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[eternalii-famishiis]

Fuck it can be frustrating to not have a foreskin sometimes!

I’m sitting here horny as hell, rubbing myself furiously tonight and I can barely feel anything! This was exactly what my wife wanted when she made me get it cut off and it’s definitely worked. There’s not enough skin on the shaft to pull up over the head as I stroke and even if there was the head has become so insensitive it wouldn’t make a difference. It’s amazing the way women can perpetually control us just by having the doctor cut a little bit of our skin off. It’s incredible the way society has normalized women taking away so much of men’s ability to self-pleasure. No matter how much I might want my foreskin back tonight to get myself off with, it will never happen. It’s gone forever and with each day I feel less and less. My penis is just a tight shaft and dull head now.

And I’m so grateful I have a wife strong enough to make the decision to do that to me…

[mytrophyballs]

Just wait buddy. Next up is your vasectomy that she will insist you have as soon as your last kid is born. Then next up is your total castration and cutting off your balls to end your sex drive so she doesn t need to deal with never letting you fuck her as much as a man wants and needs. 

She will cut off your manhood and sexual abilities piece by piece until you are her neutered gelding. 

[eternalii-famishiis]

It’s interesting you say that…

I don’t think I’ve talked about it on here yet because the whole thing is still a bit of a sensitive issue in my head but, since you’ve mentioned it…

Yes, actually, my wife has already told me she expects me to eventually have a vasectomy.

She brought it up one day after she’d been visiting with family. From the little bit she’s told me, it sounds like one of her cousins had just had her husband vasectomized and was talking about how happy she was with the results. I think he was still in the healing phase and still not able to have sex yet but she had absolutely no regrets about it. Then a couple of aunts chimed in that they’d had their husbands done as well and thought it was a great idea. This evolved into a conversation amongst all the women about how it’s the obvious thing to have done to your husband after you’re finished with pregnancy because it’s so simple and makes women’s lives so much easier–they all loved how the procedure meant not having to worry about birth control anymore. Apparently there was a general consensus that there was no down side to it because a man’s anatomy made it so straight forward and we don’t miss having sperm in our ejaculate anyway.

It was a couple days later when we were getting ready for bed and she was taking her pill that she said in a very matter of fact way, “it’ll be so nice once you’ve had your vasectomy and I don’t have to worry about these anymore.” 

I looked at her stunned and after a second replied with, “I’m sorry, what? No, I’m not getting a vasectomy.”

She looked at me with an expression of bewilderment, like it had never crossed her mind that I hadn’t already expected this, and replied, “What do you mean? Of course you are. Once you don’t need to get me pregnant anymore.”

I continued to look at her stunned and confused and finally asked where this idea had come from all of a sudden. She responded calmly that it wasn’t all of a sudden, it was simply the most reasonable thing to do. A woman’s body is much more complicated than a man’s which makes birth control more difficult and dangerous for them. The only problem with vasectomies is that they’re permanent which is why we were waiting until I didn’t need to get her pregnant anymore and then I’d go to the doctor to get it done. It wasn’t until I pressed her on the fact that in years of being together she’d never brought this up that she finally told me about the conversation she had with her family.

I continued to insist that I wasn’t going to have it done but I couldn’t really make an argument against it. She just smiled and kept calmly saying that it isn’t a big deal and lots of husbands do it for their wives and never have any trouble with it and that I needed to think about what was best for her and that it was just a little cut in the side of my scrotum that would be over before I knew it. Eventually she ended the conversation with a kiss and an “okay dear, whatever you say.”

Looking back on it I’m a little stricken by just how similar this conversation was to our first conversation about circumcision, and you all know how that ended up. Very much like with circumcision, she presented the idea in a very matter of fact way, as if it would be silly to think that I wouldn’t have the procedure and without any hint of interest in my thoughts on the subject. She clearly has no concerns about having my spermatic cords cut and tied and leaving me permanently sterile.

She hasn’t brought it up again but she’s on her second pregnancy now and I can’t help but wonder how much longer it will be before she does. And I’m not sure that I’ll do any better resisting her intentions for me this time than I did the first time when she set her sights on my foreskin…

[snippykins]

Once my partner and I finish having kids, I have no qualms about getting him snipped too. If I have a c-section for the last kid, I might get myself sterilised too, while they’re in there.

This reminds me of stories of boys going in for hernia ops, or tonsils, appendix, broken arms being set.. and waking up unexpectedly circumcised ;) Mmm.. I remember speaking to a friend once about circumcision and he told me how he was cut twice. Once at birth, and then when he was 8, he needed a hernia operation, and as the nurse is checking him out just before he goes under, she told his parents and the surgeon that he had a very loose circumcision, and should they tighten that up? His mum said yes, and that she’d long been worried about that. Poor kid was laying on the table, just about to be put under, while two women are discussing cutting his penis again. Of course, he woke up and had two owies ;)

[f0112358]

Regarding snippykins last comment - not surprising at all. The number one complaint parents who circumcise have after is that it was left too loose. Most don’t have a good opportunity to do anything about it. If it was covered via insurance I suspect a -significant- minority of mothers would say “yes” if given the offer to tighten their sons circ up.

My partner has been aware of the modern trend to not do them as tightly as they often did back many decades ago and specifically asked for a tight circumcision for our son before hand.

[f0112358]

From a discussion post regarding female relatives discussing your circumcision status:

“I am the oldest sibling/grandchild/cousin so any time a family member was expecting (a boy), the topic came up. I remember being asked to show my penis to my aunt when I was 9 (as I am uncut) then to another aunt at 13 (to show how retraction worked since my uncle is circumcised).”

[f0112358]

From a forum on “how did you learn about circumcision

One woman’s answer:

“I was about 8 when I saw a circumstraint in the doc's office. I asked Mom what it was and she told me. I was shocked and said, "Does it hurt?" My mom said, "Well, yeah, of course it hurts, but what are you going to do? It has to be done!"

[thewonderofwillows-deactivated2]

Do you think the circumcision decision should be taken out of the parent's hands? With so many parents opting out nowadays, I think all baby boys should be snipped whether the parents agree or not. One of the signs of a modern civilization is to fix nature's mistakes, let's start by giving all males a better penis by freeing the glan from the foreskin allowing the penis to grow to its full potential.

I do not think it should be taken out of parents’ hands. I think it should be the mother who decides primarily and I also think it should be encouraged.

[f0112358]

The mother should have the decision at birth. However if she chooses to leave him with a foreskin, when he married his wife to be should also be given the option to circumcise. Knowing that his wife to be might be hesitant to do what’s best thinking of short term discomfort, i would also say ideally the mother in law to be would have the right to request his circumcision. I doubt many men would pass all three women with the option. What do you think?

[f0112358]

Newborn circumcision outcomes: Are parents satisfiedwith the results

2013 study. The vast majority of parents were happy with results. The study notes that most cases of parental dissatisfaction were due to cosmetic results and that:

“The leaving of too much foreskin was a dominant issue of concern by families.... it is possible that a better appreciation for this parental attitude and concern would allow medical professionals who perform circumcision to try to modify their surgical technique to accommodate for these preferences”

While I hope that happens, in the mean time parents who would like to ensure a tight circumcision should speak up and let the doctors know. They can aim for a tighter circumcision if desired.

[cut-around-deactivated20190910]

Reblog this if you think male circumcision improves pleasure for women.

[thewonderofwillows-deactivated2]

I think so for certain, though that may be obvious!

[f0112358]

Photos from a recent vice magazine article on circumcision in turkey. One shows a full family with a clear view of the boy’s circumcision including his sisters. The other photo shows a boys female cousins trying to see through the window. I’m not sure what the best age for circumcision is but a big advantage to having it done around this age or perhaps up to 12 or so is this opportunity to teach the families daughters. They can learn what circumcision is and why it’s important. While the same discussion is possible with a Bris there’s a little less to see! My parents let my female sibling and I see each other naked as prepubescents and it was a good way to learn about anatomy (probably more for my sister as boys have more visible when young). Some things I’ve read suggested that decades ago some mothers at least seem to have set up opportunities for female cousins or neighbours who lacked sons to see their boys nude to satisfy their curiosity. Nowadays I suspect people expect their kids will satisfy their curiosity on the Internet - but that’s not in most cases as realistic or quite the same as seeing in the flesh. These rituals here are a good way for boys and girls to see the importance of circumcision but also for the girls to have a chance to see what boy’s anatomy looks like. They should have let the cousins in the room! And either they need to see the boy once healed, or have an older cousin show them the final result.

[thewonderofwillows-deactivated2]

do you think adult circumcision or infant circumcision is better? I'm uncut and want to get circumcised, but I'm holding off until I meet the right girl. I want her to design the cock she wants.

I like your attitude! I see the advantages to both though my favorite is a ritual cut at the age of eighteen or before becoming sexually active!

[f0112358]

Doing it in infancy is cheapest and easiest to heal and you get a good straight scarline.

Doing it later makes it easier to make it a significant family event, highlighting its importance. Good opportunity for girls in the extended family to see the boy before and see a healed boy later. They can understand the significance to maintain the tradition and get a look at boys their age which they are probably curious about.

[procircumcisiondad]

Comment from a follower

The thing that surprised me most after getting circumcised was how I started to enjoy the rough friction on my glans. The same friction beforehand was completely unbearable.

[f0112358]

Definitely true. Never felt I was too sensitive before circumcision but in retrospect I was.

[f0112358]

A friend of mine in med school participated in her first circumcision yesterday. She felt really bad for the boy. One issue was how long it went in for. Much longer than my son's took with a mogen shield. There really is a time difference between mogen, Gomco and plastibell.

[tendingmysecretgarden]

[humiliationandshame]

all the ladies with their deep decolletages watching and laughing

[gamsboy69]

Oh god mom I’m cuuuuummmmming

[mormonmommy2]

Naughty lil boys should always be publicly punished

[f0112358]

He's lucky to be over her knee. If she made him stand he'd be even more exposed, really.

[thewonderofwillows-deactivated2]

in the Philippines making sure boys get circumcised is done in two ways, free mass circumcision is organized to take place at schools and boys are "peer pressured" into getting circumcised. Should this model of campaign be rolled out to the West especially Europe as well and are there any ways you can think of to improve this model for the West?

It is an interesting thought. I do like the idea of circumcision as a significant ritual or event in a boy’s life. Really the question is do the doctors all do the same style or would there be regional flavors?

[f0112358]

Different regional flavours would be nice but at the same time they should all be tight.

But some regions could use gomco some plastibell etc. So in some regions the boys would have that brown ring and in others not.

Incidentally I've read that back mid century there were (global) regional styles with U.K. Circumcisions not only being rare but also tending to be loose. US were done tighter and apparently Australians tended to be even tighter. Don't know if it's true but that's what I read!