Lacenet would still exist if Lace were a man, but it might be smaller.
An uncommon but somewhat toxic point that I have seen brought up before is the idea that Yuri is the only appeal, and most Lacenet shippers would give it a wide berth if Lace were a man. This is incorrect. (For me, at least.)
The appeal of Lacenet is the brat-and-responsible-person dynamic and the healing that comes with Lace being in a healthy relationship, alongside the angst and hurt that can be written through such a process. If Lace were a male, indeed, I suspect some people would find Lace less sympathetic, and as a whole, the number of Lacenet shippers would probably decrease, but there is much more to Lacenet than just Yuri. I'd still ship Lacenet no matter what gender Lace or Hornet is; who's with me?
Lace being "a brat" as featured in common Lacenet dynamics is honestly distending her character to fit the feminine archetypes for such. Male-Lace's fandom interpretation naturally drawing from the masculine analogues would be almost guaranteed to be in the "punk" space, given her violence on bystanders for entertainment and violence on authority figures out of spite for limited agency aforementioned distension mostly glosses over.
Given the amount of complaints about power dynamics in Pharloom I've seen, this could actually go quite well since he'd be a clean audience-insert for "burn this mess to the ground" contrasted against Hornet who's familiar with how bad that gets, how actually running things works no matter how much of her doesn't want to, and possibly even "clean" regime-change depending on how her parents' respective claiming of power went.
I'm not aware of any "stock" shipping dynamics in the Tumblr-adjacent space that interface with this well at all, though. I wouldn't be surprised if there's a "well-off manager lady/teacher cleans up a bad boy into a respectable husband" framing for older-woman younger-man relationships, and similar concepts feature in deeply traditional relationship advice I've heard, but I have not come across it myself.
















