taboo qualities radiate from this person. It may seem forbidden to approach them almost. Some may be too frightened. An erotic touch is present. Very smart in handling finances. Stereotypically, it's kinda like when a goth meets a traditional person LMAO. Secretive. They remind you of
Negative outcome
You may feel suspicious of them. They may be too confusing. They could dabble in the dark arts of the occult. Maybe they are into more gruesome aspects of the dark that is frightening. Overlly controlling. (+18) Porn addict. Manipulative. They could bring out some darker traits in you to the surface which is uncomfortable. Gambles too much. Risky with finances/taxes/how they handle court cases, all that stuff!
Chiron conjunct Aura
Now this is a bit interesting. I've so far only seen this play out in a few people's charts where the Chiron individual has some empathy or compassion for the Aura person regarding the house that the Aura is in. However, it can definitely play in a way where it's the Chiron persons house that's receiving the empathy, I may have just not seen it yet personally. This is all normally because the Aura individual may radiate some form of loss or wound regarding the house their Aura is placed in, and if they don't radiate this at first, it could be that once the 2 people get to talking, the Chiron person finds out about the wound of the Aura person and it's generally a big part of the Auras identity that they would remember. For instance, here's an example. Let's say I have Chiron in the 3rd and someone's Aura is in their 2nd house conjunct my Chiron. Well, we can see here that somehow I find out about their financial issues and struggles and now I know so much that I often think of the struggle they go through regarding the 2nd house. You get what I mean? đđ hopefully I didn't over explain đ°
Juno conjunct Aura
Personally I've seen the Juno person literally describe the Aura person as marriage material (doesn't matter the gender or whom your into). The Juno person will always get this vibe of "Wow ____ would make a great mom/dad one day" or "____ has such motherly/fatherly qualities about them". The Aura person may also give off the impression that they are in love with the idea of love. I've seen this where the Aura person is focused on long term rather than short term. The Aura person will also give a very loyal energy off. Like the Juno person doesn't have to worry about the Aura person leaving because they don't seem to want to at all, or they just seem like they would never stab a back ya know?
Lilith conjunct Aura
Ahaha ok so this is an interesting placement. Now of course, as with everything I've seen with lilith on my personal observations, I will say you may notice the Aura person holding more darker qualities. Doesn't matter if you know them closely or not, they just seem to radiate a 'deep' energy. Whether it's positive or negative is a different story. The Aura persons energy can come off as "heavy" or "powerful" in a way. The lilith person would be the one to say "You know, you're quite a rebel" because that's the vibe the Aura person radiates. The Aura person can be into taboo things or just seem like they are. The Aura person looks like a caged bundle of unconventionalism just ready to break free at any moment. There can be something forbidden here, or maybe societally forbidden about the Aura person too. The Aura person can give off qualities relating to your lilith. Either way, I've noticed the lilith person is generally drawn to the Aura person by instinct and curiosity
Ceres conjunct Aura
The ceres person finds the Aura person as quite nurturing. The Ceres person may feel like they are safe to be themselves regarding the house their Ceres sits in. The Aura person can give off a motivating energy that can be quite healing for the Ceres person. Aura person has a comforting vibe
PoF conjunct Aura
I've only seen this in 1 synastry relationship so I'm sorry if this is short. Generally from what I saw the PoF may feel like the vibe the Aura person gives off is something they needed. It's like a space that's finally been filled in. The PoF is where we find our fortune of course. With another persons Aura conjunct your PoF you will feel lucky around them, lucky to have met them.
North Node conjunct Aura
The Aura person has qualities about them that may unintentionally make the NN person uncomfortable. This is because our NN points to where our soul aspires to be. It's what we need to grow into. Someone's Aura conjunct your NN shows they may have or show the traits that your NN has. This can be a helpful experience for NN person as it can potentially allow growth ^ The Aura person may be seen as progressive too!
Generally people can have different views of us. A best friend may see us as spontaneous and a joy while a coworker can see you as reserved and hardworking. Asteroid Aura is just this. The energy you honestly give to the person. Each person. I'm sure everyone gets a taste of your ascendant upon first impressions or even by your style that trails onward into the connection. But Aura is energy that the person sees you encompass (from their perspective) over time!
Aura In The Other Person's 12th House
Having your Aura overlapsing the other person's 12th house I have come to understand can also indicate you finding them confusing. It doesn't have to be mysterious or anything like that. This placement can turn from "yeah I think they're mystical and spiritual" into "Idk they aren't really like that, I just don't really understand them. Idk how I'd describe them in words"
(Also @passionanddarkness I'll answer your question here since I went ahead and added these extra notes đ) â ď¸
Aura Conjunct Ascendant (Natal + Synastry)
In the natal, this placement can show your energy encompassing the true nature of your ascendant. People may describe you as your rising, sure! But when asteroid Aura is involved and conjunct, this 1st impression of you that many get is generally speaking, true! "What people see is what people get" placement. A random example of putting this, let's say a man has a Scorpio Rising. He may have people always say "oh he's reserved for sure, he tends to wear neutral or dark colored clothes too. Blah blah blah" Well yes, but now that he has Aura conjunct this ascendant, he also actually enjoys different styles (transforming his look often), maybe he even does some dark makeup or paints his nails dark colors. He honestly probably enjoys occult related subjects, true crime, etc. He feeds his own ascendant.
In the first house Aura will show a more outward approach. It will be blunt and straight to the point. This placement reminds me of a fish jumping out of the water. You see all it's beautiful colors and it's dance in the air. The way it twirls before it makes it's exit back into the water. A noticable quality about people meeting you, will align with your ascendant + a lil more (Aura). In the 12th house, Aura can take on a more undertone feel. Sure, it's noticable, but under the water. Again like the fish example before, this will be an instance where you are standing in a body of water, you see a beautiful fish gently swimming around your legs, however like usual, the waters surface is always moving from distant river currents. You may see the fish somewhat but they look wobbly because the surface of the water keeps moving. This placement tends to show the person also having hidden qualities that align with the ascendants true nature + they give off a confusing energy too. Some may tilt their heads thinking they know you when they really didn't
In Synastry, I've seen this play out where the Aura person sees the Ascendant person as the ascendant of that person. Pretty straightforward, yeah? Also this can show the ascendant person being similar to the aura persons approach in some way and vice versa. After all, this is your aura next to their own ascendant. You will feel like you guys may ride the same boat sometimes or have a similar approach even if it's not the same totally (a road full of pink roses vs a road full of black ones may have a difference in color, however they are both roads full of roses // same if both roads had different things. One is filled with blue butterflies while the other is filled with blue mushrooms. Different things yet the same color). Both people may find themselves agreeing on random stuff. I don't know what else to add because I've seen it play out how you think it would :)
His orbit period roughly 50.5 years, spending anywhere from 1.5 to 8.5 years, averaging 5 years in a sign.
He was the 1st centaur discovered, originally dubbed the 10th planet, in 1977, though there is documentation of the centaur dating back to 1895.
It would be over a decade before new centaurs were discovered and classified as such. This classifications of planetoids led to the demotion of Pluto.
Chiron in Mythology
He was not the average centaur. He is the only centaur not born of titan Centaurus and nymph Nephele. His parentage is of titan Cronus and oceanid Philyra, from whom he got his immortality and who also abandoned him because of his strange physique, creating his first wound.
Also unlike other centaurs, his entire front half was human rather than just the top half and he abstained from alcohol. He also didnât worship Dionysus like the other centaurs.
He is credited for the discovery of botany and pharmacy, thus his association with Virgo and Sagittarius.
He was close to several divine entities. His gentle nature is attributed to learning from Apollo and Artemis. While the other centaurs worshipped Dionysus as their patron god, he was buddies with him and even taught him some dance moves. This adds to the Sagittarian side of him. Chiron was a mentor to many heroes, including Hercules, while his wife Chariklo was their mother figure.
In a battle between a band of centaurs led by Nessus and Hercules over the wine that Pholus guarded, Chiron was wounded by one of the arrows Hercules had dipped in the poisonous blood of Hydra. This is where he became the wounded healer, as he could fix any ailment but could never figure out how to rid himself of the poisoning. To end his eternal suffering, he sacrificed himself for one of Herculesâs tasks, dying so that Prometheus could be freed. He promised that, so long as a hero needed training, he would be there, as Zeus put him in the sky as a constellation.
Chiron in Astrology
He is often considered to co-rule Virgo and Sagittarius, with his loving devotion to helping others and expanding knowledge. It is your sacrifice, where you cannot help yourself but all others with all the coping and healing mechanisms that have failed on you.
His orbit falls between Saturn and Uranus. This leads to problems with boundaries- both forming them and withholding them, each without interfering with oneâs humanitarian ideals and actions.
Chiron in a chart points to an individualâs ultimate self-sacrifice. He was a well rounded scholar and healer, though rendered helpless in his own cause. This is where one can help others proficiently, though one cannot work things out for themself. This is where one works tirelessly to fix themselves and still wake up the next morning to find their efforts have been in vain. Because of this, one has many coping and healing mechanisms to share with others.
The sign of oneâs Chiron will show how one hurts the most and the type of pain they endure. The house he is in will show the area of life that is most afflicted. In synastry, this lends much sympathy and in transit, he shows how and where one is licking fresh wounds.
These were just for me, but I figured Iâd share them with the class since you never know when they can be helpful. Take gender indications lightly - feel out what resonates with you and donât mind the labels as much. The terms are for convenience. As always, I recommend checking both western and vedic placements. My disclaimer is in my bio.
đ 2nd House overlays are the gift-giving overlays, especially the moon. Aâs Moon in Bâs 2nd house will make Bâs gifts tailored to A perfectly, B understands what makes A who they are and how to make them feel seen, and Aâs gifts to B will be chosen with great care and attention, and full of sentimental value.
đ˛ Pholus in the houses indicates where youâre likely to âdiscoverâ each other - or where youâre likely to âclickâ. Aâs Pholus in Bâs 11th house signifies A finding B in a community setting, a gathering of some sort. Aâs Pholus in Bâs 8th house might mean B is in the wake of a trauma when their relationship starts.
đŻ Platonic 5th House overlays are all about connecting through shared hobbies and interests, or it might be a child that brings you together. The experience of joy and self expression are central in the dynamic - with malefic placements, this turns restrictive.
đŻ Non-platonic 5th House overlays are immediately sexual - an overlay that can jumpstart one night stands. This doesnât mean 5th House overlays arenât for long term relationships - itâs a solid overlay for couples that want to start a family.
đ¤ Mutual house overlays are the pinnacle of game recognize game, especially if the planet is in their native house. Iâve got a friend with whom I share mutual Moon in 4th overlays and itâs honestly shocking how quickly we were able to get a read on each other and become comfortable with vulnerable topics.
đ Moon in 4th overlays can be insanely magnetic and deeply comforting, especially for those with troubled pasts. The moon person makes the house person nostalgic and the house person inspires and validates the moon person.
đ However, the moon person treats the house person as a sanctuary rather than an equal, and may take them for granted, and the house person is quick to unfairly lump the moon person in with whatever hurts the house person has suffered in the past.
đ Moon-4th is also an overlay youâll often see in synastry charts with artists and creators whose stories resonate with you. (Listen, I just love this placement, okay?)
đ There are similar effects when the moon is substituted with the 4th lord.
đŠâđ§ Motherâs moon in daughterâs 10th house = mommy issues placement. Motherâs nurturing is expressed as discipline and daughter allows mother to dictate her potential.
đ¨âđ§ Fatherâs moon in daughterâs 10th house = daddyâs girl placement. Father sees potential in daughter, but provides a safe sanctuary within the realm of ambition.
đ¨âđŠâđ§ Both give that I support you in your endeavors energy, but the effects of the 10th house on the motherâs moon, which is already maternally aligned, are more obvious and jarring, whereas the fatherâs 10th house, being intrinsically paternal, gets notably softer with a lunar resident.
đł Asteroid Lacks [359426] in a natal chart indicates where we risk never feeling satisfied, whether due to resignation and giving up, or due to our standards constantly changing or raising. In a synastry chart Lacks can symbolize where we never feel like weâre getting enough from them.
đł Aâs Lacks in Bâs 11th indicates feeling a lack of mutual understanding and friendship, but it may also mean A sees B as lacking social awareness, or even as being unambitious. Aâs Lacks in Bâs 8th implies that A feels Bâs absence intimately - this might mean A finds B to be too surface-level, or self-involved, or it might mean A feels that B is never around for the âhard timesâ.
âď¸ Asteroid Split [12512] can reveal where either subject thinks a relationship went wrong, or how it ended. A good object to check for estranged family, friends youâve lost touch with, and yeah, exes, especially divorces.
âď¸ For example, Aâs Split in Bâs 9th might mean that the two lose touch when one of them moves away - particularly that A sees the relocation as the bellâs toll for their relationship. It could also signify A pulling away due to Bâs faith or lack thereof. Iâve seen more than one 9th House Split overlays for couples and friends who lost touch during college.
Most of these are pretty basic but itâs worth having them written down. Feel free to ask if you need clarification, or speak up if you think something deserves to be expanded on. If you disagree, totally cool to discuss as well.
Eros (433) is an asteroid that represents passionate desire and sexual attraction.
Eros in Aries: Are attracted to partners who are bold, confident, and assertive. They enjoy the thrill of the chase and may be drawn to partners who are equally passionate and competitive.
Eros in Taurus: Taurus is a sign associated with sensuality and physical pleasure, so people with Eros in Taurus may be attracted to partners who are physically attractive and who appreciate the finer things in life. They enjoy indulging in luxury and may value stability and security in relationships.
Eros in Gemini: Gemini is a sign associated with communication and curiosity, so people with Eros in Gemini are attracted to partners who are intellectually stimulating and who can engage them in deep conversations and debates. They may also enjoy exploring different aspects of their sexuality and may value variety in relationships.
Eros in Cancer: Are attracted to partners who are emotionally sensitive and nurturing. They value the intimacy and emotional connection that can come with physical intimacy, and may enjoy creating a safe and nurturing home environment.
Eros in Leo: Leo is a sign associated with passion and drama, so individuals with Eros in Leo are attracted to partners who are confident, passionate, and charismatic. They enjoy being the center of attention and may value creativity and self-expression in relationships.
Eros in Virgo: Virgo is a sign associated with practicality and attention to detail, people with Eros in Virgo are attracted to partners who are organized, efficient, and detail-oriented. They may also value cleanliness and hygiene in relationships.
Eros in Libra: Libra is a sign associated with harmony and balance, so people with Eros in Libra are attracted to partners who are charming, romantic, and aesthetically pleasing. They value the art of seduction and may enjoy creating a beautiful and harmonious home environment.
Eros in Scorpio: Scorpio is a sign associated with intensity and transformation, people with Eros in Scorpio are attracted to partners who are deeply emotional and transformative. They enjoy exploring the depths of their own desires and may be drawn to partners who can challenge and push them to grow.
Eros in Sagittarius: Sagittarius is a sign associated with adventure and exploration, people with Eros in Sagittarius are attracted to partners who are adventurous and free-spirited. They value independence and may enjoy exploring different cultures and philosophies with their partners.
Eros in Capricorn: Capricorn is a sign associated with ambition and discipline, people with Eros in Capricorn may be attracted to partners who are hardworking, responsible, and goal-oriented. They also value stability and may be drawn to partners who share their values and work ethic.
Eros in Aquarius: Aquarius is a sign associated with innovation and independence, people with Eros in Aquarius may be attracted to partners who are unconventional and forward-thinking. They value intellectual stimulation and may enjoy exploring different ideas and perspectives with their partners.
Eros in Pisces: Pisces is a sign associated with empathy and intuition, people with Eros in Pisces are attracted to partners who are deeply emotional and sensitive. They value spiritual connection and may enjoy exploring the mystical and spiritual aspects of physical intimacy.
Eros (433) represents passionate desire and sexual attraction. The placement of Eros in the different houses of a natal chart can provide insight into how an individual experiences and expresses their sexual desires.Â
Eros in the 1st House: Are very physical and expressive in their sexuality. They have a strong sense of self and confidence, and may be attracted to partners who are equally confident and assertive.
Eros in the 2nd House: Value physical pleasure and theyâre attracted to partners who can provide them with material comfort and security. They may also be very sensual and may enjoy indulging in the finer things in life.
Eros in the 3rd House: Are attracted to partners who can engage them in stimulating conversations and debates. They may also be very curious and may enjoy exploring different aspects of their sexuality.
Eros in the 4th House: Value emotional connection and may be attracted to partners who can provide them with a sense of emotional security and nurturing. They may also enjoy creating a cozy and comfortable home environment.
Eros in the 5th House: Enjoy playful and creative expressions of sexuality. They may be attracted to partners who are confident and outgoing, and who enjoy expressing themselves through art, music, or dance.
Eros in the 6th House: Approach sexuality with a sense of duty and responsibility. They may be attracted to partners who are reliable and responsible, and who share their values of hard work and discipline.
Eros in the 7th House: Value harmony and balance in their relationships. They may be attracted to partners who are charming and romantic, and who can provide them with a sense of partnership and balance.
Eros in the 8th House: Are deeply intense and passionate in their sexual desires. They may be attracted to partners who can challenge and push them to explore the depths of their own desires and fantasies.
Eros in the 9th House: Are attracted to partners who share their sense of adventure and exploration. They may value intellectual stimulation and may be drawn to partners who can engage them in philosophical or spiritual discussions.
Eros in the 10th House: Approach sexuality with a sense of ambition and responsibility. They may be attracted to partners who are successful and driven, and who share their values of hard work and success.
Eros in the 11th House: Value friendship and community in their relationships. They may be attracted to partners who share their interests and passions, and who can provide them with a sense of belonging and connection.
Eros in the 12th House: Approach sexuality with a sense of spirituality and intuition. They may be attracted to partners who share their interest in mysticism and the subconscious mind. They may also value emotional connection and may be drawn to partners who can provide them with a sense of emotional healing and transcendence.
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