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i think that in the panel where mo guan shan finally stepped inside the train, mo guan shan closing his eyes is a sign of extreme relief. not only because he was out of breath due to the chase, but also because he knew that if he tian was there, if he was with he tian, it all gonna be okay.

#19 days #tianshan #mo guan shan #He Tian

call-me-ala

Hello. Question- He Tian is seme. Momo is uke. Or He Tian is uke. Momo is seme?

Hello there! It depends who will answer, I think fandom split into two fractions when comes to that. We don’t have any information about that in the comic and knowing it’s character maybe we will never know.

When are you asking about my opinion it’s not important for me. But I think that whatever their sexual roles are I am ok with that.

i-got-these-words

Can I just –

[sigh]

I find it very frustrating and incredibly hurtful when I read comments that objectify a person or a character into a ‘top’ or ‘bottom’, based purely on their interpretation of said character’s personality, temperament or physique.

The idea that the taller, buffer, more masc guy is the top in an m|m relationship and the smaller, slimmer, more femme guy is the bottom is a toxic stereotype that stems from traditional hetero tropes where one is the ‘man’ (read: power, dominance, self-reliance) and the other is the ‘woman’ (read: weak, submissive, dependent).

Not only does this perpetuate the negative social constructs around masculinity, but also those around femininity.

It reinforces this assumption that getting fucked means getting fucked over. That being a bottom impugns on your claim to masculinity. That it is shameful. That it means you are passive, inferior and subservient. When, in actual fact, it means none of these things. Again, these are all prejudicial judgements that draw parallels between bottoming and being the ‘woman’ in the relationship/sexual encounter.

I respect that, as an individual, you have your personal preferences when it comes to your sexual interests. And you have every right to these. They are your own. You may wish to share them (with a partner, for instance, or with your readers in a fanfic), but imposing them on other people, especially in the format of ‘I could never see X bottoming’ or ‘Y is obviously the top in this ship’ is damaging in so many ways, I can’t even.

Yes, there are people who self-identify as exclusive tops or bottoms. But that is a label they have chosen for themselves, and not one that has been mandated on them by someone else – least of all a stranger whom they have never had and never will have sexual relations with.

The notion that a person is either a top or bottom is a binary system that reflects outdated and discriminatory beliefs that sexuality is an either/or. That there is nothing in between. That the fucking rainbow is black and white.

Fun fact: The majority of gay men are actually vers. Because why would you want to limit your sexual experiences by being an either/or, when you could be both ;)

I’m not talking out of my ass here (pun fucking intended). As a cis man of slight stature with very little body hair who looks younger than his years, I am used to being described as femme or a twink – and automatically designated ‘a total bottom’.

It’s offensive. And really, really uncool :) Don’t do it. Unless I self-identify as an exclusive bottom, please do not presume what my sexual preferences are.

This is not a personal attack, anon. I’m sure your intentions were sincere and well-meaning.

I just really felt like it was high time I had my two cents on this topic. And I’m more than happy to hear you out, too.

Also, I’m so fucking sorry for hijacking your ask, @call-me-ala

I was rereading all the tianshan chapters and suddenly a thought struck me. I know this has been established thousand times already, that He Tian’s way of using violence and force on Guan Shan is pretty unhealthy, but is also seen as his coping mechanism when dealing with relationships. That’s why I kinda feel like, whenever Mo showed some sort of “defiance” and frustration to the point of not being scared of his manners anymore, He Tian was the one got scared instead. He was secretly scared that one day, Mo would eventually be tired of his threats, and by then, He Tian could no longer use forceful methods to keep him by his side.

But may be. I’m just exaggerating everything haha...

#tianshan #19 days #mo guan shan #he tian #just some personal thoughts

midotakaism

tianshan chapters

once upon a time i started to make a list of all tianshan chapters to help me - and anyone else who needed it - to navigate them when i wanted to find something again quickly, then stuff happened, but now im back and i thought why not making an updated new and improved list? so here it is. i bolded the chapters where he tian and guan shan interact directly, while the others are ones where only one of them is present but that are still very important for their storyline, or they are both there but they make a very brief appearance. i also added a very short summary to help find what you need (they are not the best, but i tried). all the links should work, but let me know if i messed up any of them!!

chapter 116 - first meeting

chapter 117 - she li’s first appearance

chapter 119 - meeting in the school hallway

chapter 125 - guan shan and zheng xi’s fight pt.1

chapter 126 - guan shan and zheng xi’s fight pt.2

chapter 127 - guan shan and zheng xi’s fight pt.3

chapter 130 - meeting again

chapter 133 - bring me an umbrella

chapter 138 - you better cook something nice for me

chapter 144 - first time at he tian’s apartment

chapter 149 - twisting his balls

chapter 150 - you’ll answer to me from now on

chapter 154 - first mention of guan shan’s dad

chapter 155 - help me do something

chapter 160 - the note

chapter 166 - he tian rushing to jian yi’s place

chapter 168 - brothers

chapter 170 - following he tian

chapter 172 - boys being boys

chapter 173 - mo guan shan

chapter 174 - the kiss pt.1

chapter 175 - the kiss pt.2

Keep reading

Again just random thoughts and theory (I assume our fandom has already been discussing many after the latest chapter but still, this idea came across my mind and I kinda wanna voice it out).

I remember She Li used to show some interest in Jian Yi, which means there is a possibility (or not) that he is bisexual. And then we have Mo’s strong reaction to He Tian’s not-so-innocent-french kiss. I am aware that we would definitely get angry like Mo did if it had been us in that situation, however, I still think Mo’s reaction (punched He Tian and even cried a bucket) is somehow very intense (not that I disregard my baby’s feelings). Hence, I connect these two things with today’s revelation that She Li is the one who had Mo’s ear piercing done. I am wondering whether or not Mo’s reaction is indirectly caused by his relationship with She Li in the past?

#19 days #old xian #mo guan shan #he tian #theory #discuss #tianshan

During the process of editing this, I realize an undeniable truth: Beomgyu is so beautiful. I have fallen in love with him ever since his Questioning Film ;-; This is one of my very first attempts to try out photoshop and he had convinced my do it.

#beomgyu #txt #questioning film #gfx #txtgfx #edits

[Random thoughts]

After today’s chapter, I have this huge urge of shipping QiuCheng, as in Qiu being top and Cheng being bottom - I do see them as a thing before, but it feels a bit different now. Like to me, such dynamic suddenly fits them so well. He Cheng, even though he always appears to be intimidating and scary and cool, deep down is actually a gentle soul (to me).

but hmmmm I feel blessed anyway since this chapter is just perfect ( ͡º ͜ʖ ͡º)

#19 days #he cheng #text #personal thoughts #qiu #qiucheng

me----irl

Reblog if you think the person you reblogged this from deserves to be happy.

b1oodpink

travelmon

#bias #joon #btsgfx

nosarcasmforyou

dearvmon

taehyung talks about ‘serious stuff’ with namjoon 👀

#otp #vmon

comeherejimin-deactivated201806

K I M D A I L Y for @rapnamu

#nammonth #bias #joon #fanart #beautiful

gukied

My pen is stronger than your dirty tongue

Listen to RM Mixtape on SoundCloud

#nammonth #bias #joon #so cool #edits #btsgfx #graphic design

satirizing

speaking of misogyny

let me tell you guys something that ACTUALLY happened in my screenwriting class last week

one of the female writers in our class is writing a feature about this gang of teenage girls who sort of become vigilantes and murder men who harass women (that’s a shitty logline of it but it’s actually fucking awesome and highly stylized and over-exaggerated like tarantino in a good way bc i fucking hate tarantino). ANYWAY their first kill is this guy named taylor. taylor is one of the girl’s boyfriends. it is heavily implied and the writer confirmed that he abuses and rapes her. not explicitly seen, but she has bruises, there are scenes implying it etc.

so. she wrote the part where they kill taylor. and one of my professor’s comments was about how he felt like he didn’t hate taylor enough.

to which me and my female friend were like um what?? we hate him. he fucking raped and abused her. wE HATE HIM. HE IS A HORRIBLE PERSON.

and my prof was like well yeah i hate him but i don’t HATE hate him. and we argued about it. so he took a poll of who hated taylor. ALL of the girls in the class raised their hands. none of the boys did. when he asked who didn’t hate taylor all of the men raised their hands. and me and my friend started laughing because of COURSE they did.

and my prof was like why are you laughing and the writer was like “i think they’re laughing at the gender difference in that answer” and my prof was like “well, from my male perspective, i don’t think i’m being sexist”

WHAT.

first of all did you hear that sentence at ALL do you understand how paradoxical it is?????

second of all, no. just no.

and then my prof went on to say “i feel like we need to see taylor be horrible. like bad solution, he kicks a dog”

evidently a man can abuse and rape a girl and not be hated, but if he kicks a dog then he’s PURE EVIL

and THAT is exactly what’s wrong with our society

catastrofries

#omg this makes me feel so mad #pls remember women are above animals okay...#im not saying this because i dont value human buttttt #why did he come up with such a pathetic example?#its not even equal...

i-the-throw-away-deactivated201

“Yes, being in a female dominated field, I do know what it means to be marginalized. “

god

omg

oh my fucking god

freedominwickedness

The really ugly part is they’ve actually done multiple sociological studies on this, and guess what the result is? Men in female-dominated fields aren’t marginalized at all; they get special treatment and are fast-tracked to the top, getting more credit for their work, faster promotions, and greater pay and benefits than their female colleagues.

Here’s one study. Here’s another. And another.