Someone suggested that I make a blog about how to be confident on dressing up. And I think that when you are confident in one aspect of your being it is simply because you are confident to your core.
Here are some ways to becoming someone with confidence. I don’t psychologically know how to explain what or deeply discuss how but these ways are base on what I experience myself that I hope I could share with you and help you as well.
It’s first on my list on becoming someone with confidence. This means that you love yourself the way you are. You know your flaws and you accept that you are capable of it. Gotta embrace what God gave you! Besides you are FEARFULLY AND WONDERFULLY MADE by Him.
Psalm 139:14 (credits to the photo owner. I just got it from the internet :D)
On my own opinion it’s okay to get insecure of something. It simply shows that we are only human. It’s very normal to feel this. But when you are insecure to the point that it’s the only thing that comes out of your mouth; “She’s so pretty. I wish I could be her.” “I look like a potato. Hay sad life.” and worst are these kind of in denial reaction, “Pfffff. *rolls eyes* She doesn’t even look good!” or whenever you are not happy for someone who deserved what he/she got. You better evaluate yourself and go back to way number 1.
Insecurity corrupts a positive character. All the while that person you get super insecure of enjoys what he/she is and has, you go mope and get irritated on what you’re not and what you don’t have. Sinong kawawa?
So shrug every bit of insecurity off and always remember to appreciate yourself the way God created you to be.
3. RELAX! WE’RE ONLY HUMAN.
Like what I’ve mentioned above... We have flaws. Weaknesses can be present in our system. We make mistakes. Relax! Nobody is perfect, everyone makes mistakes, except God. But once you learned to accept that making a mistake is okay, that there are chances to make it right, little by little you become confident with yourself.
I remember before that I really, really hate making mistakes. And I noticed that whenever I make mistake it lowers my self esteem. That’s bad! Because it came to a point that I don’t wanna speak with anyone anymore afraid that I would make mistake in making conversation. But then I overcame it, I just thought to myself that there is nothing wrong in making mistakes as long as you make up to it.
Finn the Human for scale XD
4. SHARE YOUR COMPLIMENTS TO OTHERS.
A solid sign that you are a human of confidence is when you give compliments to someone. It takes a candor heart to tell someone that he/she did great or looks good.
It’s like a two-way therapy. Who knows maybe the one you gave your compliments to badly needs it and it changes his/her life forever. And in the same way it would make you feel better to have given him/her that compliment.
credits to the photo owner
Accept compliments as well. Personally, I looooooove hearing compliments because it makes me feel good about myself.
But always remember to balance it out. You don’t wanna be over confident now do you?
And there you have it! These are my simple ways to being confident. I hope it helped some of you. :D
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