hey i saw ur sister say u got a stalker… u alright??
Yes, I did have a stalker, and possibly still do, but I’m alright now. I made a well-documented callout post about her fixation with me, and the baiting, the trolling, the hate‑mongering, and the way she kept putting a target on my back in comment sections that had absolutely nothing to do with me. My original callout covered a whole span of her behavior throughout October 2025.
And the important thing is this: I didn’t even know the stalking was happening until a friend warned me about it. I never met her. I never interacted with her. Not once.
She developed a really scary anti‑parasocial relationship/obsession with me just because I have mostly crossover ships, “hardly any canon ones,” and make moodboards and manips/edits, which she considered as “borderline copyright infringement,” “not real art,” “off‑putting,” and “shoddy.” She also inserted herself into a completely different controversy where I called out another user for their years of abuse and bullying. Not even the victims of that user or anyone I knew had any idea who my stalker was.
After she block‑evaded me yet again, she found the callout post I made about her. That’s when she snapped and block‑evaded me harder just to keep harassing me. She monitored my online activity intensely, and dog‑piled me with harassment posts, memes, and meltdowns nonstop for two and a half months, which took a real toll on my mental and emotional health. She also harassed my friends and others, and she had a history of harassing/stalking another user two years earlier, proving this wasn’t a new behavior or pattern. Eventually, her account was deactivated, and my friends and I finally got some peace.
Sadly, this answer doesn’t even cover the full magnitude of what my stalker did or what it did to me and my friend. I have a fully polished Google document with everything laid out, but I don’t think I’m ready to share it or talk about it in detail right now. I’m still trying to heal from the narcissistic abuse I went through, the mental and emotional trauma it caused, and the way it affected my sense of self and safety online.
And if she ever decides to come back again, little does she know that by harassing me and escalating things so relentlessly, she ended up giving me a mountain of evidence that meets the legal criteria for cyberbullying and cyberstalking. I will take action if I have to, because she repeatedly violated my boundaries even after I politely asked her to stop and even offered her a peace offering.
The California law (Penal Code §646.9 + §653.2) defines cyberstalking and cyber harassment as:
Repeated, unwanted contact
Repeated Emails, Posts, Comments, and Mentions Targeting the Victim
False accusations of serious crimes or deviant acts
Monitoring someone’s online activity
Harassment that causes fear, distress, or emotional harm
Using electronic communication to intimidate or torment
She did ALL of that and above. Everything she did is documented, and I have screenshot evidence of dates/times from my friends and myself.
