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That is one sexy bed!
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beautiful latex GoddessâŚ.
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I had to make a caption to one of my favourite blogs @5-inch-and-more
Such breathtaking pictures!
It is a great feeling to be owned by you Mistress Kitty @formypups.
Switch No More
I loved being a switch. Past tense. The amazing sensation of being a slave. Feeling my Master fix his collar around my throat and know I was his. Feeling like I was where I belonged and that nothing or no one could ever hurt me. But now no more. My ex-Master is interstate. 1800km away. 2 hours flying time. And over the last few years Iâve gained more than a few frequent flyer points, and I have done all I can to please him when we are apart. Things I never thought myself capable of doing. I work around his shift work. I work around him being a single dad. I go incommunicado for 2 weeks when his parents visit because god forbid he has even a friend he might text. But now it seems that I am not even worthy enough for him to read my messages. 7 days off work and not even a request to go to him. Heâs been online multiple times today and is yet to even read my message from yesterday. And right now - well on that app Iâve changed my name to ânothing and nobodyâ because that is how he has made me feel.
To those who honour me by giving me their submission @mrc5555 @fred-fantasies and hopefully soon @cuck-secret I will never do that to you. I will never make you feel like nothing. I will never make you feel worthless. The greatest gift one can give is their submission, and that is one that as a domme I am incredibly honoured to receive. And that is why when I get requests from subs who I donât click with, or who donât have what Iâm looking for, or who I will not have the time it will take to train them @spartan1140 @subboy012 I will talk and I will lend a friendly ear and I will do all I can to help you find the right domme. But I will not accept your submission as it is not fair on you. You as a sub deserve better. You deserve a domme who will make you feel all that he made me feel because that feeling of complete and utter trust and the total power exchange and the total freedom it gives you is one that is phenomenal and indescribable.
So no more collar for me. Now Iâm simply a domme who is determined to do a much better job than was done on me.
I'm sorry to hear that you've lost ur master love, but I hope you enjoy being a full time domme like I do! ⤠Always here for you doll! Both my sub and I :)
If you call pedophilia a kink please unfollow me and never talk to me again
Isnât it disgusting that 23 people just unfollowed me
Unfollow me too
this goes double if you call paedophilia a disability. unfollow me twice
and if you call pedophilia an âorientationâ or in any way compare it to being LGBP+ you can unfollow, delete your blog, and set yourself on fire.Â
I just lost 50 followers.. bye
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GO ON AND S M A S H THAT UNFOLLOW BUTTON
BUHBYE U McNASTIES
Iâve seen this circulating forever and genuinely thought âno way do I have any of them following meâ until this week when it turned out I had all these fuckin âMAPâ (pedophile) followers sad to find out Iâm an âantiâ (normal person) Please leave and also please get guinea worm.
I really hope no one that follows me is like this but for real, if you are, please unfollow.
Ditto
In case you didnât get the message, if youâre into kids unfollow me; if youâre not into kids, reblog this!!!
Buh bye, no thanks
Csa survivor with zero time, patience, or tolerance for pedos/MAPs/apologists/whateverthefuck you sick fucks are calling yourselves.
PEDOPHILES, MAY YOU KINDLY FUCK OFF
Evil Week To Begin Shortly
So, my dear little sub and I have been dealing with alot of stress lately. Him alot more than me, and we are in dire need of some distractions. He's been a very good boy, but we both discussed the possibility of starting an 'Evil Week' where I just make the worst 'chores' for him to do. And what I consider chores, are things along the lines of humbling, milking, edging with the plug in (which have 3 settings), and being ball tied, or weight tied, and being blindfolded, gagged and tied up while I have him do an assortment of the above things while he's listening porn lol
So, with that being said, I figured, why not ask the community for some ideas? Feel free to message me or comment on the post! Looking for some new ideas to really make my sub as horny and teased as possible! :) Fire away! Lol
Going on the prowlâŚ..
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Absolutely, I think I will be writing an entire article on this in the next while. This is super important!
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Yes! This! Submission is a gift that he gives her, freely, and willingly, and is at his most happy doing so! Take his submission, dominant him, love him, cherish him. Thatâs all he wants to do with you. He wants what you want with all his heart!
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Example:
Today I was in a horrid mood. And usually, I'll make my sub do some chores. He doesn't mind cuz he knows it makes me happy and relax and cool off. And it turns him on too so it's really not an abuse of power. Trust me. You'd have to know us to understand there is no abuse in this relationship. ANYWAYS
As I said I was in a horrid mood. He obviously picked up on that and offered to sub for me so I could feel Better. I declined the offer, cuz I didn't want to domme at the moment.
My sub is a free sub and we do have our moments where he does have to listen to me, even when he doesn't want to. Like when he's bad for instance. He knows not to argue and does what he's told. Other times, when the domme mood hits me just right, he does have the option to say not right now. Or if he just wants to sit and talk and be intimate or just enjoy some quality time with me, he has that option and I'm more than happy to oblige!
Our FLR is totally open and totally free and yet he chooses to kiss my heels and kneel down before me. Cause he respects, adores, and loves me. Not just cause I'm his domme. But cuz I'm his lover and friend and person! :)
I love my sub to death and adore him to pieces! â¤đ Couldn't have asked for a better sub or a better man in my life than this one!
A major part of many kinky dynamics is a focus on discipline. While âdisciplineâ can be a fun part of your everyday activities, it can also mean something more specific in terms of punishment. âPunishmentâ differs from the general sense of discipline in that it has a specific goal to focus on that changes a submissiveâs behaviour.
Many people engage in what can be called âfunishment,ââpunishment-type activities, like regular spankings or other forms of play, that are not meant to alter the behaviour of the submissive but rather to provide enjoyment to either/both/all parties. However, it is important to distinguish the difference between playful discipline and serious punishments. Punishments are consequences of negative actions, whether this is based on officially-written regulations or unspoken general behaviours like brattiness, defiance, or dangerous behaviours.
The idea of punishment is based largely on psychological research in the area of behaviourism. It consists of techniques that are supported by science to effectively alter the behaviour of an individual. (If you want to learn more about the research behind punishments, look up B. F. Skinnerâs work in this area.)
Two types of punishments exist: positive punishments, which add undesired consequences to the behaviour, and negative punishments, which take away desired privileges.
Now, before I get into some specific ideas for punishments, there are some important key points Iâd like to make. Please be sure to read all of these before deciding on a specific punishment.
Punishments do NOT negate the right to a safeword. Some people are mislead into dangerous situations by being told they cannot safeword during a punishment. This is completely untrue. All parties have a right to safeword at any time during any kind of play or punishment. Taking away the right to safeword equates to abuse, plain and simple. Donât ever tell your partner they cannot safeword or ignore their safeword for the sake of punishment. This is not effective and is extremely harmful to your partnerâs mental and/or physical well-being.Â
NEVER punish out of anger. Anger is never a healthy motivation for punishment. Punishments are meant for the submissiveâs benefit, at the core. If the submissiveâs behaviour has made the Dominant angry, they should have a cooling-off period where they can calm down, think about an appropriate punishment, and resolve the matter at a later time, after healthy discussion about what happened.
Limits are NOT to be used as punishments. Many people have activities they donât particularly enjoy that arenât on their limits list. Some people have specific ideas for punishments that suit them best. However, regardless of you or your partnerâs experience with punishments, it needs to be understood that hard limits are not punishments. Hard limits are never to be used for punishmentâs sake because âhard limitâ means âI do not want to do this under any circumstance.â Using a hard limit as a punishment would be an abusive act, as hard limits come with an automatic safeword attached, since they are specificly stated as things the person does not feel comfortable with. Never, ever, threaten or use hard limits to punish a submissive.Â
Use healthy discretion. This one should seem obvious, but donât follow through with punishments if rule-breaking was out of the submissiveâs control. Say the submissive has a 11PM bedtime, but they recently suffered a trauma or loss and canât sleep. Let them engage in healthy coping skills instead of punishing them for something they arenât doing on purpose. Above all else, make safety and well-being a priority.
Make the punishment fit the crime. Punishments that are relative to the defiance are much more effective at changing the behaviour than random punishments. For example, if the submissive cums without permission, try a punishment from the âorgasm controlâ section. This will better reinforce the reasoning in the submissive and more effectively guide them to make better choices in the future. There are also punishments that work best for specific dynamics like for littles or pets, so be sure to read into those, below.
Aftercare is absolutely required. Like any kind of play, aftercare is required at the end of the scene. This is especially important during punishments because often times, the submissive is consumed with feelings of guilt and disappointment. After a punishment, Dominants need to give their submissives aftercare that includes a conversation about why they were punished, how proud the Dominant is for them taking the punishment so well, and that there are no negative feelings between them. The submissive should leave the punishment scene feeling forgiven for their mistakes and proud of themselves for making things right with their Dominant. Do not leave your submissive alone after a punishment without aftercare, ever! This is highly abusive and can seriously harm your partner.
Humiliation
A great way to get a submissive to stay in line is to humiliate them when theyâve done something wrong. There are several ways to go about this, depending on your dynamic and kinks, but itâs an effective and amusing way to get the message across.Â
Clothing Restriction
Clothing restriction can be done both domestically and in public. Restriction can be as much as not allowing any clothing (in legal or private settings), ordering a certain amount of skin be showing, or choosing a specific outfit or collar for the submissive. For shy submissives, clothing restriction can be intense. This is an especially good punishment for submissives who have said negative comments about their bodies.
Diapering
For ABDL or little submissives, this can either be a reward or a punishment. Depending on the comfort level with diapers, they can be used as a punishment that ties into humiliation. Making them relieve themselves in only the diaper for a set amount of time or wearing it around the house as their only clothing can be very humiliating for some people.
Sissification
Sissification is a kink that is most common in submissive men. Itâs the act of dolling a man up like a girl and humiliating him based on his presentation as such. This can be very effective for some people but can be very problematic to others. Be careful not to use this kink as punishment with trans or gender non-conforming subs without their explicit consent, as it can very easily trigger dysphoria and cause severe emotional problems.Â
Public Humiliation
Public humiliation can be done in any subtle way that embarrasses a submissive without breaking any obvious laws. Some examples include making them wear an anal plug or remote-controlled vibrator to dinner, public leashing, or making them kneel at social gatherings. Work this idea into the submissiveâs specific kinks and limits to be sure itâs just enough to embarrass them, without making them unbearably uncomfortable.
Orgasm Control
Orgasm control is simply thatâcontrolling the submissiveâs orgasms. Most of these types of punishments are used for submissives who break rules about orgasms, be it without permission or when they were told not to touch themselves. Controlling orgasms is an amusing way to teach the submissive who their orgasms belong to.
Edging
Edging is the act of getting your partner right to the edge of orgasm, then denying them release. This can be done multiple times, even in short amounts of time. Itâs a little psychological torture, best for those who cum without permission.
Toy Restriction
For a submissive, like myself, who is accustomed to using toys during masturbation or play, toy restriction is a very effective punishment. This is especially good for submissives who have a difficult time reaching orgasm without toys, as it makes things very frustrating very quickly. An evil punishment may even combine toy restrictions with a quota of orgasms for the day that they must reach in order to get off restriction. Desperation will sink in very quickly and this lesson will be easily learned.
Forced Orgasms
Forced orgasm is another great punishment for submissives who cum without permission. It turns a great sensation into a torturous experience very quickly. This is especially great with toys like the Hitachi or a Sybian. Focus on a goalâeither for number of orgasms, or a specific amount of time. An hour spent riding a Hitachi can really be the most agonizing thing for some people due to heightened sensitivity after each orgasm.Â
Denial
Denial is the complete opposite of forced orgasms. Itâs like edging, but there is no orgasm at the end of the scene. This can be doing while using toys and not allowing the person to orgasm or it can be done by restriction orgasms or even touching oneself for a longer period of time.
Chastity
Chastity, much like denial, is the refusal of orgasms. However, with chastity, the submissive is completely unable to touch themselves, even if they wanted to. Devices for people with penises and vaginas are available to purchase online to assure your submissive is following orders properly.
Domestic Discipline
Domestic discipline includes things that can be done within the home. Some of these include behaviour modifications or restrictions. While some of these can be done outside the home, these are good examples of things for couples who live together can do for punishments.
Chores
Chores not only benefit the entire household, but they can also be an effective punishment for unruly subs. Added chores can be especially fun if you make her clean the bathroom with a toothbrush or make him do dishes with nipple clamps on. Combine with other punishments for your amusement!
Furniture Restriction
Especially fun for people into pet-play, furniture restriction involves limiting where the submissive can sit or lie down. Require that they sit on the ground instead of the couches or sleep on the floor next to the bed if theyâve been defiant.
Caging
Another good one for pets, especially. Caging can be used to make the submissive reflect on their reasons for being punished. Be sure to use a cage small enough to confine them, but still large enough so they arenât going to hurt themselves by spending too much time in the cage.
Bedtime
A great one for littles! Bedtimes are good for college students who donât do their homework, or easily distracted adults with work to do. Set up rules that require all obligations get done and enforce an early bedtime to be sure they are well-rested (and easily frustrated) when they donât follow these rules.
Time-Out
Another punishment for reflection. Time-outs are good for brats and littles because it makes them analyze what they did wrong. Put them in a corner or a special âtime-out chairâ so they know they are being punished. Increase the time or add in other punishments if they break rules more than once.
Sensory Deprivation
Sensory deprivation is a lot like time-out, but can be used for added psychological torment. Plug the submissiveâs ears or use headphones, blindfold them, bind them to a bed or chair, and completely ignore them for a set about of time. This desensitizes them and not only makes them reflect on their reasons for punishment, but makes it very uncomfortable, assuring they wonât want to end up in isolation again.
Objectification
Objectification is fun for Dominants who like their submissives in service to them during punishment. Make them kneel and become your footstool or coffee table while you watch TV or catch up on work. This is even better when you make them do it completely naked and/or in front of guests.
Dietary Restriction
If a submissive has done something against the rules, you can make them follow a strict diet. This is especially useful for those using behaviour modification to lose or gain weight. However, be careful to ensure the submissive is still getting enough nutrition. For littles, see how much they want to be a brat after you take away their dessert privilege. For pets, try making them eat out of a bowl on the floor for each meal.
Speech Restriction
For disrespectful submissives, punish them by taking away their right to a personal pronoun, making them refer to themselves as âthis girl,â âYour slut,â âMasterâs puppy boy,â or anything else you want to use. You can also make it a rule that they must refer to you by your Dominant title at all times, even in public. Having to remember their restrictions on speech will keep them thinking about their punishment all day.
Corporal Punishment
Corporal punishment is enforcement by physical contact. These types of punishments involve pain, which is a tricky subject for punishing. Typically, pain punishments donât work as well to change behaviour, especially if the submissive is also a masochist. Be sure to carefully choose what kind of pain if youâre going with one of these methods.
Impact
If your submissive likes thuddy pain, use stingy pain. If they like stingy pain, use thuddy. Push their limits carefully, but make it clear this is a punishment and not for fun. Have them apologize as you strike them. Tell them why they are being punished and make it clear that they are to be good and learn from their mistakes.Â
Rice Kneeling
Kneeling on uncooked rice is an age-old technique that leaves painful marks. Be careful with time, as this can scar if done for long periods of time or used constantly. Be present during this to be sure the submissive can take it and listen carefully for safewords. Use this as a time out or have them recite an apology to you as you do this.
Figging
Figging is done by carving a plug out of ginger and inserting into the anus. This causes a stinging pain that ranges in intensity depending on the person. Frozen ginger is a milder form of this punishment.
Writing Assignments
Writing assignments are usually meant to bore a submissive into obedience. Whether itâs writing lines or a random homework assignment, the punishment focuses on making it undesirable for the submissive to misbehave.
Lines
Writing lines is effective if you use it reflectively. For example, for a submissive who is disrespectful, you can have him write, âI will always be polite around my Sir,â a hundred times. For a submissive who cums without permission, you can order, âI will ask permission from Mistress before I cum,â until they fill up five pages. Whatâs even more fun is making them be stuffed with a toy or on their knees with nipple clamps on while they write.
Apology Letter
An apology letter is a simple task meant to make the submissive think about what they have done, analyze why it was wrong, and have them apologize formally by writing it down. Have them read their letter to you our loud or crumple it up and put in their their underwear for that added perk of remembering all day that they were punished.
Essay
An essay is a good assignment for submissives who donât seem to understand their rules. Make them come up with reasons as to why these rules are in place and write a formal essay about the reasoning and purpose of these rules. Making them analyze the fact that this is for their benefit will remind them that rules are not just there to be mean, but to guide them to healthier behaviour.
Homework
Especially fun for people with school girl or teacher fantasies, assign a random homework assignment. Ever wonder about a certain subject but never have time to actually research it? Assign a paper to your submissive about a subject of your choosing and have them report back to youâbecause knowledge is power! Grade their paper and reward/punish again as necessary for the quality of their work.
Itâs important to remember that reinforcements are also important in addition to punishments. When your submissive follows directions, reward them. Give them a treat or praise them and thank them for being so good. If you mix positive reinforcement with punishments when necessary, theyâre sure to be trained in no time!
xx SF
Havenât read it all yet, but what Iâve read so far is quite good.
Really like some of these ideas
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Great punishment ideas. Another aspect of female led relationships that can be customized and played with to great extent!
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Tell m my slave! Poor thing, you've been plugged (with vibrations on max) and taped since last Thursday, you must just be dripping now....2 more days till ur release ;)