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Disney Princesses vs GOP
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Disney Princesses vs GOP
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Preventive Health Care Saves Lives
Written by Danielle Sepulveres, Illustrated by Maritza Lugo
Today is our final installment of Disney Princesses vs. The GOP. And while we were putting it together, I wondered if Tiana would have had health insurance from one or both of the two jobs she worked trying to save money to open her restaurant. Working more than one job is a reality for most people simply to afford basics for themselves or their families. My guess is that she would have been buying insurance through the Affordable Care Act.
Last year we had Tiana getting her HPV vaccine in part to promote Cervical Cancer Awareness month. And to combat some of the fallacies that perpetuate about the vaccine itself, which include the idea that only girls should get it, it promotes sexual behavior, or that it’s ineffective.
After its initial release, there had seemed to be some indication that the vaccine did not protect all women equally across racial lines which was debunked by Dr. Jen Gunter explaining the misunderstanding about which strains were most dangerous and likely to cause cancer to anyone. But the bottom line is that when it comes to your personal healthcare, the ability to be able to meet with a professional and discuss your needs and issues is invaluable when there’s a plethora of information to wade through and decipher. And it’s also important to note pre-ACA the history of disparity in healthcare needs being met when you’re a member of a marginalized community.
But this year there’s an even bigger issue at hand. And that’s Trump’s overall attitude towards vaccines. His insistence that vaccines cause autism has not waned, in spite of all scientific evidence to the contrary. He’s recently met with RFK Jr. to discuss appointing him to a commission in charge of vaccine safety. Someone who is, by and large, a conspiracy theorist and possesses no expertise whatsoever in this realm of science.
Considering Trump’s negligent attitude towards the science of climate change as well, this comes as no surprise, but is no less alarming.
Between this and the GOP’s continued assault on women’s healthcare and Planned Parenthood, it’s as if this new administration doesn’t believe in preventive care at all, which poses a danger to everyone. Preventive care can be life saving. Screenings and early detections and reviewing medical histories all contribute to this fact. Vaccinations and flu shots save lives.
Again I wonder if the GOP was so adamantly opposed to ACA, why they didn’t spend the last six years putting together a comprehensive plan to replace it or improve it. These are supposed to be educated people running our country and they don’t care about issuing death sentences to hard working Americans. It’s infuriating. Their continued vendetta against a now lame duck President comes at the cost of the health and lives of their constituents. Â
Trump’s most recent claim is that there will be a better replacement to ACA which will be less expensive and available to everyone. Details of such a wonderful concept? There are none except the phrase that Americans will be “beautifully covered.” For someone who ran on a campaign of “draining the swamp” and accusing other politicians of not being transparent, his behavior has shown to be no different from what he claims to disavow. As a lawmaker, as someone who sits in the most powerful position in this country you don’t get to hint at what you may or may not do with legislation that affects all the American people. His interviews about policies hold all the weight of some annoying kid from your high school who is a chronic VagueBooker. You know the person. Every day on Facebook they write, “Something really cool might be happening this week, stay tuned,  fingers crossed” hashtagging blessed, send good vibes and following up with about seven different emoji faces. That is what I equate our president-elect to and that is frightening and unbelievable at the same time. Â
I imagine this is partially why so many members of Congress are outspoken about why they will not be attending Inauguration. Which is comforting to know that there are people in government positions who are ready to fight with us, who stand against this new regime of intolerance, junk science and fear mongering.
But as we enter this week, counting down to the inauguration of a man who spends his time tweeting angrily at SNL for expertly skewering him, insulting icons like John Lewis and referring to every media outlet that disagrees with him as guilty of publishing fake news, it’s more important than ever to make our voices heard.
Maritza and I put this project together fueled by the fear of what’s to come from this new administration. For ourselves, for all marginalized communities, for the world at large. But we also have hope. Hope that we can keep fighting against whatever they might try to throw at us. There is strength in numbers and if the amount of people planning to attend the Women’s March this week is any indication, there is an army of resistance mobilizing for the next four years.
Fingers crossed for all of us. Hashtag send good vibes.
Pocahontas is Pissed. Disney Princesses vs. GOP.
Written by Danielle Sepulveres, illustrated by Maritza Lugo
The animated Pocahontas film without a doubt presents an erroneous romanticized view of colonialism, kidnapping and sexual appropriation. Â And last summer Donald Trump kept condescendingly referring to Elizabeth Warren as Pocahontas because the Republicans demanded proof of her claimed Native American heritage.
Between that and everything that went down with the North Dakota Pipeline, Maritza and I thought it was about time we talked about Native Americans and how they could be affected under a Trump presidency. All of Trump’s talk about immigrants and who belongs in this country would be comical if it wasn’t so tragic considering blemishes on American history like the Indian Removal Act of 1830.
Although the Obama administration generated relief in December when they seemed to put a stop to the Dakota Access Pipeline’s final segment, North Dakota governor Doug Burgum now believes that under a Trump presidency it will be completed.  Protesters of the pipeline assert that the construction could potentially lead to pollution of the water supply of the Standing Rock Sioux Tribe as well as cause destruction of sacred grounds.
Beyond the troubling issue of what the future holds for the pipeline is healthcare overall for Native American groups.
Did you know that they are not allocated the same level of federal health care as other people?
Addiction and mental illness have at times been recorded at such incredibly elevated levels on reservations that there have been youth suicide epidemics. And according to Pacific Standard two of the areas of in danger from an ACA repeal are both mental health treatment and addiction treatment.
Under Obama’s administration there was progress in tribal health care law and including more preventive care and mental health resources. With so much more ground to cover, the incoming Trump Cabinet is sure to set this course in reverse.
The Indian Health Care Improvement Act was put into place to guarantee funding for care through the Federal Indian Health Services Agency through the Obama administration consulting directly with tribal leaders, something that Trump has not even alluded to in any of his grandstanding about “fixing” healthcare in this country.
But it’s likely to expect that Trump will parade into this unique area of healthcare like John Smith, plundering and damaging all the way through. After all, records indicate that John Smith described pre-teen Pocahontas as “nubile and sexy” which sounds like the 17th century version of “grab them by the pussy.” Â
Let Belle Get Her BC
Written by Danielle Sepulveres, Illustrated by Maritza Lugo
Like everyone else, Maritza and I are looking forward to seeing the incredible Emma Watson as Belle in the upcoming live action Beauty and the Beast.
But in Trump’s America we are concerned about Belle picking up her birth control as easily as she did last year. Republicans voted for a budget that would be against health insurance covering contraceptives. Which hypocritically flies in the face of their constant agenda to curtail abortions. Affordable access to contraceptives is part of what lowers the possibility of unintended pregnancy. These measures could potentially leave 55 million women without access to no co-pay birth control. Planned Parenthood is reporting a 900% increase in IUDs while the procedure is still covered since the election. A copper one can be effective for twelve years, while a single hormonal one can work for up to five years.
This increase is a clear indication of the fear women have about how their healthcare access is going to be restricted over the next four years or possibly longer.
There are five Republican senators who have broken away from the GOP to demand a slow down of the repeal. Call them, tell them your stories. Give faces and experiences and life to what it is that they’re trying to take away.
Senator Bob Corker 202-224-3344
Senator Lisa Murkowski 202-224-6665
Senator Rob Portman 202-224-3353
Senator Susan Collins 202-224-2523
Senator Bill Cassidy 202-224-5824
We Won’t Let You Hold Our Voices Hostage
Written by Danielle Sepulveres, Illustrated by Maritza Lugo
Last year Maritza and I received some contentious emails because we didn’t use Ariel in our women’s healthcare series, so today is partially for those people to know that we heard them. Also we used Ariel today as reminder that what the GOP last night was Ursula, trying to lock up our voices of dissent when they took first steps towards repealing the Affordable Care Act. They made it clear that they have no qualms about approving death sentences for the chronically ill, the disabled, children and women. Which is a far greater evil than any Disney villain is capable. But it was a bleak reality for many to wake up to as well as an exhaustive reminder that one way to resist is to use our voices and call our reps.
Pacific Standard did a tweet storm explaining who and what would be impacted most from these measures if they continue, considering there is no replacement plan. They are as follows:
1)Â Â Â Mental health treatment
2)Â Â Â Drug addiction treatment
3)Â Â Â Community health centers
4)Â Â Â Rural hospitals
5)Â Â Â Children
Community health centers are places like Planned Parenthood where patients are subsidized under Medicaid coverage. Another reason why the Republican rhetoric of “defund Planned Parenthood” is nonsensical. (Insert image of that elderly woman saying “that’s not how this works, that’s not how any of this works). Think about this for a minute. Elected officials. Public servants. Undeniably do not want Americans to have healthcare. Every Democrat led amendment to keep pieces of ACA was unsuccessful last night. Republicans blocked Senator Tammy Baldwin’s appeal to let young adults stay on their parents’ insurance plans until the age of 26. They also blocked other measures Democrats sought to save contraceptive coverage and reproductive healthcare services as well as the imperative pre-existing conditions protection.
“The Obamacare bridge is collapsing, and we’re sending in a rescue team,” said Senator Michael B. Enzi, Republican of Wyoming and the chairman of the Senate Budget Committee. “Then we’ll build new bridges to better health care, and finally, when these new bridges are finished, we’ll close the old bridge.”
This ridiculous statement by Enzi fails to explain what happens while you’re building the new bridge. Guess what? A rescue team doesn’t go in and gleefully demolish the old bridge and then say don’t worry we’ll build a new one at some point and it’s gonna be so much better you’ll see. Nor does a new bridge magically appear in its place. In the expected lapse of time after this destruction, people are essentially being told to simply drive over the remaining cliff to their deaths.
These so-called pro-life Republicans are confidently marching towards enacting a death sentence for numerous Americans. Or sentencing them to monumental levels of insurmountable debt. And no amount of statistics or proof of this manages to sway them from this objective. I don’t how to reconcile this level of hate, this complete disregard for human life in a country they have been elected to serve. I’m sickened. I’m lost. I don’t know what to say. I will just continue to fight. Â
I’m going to follow the advice of people I respect like Senator Kamala Harris who voted no last night on that budget. I’m going to keep talking, I’m not going to let my voice get lost for myself and to assist others. Because if memory serves, in the end, Ursula is not the one who wins
Again if you need to find your rep to call and contact, this is the place.
An account on Twitter worth following today as heartbreaking as it is to read about her battles with illness and how insurance has saved her is Xeni Hardin.
Elena of Avalor, Disney’s first Latina princess goes to Planned Parenthood to stand against the evil stepsisters of the GOP.
Disney Princesses Trying to Go to the OBGYN Under a Trump/Pence Administration
Written by Danielle Sepulveres, Illustrated by Maritza Lugo
Last year, I had an argument with a man whom I knew to be reasonably intelligent. At least I believed him to be until this particular conversation. We were having a heated discussion about the hit that Planned Parenthood had taken in their image from the bogus heavily edited videos in 2015 that were specifically designed to incite widespread outrage.
He believed everything in the videos and therefore believed that Planned Parenthood should be shut down. No amount of reasonable, logical points on my end would sway him. But the point where things took a particularly eye opening turn was when he scorned my statement about how Planned Parenthood provided cancer screenings. Practically lunging out of his seat towards me, he insisted that what I had said was just one of the erroneous things people believed about PP. I stared at him in disbelief while he shouted-literally shouted in my face-that I was grievously wrong and people only THOUGHT PP provided cancer screenings, but that they didn’t have the equipment or technicians necessary to perform mammograms. And I did the only thing that I could possibly do. I laughed. And laughed and laughed. Because it was so typical that a man would assume that the only possible cancer to be screened for had to do with breasts. And he was entirely smug in his assumption, he wouldn’t even let me refute it, he just kept interrupting me. It reminded me of a Seinfeld episode where Jerry calls his dermatologist girlfriend Pimple Popper M.D. (played by Marcia Cross) because he doesn’t understand why people thank her for saving their lives, completely overlooking the possibility of skin cancer. Pap smears and HPV co-testing is how cervical cancer screenings are done. And Planned Parenthood does that. Also there are other below the belt cancers (uterine, ovarian, vulvar etc) that have more of a chance of being caught early enough if someone regularly goes for annual visits to PP or an obgyn and establishes a base line for their bodily behaviors or at least consults with a medical professional. And all of those things are possible at low or no cost because of how Planned Parenthood operates.
The point is that this man who argued with me (and did end up voting for Trump and might possibly be one of those people who doesn’t know that ACA and Obamacare are one and the same ) is one of many who are woefully uneducated yet so confident in their false assumptions about how preventive healthcare works in this country for women. And yet we are ushering in an entire administration with these kinds of archaic and unsupported viewpoints.
January is Cervical Cancer Awareness month. A year ago Maritza Lugo and I collaborated on a tongue in cheek project that utilized reimagined Disney Princesses to garner attention from MSM to remind anyone with a uterus that they should make their annual pilgrimage to the gynecologist. Ask about the HPV vaccine. Get an STD test. Talk about birth control. I was frustrated with the lack of coverage that dogged the more “taboo” cancers, having been a part of the group Cervivor for years where I’d watched its founder Tamika Felder work tirelessly around the clock year round to educate people and provide a safe community for anyone affected by cervical cancer. But in general I’ve been battling this frustration for years in the way that health and sex ed classes by and large do not promote comprehensive education. I thought that combining recognizable pop culture with an often overlooked topic would spark conversation and luckily it did. We knew that our project wouldn’t automatically eradicate the cervical cancer diagnoses, but if we don’t start talking about it, we’ll never get to that point, and everything needs to start with a first step. Â
Since then Maritza and I have dedicated ourselves to doing other awareness collaborations but this year it felt particularly important for us to team up again as the inauguration of Donald Trump looms ever closer before us. While Paul Ryan announces that Congress will be looking to move forward in dismantling ACA and summarily defunding Planned Parenthood. (Which is a misnomer because there is no line item in the federal budget that goes to Planned Parenthood.) And those in favor of the ACA repeal and shutting down Planned Parenthood cheer for an end to “baby killers” while the underlying message of that rallying cry is actually for an end to women, trans, LGBTQ, disabled, chronically ill, people of color, and those with limited soco-economic means to have a right to healthcare. A right to choices. To dignity. And to their own lives. We’re staring down the barrel of a world where basic healthcare becomes a privilege. And being a woman could present as an uninsurable pre-existing condition. Make no mistake that the gauntlet thrown by the Republican party with these attempted measures spearheads a war on women and a direct attack on working families regardless of how often they claim their message to be otherwise.  Â
ACA, like many pieces of legislation, can be improved. It has weaknesses. It has issues. The majority of people using it will not deny this fact. But the concept of taking it away piece by piece with no replacement plan is a catastrophically dangerous idea. Trump has waffled on exactly where he stands on the issue, but many Republicans (like Paul Ryan) have not. Trump’s stances on most things calls to mind the high school kid who ran for class president on a platform of longer free periods and pizza in the cafeteria and then once elected because his dad “made a call” went back to ranking the hotness of girls on the bathroom wall, cutting class and maybe showing up for the prom planning committee meeting because he heard there would be snacks. He’s repeatedly emphasized that it needs to be known that any failures of ACA needs to be blamed on the Democrats which stands to reason that without any thoughtful plan waiting in the wings to replace it, his only concern is to be seen as some kind of savior while demonizing the Democratic party. Healthcare for all who need it should not be a partisan issue. Government is meant to serve the needs and safety of the public. And the idea of blaming or congratulating one side of the aisle over another for the responsibility of “rescuing” the American people resonates with the level of maturity of middle school schoolyard taunting. But this is what we elected and this is what we will be dealing with for at least four years.
Where has empathy gone? When did all the millions of people who need healthcare and have benefited from it dissolve into a gelatinous inhuman pile? Deemed undeserving or a burden? Why are we ignoring the economic stimulus it has provided? Why is it so difficult to take existing legislation that is helping people and continue to improve upon it rather than stamp feet in the sandbox screaming, “La la la I can’t hear you! Get rid of it! My way is better!”
According to ACASignups.net, if ACA is repealed, approximately 12.3 million people on Medicaid/Chip, 9 million people on subsidized policies and 1.4 million young adults on their parents’ plans stand to lose their coverage. The American Public Health Association has contended that it’s ludicrous of politicians to claim that providers could somehow take on the 2.5 million Planned Parenthood patients that would be affected by a lack of funding.
The elephant in the room when it comes to Planned Parenthood is always going to be abortion and that’s just too damn bad. Because I love elephants. Are you morally opposed to abortion? Guess what, that’s your right and it’s cool you don’t have to get one! But you don’t get to tell anyone else how to live their lives. Or police their choices for their bodies. You cannot label yourself pro-life if your stance is to only teach abstinence education in schools, to take away healthcare options from women (yes say it with me, abortion is part of healthcare, deal with it) and then neglect and look down on these people as they try to raise children on government assistance because they’ve been left with no other options to break the cycle of poverty. It’s hypocritical to then try to pretend that it’s not all interconnected. That we’re all on the same level playing field with the same opportunities, income bracket and educational availability. Ignoring the reality of this perpetuates a broken system instead of actively trying to fix it, and I thought we were trying to make America great again? Â
This project was so important to Maritza and I because we are genuinely afraid. She as a WOC and me as a woman who has heavily relied on preventive care to keep a pre-cancer diagnosis from turning into a full-blown one. And again we know that Disney princesses are not going to solve the world’s problems, but using our voices will and that’s why we did this. We find the arbitrary nature in which members of this new administration dismiss marginalized voices to be frightening. They haven’t been properly vetted. Their lack of empathy, and understanding make us afraid for ourselves and we are afraid for our friends within specifically targeted communities. We stand with Planned Parenthood this month for Cervical Cancer Awareness. We stand with them every month. And we will work to take down every wall this new administration tries to erect to keep us from the basic human right to exist.
If you want to donate to Planned Parenthood, go here. If you need to get in touch with your representatives, you can find them here. In the Senate Kirsten Gillibrand is currently working on an amendment to protect women’s healthcare from possible fallout of a repeal of ACA. Â
Healthcare for Disney Princesses Under a Trump/Pence Regime
Written by Danielle Sepulveres, Illustrated by Maritza Lugo
The narrative that frames abortion is similar to the conversation that dominates rape and rape culture. Just the other day, the commander of a Brooklyn police precinct tried to draw an insulting and false distinction between “stranger rape” and where you actually know the person committing the assault.
Which further contributes to victim blaming. And the idea that a victim only deserves the utmost protection of the law and to be believed when some higher power of authority decides exactly how traumatic the experience was. Knowing the person vs not knowing the person doesn’t change the definition of rape.Â
This extends into much of the ongoing clash with no end in sight when it comes to abortion. Some lawmakers will declare that they find it permissible in cases of rape or incest. Some say that those instances have no bearing, they see no acceptable scenario. But again it’s someone in a position of authority feeling the need to create legislation that limits an individual’s power over their own body as well as arbitrarily declaring what instances are tragic enough to warrant what should be deemed a basic tenet of healthcare.Â
I shake my head that it’s 2017 and I’m writing this. That we haven’t yet managed to ingrain the idea of “my body my choice” as something that doesn’t need to be controversial.  Â
Trump just nominated former U.S. Senator from Indiana Dan Coats for Director of National Intelligence and he’s just one of many Republicans who back strenuous measures against Planned Parenthood and restricting a women’s right to choose. Indiana is a state along with Louisiana and Texas that have been trying to sign into law a mandate that would essentially force women to provide funeral services for aborted tissue and miscarriages. Â
As of now these initiatives have been blocked but in light of the beliefs of this new administration, it is fair to say that this could encourage other red states joining in this movement, pushing for these kinds of regulations. The idea of funeral rites being forced on an individual is grotesque and the effect on cost to the person or clinic would be astronomical.Â
Heather Busby, executive director of NARAL Pro Choice Texas has told Rewire that these kinds of statutes are meant to add stigma and shame to abortion which is exactly right. And again this is all just a means of trying to set confines for when and how it’s acceptable for women to have a right to their own healthcare based on overly zealous religious beliefs from out of touch government representatives.
For day two of the confirmation hearings Senator Jeanne Shaheen from NH questioned Rex Tillerson about supporting programs for the economic empowerment of women which he said he would do but when she pushed on whether it included aid for family planning, he gave no answer. This feels like something we can expect going forward, also in light of the press conference Trump gave today where he said many words that didn’t translate into much more than him reiterating that he doesn’t want to talk to any press who is going to portray him in an unfavorable light. And then signed off with a catch phrase from his reality television show.
So today’s illustration has to do with family planning and how we’re afraid it could be affected by this new administration, based on people like Mike Pence, Dan Coats, and honestly the entirety of the Texas GOP.  Â
Also considering that it’s Jasmine and Aladdin looking for some family planning? Here’s hoping they don’t have to deal with Trump’s Muslim registry first.
Tiana knows that the HPV strains affect African American women differently than other women and is going to the doctor for the new improved Gardasil shot that now protects against nine strains of the virus as opposed to the previous four.Â
January is Cervical Cancer Awareness Month. And the majority of cervical cancer incidences are directly related to the HPV virus. Sadly you will barely read about any of this. Instead you’ll hear about National High Five Day or National Cupcake Day (both actual things). Which is too bad because catchy phrases to promote CCAM like “Brrr my cervix is freezing” or “Don’t leave my cervix out in the cold” are kind of amazing. But I get it. Clickbait does not typically come in the form of “let’s talk about sexually transmitted diseases.” But can’t we use January, the beginning of a new year for a fresh start for sex ed as a whole? Do we really want kids sitting through a class teaching them that a girl saying “no” to sex is the one you should keep pursuing? Or just regaling horror stories of when birth control didn’t work instead of properly explaining how to use it? The statistics on success of birth control can vary greatly based on proper use. Why would you encourage improper use even if you were teaching to wait until marriage, there are times in a marriage that utilizing birth control can be necessary. And can we finally stop holding up STDs as some kind of deserved punishment for shameful behavior? Sex exists. It will always exist. High schools and even colleges teaching that it’s something to be feared or ashamed of without actually providing a useful education about it and everything related to it are doing us all an injustice.
*Important to note that this month, pitches to female editors about this topic were ignored or rejected by The Daily Beast, Cosmopolitan, The Establishment, Buzzfeed, Glamour, The Cut and several others.*
For more information about CCAM please go to Cervivor.org
All magnificent artwork done by Maritza Lugo http://www.maritzalugo.com
Healthcare for Disney Princesses Under a Trump/Pence Regime
Written by Danielle Sepulveres, Illustrated by Maritza Lugo
The narrative that frames abortion is similar to the conversation that dominates rape and rape culture. Just the other day, the commander of a Brooklyn police precinct tried to draw an insulting and false distinction between “stranger rape” and where you actually know the person committing the assault.
Which further contributes to victim blaming. And the idea that a victim only deserves the utmost protection of the law and to be believed when some higher power of authority decides exactly how traumatic the experience was. Knowing the person vs not knowing the person doesn’t change the definition of rape.Â
This extends into much of the ongoing clash with no end in sight when it comes to abortion. Some lawmakers will declare that they find it permissible in cases of rape or incest. Some say that those instances have no bearing, they see no acceptable scenario. But again it’s someone in a position of authority feeling the need to create legislation that limits an individual’s power over their own body as well as arbitrarily declaring what instances are tragic enough to warrant what should be deemed a basic tenet of healthcare.Â
I shake my head that it’s 2017 and I’m writing this. That we haven’t yet managed to ingrain the idea of “my body my choice” as something that doesn’t need to be controversial.  Â
Trump just nominated former U.S. Senator from Indiana Dan Coats for Director of National Intelligence and he’s just one of many Republicans who back strenuous measures against Planned Parenthood and restricting a women’s right to choose. Indiana is a state along with Louisiana and Texas that have been trying to sign into law a mandate that would essentially force women to provide funeral services for aborted tissue and miscarriages. Â
As of now these initiatives have been blocked but in light of the beliefs of this new administration, it is fair to say that this could encourage other red states joining in this movement, pushing for these kinds of regulations. The idea of funeral rites being forced on an individual is grotesque and the effect on cost to the person or clinic would be astronomical.Â
Heather Busby, executive director of NARAL Pro Choice Texas has told Rewire that these kinds of statutes are meant to add stigma and shame to abortion which is exactly right. And again this is all just a means of trying to set confines for when and how it’s acceptable for women to have a right to their own healthcare based on overly zealous religious beliefs from out of touch government representatives.
For day two of the confirmation hearings Senator Jeanne Shaheen from NH questioned Rex Tillerson about supporting programs for the economic empowerment of women which he said he would do but when she pushed on whether it included aid for family planning, he gave no answer. This feels like something we can expect going forward, also in light of the press conference Trump gave today where he said many words that didn’t translate into much more than him reiterating that he doesn’t want to talk to any press who is going to portray him in an unfavorable light. And then signed off with a catch phrase from his reality television show.
So today’s illustration has to do with family planning and how we’re afraid it could be affected by this new administration, based on people like Mike Pence, Dan Coats, and honestly the entirety of the Texas GOP.  Â
Also considering that it’s Jasmine and Aladdin looking for some family planning? Here’s hoping they don’t have to deal with Trump’s Muslim registry first.
Elena of Avalor, Disney’s first Latina princess goes to Planned Parenthood to stand against the evil stepsisters of the GOP.
Disney Princesses Trying to Go to the OBGYN Under a Trump/Pence Administration
Written by Danielle Sepulveres, Illustrated by Maritza Lugo
Last year, I had an argument with a man whom I knew to be reasonably intelligent. At least I believed him to be until this particular conversation. We were having a heated discussion about the hit that Planned Parenthood had taken in their image from the bogus heavily edited videos in 2015 that were specifically designed to incite widespread outrage.
He believed everything in the videos and therefore believed that Planned Parenthood should be shut down. No amount of reasonable, logical points on my end would sway him. But the point where things took a particularly eye opening turn was when he scorned my statement about how Planned Parenthood provided cancer screenings. Practically lunging out of his seat towards me, he insisted that what I had said was just one of the erroneous things people believed about PP. I stared at him in disbelief while he shouted-literally shouted in my face-that I was grievously wrong and people only THOUGHT PP provided cancer screenings, but that they didn’t have the equipment or technicians necessary to perform mammograms. And I did the only thing that I could possibly do. I laughed. And laughed and laughed. Because it was so typical that a man would assume that the only possible cancer to be screened for had to do with breasts. And he was entirely smug in his assumption, he wouldn’t even let me refute it, he just kept interrupting me. It reminded me of a Seinfeld episode where Jerry calls his dermatologist girlfriend Pimple Popper M.D. (played by Marcia Cross) because he doesn’t understand why people thank her for saving their lives, completely overlooking the possibility of skin cancer. Pap smears and HPV co-testing is how cervical cancer screenings are done. And Planned Parenthood does that. Also there are other below the belt cancers (uterine, ovarian, vulvar etc) that have more of a chance of being caught early enough if someone regularly goes for annual visits to PP or an obgyn and establishes a base line for their bodily behaviors or at least consults with a medical professional. And all of those things are possible at low or no cost because of how Planned Parenthood operates.
The point is that this man who argued with me (and did end up voting for Trump and might possibly be one of those people who doesn’t know that ACA and Obamacare are one and the same ) is one of many who are woefully uneducated yet so confident in their false assumptions about how preventive healthcare works in this country for women. And yet we are ushering in an entire administration with these kinds of archaic and unsupported viewpoints.
January is Cervical Cancer Awareness month. A year ago Maritza Lugo and I collaborated on a tongue in cheek project that utilized reimagined Disney Princesses to garner attention from MSM to remind anyone with a uterus that they should make their annual pilgrimage to the gynecologist. Ask about the HPV vaccine. Get an STD test. Talk about birth control. I was frustrated with the lack of coverage that dogged the more “taboo” cancers, having been a part of the group Cervivor for years where I’d watched its founder Tamika Felder work tirelessly around the clock year round to educate people and provide a safe community for anyone affected by cervical cancer. But in general I’ve been battling this frustration for years in the way that health and sex ed classes by and large do not promote comprehensive education. I thought that combining recognizable pop culture with an often overlooked topic would spark conversation and luckily it did. We knew that our project wouldn’t automatically eradicate the cervical cancer diagnoses, but if we don’t start talking about it, we’ll never get to that point, and everything needs to start with a first step. Â
Since then Maritza and I have dedicated ourselves to doing other awareness collaborations but this year it felt particularly important for us to team up again as the inauguration of Donald Trump looms ever closer before us. While Paul Ryan announces that Congress will be looking to move forward in dismantling ACA and summarily defunding Planned Parenthood. (Which is a misnomer because there is no line item in the federal budget that goes to Planned Parenthood.) And those in favor of the ACA repeal and shutting down Planned Parenthood cheer for an end to “baby killers” while the underlying message of that rallying cry is actually for an end to women, trans, LGBTQ, disabled, chronically ill, people of color, and those with limited soco-economic means to have a right to healthcare. A right to choices. To dignity. And to their own lives. We’re staring down the barrel of a world where basic healthcare becomes a privilege. And being a woman could present as an uninsurable pre-existing condition. Make no mistake that the gauntlet thrown by the Republican party with these attempted measures spearheads a war on women and a direct attack on working families regardless of how often they claim their message to be otherwise.  Â
ACA, like many pieces of legislation, can be improved. It has weaknesses. It has issues. The majority of people using it will not deny this fact. But the concept of taking it away piece by piece with no replacement plan is a catastrophically dangerous idea. Trump has waffled on exactly where he stands on the issue, but many Republicans (like Paul Ryan) have not. Trump’s stances on most things calls to mind the high school kid who ran for class president on a platform of longer free periods and pizza in the cafeteria and then once elected because his dad “made a call” went back to ranking the hotness of girls on the bathroom wall, cutting class and maybe showing up for the prom planning committee meeting because he heard there would be snacks. He’s repeatedly emphasized that it needs to be known that any failures of ACA needs to be blamed on the Democrats which stands to reason that without any thoughtful plan waiting in the wings to replace it, his only concern is to be seen as some kind of savior while demonizing the Democratic party. Healthcare for all who need it should not be a partisan issue. Government is meant to serve the needs and safety of the public. And the idea of blaming or congratulating one side of the aisle over another for the responsibility of “rescuing” the American people resonates with the level of maturity of middle school schoolyard taunting. But this is what we elected and this is what we will be dealing with for at least four years.
Where has empathy gone? When did all the millions of people who need healthcare and have benefited from it dissolve into a gelatinous inhuman pile? Deemed undeserving or a burden? Why are we ignoring the economic stimulus it has provided? Why is it so difficult to take existing legislation that is helping people and continue to improve upon it rather than stamp feet in the sandbox screaming, “La la la I can’t hear you! Get rid of it! My way is better!”
According to ACASignups.net, if ACA is repealed, approximately 12.3 million people on Medicaid/Chip, 9 million people on subsidized policies and 1.4 million young adults on their parents’ plans stand to lose their coverage. The American Public Health Association has contended that it’s ludicrous of politicians to claim that providers could somehow take on the 2.5 million Planned Parenthood patients that would be affected by a lack of funding.
The elephant in the room when it comes to Planned Parenthood is always going to be abortion and that’s just too damn bad. Because I love elephants. Are you morally opposed to abortion? Guess what, that’s your right and it’s cool you don’t have to get one! But you don’t get to tell anyone else how to live their lives. Or police their choices for their bodies. You cannot label yourself pro-life if your stance is to only teach abstinence education in schools, to take away healthcare options from women (yes say it with me, abortion is part of healthcare, deal with it) and then neglect and look down on these people as they try to raise children on government assistance because they’ve been left with no other options to break the cycle of poverty. It’s hypocritical to then try to pretend that it’s not all interconnected. That we’re all on the same level playing field with the same opportunities, income bracket and educational availability. Ignoring the reality of this perpetuates a broken system instead of actively trying to fix it, and I thought we were trying to make America great again? Â
This project was so important to Maritza and I because we are genuinely afraid. She as a WOC and me as a woman who has heavily relied on preventive care to keep a pre-cancer diagnosis from turning into a full-blown one. And again we know that Disney princesses are not going to solve the world’s problems, but using our voices will and that’s why we did this. We find the arbitrary nature in which members of this new administration dismiss marginalized voices to be frightening. They haven’t been properly vetted. Their lack of empathy, and understanding make us afraid for ourselves and we are afraid for our friends within specifically targeted communities. We stand with Planned Parenthood this month for Cervical Cancer Awareness. We stand with them every month. And we will work to take down every wall this new administration tries to erect to keep us from the basic human right to exist.
If you want to donate to Planned Parenthood, go here. If you need to get in touch with your representatives, you can find them here. In the Senate Kirsten Gillibrand is currently working on an amendment to protect women’s healthcare from possible fallout of a repeal of ACA. Â
Welcome to the month of April! Also known as GET YOURSELF TESTED (GYT) month. Back in January Maritza Lugo and I launched a campaign for Cervical Cancer Awareness, although our overall goal was to improve the discussion on sex education as a whole. And while we are immensely proud of “Disney Princesses Go to the Gynecologist” we realized that we’re only telling half the story. A big part of the failings of sex education in this country and beyond is that we tend to frame it as a women’s problem. A woman’s responsibility. Whether it’s the absurdly archaic teachings of “hey ladies keep your legs closed” or the more sex positive “ladies get your HPV vaccine and make your annual ob/gyn appointments” where do the men fit in?Â
Over the years I have asked partners or male friends about how diligent they are about getting tested and if they’ve gone, but I’m often met with a “I got the all clear.” When pressed about whether they know what that exactly means or that there’s no test for HPV in males I’ve come across everything from insistence that THEIR test said they were negative for EVERYTHING and just straight up confusion because they thought an “all clear” covers every STD/STI in the book-even if they can’t name them. The same way guys like to say “Oh you like David Bowie? Name three albums.” I like to say “oh you got tested? Name three STDs you tested negative for.”Â
It’s just as important for young boys to be receiving the HPV vaccine as it is for young girls as we show you with Superman. It’s also just as important for anyone-male, female, non-binary-who is sexually active-regardless of sexual orientation-to get tested, thanks Deadpool. Batman and Iron Man are so competitive with the rest of the superhero universe, they jumped onboard with GYT month as well. Â
April is also Sexual Assault Awareness Month. An issue that can intertwine with sexual health, but a link that can be overlooked or not treated with the right amount of sensitivity in how difficult it can be for a sexual assault victim to go to the gynecologist. It can be triggering and it’s essential to recognize that fact. We have superhero Jessica Jones at her appointment with her superhero partner Luke Cage who not only stands by her, but his unwavering support is a reminder of why we need to believe women and teach the importance of consent in sex education programs everywhere.  Â
You don’t have to be superhuman or a princess to make an appointment to get tested. So do it.  Â
Find a Planned Parenthood near you today. https://www.plannedparenthood.org
“I resigned myself to accepting the fact that I would be the girl with a great personality, not beautiful or popular.”
“I resigned myself to accepting the fact that I would be the girl with a great personality, not beautiful or popular.”
Tiana knows that the HPV strains affect African American women differently than other women and is going to the doctor for the new improved Gardasil shot that now protects against nine strains of the virus as opposed to the previous four.Â
January is Cervical Cancer Awareness Month. And the majority of cervical cancer incidences are directly related to the HPV virus. Sadly you will barely read about any of this. Instead you'll hear about National High Five Day or National Cupcake Day (both actual things). Which is too bad because catchy phrases to promote CCAM like “Brrr my cervix is freezing” or “Don’t leave my cervix out in the cold” are kind of amazing. But I get it. Clickbait does not typically come in the form of "let's talk about sexually transmitted diseases." But can’t we use January, the beginning of a new year for a fresh start for sex ed as a whole? Do we really want kids sitting through a class teaching them that a girl saying "no" to sex is the one you should keep pursuing? Or just regaling horror stories of when birth control didn't work instead of properly explaining how to use it? The statistics on success of birth control can vary greatly based on proper use. Why would you encourage improper use even if you were teaching to wait until marriage, there are times in a marriage that utilizing birth control can be necessary. And can we finally stop holding up STDs as some kind of deserved punishment for shameful behavior? Sex exists. It will always exist. High schools and even colleges teaching that it's something to be feared or ashamed of without actually providing a useful education about it and everything related to it are doing us all an injustice.
*Important to note that this month, pitches to female editors about this topic were ignored or rejected by The Daily Beast, Cosmopolitan, The Establishment, Buzzfeed, Glamour, The Cut and several others.*
For more information about CCAM please go to Cervivor.org
All magnificent artwork done by Maritza Lugo http://www.maritzalugo.com
Digital Drive-By
Self-preservation has always been at the forefront of my mind when a relationship sours. As masochistic as I may have allowed myself to get at the hands of a lover who I believed would change, a marked definitive end somehow enforces a certain mindset--due in part to wise words from my mother. As she would say, “if it’s over, what else do you need to know about him? It’s only going to hurt you.” And she was right. I did not need to know if he had found someone new to talk to while falling asleep at night, when I was alone in my bed, staring blankly at the ceiling with unshed tears blurring my vision. So I never succumbed. Even though occasionally I had begrudgingly been the wheel (wo)man on the stalking excursions of my friends, I never wasted time driving by my first love’s house and agonizing over some unfamiliar red Pontiac parked out front which may or may not mean anything.  However long it took for my bruised feelings and battered emotions to catch up with the rest of my logic, I clung tightly to this blissfully ignorant coping method. It was one thing to assume he had moved on and was with someone new, but to have confirmation seemed pointless, and an invitation for more misery.
I abided by my self-imposed rules for the entirety of my twenties. But when the emergence of Google, Facebook and other various social media outlets made it infinitely easier to “look in” on someone visually without having to scrunch down in a car with a hat and sunglasses, I’ll admit I was not entirely immune to the temptation. But I still refused to look up my first love, more out of a complete and utter apathy than anything else. Who cared what he was doing and with whom? We were just two people who had once been in love. End of story. Except in a literal sense, it wasn’t.
In 2012, my first book was published. A memoir that mainly revolved around our relationship. And at book clubs, book signings and lectures, the first question was always, “Where is he now?” My own literary ambitions had shoved me out of my self-imposed cocoon towards a door that beckoned to be opened. But it seemed I finally had enough distance and motivation to safely open it. So I took the digital stalking plunge.
I found him rather easily by Googling his name. As I waited for a flurry of emotions to accompany this foray into foreign territory, I closed my eyes and tried to remember what it was like to know him. He had swooped in on me just before my twenty-third birthday. In a span of almost three years, we fell in love, he took my virginity and broke my heart when I realized that he had not been faithful. I then spent the next few years high-risk for cervical cancer from the HPV he had given me. After waiting for years to sleep with the right guy, my decision to be intimate with him turned my romantic life and my previously perfect health into a complete nightmare. One that I faced alone. My humiliation over it all kept me in self-imposed isolation from family and friends and in weekly therapy sessions.
I sat there staring at the Google results waiting for a resurgence of anger towards him. Thinking of all my doctor visits. The pain and discomfort from having cryosurgery twice and then finally a section of my cervix removed all before I had even reached my twenty-fifth birthday, accompanied by a conversation about potential difficulties in carrying a pregnancy full-term. Even tried to conjure up the memory of the ragingly intense yet helpless anger I felt so many years ago, but was coming up blank. I just felt nothing. As if I had never even known him.
Satisfied that I had garnered enough information to appease questions my readers might have going forward, I started to click out when a picture at the lower left hand of the screen made me stop. It was a picture of him with a woman who I recognized as a co-worker of his. At least she had been when I knew him. Someone he had confided to me that he made the mistake of sleeping with months before we met.  And she had never been friendly to me. In fact, downright hostile was the most accurate description, which I had chalked up to common jealousy and unrequited affection at the time. The picture was labeled “Engagement photo”.  As I stared at it, my mind began working overtime and any hope for self-preservation began to disintegrate while a new terrifying conviction arose that my memories—recounted so many times to my friends and shrink—might be in complete opposition to the truth.
“We can’t bring dates to the company holiday party. It’s for employees only.” he had said towards the end of our first year together, not meeting my gaze. My indiscriminate level of trust in him didn’t allow me to question it. Or when he claimed that a co-worker/friend had given him an iPod for Christmas that year. Or again when Valentine’s Day fell on a Monday and he insisted that Sunday night should be our night to have dinner and exchange gifts because he might have to attend a work-related dinner on the actual day. More and more instances where his behavior had been a little off were now popping unbidden into my head. And they had all been slightly odd excuses concerning work. The evidence was mounting in my mind to the point that I was having difficulty swallowing. And then I saw it. A link to a YouTube video entitled “Trip to Aruba”. He had claimed once that due to an incredible sales quarter his department had been given a trip to Aruba from his company. Even then, somewhere deep down, I knew that there was something false about this story.  But I had loved him and didn’t want to examine any niggling fear that might suggest our relationship was in jeopardy. Youthful naivete kept me in the role of his doting girlfriend and he knew it. Later, I had been so quick to label him as my cheating boyfriend when his behavior more blatantly suggested it, but my thoughts were now reverting back to one conclusion that was making me feel sick, even now, so many years later.
I had accepted long ago that I let myself be blinded by love and lust, preventing me from facing up to the truth that he was nothing more than a spineless liar. But I was suddenly instinctually sure that there could be an entire layer of deceit of which I was unaware. He didn’t just marry this woman on a whim. Here was video proof that he had taken a vacation with her at a time that he insisted we were monogamous and exclusive. Could I have been the other woman while she was his girlfriend? Or we both were? I knew he was arrogant, but had he been arrogant enough to think he could keep two relationships simultaneously? I believe he might have been. And if so, I could honestly acknowledge that my inexperience and stubborn nature contributed to his success in this endeavor.  All the occasions when he told me he loved me and how many kids he wanted to have, he was potentially saying all the same things to her. Had he explained the presence of my gifts for him like he had clumsily explained the iPod to me? And the times he apologized profusely, asked for second chances and showed up on my doorstep what was that? A reaction to having an argument with her? I was reeling. And second guessing everything. I could no longer trust my memory of our time together. Our relationship had just added insult to injury, post-mortem.
I took a deep breath and tried to silence the riot of thoughts and questions in my head, and calm down. Did it really matter anymore? I had a good life now. Healthy relationships. Healthy reproductive system. Our lives had continued on separately for a reason. Whatever he had done to me had pushed me to make changes in my personal life to make better decisions. Associate with people who offered sincerity instead of deception. It gave me the opportunity to talk openly to teenage and college age kids about first love and safe sex. And never once did I wish that my life still included him. Someone who had taken my youthful unadulterated love and perverted it into something painful and twisted. Why would I ever still want any part of that in my life? Maybe he had gotten away with having two girlfriends. Maybe he was just a guy who cheated and cheated and she was the only one still left standing at the end of the rodeo. I will probably never know for sure. And that’s okay. Aside from the unexpected posthumous relationship bruise to my pride, it really didn’t matter. For the last seven years my wildest fantasies never involved even the most remote hint of him. This was all just another red Pontiac. A digital drive-by that served no purpose. Because I know now that if you really pay attention while you’re in a relationship, you never need to question the red Pontiac.  You’ll already know whether it signifies the death knell or it is simply what the next door neighbors just bought for their kid’s seventeenth birthday.         Â
The Power(lessness) of No
"I want you to come to my party," the email read.
"When is it?" I responded back.
"January 20th, it's going to be the sickest party, you have to come."
"I can't, I'll be out of town. Sorry!" I inserted some of the new emojis that I figured would best exemplify "have fun, bummer I can't be there”. You know, sad face, party hat, the pile of poo.
"No way! You have to come! Change your trip!" He proceeded to list X, Y and Z reasons why I needed to be there in between me trying to politely convey four more times that no I wouldn't change my BUSINESS trip for a party, and that I absolutely could not make it. Finally, I was so aggravated that my declining of his invitation was falling on deaf ears, that I stopped responding. More pleas filled my inbox and I ignored them. I had given my answer. Numerous times. And that needed to be enough. Who was on the guest list to this thing that warranted such behavior? The Second Coming of Christ?
But it made me think. What if I started keeping a tally? All the times that saying “no I can’t”, "I don't want to” or “I’m not interested" once didn't suffice in the past and how I could be more mindful keeping track of how prevalent this all was, going forward.
And then I remembered how on a recent bus ride I witnessed this exact problem. I was on a bus headed home, a late one after a fourteen hour day at work. A young guy about mid twenties raced to catch it and didn’t have enough money to get to his intended destination. A woman sitting up front pulled a Good Samaritan move and offered up the few extra dollars to help the guy out. As well as I’m sure to get the bus moving since it was almost midnight and his begging for the driver to give him a break was costing us all some precious minutes of sleep. I then proceeded to watch this guy go from profusely thanking the woman to blatantly hitting on her over the course of about thirty five minutes. I watched her say no politely to his advances, then with some sass, then with a straight out “don’t try to grab me or I will punch you in the throat” because at this point the “grateful” young man had gotten handsy. I felt impotent and angry sitting idly by watching something I myself had experienced in many forms. And then I was confused as to why the bus driver was remaining silent while a woman was loudly stating that she didn’t want to be bothered. “Please stop harassing that woman,” I finally called out. A woman next to me nodded and whispered, “thank you for saying something, I’ve been really uncomfortable.” The guy only quieted down momentarily before he picked back up again and the woman’s responses to him now changed. They began with a compliment, “You’re adorable but I’m not interested, and you need to stop.” Now I was totally bewildered. Adorable? Harassment is adorable? But perhaps she was so uncomfortable that she felt it best to not rile him any further. When the bus finally pulled up to his stop, he pretended to dramatically trip so he could touch her legs under the guise of steadying himself as he exited. The bus driver asked if she was okay, and she waved him off with a “oh I’m sure he had good heart. And I can handle myself.” I couldn’t decide if I should interrupt and tell her that no one with a “good heart” harasses women. Did she really believe that what he was doing was harmless flirting? Then she added after a pause, “although I guess I felt safe in this environment, if I had been somewhere else, I suppose that could have escalated into something different.”
EXACTLY.
We have to start respecting “no” wherever it is uttered. Across the board. Because there are going to be situations where things CAN escalate. Where people won’t feel safe. And I truly believe that the respect for it can and should start in what may even seem harmless. Â
There was a time a guy I only knew vaguely through other friends kept drunkenly grabbing me at a bar as I repeatedly asked him to stop. Culminating in me having to shove him away and finally shout "get the hell off of me" while he proclaimed me an overly dramatic bitch. We need people to take responsibility for not respecting the no. If he had simply acquiesced to my politer requests to be left alone then I wouldn’t have been forced to elevate the situation to a hostile level. I’m not the overly dramatic bitch in this case, I could have calmly protected my personal space had he listened to me. But let’s also talk about the far less serious offenses of say someone asking "do you have time to take a look at something I wrote to edit for me it's short." And I beg off because I know I don't have the availability to give it its due, and they insist and insist it will only take "five minutes" of my time. It still signifies a pervasive problem of disrespecting the answer no. Which incidentally also disrespects that person's time. Also FYI? It never takes five minutes.
But maybe these simpler requests are demonstrating the root of this problem. No means no. Such an easy uncomplicated statement and yet so often no one hears it. They hear try harder. Convince them. No is just halfway to yes. And I'm not talking about things like "you eat the last slice of pizza, I'm not taking no for an answer!" Or getting rejected from the college of your dreams and reapplying a year later. Getting cut from the soccer team. Auditioning for a part and not getting it means you should give up. Absolutely not. We just have to stop applying that mentality of professional ambition--no means try harder, be more aggressive--when it comes to the personal.
Maybe if we want to get at the heart of rape culture, it starts with this disrespect towards no in all other areas of life. If you’re resorting to harassment when someone doesn’t want to come to your party or give you their phone number, then what confidence can we have in you behaving appropriately when it comes to a far more serious scenario? Â
Let’s all ask ourselves. When someone says no. They can’t. Don’t want to. Aren’t interested. Do you accept that or do you force the issue? If so, ask yourself, why. Why isn’t no enough? We can all benefit from an answer. Â