[loveridden1999]

doing things at the right age is literally a made up concept. you can start/pursue anything at any age. btw.

[loveridden1999]

remember remember

[lesvegas]

A few years ago while trying to find ways to commit suicide as painlessly as possible, I came across a PDF of Dr. Paul Quinnett's The Forever Decision. Thinking it might go into actual methods of suicide (I read an article once that actually did that and was trying to find it again) I started to read it, and I think I only got about two pages in before I was crying too much to actually see the words.

I downloaded the PDF to my hard drive and I open it again whenever I'm feeling too suicidal to do much else, but not enough to start booking a ride to the hospital. And every time without fail I only go up to a few pages before backing off and choosing to live another day just because suicide suddenly seems even more unbearable than whatever the hell upset me in the first place.

All the book really does is [I'm pulling a summary from GoodReads here as, again, I've read no more than 5 pages] "discusses the social aspects of suicide, the right to die, anger, loneliness, depression, stress, hopelessness, drug and alcohol abuse, the consequences of a suicide attempt, and how to get help."

But it also starts with the author kindly asking the reader to complete the book before going through with anything, and for some reason I'm compelled to really just try to read it all before finalizing everything. Despite not yet completing it (hopefully never will) I think I can safely say it's saved my life at least a few times now.

It's intentionally legal to copy and redistribute this book to keep it as accessible as possible, and it's very easy to find, but here's a link for it anyways.

[hopeful-recoveryy]

Harm Reduction: Self harm masterlist

Though I’ll always advocate for starting recovery ASAP, I know some of y’all aren’t ready. Please stay alive until you’re ready.

Planning where and when to self harm

First Aid Wound Care Guide.

Treatment for Cuts and grazes

How to apply a dressing

First aid for burns

Eight signs of wound infection

Home wound care do’s and don’ts

Ointments for Wound Care

What an infected burn looks like, and how to tell if your burn is infected

Cuts and Abrasions: When to go to the hospital

When to Go to an Urgent Care for Stitches: 5 Signs

Arteries: What They Are, Anatomy & Function

Upper limb arteries

Arteries of the Lower Limb

What to know about different types of bleeding

How to Stop Arterial Bleeding Before It’s Too Late

Emergencies and First Aid - Direct Pressure to Stop Bleeding

What to Expect During the 4 Stages of Wound Healing

How to know if your burn is healing properly

Scars: A guide to good healing

Top Treatments and Natural Options for Scar Removal

How to Get Rid of Self-Harm Scars

Information for patients who may have scarring after self harm

Distraction and displacement ideas and resources

Crisis text line (text 741-741)

Self-harm: Limiting the Damage

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[krknlovebot]

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I need a sticker for surviving 2023 so I made one and thought I’d share it with you all too. Reblog to give everyone stickerssss

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[egberts]

looks like october is…. octover

[laurassecretlife]

i’m queueing this for next year

[finchjpeg]

Its nowvember

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website

[hesbythecampfire]

StopNCII.org is operated by the Revenge Porn Helpline which is part of SWGfL, a charity that believes that everyone should benefit from technology, free from harm. Founded in 2000, SWGfL works with a number of partners and stakeholders around the world to protect everyone online

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[friendofthefellowship-deactivat]

Reminders I need sometimes:

You are not causing world hunger if you throw out the lettuce you forgot about, you don't need to feel guilty.

Your followers are not going to die if you don't update your blog or fanfics, you are not their sole source of happiness and you are not responsible for their feelings.

Drinking bottled water might be bad for the environment, but it's also bad if you forget to drink & you get dehydrated.

Eating junk food is better than not eating at all.

Eating cereal for dinner is better than not eating at all.

Writing in your journal/going to therapy/meditating once a month is better than not doing it all.

You're allowed to mask if you need or want to. Masking is not a moral failing.

Other people aren't relying solely on you to cheer them up or to make them feel welcome. If you don't have energy to take care of people today, there are other places and people they can turn to for help. You don't have to take care of everyone.

Your feelings are separate from anyone else's. You can be sad when other people are happy, and happy when other people are sad.

You're allowed to have happy moments during a hard week. That doesn't mean the week hasn't been hard, and it doesn't mean that you're faking happiness. Your feelings can change from minute to minute.

[armandgender]

people who say “I block for spam liking” like damn sorry that you hate joy. Every time someone goes through and likes 3829278 posts on my blog I’m filled with a love and power that you will never know and I pity you

[exuqnsis]

spot the difference is getting harder everyday

[exuqnsis]

can you horndogs stop adding angst tags to your fics? im tryna cry over here i dont want to read the smuttiest thing known to man