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If any of you are at all interested, I’m starting a Wordpress blog called My-House-Of-Mystery where I’ll basically be keeping a diary as I journey to Japan to start working a new job and giving life updates. I don’t know if anyone really cares, but I just decided to plug it and see if anyone was interested in knowing what life is like for a foreigner in Japan.

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We can end the “they’re/their” and “you’re/your” confusion if we just incorporated “thou” and “thine” back into everyday conversation but ye are just too scared to do it

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What to do when your S/O does something that you’re not a fan of.

Please stay with me until the end.

This is mostly for my fellow young guys out there, but given how many immature people I’ve seen who should know better, this rant/sermon can apply to most everyone.

There are things that the people we love do that we just don’t get. Whatever it may be, they’re there. And sometimes it’s frustrating to see them engage in activities that you don’t like and that may even make you uncomfortable. I know this. So what do you do in those moments where the person you love wants to do something that you don’t necessarily like?

The first thing is: Communicate. If you don’t tell the person you love how you feel about something as clearly as possible, then how can you expect them to understand? That should always be step one. For example, I don’t like dancing at clubs or at parties with loud music. I hate it. For many reasons. One of which being that I have no rhythm. The other is that I’m paranoid enough that I’m uncomfortable being in situations where I don’t know what is happening around me and when there is loud music, low visibility, and you are bunched up with a lot of people, it’s hard to tell what’s going on around you. My girlfriend, however, loves to dance. So, what did I do when we were going to a party and there was going to be dancing? I told her that I don’t like dancing and why. That was step one.

The second part is where some of us fall short. It’s the part where the person you love still wants to do something you don’t like, even when you have communicated your feelings to them. There are a few ways this can come about and how you go forward should be determined by this. One way is that they don’t sympathize with your feelings at all and ignore them. This is a pretty bad situation to be in and it means that there is a bigger problem in y’all’s relationship. Another way is that they understand your feelings, but believe that doing this activity will not affect y’all’s relationship and so they still desire to engage in it. This is when you need to step back and do some evaluating yourself. You need to ask yourself: Will this affect our relationship? Nine times out of ten, if it’s something innocuous like dancing or going out with friends, it won’t. The key here is to not be insecure and think that one little thing is going to wreck your relationship. Trust me, there are a lot of little things about you that don’t line up with your S/O’s desires; but if they love you, then those little things are not at all enough to end things between the two of you. For example, I am not the most in-shape person. I’m not obese, but I’m not built like a brick house either (though I am trying to be that). Does my girlfriend really care? No. She doesn’t, because there are aspects about me she likes that outweigh the ones she may not.

The final part is what do you do when your S/O wants to do the innocuous thing you don’t like? Do you do what a lot of young, inexperienced and/or insecure people do and say “No. You’re not doing that thing?” Absolutely not. Who do you think you are to say what a person should and shouldn’t be allowed to do if they’re not hurting anyone? Your life is yours and only yours and their life is theirs and only theirs. If they love you, then they will choose you at the end of the day. I’m not saying that if your S/O cheats on you that you should forgive them and take them back. Or that you shouldn’t care if they spend an ungodly amount of money on something that prevents you from paying your rents. Those are not little, innocuous things that don’t affect someone’s life and their relationship. What I’m saying is that if you expect your S/O to be a part of your life, then you need to understand that you are two separate beings with your own lives that are choosing to be together. Being a partner is exactly that, being a partner. That means you do things as a team, but that doesn’t mean you do all the same things. The most effective teams are the ones who utilize each others’ individual strengths to excel. Ever play D&D? You don’t have your paladin play support just because the cleric does.

So, what did I do when my girlfriend told me that she understood how I felt about dancing, why I didn’t like it, why I wasn’t a huge fan of her going out to dance, but still wanted to go? I realized that dancing made her happy, that I could trust her to not cross any lines we had already established together, and I told her to get out there and shake what her momma gave her while I would be off to the side with a bottle of water for her and looking out like a hawk in case any creeps decided they wanted to put their hands on her. And guess what she did? She told me that she loved me, kissed me a dozen times, danced for about three hours, and then came back and wrapped her arms around me as tight as a python. And when we went back to the hotel room later that night, we had some of the best sex of our lives.

Want to drive away the person you supposedly love? Tell them that they can’t do something they enjoy even though it doesn’t affect the relationship. If it’s a deal breaker that you have established and both agree on then you are well within your rights to break things off if they cross that line. But honestly, how many deal breakers can you possibly have before you have to look inward and start asking if you are the problem?

Want to build a lasting partnership with the person you love? Let them be the person you fell in love with and you be the person they fell in love with.

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So, my brother and I just had a conversation about the Powerpuff Girls and we were discussing the fact that the girls having superpowers was an accident, but the Professor was still trying to create the girls in his lab. Now, he thought that this was a creepy notion that the writers of the show didn’t realize, but I vaguely recalled a moment in the early days of the show that might have the answer:

This moment when the Professor goes to bed after tucking the girls in for the night always stuck with me. Now, the most obvious feeling this moment was trying to portray was loneliness, but I think it goes deeper than that. The Professor has been raising the girls for a long time, and he could still be lonely but I don’t think he would arrange his bed like this if that was the reason. I don’t think the Professor is just lonely, but also grieving.

Let’s think about the kind of person the Professor is: he’s relatively young, mature, smart, and pretty damn handsome. In other words, he wouldn’t have a hard time getting a date and the series shows us that he is pretty popular with the ladies of Townesville. But, he doesn’t seem that interested in dating except on rare occasions and that’s later in the show.

I have a theory. I think the Professor was married, but that his wife died before they could have children. I’m going to guess that she was a scientist like him and that the two were so focused on their work that they never had the chance to have kids, even though they wanted them. I can’t think of any reason for the Professor to arrange his bed this way unless it was because he’s still grieving the loss of his wife.

And if this wasn’t sad enough, I have two more things about this theory for which I have no evidence, just gut feelings. One is that the Professor is so protective of the girls and tries to build them devices to make their job easier and safer is because he wasn’t able to do that for his wife. And the other thing is that he decided to create girls in his lab because his wife always wanted a girl.

#powerpuff girls #powerpuffbubbles #powerpuffbuttercup #powerpuffblossom #cartoon network #cartoons #cartoonnetwork #blossom #bubbles #buttercup #powerpuff #powerpuffgirls #professorutonium #professor utonium

Can we talk about this guy for a second? I feel like he doesn’t get enough credit even though he played, arguably, one of the most important roles in Mulan. For those of you who don’t know, this is the Chinese soldier stationed on top of the Great Wall at the beginning of the film.

After his helmet is knocked off and he sees the Huns throw grappling hooks up onto the ramparts, he calls out to the person who is supposed to be on top of the tower to light the signal. We don’t know where that person is supposed to be, but given the fact that several Huns come out from the door in this shot, we can assume they likely killed him.

But does that stop this guy? No. He judges the situation and reacts accordingly. Despite being swung at by a Hun with a large sword and being forced to pull himself up onto the tower, he doesn’t even stop to take a breather. He just grabs the torch and is about to light the signal himself when something stops him.

This guy. Shan Yu is already on top of the tower as this soldier is about to light the signal. Now, Shan Yu is already a scary mf, but I think it’s important to see how our soldier reacts to seeing him because it tells us an important detail that many people may overlook.

Look at his face. This soldier isn’t just stunned because there a massive Hun waiting for him on top of the tower, but because he recognizes said Hun. Or at least he knows enough about what Shan Yu looks like to put two and two together and assume that this is him. He knows this man and his reputation. He knows exactly the kinds of things Shan Yu is willing to do to people who stand in his way. And what does this soldier do? Does he beg for his life? Does he try to escape?

No. This bamf just looks Shan Yu right in the eye and does his duty. He lights the signal, knowing full well that doing so will likely get him killed. But, he does it anyway. And immediately after lighting the signal, he looks up the the Hun leader with this expression.

This is a man who would look Death in the face and say “Fuck you!” He knows he has maybe a few more seconds of life left and yet he stands tall. And why is this important? Because this one act of valor led to this.

The signals are being lit. All of the people of China are being warned of invasion and now they can properly prepare for the war to come. And it’s all thanks to this one brave soldier who doesn’t get nearly enough credit for his service.

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