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22 | lgbt | she/her | I'm here for the gay ships

[terrapia]

 i believe in the “women of arcane” supremacy 

[tiktoksthataregood-ish]

[biggest-gaudiest-poltergeist]

This is funny and I'm so glad tiktok exists, but I want to emphasize to everyone that, IN FACT, your 30s will be better than your 20s.

Your 30s will be better than your 20s.

ESPECIALLY for those of you who are queer, neurodivegent, mentally ill, or grew up in conservative areas/toxic households. And even if none of those apply to you, your 30s are still almost certainly gonna be better than your 30s. Bc the thing is, you are still hitting major developmental milestones in your 20s. Which means you spend your 20s doing a lot of unacknowledged mental, emotional, and social growth. And make no mistake--that is an INVESTMENT, an investment of time &, effort. And in a few years, once you get into your 30s, the returns on that investment are gonna start really shining through.

I know a lot of us are stressed bc of this idea we've inherited from baby boomers of what we're supposed to accomplish in our 20s. The thing is, that idea--a private home, a career, a life partner--is no longer realistic for most 20 somethings, if it ever was. For so many of us, our 20s are for recovery. Let me reiterate:

Your 20s are for growth and recovery

We are an exceptionally traumatized generation suffering the consequences of back-to-back-to-back economic crises. Throw your parents' expectations into trashcan. Throw the internalized pressure and self-criticism in there with it. You are doing enough. You are losing nothing by approaching your 30s (except hopefully some emotional baggage/old coping mechanisms you've replaced w/ healthier things).

Oh, and all the adults/media who implied your value was in being "young and lovely?" They just wanted to exploit your lack of experience. Throw that mindset in the trash & keep moving forward towards a life you will love & enjoy for DECADES 💕💕🔫

[garrettauthor]

So far my thirties are SO MUCH BETTER than my twenties. My wife too.

Your thirties will be better. Trust me.

[whatiwillsay]

do you think anna kendrick is gay or just flirty

flirty

[whatiwillsay]

meh

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Q&A: Anna Kendrick on Fluid Sexuality & Advocating for ‘Pitch Perfect’ Lesbian Love

The pitch is perfectly crazy in Anna Kendrick’s walk on the dark side of filmmaker Paul Feig’s warped sense of humor, "A Simple Favor." It’s

Not what I remembered, yeah I was wrong ...

[smokeinsilence]

have you ever noticed you pick up little habits and phrases from the people you love? it’s no wonder our hearts are so easily broken when people leave. we become a reflection of the people that we care about and those personality traits stick with us even if the people don’t

[viridianmasquerade]

I make my ramen the way a friend taught me in eleventh grade. Every fall, I listen to a playlist made for me by a boy I drove across a border to hook up with. I eat sushi because a girl who won’t talk to me anymore made me try it, and Indian food because my best friend’s parents ordered for me before I knew what I liked. There are movies I love because someone I loved loved them first. I am a mosaic of everyone I’ve ever loved, even for a heartbeat.

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It's bittersweet when I do something that reminds me of her...

[cassianandfenrysaremyboyos]

Pride and Prejudice 2005

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That hand flex defines me

[lesbiansgoal]

Guilty...

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I mean... why can’t I be both?

[juanikuz-deactivated20210427]

[the2headedcalf-moved]

being in your early twenties is like [grocery shopping alone] [having instant noodles for dinner] [remembering random details about that one friend you haven't spoken to in five years] [feeling overwhelming guilt for every purchase that isn't strictly "necessary"] [having midday naps] [finding out through facebook that the girl who was mean to you in high school has a husband and a baby] [falling a little in love with every stranger on public transport] [pretending you're not afraid of being alone] [wondering when you'll feel like a fully realized person] [listening to bands you liked in middle school] [blinking and it's suddenly december] [failing to imagine yourself ten years from now] [feeling like you're running out of time]

[lesbiansgoal]

You should always be #1

[gaynfl-moved]

depression and being in the closet stole my teenage years from me so if you catch me doing some juvenile shit in my late twenties mine your own damn business

[tommyswiseau]

me talking to myself trying to justify spending $12 on dice that glow in the dark 

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Is anyone else struggling with shutting their mother’s voice in their head?

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If she touched your leg 8 years ago and you still remember the way her hand felt on your leg you are gay!

[uncomfortably-dumb]

Oh to be dying of food poisoning so the hot blonde Christian who I hate is trying to save my life by giving me a pill but I'm too stubborn to take it so she has to pin me down and straddle me and force me to take it and then stays on top of me for no apparent reason

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The fact that I am that stubborn and proud that this could be me makes it worse!

[dankmemeuniversity]

[silkyswift08]

Just thinking how cool itll if when she sings remix of both folklore and evermore songs together!

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I would die!

[inasunlitroom]

taylor swift really wrote two albums for the hopeful romantics, the dark academics, the yearning lovers and the quiet souls of the world

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I feel seen!

[yasseenknight]

folklore and evermore are the perfect albums to listen to while studying

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I get too emotional, I can’t!