[sweetashe]

“My racist phase” your racist phase traumatized me. Your racist phase made me insecure about my skin and hair and nose. Your racist phase made me terrified of white people. Your racist phase was just a phase for you but it traumatized so many black kids. And yet you act like a victim. No amount of ‘I didn’t know’ will change that you fucking hurt people.

[f1ghtsoftly]

Was browsing Instagram and saw a screenshot of one of your additions to a tumblr post. Always cool to see actual feminist thought on other parts of the web where they're pretty lacking (Instagram).

Sorry no screenshot to "prove" this when I went to check out your blog the reels reset :/

this is very kind and I love you, hopefully it was good I’ve had some weird takes

[f1ghtsoftly]

what's the tea what are his issues

:/ message me not on anon I can’t out his issues out on my blog. This blog is for smearing people and talking about my issues lol.

[kittyit]

internally, you must start adding “and they still can’t stop us” to the end of every dismaying statistic about rape, male violence, and woman-hating. 1 in 9 girls are sexually abused, and they still can’t stop us. a woman is killed by a partner or family member every 10 minutes, and they still can’t stop us. the global pay gap is still wide, we have not achieved gender parity in global politics, etc etc etc, and they still can’t stop us. women & girls can’t be stopped. we carve out our lives and make change. we are at war and many individual battles are lost, the suffering is enormous. but women will win the war (and are winning across the eons), because everything they’ve done so far hasn’t been able to put a dent in the collective female spirit, which is evident when you look at the curve of human history and how we never give up on improving, inventing, innovating, changing life for the better

[f1ghtsoftly]

waking up playing fucking circle of blood

[ringneckedpheasant]

learned today that one of the hosts of a podcast I occasionally listen to was in the epstein files because of an incident wherein she was being sexually harassed/abused by a man who worked in her field -> she created a google doc for other women in said field to anonymously submit the names of men who had harassed/abused them -> one of these men sued for her for defamation even though she didn’t know him & didn’t even know who his victim was -> he couldn’t afford lawyers & reached out to epstein for funding -> epstein gave it to him -> after 5 years she was forced into a settlement & had to pay him over $100k. the way these predatory men find solidarity with each other is so so so profoundly evil

[sacred-portal]

[f1ghtsoftly]

my best friend from high school is a teacher in the hudson valley and our yearly summer hang is a critical religious ritual of mine.

[f1ghtsoftly]

I wish John was in my life more actually, I miss him terribly and he is not so far from me. I want all my friends back. All of them.

[f1ghtsoftly]

my best friend from high school is a teacher in the hudson valley and our yearly summer hang is a critical religious ritual of mine.

[f1ghtsoftly]

is my husband a bird watcher

[f1ghtsoftly]

insane first hinge date. compelling audition for role of boyfriend. Insane knowledge of Communist theory, deeply compassionate views on sex and the sex trade. Drinks too much, smokes too much, loves metal and cooking vegetarian. loves history, is romantic. Enthralled with me. Home overflowing with books. Loves all kinds of animals. A delight. Walked me home.

[f1ghtsoftly]

I am going on two more dates this week and also keeping my other two in rotation-but a very strong contender who is rather tender.

[f1ghtsoftly]

is my husband a bird watcher

[f1ghtsoftly]

insane first hinge date. compelling audition for role of boyfriend. Insane knowledge of Communist theory, deeply compassionate views on sex and the sex trade. Drinks too much, smokes too much, loves metal and cooking vegetarian. loves history, is romantic. Enthralled with me. Home overflowing with books. Loves all kinds of animals. A delight. Walked me home.

[f1ghtsoftly]

is my husband a bird watcher

[f1ghtsoftly]

straight dating in new york city is the most schizophrenic experience you could possibly

[ryan-sometimes]

Too many radfem protofascist lesbians online seem to define their sexuality more in their hatred of men than in their love of women, which is why they deem any lesbian who doesn’t perform that hatred as “fakebians”

[f1ghtsoftly]

I’ve recently become estranged from my family and realized I cut off my childhood friends because they were privy to a lot of the abuse that went on and it’s like, my heart is so full integrating my new friends with my old friends. I wanna hear from everyone ahhhh!!

[guerillas-of-history]

Two Chinese Communist guerrillas south of Yangtze River, 1949.

Images sourced by Soviet documentary film maker Vladislav Mikosha.

[gnomebutch]

If a man ever threatens suicide because you don’t want to sleep with him it’s your moral obligation to either ignore or encourage him to follow through. If you know him irl then report it to the police if you’re genuinely concerned that it’ll happen. Never let the manipulation work.