aggressively soft™

savanna | I see too much | 27 | ace | capricorn | lemonade enthusiast | work in progress | instagram: vana.thom

[slugspoon]

i have become enamored by the american woodcocks that have migrated to bryant park in nyc. i love them

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

be honest with yourself about your needs

[tinderheartpaperbody]

Money

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

i was gonna say something like water but that too

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

gold star ⭐️ for waking up today

[beardedmrbean]

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

this is not what i deserve, so this is not what i will settle for

[thememedaddy]

[monchursouls]

🌾🌾🌾

Harvesting my wheat

[rat-in-the-grain]

Hehehehehe

[monchursouls]

Can I fucking help you?

[wholeheartedsuggestions]

if a sims movie is truly being made, i want it to be a horror movie where they do not acknowledge being sims and there is no evidence of them being sims except that they speak simlish and have plumbobs. i want ladders disappearing from pools and strangers breaking into houses and random basement prisons and people catching on fire while making macaroni. the whole thing must be in simlish with subtitles like a foreign film. that’s the only way you’ll get me to watch it.

[catnipper]

[cannibalchicken]

[shesnake]

everyone's doomed by the narrative bitch let's get you some fruit

[shesnake]

[kalimaxxing]

the idealized version of my tomorrow self will fix this

[kalimaxxing]

not again

[decompose1]

gender euphoria is looking rly hot to other queer people and offputting to everyone else

[withacurse]

[louisegluckpdf]

me when one of my girlmutuals posts about how they got a little coffee beverage or took a nice walk or started a book they've been meaning to read for a while or otherwise found meaning and joy in simple pleasures

[mossworm]

me every day without fail: I'll do [chore] when I get home

me when I get home:

[bemusedlybespectacled]

me every single week: I'll do it on the weekend!

me the entire weekend:

[dailydivergent]

There’s no such thing as work-life balance for neurodivergent & chronically ill people.

This is because everything in my life requires work:

maintaining friendships

keeping up with my hygiene

managing bills

making money

remembering my basic needs

sleeping regularly

outputting creatively

All requires some aspect of work for me.

And when everything in your life requires work, your balance goes out the window.

If you're neurodivergent and overwhelmed — I see you.

If you're chronically ill and overwhelmed — I see you.

You're not dysfunctional.

You're not incapable.

You're doing your best.