Leila: Parent, as in singular. And no, I didn't. I thought the door was locked. My Estrogen levels were probably off the charts, it didn't leave much space for sound judgment.
Leila: This is a pointless argument, it won't change a thing. I like the way I speak, otherwise I wouldn't be speaking the way I speak.
Leila: Is that a movie quote?
Leila: I didn't mean to imply he's the great love of your life, I was merely stating that romantic ties usually don't make sense. Scientifically speaking the three stages are lust, attraction and attachment and all three come with their own refined pattern of abundant hormones and chemical reactions. Love messes with your head and you have virtually no say in it, these are automatic reactions and they either happen or they don't.
Leila: It's the reason why I think it's foolish to try and force it out of people, regardless of their own personal background. But most of all, I'd like to think I've come to know you a little and I wish nothing but the best for you. I doubt this law qualifies as such... So really, do what makes you happy but be smart about it and the very least /try/ not to hurt others in the process. It's about as decent as any of us can get, given the situation.
Leila: Hey don't turn the blowjob against me, that has little to do with romantic feelings. Besides, you're making it sound like I'm this monster who's throwing him away because he doesn't fulfill some glorified image of the perfect suitor. There's nothing /wrong/ with him, he's not broken, we all have our issues to work past and I'd never judge him for that!
Elena: Okay wow, yeah damage is already done anyways. Hope his mother can still look you in the eye.
Elena: I love the way you speak, just not about people's private parts. Sounds like a science project.
Elena: No It's an Elena Park quote 2017.
Elena: That's definitely the not romantic way to describe it, but a very good explanation of why a lot of people are in this kind of situation and it did happen and I either enjoy it or avoid it and I have chosen the first.
Elena: Awh that's so sweet of you to say! And it did work on some people you know, the whole forcing thing. My brother ended up falling in love with his wife anyways and already knocked her up. One of my good friends seemed pretty happy with his law husband, so there's like what a 50% gamble on this? I'm just not part of the 50% that thinks this is the perfect situation for herself.
Elena: I'm just processing what you're saying and trying to figure out what the deal is here and not romantic? Yeah okay that stuff can happen too, but isn't that like a kind of rude to do? Don't lead him on if you're so sure about him not needing a relationship because it will not help with his recovery? Like sex will complicate it and go against every word that came out of your mouth. Can't have cake and eat it too, boss.