hi! bi lesbian here. i'm bisexual and lesbiromantic. I'm sexually attracted to all genders but wouldn't date anyone who identifies as male-aligned.
"but- but that's not a bi lesbian!!!!1!!"
yes. it is.
i am bi. I am a lesbian.
"but you're a lesbiromantic bisexual-"
so being lesbiromantic means I'm not a lesbian? i'm a bisexual lesbian. deal with it.
"you can't be gay and bi lol"
Hi!!! Bi vincian here. I'm biromantic and homosexual. I feel sexual attraction to only male- or nb-aligned people but am romantically open to anyone regardless of their bits and pieces.
"but that's different!!!!"
How? Genuinely. Tell me how. Because I'm biromantic, am I not valid as a bi person? Because I'm willing to date a girl, am I not valid as a homosexual man?
"contradictory" labels that don't contradict any definitions, within exclus parameters.
(this doesn't mean I don't support contradictory labels that don't fit these! It's just pointing out hypocrisy from anti-contradictory labels folks)
Bi lesbian: if a lesbian is a woman or non-binary person that loves women and non-binary people, that usually means they like genders the same and different from their own. Bisexual doesn't automatically mean someone likes every gender, just at least one gender like and unlike your own. (This is still the same for the 2 gender definition)
Ex, a woman who is attracted to women and non-binary people falls under both bi and lesbian by definition.
This goes the same for bigays, mspec lesbians, and mspec gays
Lesboy & turigirl: not all women are non-men and not all men are non-women. Multigender and genderfluid people do not need to put themselves into one box to accurately label their sexuality.
Panlesbian & pangay: abrosexuals are cool and the split attraction model is not just for aspec attractions.
BiPan: see above + pansexuals fall under the definition of bisexual, many just choose to use 1 or the other. These people just use both.
Gaybian: a nblnb relationship fits both the definition criteria for gay and lesbian.
Again, these arent the only forms of these labels I support. I just want someone to stop for a second and ask themselves why they hate these. "That's not the definition!" Cannot be the answer. Stop bothering strangers because you don't personally understand their sexuality.
ALTqueer (Alternative Queer) is a Blankqueer stance characterized by maintaining an alternative and independent position on a wide range of topics related to queer communities, identity communities, and subcultures. Rather than fully aligning with a single community or ideology, it brings together specific viewpoints based on each individual's personal beliefs.
ALTqueer aims to represent an alternative perspective that combines ideas from different communities and identities without fully adhering to any one movement or ideology. Its primary emphasis is on consent, bodily autonomy, mutual respect between individuals, and the rejection of abuse, while maintaining independent positions on various topics related to identity diversity.
Mspec, including mspec lesbians, turians, enbians, and straights.
Lesboys, turigirls, gaybians, straight lesbians/turians, FtM lesbians, MtF turians, and non-conformity as a whole.
Xenogender & neogender
Pro para
Anti contact & pro consent
TransID not harmful
Pro contradictory identities / good faith
Nonhuman / Therians / Alterhuman
obujectum
Plural in a religious sense (Example: soulbonder, tulpamancer, Spiritism, Shamanism, etc)
poly mind
Body autonomy
kink/BDSM
Pro polyam
Pro Recovery + pro Choice not to recover.
Metaidentidy
ACAB
Self-diagnosis
The reclamation of stolen transID terms (Example: transracial adoptees using transracial, people with BIID using transabled, etc.)
the right to assisted suicide for those with the unbearable longstanding urge to die.
Abortion.
Pro-regression
— NEU :
MUDs
Radqueer anti-contact.
Chrono-age and trans-age terms
drug use
— ANTI :
harassment
censorship
abuse
Consag
radqueer pro contact
xenosatanism
anti-consent
MAP/AAM
"Under 16s can consent"
Endo, willowgenic, "Any type of non-traumatic system" or "DID/OSSD system without any trauma"
IA
TMA / TME exclusionism
Ed/shtwt among other subs.
AAM4MAP
MMP/MSM.
Abolition of the age of consent.
Abolition of the age of majority.
Legalisation n social banalisation of cannibalism and commercialisation of human flesh.
radgay, TERFs, genitalists, transphobics, exorsexists, binarists, transmed battleaxe bi, etc.
Zionism
Misogyny
cringe culture
fakeclaiming
equating someone's intelligence based on highest level of education.
— ALTqueer is not set on :
Proship, darkship, comship.
NOTE: Topics such as proship, darkshipper, and related terms do NOT belong to ALTqueer. ALTqueer doesn't care about shipping; it focuses solely on queer life. You can be pro-shipper and ALTqueer, or anti-shipper and ALTqueer.
Flag Meaning
#17FF3E (Bright Green): Represents individuality, personal freedom, growth, and the ability to develop one's own beliefs independently rather than following a single ideology.
#C314AE (Magenta): Symbolizes the diversity of identities, self-expression, and the coexistence of different perspectives within the ALTqueer stance.
#613C9E (Purple): Represents independence, critical thinking, and the blending of ideas from multiple queer, identity, and subcultural communities without fully identifying with any one of them.
#0F051E (Deep Black-Purple): Symbolizes resilience, reflection, boundaries, and ALTqueer's firm rejection of abuse while emphasizing consent, bodily autonomy, and mutual respect.
Daffodil (Narcissus) - Hanakotoba:
In Hanakotoba, the daffodil (narcissus) symbolizes self-respect. For ALTqueer, it represents valuing one's own beliefs, maintaining personal autonomy, and having the confidence to hold independent views while respecting the autonomy and dignity of others.
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Your daily reminder that bi lesbians exist, they literally exist as it's possible. If you like men as well as women you're sexy
Lesbian literally means attraction
Anyone genuinely using that label is a massive lesbian AND bi and it doesn't make you an exclusionist??? To say that??? Saying that lesbians can be attracted to men is incredibly hot (And you who say well what about trans women are being majorly cool drop dead gorgeous <3
