What is, life?

Another lost soul, finding where it belongs.

[blossomfully]

There she was, at 4am, in your bed. You loved her then, didn’t you? She was wearing your duvet like a cape, with her head poking out. She loved you back; she really did. You said, “I don’t know what to do. I’ve never met anyone like you.” She said simply, “kiss me.” So you did. You lifted her chin and kissed her mouth and swallowed her giggles whole. You felt her sunshine fill your lungs as she wrapped her arms around your neck. You felt the duvet fall as she leant forward. “Tell me a secret,” she said. She was always saying these things. “I’ve told you everything already,“ you said. Your lips were on her neck. “Tell me a secret,” she repeated. “Okay,” you sighed, “I love you.” “Tell me a secret.“ “I’ve always loved you.”

S. Zhao (via blossomfully)

[blossomfully]

You’ll always remember them but eventually you won’t miss them anymore and that’s how you’ll know you’ve moved on.

Sue Zhao (via blossomfully)

[clowncare]

when u used to be an overachiever but now ur barely running on enough energy to function and u dont know how to cope

[ruibird-deactivated20170901]

since it’s a scary time to be trans: refuge restrooms is an app which maps gender-neutral/single-stall restrooms. it’s community-mapped, so it’s possible you might be the first person to log the restroom locations, but hopefully it’ll help some people.

please reblog this post if you’ve got trans followers. stay safe.

[shanology]

For my non-trans followers: please consider getting the app just so you can add neutral restrooms to the map when you run across them. Simple way to help.

[bewiubciueniocneoiheroihreoerfn]

no one looks dumber than a guy who calls a girl ugly after he was just hitting on her

[assassinregrets]

a guy who calls a girl a whore for not sleeping with him is a strong contender

[phosphorescentt-deactivated2015]

If I could offer a young person advice about anything it would be do NOT make life decisions based on your boyfriend or girlfriend. Girls especially. Do NOT stay close to home for him, do not skip opportunities to travel or study abroad, do not pick a safe college to be with him. Expand your horizons. Broaden your own life. He is not the world.

[phosphorescentt-deactivated2015]

I want everyone who disagrees with this post to come back to me in a couple years and tell me how that shit worked out.

[mysharona1987]

You only truly grow as a woman when you realize that other girls are not, and never have been, your competition.

[hannahhillam]

cats have it so good

[pessimisticandrealistic]

What you do when someone tells you they broke up with someone else, and they given up literally everything but say they have no regrets despite the breakup? And what do I do when it feels like I'm an idiot (and the only one) for deciding to wait?

Well,it always depends on the situation. Situation A: Sometimes a person breaks up with someone and doesn’t regret thebreakup simply because they have fallen out of love. In this case a breakup isthe best for everyone involved. Leading the other person on and acting likethey are still in love with them would be the wrong thing to do, and would makeit so much worse in the end. It’s always better to be honest with your partnerand end things than the other way around. Continuing a relationship just forthe sake of it won’t make anyone happy. Naturally, in this kind of situation Iwould understand why that person doesn’t regret the breakup even though they mayhave broken someone else’s heart.

Situation B: There are people out there who get involved with someone knowing that they don’t love them. They just use the other person for their own pleasure and wellbeing. In this case it’s easy for me to say that I despise these kind of people and will of course offer my support to the person that got hurt. (This actually happened to one of my friends and it’s the worst thing ever!)

Situation C: Sometimes a person, who is already in a relationship with someone, falls in love with someone else too and leaves their girlfriend/boyfriend for that other woman/man. In this case I do kind of understand that they wouldn’t regret the breakup seeing as they have already found someone else but I would also question if their love for their former girlfriend/boyfriend was ever real (and to be quite honest, I doubt it ever was).

Regarding your second question:What are you waiting for? For someone to come back to you after a breakup?Or for that person that broke up with someone else to be with you?Either way, don’t be hard on yourself. Love makes us all do stupid things.

xx

[blossomfully]

You’ll pretend it was easy for him to leave you. You’ll ignore the way tears were forming in his eyes when he said goodbye. You’ll tell your friends he probably never loved you anyway. They’ll say you deserved better. It’s easy to paint him as the bad guy. It’s easier to make it black and white and forget the grey. It’s easy to turn a complicated story into a simple one. After all, how do you voice the truth? The version of the story that hurts the most? That he loved you, and then he left. That there was no good or bad in any of it. That it was just mind numbingly painful to think about and too complicated to explain. That the love both of you felt just wasn’t enough.

Sue Zhao (via blossomfully)

[pessimisticandrealistic]

what a tragedy that she can’t see the one man who would love her endlessly. for she’s too blinded by the other man’s physique to remember that love is not something you see but something the heart has to feel.

e.s. // love is felt, not seen. (via pessimisticandrealistic)

[kainimuramonster]

THIS IS WHAT FUCKING HAPPENS WHEN YOU FORGET TO RINSE THE TUB OUT AFTER USING A LUSH INTERGALATIC BATHBOMB!

He’s fine. He got a bath.

Lush glitter is made of seaweed.

[greyallison]

He’s cosplaying the night sky.

[pazcentral]

[blossomfully]

We were too similar in the end. The same side of the same coin. There wasn’t room for the both of us. When we loved, it was beautiful, passionate. When we fought, we fought with the same claws. Three months in, I knew. “You’re going to hurt me,” I told him. “No I won’t.” He said. He had the same kind of stubbornness that I felt every day. The same pride. 4 months in, we had our first fight. “You don’t love me like I love you,” he said. I wanted to cry. Later that night I started sobbing into the sheets and he wrapped his arms around me like a blanket and buried his face into my neck. “I’m sorry,” he whispered. “I’m sorry, I’m sorry, I’m sorry.” The following morning things were normal again. But there was a heaviness in the air. We’re too similar, I thought. We understand each other too well. We understand how to act in order to cause hurt. Not just a little bit, but with a sharpness that rips to the core. We know how to tear each other apart just like we know how to build each other up. I was terrified. “He’s going to hurt me,” I said to myself. And a voice inside of me said, “but you knew that from the start.”

Sue Zhao  (via blossomfully)

[gothhabiba]

a woman: hi, how are you?

a man: hm. see I wouldn’t have phrased it exactly like that. I might have said “hello” or perhaps “salutations.” but the way you said it is cute though.

[onelastcandle]

[pir-ado]

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[tearyfuckface]