i'm leaving here with you

oh hi! i'm nini, 25, in love with six of crows, taylor swift, sims, httyd, atla, twilight, bangtan, my cats, and my friends. ♡ for the simblr community: berrysims-lp

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♧ all of Six of Crows posts & reblogs ♧

♧ Book 1 ♧

[etherealspacejelly]

this is your gentle reminder to stop fighting against your adhd and instead structure your life around it

buy a pack of chapsticks and put one in the pocket of all of your coats and jackets because you always forget to bring one and chapped lips is sensory hell

leave important things where you can see them. if they go in a box or a drawer you will forget they exist

put any appointments or deadlines in your phone calendar As Soon As you get them. set a reminder for a week before, a day before, an hour before, as many as you need as often as you need them.

when that little voice in your head says "i dont need to write that down, ill remember it" that is the devil talking!!! write it down anyway!!

plan for down time. have a few hours at the end of every day to just do fun stuff like engage in your hyperfixations. even if you didnt get all of your work done that day, have the rest anyway. you probably spent the whole day beating yourself up for not doing what you Should be doing, so you still need the break.

if you never eat vegetables because its too much effort to chop and cook them, get the frozen or canned shit. it doesnt go off for ages and you just have to microwave it. theres no point buying fresh vegetables if they just keep going off and being left to rot in the bottom of your fridge

if you struggle to decide what to have for dinner every day, take the decision out of it. choose a set of meals and eat those on rotation until you get sick of them, then choose some new ones and do it again.

its not stupid if it works! our brains literally have a chemical deficiency. you are allowed to accommodate yourself. go forth and stop making your life more difficult than it has to be because "this shouldn't be this hard". it is hard, so make it easier.

[should-be-sleeping]

You are allowed to accommodate yourself.

[evenifitshandcuffed]

That childhood experience of explaining your friend how your shower works when they're over for the night.

[evenifitshandcuffed]

Guys pls help there's this boy and tell me why do i actually want to be in a one-sided crush like????

I feel the butterflies and the blood flushing to my cheeks when he says we're "friends" and cute little detailed things but i kind of like it??

Do i want a gold rush? Am i ok?

[dailycatsblog]

[dailycatsblog]

[evenifitshandcuffed]

"I have an outside cat and they lived 19 years" is very often just multiple cats.

[introvertsnation]

[thememedaddy]

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[ladymavet]

That's not autism - speciality.

[peelingmandarins]

[thememedaddy]

[blackberrybriars]

Okay I definitely agree that some of the Kuwei hate is too much, but I've seen people saying "all he did was get kissed by his crush!!" and I don't think that's accurate at ALL.

I don't have the book with me to reference so please do correct me if I'm missing something, but when I first read it I got the very strong impression that Kuwei knew exactly what he was doing and knew that Jesper thought he was Wylan. He was definitely taking advantage of their shared face and his behavior after the kiss made that clear to me.

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Wylan shrugged and played another note. Jesper leaned on the piano. "Wanna get out of here?" Wylan looked up at him, his gaze speculative. He nodded. Jesper stood up a little straighter. "Really?" Wylan held his gaze. The air in the room seemed to change, as if it had become suddenly combustible. Wylan rose from the piano bench. He took a step toward Jesper. [Describing "Wylan"]. And did any of that really matter when Wylan was looking at him like that–head tilted to the side, a slight smile playing over his lips? He looked almost... bold. [...] Wylan's grin broadened. His brow lifted. If that wasn't an invitation... "Well, hell," Jesper muttered. He closed the distance between them and took Wylan's face in his hands.

[After the kiss and realization]

The real Kuwei plunked that same listless note on the piano, grinning shamelessly up at him through thick black lashes.

– Crooked Kingdom, Chapter 24 Jesper, Page 343/344

[evenifitshandcuffed]

no i don't know how old i was when this happened to me but i know which house i lived in

[thememedaddy]

[evenifitshandcuffed]

I say "no why?" and if it's a good reason "I should be home in about 5 minutes you can drop by"

[gaveyouigaveyoui]

what is your number 8 song on your on repeat playlist?

[mortalityplays]

btw you will miss this in 5 or 10 years. memory will smooth these circumstances down like a river stone, and you will find yourself longing for a shade of light or a moment of this particular innocence. you don't know about what happens next, and one day that will be the most alluring thing of all. don't leave it all for nostalgia. have a nice night now, whatever night it happens to be.