[fallencomet]

Closure: Looking for Alaska

I feel like there’s a part of Alaska in all of us, the 3am party girl or the quiet girl who’s lost in her own thoughts, the popular girl that seems like she’s got it all, the moody bitch in class that has trust issues, the bookworm that’s always sprouting beautiful words. Or maybe it’s you, whoever you are, there’s a part of Alaska inside you too, maybe you hide her or maybe you display her with pride.

it’s just at the end of the day nobody knows what she really goes home to, I mean everyone has got issues, right? It’s not just you and me. It’s everyone. I mean Alaska has made me aware that I should be glad, even if there’s a part of her in me. I am not her completely. She is like Pandora’s box. all these people and emotions pushed into one soul. And she couldn’t bear it.

I mean she’s first seen as this bubbly, spontaneous girl who just reels you into her life, she’s always got an adventure ready. But come 3am she’s lonely, she’s the “you” whose crying and nobody seems to give a shit, the universe is against her, in her mind. And she’s taught me that despite it all, no matter how hard it gets, DONT give up. Because there are people who DO matter, and maybe not at that moment, but you DO have people who LOVE you, and you will meet new people who you will love too.

So don’t be like Alaska Young, don’t run away when all seems vain, stay strong and fight, fight for your last breath, for life and friends and think of everything you DESERVE, everything you HAVE, think of everything that has shaped you into “you” and be proud of yourself. Of everything you’ve accomplished because there’s nobody else in the world exactly like “you”. No matter how hard they try to be, you are your own person.

So hold your head high and remember, you have so much life and energy inside you, so many dreams and memories to make.

Don’t let your past and guilt and regrets make your decisions for you.

via @hopechasers

Thank you for coming to my ted talk

[ardhangini]

bro these days i’m ready to go to bed at like 7 pm

[lifeafterpsychiatry]

do you want any positivity/recovery blogs you recommend? my recovery blog is @energia-angelical and i really want to see more of that kind of content on my feed. thank you 🤍

If you're asking for recs, the ones I remember on the spot who are currently active and create frequent original content are @positiveautistic @thelatestkate @thesadghostclub @chibird @a-bright-ray-of-sunshine @wheresmybubble @bookm0use @dewdropdarlings @dimpledthings @wholeheartedsuggestions @sweetestsuggest @suggestionsofkindness @slfcare @slightlyaggressiveaffirmations @energysavingselfcare @tiniest-validations @gentleaffirmations @soft-spice @traumasurvivors and @awake-society - but I follow a lot of amazing blogs and my memory isn't great, so this is in no way a comprehensive list. I think it's a good place to start, though!

[hermuis-blog]

if you see someone being interrupted in a conversation, acknowledge them, don’t let them be pushed to the side. if you see someone lagging behind, walk beside them. if someone is being ignored, take the step to include them. always remind people of their worth. it hurts when it feels like you’re being forgotten. that small gesture can mean a lot.

[bnmxfld]

“If only we could see the endless string of consequences that result from our smallest actions. But we can’t know better until knowing better is useless.”

— John Green / Looking for Alaska

[flowerais-deactivated20211031]

types of people:

moon: cold fingers, silver accessories and long coats, hiding in libraries as snow falls, secretive smiles, quiet homesickness for another world, appears calm but their still waters runs deep, knows you better than yourself

venus: ink-smudged hands, hiding fragments of themselves in poetry or stories, tiredness from noticing everything, birdsong after a sleepless night, romanticizing the unbearable, obsessed with meanings and signs

stars: bright eyes, blue skies and pools of honey, humming along to the radio, making up words as they go, sleepy car-rides home, unspoken words, deep comfort during golden hour, glittering jewelry, noticing how a smile forms

[wehavewords]

“Love yourself. If you don’t love yourself you will look for other people to love you. If you don’t accept yourself, you will keep seeking other people’s validation and the moment they withdraw it or walk away, you will crumble. And you don’t want to crumble. You want to enjoy the one person’s company you have to live with forever – yourself. Work on being a person you’d love to spend your life with because let’s face it, you don’t have a choice. It’s a long term investment and the only one that will never fail you.”

[cozy-latte]

[poetsbloom]

I have no interests anymore

Everything I loved I hate

So I sit and I stare

But even that gets tiresome sometimes,

So I try sleep away the day

But the thoughts keep me awake

Long through the day and deep through the night.

Such a fucking tiring cycle Iive.

[lifeafterpsychiatry]

It's wonderful how, with no warning and without even trying, we will randomly stumble across new favorite songs, new favorite artists, new favorite books, new favorite movies, new favorite games, new favorite shows, new favorite snacks, new passions, new hobbies, new interests, new favorite blogs and new favorite people. So when things are terrible, hold onto the fact that someday, possibly when you least expect it, you'll suddenly come across something wonderful!

[shockintha-deactivated20210122]

Daily reminder that you are never alone. You are always loved and supported. There is someone here for you. Please never feel like you have to suffer in silence. Speak out of you need help. Talk to someone anyone you trust doenst matter who. Even if you ahve to talk it out to your pet just saying out loud will make you feel a bit better ❤️

[fallencomet]

Hey just wanted to pop in again, sorry I’ve been so busy with classes and looking for a weekend job!

hope everyone’s doing well, you are welcome to message me whenever you like x

[there-is-much-more]

September is here. Meaning that you should to start fresh. So change those bed sheets. Switch out that old toothbrush. Get your hoodies and sweaters out. Prepare for a better you. With new goals. And a healthier mindset. I know it’s been hard lately, but use this opportunity to start fresh.

[fallencomet]

just a couple of cool shirts I’d love to have 🖤

[fallencomet]

Some vintage vibes

[hopeless-romantic-thoughts]

[07:00am] When you have a love-hate relationship with sleep because you can either wake up smiling because of such a good dream about your crush, or wake up frustrated because the dream regrettably stopped when you woke up.

[hopeless-romantic-thoughts]

‘ A soul mate is not found. A soul mate is recognised.’

-  Vironika Tugaleva

A phrase I chanced upon coincidentally became the one I held so closely to my heart because it reminded me of the time when we first locked eyes. I did not expect that striking gaze you had could have a sense of familiarity in them, and that it could be filled with love as time passed.