enhypen with an asexual!s/o
bf(f)!enhypen x gen!asexual!reader. fluff, tiny bit of angst. 1.4k. curse words. a few mean comments about asexuality. requested by anon.
i feel like he knows quite a lot about sexualities and stuff like that i’m not sure if that’s just me lol so he’d definitely understand ofc ♡
he knows that you were nervous about coming out and understands that — it’s quite a big thing for some people after all !
when you finished confessing to him that you were asexual, he would be very supporting,,
also loves how you trusted him enough to come out to him !!
and tbh,, i don’t think he will act any different about you coming out
but if someone insults or embarrasses you (in public) he won’t get violent but instead will have a short talk with that person.
“asexuality isn’t even a part of lgbtq—“
“excuse me, what did you just say?” 😀
he’s the type to send you wholesome asexual memes when you feel down — at least you will smile again that way !! (even if it was a lame meme LOL)
will probably help you & give you advice, too if you’re nervous about coming out to your parents, friends, other relatives, etc.
will do absolutely everything to make you feel less conscious about your sexuality !! no matter how long it will take <3
THANKS you directly after you came out to him for trusting him so much <3
probably didn’t fully understand the concept behind asexuality at first — turns your whole coming out into a small interview; he doesn’t want to overstep any of your boundaries and wants to know what makes you (un)comfortable
will not hesitate to throw hands when someone talks down on you.
i’m not kidding — he will literally be like 💢👊💥 (and then you hear 🚨🚓🚑 /j)
defends + protects you if people ask you too much questions about your sexuality which resulted in making you feel uncomfortable
gifts you cringy things but you lowkey love it 😭
asks you every week if there was something unpleasant that happened while he was not with you — he likes communicating and wants you to tell him everything ! (if you’re okay with it •͈ᴗ•͈)
the type to laugh at the asexual jokes you make but never actually makes jokes about it himself — he doesn’t want to offend anyone (aw ☹️☹️)
overall would recommend 10/10 coming out to jay <3
extremely sweet about it !!
listens with his full focus on you and is smiling the whole time (unless you say that you experienced a few bad things with being asexual :::[ )
sadder than you when you do have bad memories with your sexuality ...
“i’m so sorry this happened to you, sweetheart. i’ll be sure to protect you next time!” :(
so so so supportive !!!!! the type to shower you with kisses and tells you how proud he is of you <3
actually wants to watch videos about asexuality with you together so he has you right by his side when he has any questions !
everytime he sees the asexual flag he just has to thinks of you 😩😩 also thinks of you when he finds any colours of the asexual flag — sends you pics of these !!
besides that, i think he won’t really change much about the way he acts around you, occasionally throws in a “remember that i love you for who you are!” and he genuinely means it, but he will naturally keep being the sweet guy he is !
will probably walk on eggshells around you at first because he doesn’t accidentally want to make you feel awkward or uncomfortable around him? thinks about what he wants to say first and then actually says it out loud
if you feel insecure about it — oh, he will make sure you won’t be in a matter of a short time. words of reassurance will quickly become a part of your everyday life
i have this feeling that he wish he’d find out himself? or that he at least had predictions, hints — but nothing, this boy was clueless as fuck LOL
will not tolerate SHIT when someone dares to disrespect you though
insults them “politely” and indirectly (just straight up roasting ngl)
“asexual people don’t feel any attraction at all.”
“your opinion is.... for lack of better words fucking dumb.”
forgot about it after a month but has it internalized, promise !!
smiles proudly when you’re more confident in your sexuality and expressing it !! he probably claps too and yo clap with him,,
he is so excited tho it’s cute ???
i feel like he kinda predicted it before but wasn’t sure so he waited till you showed more sings / came out to him
gives you so many hugs and he gets a serotonin boost 😭
way more excited and hyped up than you — you’re probably just standing there like 🧍 while sunoo is the human definition of 🕺💃🕺💃🕺💃
makes jokes about celebrating your coming out with a party secretly completely serious about it,,
would be way more interested about other sexualities after he knows you’re asexual; will read about every sexuality that exists out there
likes how you’re so self-aware and knows “what you want”; your orientation, etc. ! looks up to you because of that <3
wants to make (harmless!) jokes but then he’s always contemplating like “is this too offensive??? or rude???? can i say this????”
and when you reassure him, that it’s fine — oh boy, there’s no going back now 0: you’re in for a ride 📈📈
i think he would know what it is but would need a bit to think about what it actually was
to not disrespect you he would accept your coming out to him and offers you his full reassurance and support !!
later he will read everything about it
he will read about what asexuality is; what he needs to know about it; bad/good experiences people had with being asexual so he can prepare if anyone will insult his love bad decision, really.
researches the whole night because he doesn’t want to do something wrong
round-house kicks someone in the face when they talk bad about asexuality /hj
i feel like he’d talk to his grandma about that (if you’re comfortable w it of course) and his eyes will literally sparkle when talking about how cool he thinks you are !
talks about you like his role model 🤲
does daily check ups from now on !! wants to make sure you feel safe and relaxed :]
loves how you look so happy and relaxed, now that you’ve finally came out to him — can’t stop staring at you because of that 😩
just straight up confused lmao
he’s very perplexed but when he sees how vulnerable you look that moment he shuts his mouth and waits for you to finish talking
still doesn’t really know what that means — even after you finished coming out to him
he has probably heard that term before but never understood what it meant, so he either asks you directly or one of his hyungs
won’t care much about it though,,,
not in a “i don’t care about you” way, but more like “it’s your decision”
he will probably forget that you ARE asexual because it really doesn’t play a big role in his life,, of course you’re important to him but you’re this or that is not his business and he doesn’t pay a lot of mind to it
when someone mentions asexuality in a conversation he will just randomly pop in and be like “oh, did you just say you’re asexual? my s/o’s asexual too !!!” :DD
so precious and innocent, he’s so cute ):
if he finds ANY other asexual person he wants you to be friends with them — feels super accomplished if you’re more on the shy side pls still try to befriend them ni-ki feels so accomplished ):
in conclusion he just acted like you told him your favourite animal and went on with his day
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