When u kno ur not cis but you dont know where you fall under so you got vauge dysphoria so you go to nb blogs but all the advice is “gender is whatever you wanna make it”
When ur friends see ur very specific post and ask if ur okay so u gotta put on a face
When u finally decide its time to talk to ur friends about your gender confusion
When your friends finally help you get to a point where you can admit your feelings to yourself and talk you thru it
When you finally find a look you feel comfortable in to express your gender and wear them out to town for the first time.
When you finally pick a name that feels right and you write it over and over in your notebook like
When you finally ask your close friends to start using your name and pronouns and they openly accept it and love you in ways you never thought you would feel.
