nobody's wife's diary

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[neuro-light]

Don’t usually go on Facebook because it’s fucking stupid but this. Was too funny.

[mrsterlingeverything]

Do you want to deal with customers all day or do you want to dive deep into the ocean and perform dangerous repairs. Do you want to deal with school administrators and too many students or do you want to shake hands with the worst men youve ever met and be complicit in the destruction of the environment. Do you want to get naked in front of the internet for anyone to see or do you travel with an airline and be unable to settle down. And most importantly Do you wanna party

[toiich]

Laura Dern and Isabella Rossellini for Vogue Italia, June 2000

[guessimdumb]

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Prefab Sprout - Desire As (1985)

A heartbreaking classic from Paddy McAloon on Prefab Sprout's wonderful 2nd LP.

But there it is, and there we are

[exene]

i went to see a free screening of nashville with my brother’s girlfriend who is a real moviehead and it’s still one of the best movies i’ve ever seen and she agreed 🙃

[2productive]

[thewingedwolf]

do you think the catholic church effectively utilized wokeness by funneling money into the colonization and rape of the americas after issuing the doctrine of discovery which effectively legalized the subjugation of indigenous peoples?

[fatartappreciation]

Nude With Camera. Rimbun Dahan 3 (2014) by Myanmar artist Sandar Khaing

[exene]

why was i so skinny but hated my stupid unscarred but chronic pain ridden body and kept associating with complete fucking freaks and losers who Were Mean to Me!!

[exene]

wow does anyone experience gut wrenching sadness when looking through pictures of themselves being young and hot because that time and process of being that was so unbearably painful and you can’t go back and fix it either to make different choices or ameliorate the pain?

[evvergreen]

tumblr is the website for if you're just someone's weird sister

[fravery]

"The best cure for the body is a quiet mind

•Napoleon Bonaparte

•Art by :Andrew Wyeth

[oneheadtoanother]

[exene]

it’s crazy how much my life has changed for the better in 6 months and from last year. a year ago i was going crazy reliving the abuse i experienced as a teenager a week into moving back into my childhood house that was empty except for all the nails in the wall and trash that the tenants who had been there for 4 years left. and on top of that psychic drama having to rehash to so many family members why i was breaking up with my ex after 5 years. and i didn’t know or hadn’t reconnected with anyone in town so my birthday consisted of my one aunt insisting we go to the dmv so me and my brother hung out with her and our aunt and uncle eating chinese food. actually one of the last times i saw my aunt before she nearly choked to death from ALS and has since had a trach in. me and her sister took this crazy shower chair and dyed washed and styled her hair. and things have only gotten better i was working a shitty job where i met a lot of people i love now, i made a lot of crazy decisions or nondecisions in my post grief fugue state but nothing really bad happened i just have to live with the embarrassment of a few things i did when my ego was shattered into a million pieces and the overcompensation after the fact when i remembered/insisted i’m good at everything and plugged in to the universe and everyone affirmed instead that i was so hot but crazy insane. i fell out with one of my best friends after 14 years because his bipolar ass propositioned me which still makes me angry but it doesn’t break my heart the way it did in that moment. and i went on a billion dates in january that were fun and funny and found my current boyfriend and he has actually made everything in my life a million times better and easier and so much more fun. i’ve seen him every day since we decided to be together and only been apart for a few nights that we had appointments or visitors. i don’t think i’ve ever been as happy to spend all my time with one person, maybe my sisterly codependent roommate i was locked down with. i love interdependency. i love him, i love how my world has opened back up in coming back to this particular home. hopefully next year will be even better

[proustiansleep]

"By the 1990s, the cultural rebels who had gotten PhDs in the 1970s stormed the university and secured tenured positions. They did not pay attention to budgets and administration as much as they were obsessed with their own commitments to cultural transgression, some of which involved wearing jeans to class, smoking pot, sleeping with students, and listening to John Cale, but also enjoying Madonna’s MTV videos. Jean Baudrillard had taught us that everything was simulacral, and it did seem as if style had become the most important part of substance, and words become signifiers were permanently untethered from their referents. In the evolution of PMC, antagonism against mainstream culture and ordinary people were mixed up with its smug sense of subcultural superiority."

—Catherine Liu, Virtue Hoarders: The Case against the Professional Managerial Class

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[exene]

i’m feeling like a million years old in my joints and everything and i guess that’s just being back in the service industry full time for a year with a connective tissue disorder