// Mentions of abuse and toxic relationship.
It's in the past now alright, I'm not gonna sit here and force my opinions about who is right and who is wrong on you guys. I will be honest, I literally don't even care about what anybody thinks about that build boy, I have very much been neutral about him from the beginning, no shade but he had nothing to offer, bible carried their ship. But, I do not enjoy reading tweets about people being happy while seeing someone at his lowest, and neither do I enjoy seeing edits being made about literally a shit human being. Basically, I don't fuck with any of yall. I have never wished for anyone's downfall, I enjoyed him being around with the whole cast while it lasted, but this whole situation is consequences of his own actions.
It is not anybody else's fault but his. No matter how hard you try to deny it, or blame it on someone else, BOC "mismanaging" him or KP writers being horrible people (oh, which they very much are) have nothing to do with the way he himself, as a grown adult, lived his life for 4 past years.
You saw the texts with your own eyes, the evidence is right there. The way he arrogantly talks, shamelessly asks for money, uses a woman and her feelings for personal gain, laughs it off when the girl mentions her bruised body, tries to change the subject instead of at least apologizing or acting like he feels bad.
Yes, what actually happened between them, how it went down, how much of what they both said are true, will be decided in court. However, none of the things I mentioned above, are things the version of Build that you have created in your head, would do.
Because he is not real, it's you making shit up and hoping the person you reprogrammed in your mind will act exactly the way you want them to. You are angry that it's not true, but you find it hard to blame it on him, because you already manipulated yourself into believing your own lies about him.
You are not mad at the author for lying, she clearly isn't, you are mad that she came out and exposed Build, she ruined his perfect image for you. You wish she would just shut up, you wish she would just watch Build live his life, being loved and adored, after being used and abused by him. Now you have to sit there, desperate to find anyone or anything that will make him look less of a bad guy:
Constantly bringing up authors behavior towards the cast, like that somehow justifies any of Build's actions. Two people can be horrible at the same time, maybe that's exactly how they connected.
Bringing up his other ex-girlfriend, saying "oh but he didn't do any of that to that other girl." That's not how life works, that's not how anything works.
Dragging BOC and Pond into this, like this man wasn't begging yall 2 days ago to give him a chance and listen to the last thing he had to say on that live, risking the reputation of his company. Like he didn't forgive him his past scandal literally a couple weeks ago. Like he would let this one guy let everything he and the cast worked for, go down the drain.
Closing eyes on the whole conversation, where Build's actual personality is showing, and only focusing on pinterest pictures she posted on her INSTAGRAM STORY, outside of twitter thread exposing build.
Feeling bad for him, after he deleted all his social media, as if he didn't do it AFTER he got called out for trying to shame her and make her look as if she was crazy for being mad at him. + Accidentally including his own text, proving that it was indeed him in her screenshots.
Mentioning Bible & Build, and how the main couple, whose names are literally the title of the show, are getting booked more frequently than a side couple. Like as if, that's what your buildy was sad about and decided to act like an idiot.
Saying timing is suspicious, no it's not? She kept trying to talk to him, he kept ignoring her, she got fed up, was hurt, and went on a rant. Like if y'all would want your abuser to live his dreams and have his own show.
I understand that he was your safe place, but you also have to understand that "he" wasn't real. None of these men are pure, fragile babies that need to be protected. You are coming out here shaming a woman for daring to speak out, making edits praising her toxic ex-boyfriend, feeling bad for him, blaming everyone but him. Please, be for fucking real.
Let him go, let him be, let him take care of his shit, it has nothing to do with you. It's not you and him against the world, he has no idea that you're sitting there trying to trend a hashtag for him like it's gonna take you back in time and let u raise him into a better human being.
There is no coming back from this, even if it somehow gets confirmed that bruises weren't created by him (even tho his texts and reactions say otherwise), his pure boy image has already been shattered by just his shit personality.
Nothing can save him from being disliked by people with common sense, it's just you and your little bubble of people with no education about real life, unhealthy relationships with outside world, and chronically online people.
I'm sorry, I really am. But some of y'all need a wake up call. There are millions of others who could create that space for you again, you don't have to stick to one and act like a military wife, that will take you nowhere. The state you are in, literally keeps you away from growing and learning. You are contributing to unhealthy fan & idol dynamic, as well as entering the community of people who for centuries shamed women for standing up against men. Please, miss me with that "we are waiting for court" shit, you are defending him, trending hashtags, making sad edits, without knowing a damn thing. That is not how you wait, that is you hoping there is still a chance to save his face in your own eyes.
This is not meant to be a hate post of Build, I genuinely do not care, he means absolutely nothing to me. Neither is this me saying he either did or didn't do certain things, that is not for me to judge. I just felt like gagging after going through his tags and seeing the absolute bullcrap y'all pull out of your ass to defend a man you do not know.
Please wake up, and wait for the court or whatever in a correct manner.
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