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[paintedcurbs]

Girljock Magazine Issue 9, Spring 1993

[shanesleftskate]

baby the future is now!!

[innerchildabortionclinic]

trying to frame immigrants in your sex crimes study isn't going to make up for the amount of sex tourists coming from the US, UK, western europe, and australia to commit the sort of gruesome crimes suburban facebook moms warn immigrants may hypothetically do. by the way

[evierotten]

kathleen hanna 1994 - The lead singer of the band bikini kill and the pioneer of the riot grrrl movement

[gendercriticalbutch]

i’m pretty sure i’ve made a few posts exactly like this but my god it bares repeating because this drives me mad. i’ve explained to a few trans people/TRAs on here that i cured my own dysphoria with therapy and wholeheartedly believed most people’s gender dysphoria without any radical medical intervention. each time I’ve gotten a response on the lines of: “well therapy wouldn’t be a viable option for most people’s gender dysphoria because it’d be too uncomfortable and gender affirming care is the best treatment” which is sort of baffling to me.

like yeah, that’s literally most of what doing the work in therapy is. it’s doing deep introspection on your behaviors and training your brain to work differently than the way it’s naturally wired. it’s not easy, and can often be uncomfortable which is why you have a professional helping to guide you. the fact that these things are inherently difficult and uncomfortable is exactly the reason why a lot of people who are clearly unstable opt out of therapy entirely and say some sort of similar cope line like: “therapy just doesn’t work for me." because it’s easier to become complacent and continue living with a brain that’s making you miserable than to do the difficult work.

and the thing is, most people wouldn’t even KNOW whether or not their gender dysphoria could have been successfully treated with therapy because therapists are terrified of questioning any patient that states they think they’re trans out of fear of getting their license revoked and labeled a “conversion therapist.”

because doctors and the trans community have spoonfed it to everyone that cross-sex hormones and surgeries are the only valid treatment or else you’ll inevitably off yourself. parents are terrified of asking questions and exploring other options when their kid says they think they’re trans because the: “wouldn’t you rather have a trans kid than a dead kid?” is everywhere. you’re putting vulnerable people in a position where they’re forced to believe the only solution to their issues is extremely sketchy invasive treatments with horrifying side-effects they may not even be aware of because none of the “professionals” tell them. it’s disgusting, it’s not legitimate medical care and nobody can convince me otherwise.

[honeyapplebutterfly]

The idea that Radfems are just angry and hateful all the time is funny af to me because 90% of the Radfems I know spend most of their time frolicking in nature and hanging out with other women. Men love projection. It's like they can't handle the idea that women might be happy without them

[andro-genesis]

Men be like: “Women have it easier because [men view women as sex objects], [men have low standards for sex] and they can [something men can do but choose not to].”

[the-land-of-women]

‘I don’t feel like a girl’ ‘I don’t feel like a boy’ well great they’re not feelings, now you can stop worrying about it ❤️

[amateur-art-critic]

Jesus fucking Christ, come up with a new goddamn argument.

[the-land-of-women]

What now

[amateur-art-critic]

No, silly, I want you to prove that gender doesn't exist! Does that mean gender roles also doesn't exist and that we don't assign pink to girls and blue to boys?

[the-land-of-women]

Gender as a social construct exists yes, but no, it does not exist inherently within us and there is no ‘feeling’ like one gender, or more accurately one sex, or the other. Because they’re not feelings.

[amateur-art-critic]

Well, how do you know that you're a woman, then? If it's not a feeling as you say? Because if gender is a social construct that you don't believe in, then you should identify as female* and not as a woman.

*Female as in the scientific term for an individual of a species that can birth young/lay eggs

[mars0upial]

woman = adult human female. i don’t “identify” as a woman, i am a woman because i am female. i know i’m a woman because i was born female cringelord.

[amateur-art-critic]

So your entire purpose in life is to be impregnated and birth offspring and raise said offspring to further the human race? Because that's what a female's purpose in other species is.

It that your purpose? To be an incubator?

[vagfem]

????????????

[butch-reidentified]

Damn, my dude really just yelled "I'M SEXIST" from the mountaintops

[eyecloud9-deactivated20260327]

so uh insanity and misogyny aside does that dude think "incubator" is a gender that males can identify as ?? lol or that just because that we have the ability to bear children that makes us our ENTIRE life's purpose ?

so what's a males purpose? to abandon their children and ruin societies and culture with rape and pillaging?

[terfic]

I love when gender people are like so you’re an incubator? That’s all women are? Are baby machines? That’s what you mean when you say you’re a woman? That’s why you don’t use they them pronouns is because you don’t want to be more??? Like calm down misogynist. You’re proving the point that gender identity is the result of stupid sexist people going “I’m not an object I’m a person,” your identity is a social trend. You thinking women are made to birth children is a character issue that speaks to you having weak morals and even fewer thinking skills. That’s a reflection of you. That’s you telling us what we already know; you’re fucking dumb.

[radfae]

“i’m female”

“so ur just an incubator?”

[morteledraco]

They think women is a porn category so they go straight to the beeding fetish and degradation

[paradigm-adrift]

I accidentally did a Wikipedia binge about 1st wave feminism and fashion and stumbled upon the 1890s bicycle suit. Do people know about this? Why didn't anyone tell me about this? This is dope as hell.

It's old-fashioned. It's modern. It's butch. It's femme. It's snazzy. It's practical.

Wikipedia talks about the bloomers and the leg-o-mutton sleeves, but I'm also noticing a lot of these outfits have absolute supervillain lapels, which I also like a lot.

[captain-kit-adventuress]

finally, someone else giving some love to the much-slept-on bicycle suit.

[radkindoffeminist]

One of the most frustrating things I have found about men and women’s actions, especially in relationships, is that women are always expected to give men the benefit of the doubt, communicate better, and act when men have been poor at communicating.

When women complain that men are not doing their share of the chores it’s always: have you tried communicating that with them? Have you spoken to them about it? Have you given them a list of chores to do? Basically, have you done everything humanly to make it easier for him to do these chores?

I saw another one recently where a woman was complaining that her husband asked her three times when a certain appointment was and she said things like this put the mental load on her and was just draining. Basically every single comment was some variation of telling her she needed to put it in a calendar, saying that he probably has other things on his mind because of work or male-dominated chores (when the oil needs changing, when the grass needs mowing, etc), or basically telling her that he has a job so remembering all of this is hard and she needs to help him. (Or just insulting her.)

Meanwhile, I saw a post where a guy said that his wife always ate his fries when they got fast food so instead of doing anything about it, he hid the fries or ate them before she could get any. The responses? SHE needs to communicate better about what foods she wants in the future. On a different post where a woman was complaining that a man was eating all the snacks she would buy for herself, no matter how much asked him not to and actively hid the snacks, half of the suggestions were that she needed to buy more snacks because he clearly wanted them even if he wasn’t communicating it properly. So women eating men’s food and not asking for their own is poor communication and she needs to communicate better. But men eating women’s women’s food and not not asking for their own is poor communication but women should understand that it means he wants the snacks and get them?

Then when men don’t pull their weight in the household it’s: maybe he’s stressed from work. Maybe he’s depressed. Maybe he doesn’t know what needs doing. You, at the woman, need to communicate with him about this.

Don’t even get me started on the fact that people still assume that men are working and paying for everything while women remain at home, despite most households having two working adults.

And when the relationship ultimately breaks down then it’s her fault: SHE should’ve communicated better. SHE should have expressed her unhappiness. SHE should have done more. Nothing about the fact that she man ignored her and didn’t pull his weight, only about how her actions lead to the end of the marriage. Because men are always owed the benefit of the doubt and women always need to communicate better.

[butchboybones]

i truly don't understand how we got from

"trans women who pass can experience social and cultural misogyny because they're assumed to be female, so feminism can include them when applicable"

to

"if trans women aren't the main focus of your feminism you're misogynistic because they have it worse than anyone else in the entire world since the beginning of time so include them or im leaking your address and sending you murder threats"

[emeritusprofessorofnothing]

Oh that's easy. The first phrasing was a shield for the latter and you ostracized all of the adult women who pointed that out.

[gendercriticalbutch]

i’m pretty sure i’ve made a few posts exactly like this but my god it bares repeating because this drives me mad. i’ve explained to a few trans people/TRAs on here that i cured my own dysphoria with therapy and wholeheartedly believed most people’s gender dysphoria without any radical medical intervention. each time I’ve gotten a response on the lines of: “well therapy wouldn’t be a viable option for most people’s gender dysphoria because it’d be too uncomfortable and gender affirming care is the best treatment” which is sort of baffling to me.

like yeah, that’s literally most of what doing the work in therapy is. it’s doing deep introspection on your behaviors and training your brain to work differently than the way it’s naturally wired. it’s not easy, and can often be uncomfortable which is why you have a professional helping to guide you. the fact that these things are inherently difficult and uncomfortable is exactly the reason why a lot of people who are clearly unstable opt out of therapy entirely and say some sort of similar cope line like: “therapy just doesn’t work for me." because it’s easier to become complacent and continue living with a brain that’s making you miserable than to do the difficult work.

and the thing is, most people wouldn’t even KNOW whether or not their gender dysphoria could have been successfully treated with therapy because therapists are terrified of questioning any patient that states they think they’re trans out of fear of getting their license revoked and labeled a “conversion therapist.”

because doctors and the trans community have spoonfed it to everyone that cross-sex hormones and surgeries are the only valid treatment or else you’ll inevitably off yourself. parents are terrified of asking questions and exploring other options when their kid says they think they’re trans because the: “wouldn’t you rather have a trans kid than a dead kid?” is everywhere. you’re putting vulnerable people in a position where they’re forced to believe the only solution to their issues is extremely sketchy invasive treatments with horrifying side-effects they may not even be aware of because none of the “professionals” tell them. it’s disgusting, it’s not legitimate medical care and nobody can convince me otherwise.

[exdivine]

As a society we're reluctant to call fathers out for what they are, which is usually the biggest threat to their own children. The way society values and protects fathers at all costs, comes at the cost of child abuse.

[theradicalbutch]

And the legal system backs this up as well; I’ve seen dozens of cases where there is a father in a custody battle who is abusive/negligent and 9/10 times he’s still going to get at least partial custody because “kids need a father.” The socially constructed necessity of having a “father figure” is prioritized over the physical wellbeing of children constantly, and the fathers usually get away with it because we see them just being with their kids as being beneficial to the children’s development regardless of how destructive the father actually is

[diana-lostandfound]

I work in a criminal court and I can confirm. The crime of child sexual abuse is overwhelmingly the crime of fathers and stepfathers abusing their own daughters. Anecdotally, in the two years I've worked in criminal law, every child sexual abuse case I've seen was either a father, grandfather, or stepfather. InVoices In the Night by Toni McNaron, she and other feminist scholars theorize that incest is in fact the primary way that patriarchy is enforced in our society. As she said: "We believe that there is not a taboo against incest; merely against speaking about it… if we begin to speak of incest, we may realize its place as a training ground for female children to regard themselves as inferior objects to be used by men, as training that females cannot trust other females (our mothers usually didn’t stop the behaviors and often passively acquiesced). Incest is an early and very effective behavioral training in powerlessness and subservience."

[livinglifeasamystery]

[butch-yaoi]

I like when people get mad about masculine female characters looking a little too manly as if there aren't plenty of masculine women irl that get routinely mistaken for men

[gnomebutch]

I have never seen an actual radfem use “divine feminine” to refer to anything ever why is that such a prevalent thing to mock us for. the majority of us are annoying atheists .

[evenlesssentimentaltranslator]

They’re trying to discredit our naming of male violence against women as an axis of oppressive violence, and our naming of femaleness as something that is politically salient. It’s a strawman argument where they know they can’t argue against our actual stance so they pretend our stance is just divine feminine woo woo stuff so that they can look like they’re shooting down our arguments.

[gnomebutch]

WEAR MAKEUP WEAR MAKEUP WEAR MAKEUP IF YOURE FEMALE YOU NEED TO WEAR MAKEUP YOU NEEEEED TO WEAR MAKEUP NOWW NOWWW WEAR MAKEUP SPEND MONEY ON MAKEUP IT CAN BE ANDROGYNOUS ADJACENT YOU CAN WEAR MAKEUP AND BE VALID JUST WEAR MAKEUP YOU NEED TO WEAR MAKEUP WEAR MAKEUP

[enchantingcheesecakepersona]

Consume 🫥 Hyper Consumption 🫥 Consumer never stop consuming 🫥 Product is to be consumed by every woman 🫥 Women consume the product you cannot escape even in men’s disguise 🫥 CONSUME 🫥

[ivipl1]

i love when women have a deeper or raspier voice. its very charming