Elegant & Spoiled Babe😈

[elegantsb]

what should i do to have more interesting conversations with men? what should i develops opinions on?

Higher education is key. Develop yourself and your knowledge and you will have more in common with intellectual men :) love, elegantsb

[one-and-only-beauty]

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[elegantsb]

where is this? 

[elegantsb]

i wanna be an online platonic sb. how do i get started? I tried sa for alittle but that went no where. thank you!

Definitely wouldnt do SA as first choice! I’ve written a couple of posts about the theme already xx let me know if you wonder about something 

love, elegantsb

[elegantsb]

how do i talk with the men? i'm really bad at not just only carrying on a conversation, but also individual words and how to phrase things. please help

Everyone is a child in the beginning. Just start small, socialize with everyone including men, and the more you do it the more experience and confidence you will have.

Goodluck! x

[elegantsb]

hi, i want to message you about platonic sugaring, but my blog is in a somewhat hated community (not ed). what communities do you not condone?

Just message me what is on your mind :) 

Sidenote: I dont know your blog but if youre in a destructive cycle regardless of your community It isnt a good idea to bond with other likeminded people om tumblr etc. Take care xx

#sugar advice #sugar baby #platonic baby #Sugaring 

[elegantsb]

i know sa gone to shit, and i don't really want to use a vanilla app. what should I do?

Freestyle :) All places, all ages, you never know who your platonic daddy will be ;) 

[elegantsb]

I am talking to this guy and so far we have kept it pretty vanilla without sex convo or nudes (he lives in another state btw) but he is slowly mentioning more sexual convos and slightly asking/teasing about nudes or pics. is there any advice on how to keep it platonic or is this not possible. If not possible should I send him fake nudes or just keep it as is. I haven't worked any benefits out of him yet but the relationship is still fresh.

If he’s asking for nudes he’s definitely isnt the type of man you want to pursue a platonic relationship with! 

#sugar advice #sugar bowl #platonic

[elegantsb]

i want to be a platonic sb. but im 17 and i dont want to run into creeps. how would you advise against that? what if they want s*x in the future? do i stop texting him and start looking for a new platonic sd? p.s im turning 18 july

How this question is formulated makes me worried. I think you should wait couple of years and enjoy your teenage years, before considerig starting sugaring . I dont mean to be discouraging in a negative sense but I 100% mean well . This is best both for your mental and physical health ! Best wishes

#sugar baby advice #platonic sugar #sugar baby #sugar bowl #sb

[elegantsb]

Hello i stumbled upon your blog after I started trying to sugar baby and i loved your advice!! Will it be okay for me to message you privately more about platonic relationships and how to initiate money??

Definitely, everyone is welcome to message me privately of course if you dont want to share to all others :) x the point of public asks is that other people can also learn :) love #sb #sugar baby advice #sugar bowl #platonic

[elegantsb]

I just want to say I appreciate your posts about platonic sugaring SO much, because as someone who is asexual, I definitely could not see myself doing anything sexual for any reason, so this helps a lot! 🤗

Thank you love , wish you the best ! #sugaring

[elegantsb]

Platonic Sugar Baby Guide Step 2

There are several achetypes of men who are fit to become your platonic daddy. These are my experience:  

The rejected/low status man:

Typical traits include an eagerness to be accepted. Usually has almost no boundaries and can easily be manipulated and be pushed over. Naive + poor social competence. It is possible to use the ‘I’m a virgin’ approach. Shower this man with your presence and reliability to sustain a platonic relationship.

The low sexdrive man:

Very uncommon. Low testosterone levels indicate low sex drive. Look for men with feminine features such as a weak jaw/chin, breast tissue, low muscle mass etc. Least to say these men do not aggressively search for women to fuck so you probably wont find one of these on a website.

The submissive man:

Various cultures & family dynamics have different standards how men should be. 

Example: When asking a man about his family, It is good if his mother is dominant, then he have learnt to look up to a woman, and will continue doing so. It is very important that the mother is a good person, so It will mean the man probably also takes after. An evil person only wants to use you for his own good. 

For instance, my first platonic daddy which I had for 2.5 years had a mother that was head of the whole family, but her work was being a caretaker of special needs children. Summary: powerful, but also had empathy and treated me wonderfully! My platonic daddy spoiled me as a princess and respected my integrity so much we never had sex! 

Archetypes to avoid 

The fucked up man:

Umberella term for all kinds of troubles; drug abuse, mental illness, pathologic lying, sex addicts, serial cheaters etc. Usually this man’s views of relationships is so fucked up that he cant combine love and sex, that’s why he might fall into the platonic daddy category. This type will bring you down if you let these kinds of people influence your thinking. Avoid the unhappy and unlucky. 

Btw, this list is in no way completed. I’d like my fellow babies to share your types of men that are compatible, and which types to avoid ! <3 lets spread the knowledge! 

love, elegantsb

[elegantsb]

Platonic Sugar Saby Guide - Step 1

First of all - platonic sugaring is different from regular sugaring. Number one rule is to never do anything physical with a man if you want to be a platonic baby.

Preparing your mental state: make sure you have time, energy and the right abilities to find platonic daddies. 

Platonic sugaring is very hard to find, and that is why you can not be aggressive when searching for a platonic daddy. Since being a platonic baby means offering friendship, and the development of that bond should be natural and not forced. You need to posess enough emotional intelligence to be able to maneuver successfully in a such relationship. 

If you are not there yet, you need to build yourself first! Read lots of psychology from renowned sources. Topics to study for instance: social psychology, behavioral psychology, cognitive psychology etc.. There are great reads just one klick away, but my personal faves are:

48 laws of power

Freakonomics 

Thinking fast & slow (long book - but I consider every adult should have this book at home)

To get real value of these books you need to apply them - otherwise you’re just wasting mental time. You have to go out in the real world and learn from trial and error. Best way to do this is to constantly socialize with emphasis on different circles of people! You never know who will be your new platonic daddy;) 

Next post will be the next step - how to find a platonic daddy. 

Love, elegantsb xoxo

[elegantsb]

Are you just platonic with SD’s or platonic with your bf too?

No my relationship is not platonic, me and my bf live together :)

[elegantsb]

What is the difference between you and a regular sb?

Well, I’m currently a spoiled girlfriend right now, but before that I was a platonic sugar baby, which means I talk and socialized with men online and in real life for money, trips and gifts without being involved with them in a sexual way :) 

[elegantsb]

hey, i just read your tips for online platonic sugar relationships, and i'm wondering, what do you mean with gifts? they bought things from your amazon wish list for you? because I'm interested but I need money for the rent instead of gifts or things like that

Platonic, no meet and money in account - seems to good to be true? I’d recommend getting an online friendship and get the man involved emotionally in you over the internet. But that is of course a lot of time and you never know what payoff you will get. Maybe you should spread your net wide and try different approaches and see what works for you! love, elegantsb

[elegantsb]

Sugar Baby Beauty Tips Pt. 2

When it comes to makeup- less is more. If youre spending a whole day with daddy it is bound for your makeup to come off, and if you’re wearing tons of it - inevitable it is going to look like a mess. The basics: waterproof mascara, long wearing foundation, anastasia dipbrow(waterproof also) for brows, and some contouring should be enough. (Lip and eyeliner if needed). Wearing tons of makeup give out the vibe that you are trying too hard. On the other hand; if you don’t wear as much, daddy will have to take you out and buy new makeup for you to try out ;) 

I personally think all body creams are scams, I only use pure almond oil on my body.  Costs only 5euro for 100ml. Saving money and avoid using lots of unknown ingredients directly onto my body - winwin! 

There is a list of all oils and their comedogenic score, if you have trouble with acne, you should preferably use a low comedogenic oil.

Always try to squeeze in extra activities during everyday activities. Walk, bike, take stairs instead of taxi, puclic transportation, elevator. Small changes will add up over time and you will stay in shape. And more strength in the legs, means you can walk in your loubs longer ;)

Ofc it depends on where you live, but you get the point:) Cabs and cars are for when hanging out with daddy. 

ps. looking for fellow spoiled girlfriends to follow  xx 

[elegantsb]

despite knowing my age, citing my 'charisma' and 'maturity' as the reason for their financial support of the things I want (such as clothes, a phone, or money) though in small increments such as $75 twice a week or $100 weekly. I don't think I have enough skills in person though, such as cooking/cleaning/playing instruments. I'm a good conversationalist (i believe) and etc. What do you think? Furthermore, if it'd be okay, could I send you a message personally and possibly become friends /mentor?

Accidentally deleted your 1st comment, but you discuss what you offer in exchange for money, but most often the platonic daddies are driven by purely emotion. You need to find what part of him is most vunerable and associate yourself to that part of him. Love u x! Btw I’m making a big post about platonic sugaring!!!!