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I dont intend this question in a rude way, I am just reading that in the DSM V diagnostic criteria, āexploitative of othersā/āinterpersonally exploitativeā is one of the diagnostic criteria. But I did note its in a list of they must have five or more of the following so I assume that means you could not do that one and still have NPD. Is this accurate?
Yes. You need five or more symptoms, and it doesnāt really matter which ones you have to have NPD (thereās 9 listed). Interpersonally exploitative would be criterion 6, and when getting into more detail, it states this:
This sense of entitlement, combined with a lack of sensitivity to the wants and needs of others, may result in the conscious or unwitting exploitation of others. They expect to be given whatever they want or feel they need, no matter what it might mean to others. For example, these individuals may expect great dedication from others and may overwork them without regard for the impact on their lives. They tend to form friendships or romantic relationships only if the other person seems likely to advance their purposes or otherwise enhance their self-esteem. They often usurp special privileges and extra resources that they believe they deserve because they are so special.
I always did find that addition to the DSM-5 weird; I canāt really say if thatās because of stigma, or if itās just something that happens a lot in NPD- it could just be that I donāt understand because I donāt experience it. While the DSM-5 updates and sometimes removes things (and, considering the stigma of NPD, i wouldnāt be surprised if this werenāt entirely accurate, really), itās also true that not all symptoms of disorders are pretty, nor are they good for the person with it, and sometimes the people around them, if the person with it is unaware and/or isnāt checking themselves.
I donāt want to sugarcoat when discussing NPD, and yes, this is in the DSM 5, so it is absolutely something that people with it should be careful about. Since narcissists are, well, narcissists, sometimes we may forget the needs of others because weāre very focused on our own; having NPD does not make this something you should never work on improving, and we do need to be mindful that what we say and what we do isnāt hurting people (though, to be clear, all people should make sure of this).
That being said, criterion 6 isnāt inherent by any means. In situations like these, the absolute biggest piece of advice I can give is this: Communicate. Seriously. Talk to your friends and partners and make sure youāre on the same foot. Make sure neither of you are accidentally doing something thatās hurting the other. Having mental illness can be rough, and can cause complications in relationships. The best remedy for this is to properly talk about it with each other so you can understand each othersā wants and needs.
In my personal experiences, since we thrive off of validation and praise that I need to not be depressed, if I donāt have relationships, I might be constantly unhappy and hate myself. However, I also genuinely love and enjoy being around my friends and seeing them succeed- I would never exploit them for my own needs, because I care about them and I donāt want them to get hurt, by me or anyone else. I try to openly communicate with anyone I let in, and I am very anxious and worried about how I act, so I sometimes apologize a lot or get really nervous or shy when I think āoh no, I did something wrongā, even in cases where I didnāt do anything.
Since I have low empathy, and the exploitative part is listed in criterion six, I try to be extra mindful and communicate more than I may do if I didnāt have NPD, because while I have NPD, and thatās not my fault, it wouldnāt be an excuse if I were exploiting people, plus I just... obviously donāt want to do that to other people.
If any followers have something to add, comment or send an ask! This isnāt something I know a ton about, so Iām curious. :)
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since theres a system origin name for basically everything except bpd, which we feel like influenced the creation of our system very heavily, we decided to start calling it "bordergenic".
you may not think that bpd and did/osdd can relate like that, and thats fine. the point is, there are some people who do, and we feel like we need a term for it
BORDERGENIC : bordergenic systems are systems that identify their plural origins as coming from borderline personality disorder and its symptoms
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its really wonderful to finally see some expansive info on bordergenic systems!!
Reblog if you agree that gender and sexuality are fluid. No one needs to shove themselves into a box for the "comfort" of others. If you don't know yet, it's ok! If you don't want to label yourself, it's ok! Trying out more than one label is ok! You are valid nonetheless :)
Thatās the tea!
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character concept: defrosted forum poster from 2004 travels america spreading love and confusion to 2021ās most sad and jaded social media burnouts
this is my original work. other versions are reposts.
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praying that you find happiness and purpose in life, that you unlearn the hate and violence you were taught, that you find comfort in the simple pleasures life has to offer, and most importantly that you learn to love hard, for love is truly the greatest thing we all desperately need to experience. accept it with open arms and give it away in droves.
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world heritage post
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in honor of this becoming a world heritage post or whatever
a long awaited squeakquel i meant to make months and months ago
to everyone in the tags with the āhomophonic bowserā āso long gay bowserā and Ā ālove DOESNt winā
your all wrong, bowser is just already in a committed relationship
to everyone saying mario is a homewrecker, heres the truth
they just have the same taste
for some reason yall have stuck around this long so now your gonna get the MOST self indulgent sammi posting with the awnser to this
we go back to 2014 when i first watch that shitty live action mario movie, it was so bad i loved it so much. i knew it sucked but i was SO into it i loved it so much
and i specifically had a small crush on the lady who played the character big bertha, who was based on a one off comic character who was a giant cheep cheep who had a crush on mario. and in the movie was was also into mario. and let me tell you 14-15 year old cringe ass sammi drew SO much fanart of her as a mermaid who was in love with mario
so this one goes out to little crange ass baby nae nae sammiĀ
mario and his giant spikey mermaid gf
Whyyy did Apple start a brand of makeup, nail polish, and etc and have the first thing that they mass produce be edible nail polish
What the literal fuck is he point of putting it on my nails if Iām just gonna scrape that shit off with my teeth right after
Iāve been informed your just meant to suck on it to taste the flavor and not scrape it off with your teeth cause itāll last longer that way
But how the fuck was I meant to know that
Not to be mood killer but....
It exists, apparently š
I hate the implication that they expect kids to put it on their toes and then.. lick their toes
Modern day society turning the youth into toe lickers š/j
or, lets not forget, nail biters. (there is bitter nail polish to discourage it)
Man 99 tabs? I have 5 on both devices combined close that shit yo
thank you for pointing that out! hey OP? what the fuck?
Why the hell do you have 99 tabs open @mrgalacticmissfit
Y'all are weird.. I have so many tabs open that google can't even show me a number
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inactoromantic | inactosexual
(inact-/inacto-/initia-)romantic: someone who experiences romantic attraction and wants a romantic relationship, but doesnāt want or is repulsed by actions associated with romantic attraction
(inact-/inacto-/initia-)sexual: someone who experiences sexual attraction and wants a sexual relationship, but doesnāt want or is repulsed by actions associated with sexual attraction
alternate inactoromantic and inactosexual flags for anon! they use black, dark grey, and light grey to represent varying levels of repulsion and attraction/desire, green/purple to represent aspec identity, and pink/red to represent attraction!
flag id: the flag on the left has 5 stripes. in order, they are black, light grey, light green, pink, and dark grey. the flag on the right has 5 stripes. in order, they are black, light grey, bright purple, red, and dark grey. end id.
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Constelic: An alterhuman term for someone who collects identities of animals, fictional characters, mythological beings, and otherwise. It is often done by choice, though it doesnāt necessarily need to be, and constelic identities can be dropped, hoarded, and have priority over others. Constelic identities are often casual, āin the backgroundā, or not very intensive, though this may not always be the case. Furthermore, there may be specific tiers of how much someone relates to said identities.
These identities in question may be called constels (ex: āI have a deer constel.ā) or they may just be called an ID. You can also put an identity along with the suffix ā-stelicā (ex: I am deerstelic). Someone who is constelic may range from only having one ID, to having a very large number of them, or anything in between.
Reasons for why someone is constelic may vary. Popular reasons may be because of hyperfixation, projection onto characters, a need to āhoardā things (possibly due to things like OCD), or simply for fun. The term comes from the word āconstellationā, and the symbol is meant to represent a star that branches out into their own identities.
Symbol below the cut! You can use the flag, symbol, term, etc. on their own if you want to. You donāt have to use the flag or symbol in order to be constelic.
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Honestly shout out to polysexuals, omnisexuals, pluralians, and all the other mspecs who donāt get recognized as much as bi and pan do. You guys rock and youāre valuable parts of the community ššš
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coining two new aroace / ay labels !!
inaequic aroace / ay - someone who is both acespec and arospec, but relates more to the aroallo experience due to feeling a higher intensity/frequency of sexual attraction than romantic. coined with light-greysexual arospecs in mind, but anyone who feels as if their attraction is uneven in this way can use this term. inaequic comes from the latin word āinaequaleā, meaning unequal or uneven.
Ć”nisic aroace / ay - someone who is both acespec and arospec, but relates more to the alloace experience due to feeling a higher intensity/frequency of romantic attraction than sexual. coined with light-greyromantic acespecs in mind, but anyone who feels as if their attraction is uneven in this way can use this term. Ć”nisic comes from the greek word āάνιĻĪæĻā (romanization = Ć”nisos), meaning unequal or uneven.
the stripes donāt have any specific meanings, but both flags are based off of the aroace flag. the colours on the inaequic are based off both the aroace and aroallo flags, and the Ć”nisic colours are based off of the aroace + alloace flags :) thereās a high potential i might redo these in the future as iām not that sure of the flags lol
please read my pinned post / DNI before interacting, thank you !!