yikes

radfem w interest in sw/porn/kink industry, bisexual, this is a side blog

[powerfulwizard]

Straight culture is fetishizing gay sexuality to the point that you spend a large amount of your time drawing and writing about two YouTubers who don’t have a single sexy cell in their entire body having sex with each other.

[thestateonmtv]

You know eveytime they tell those straight Supergirl actresses they gotta pretend to like pussy they think about giving it all up and moving back to bumfuck Ohio

[benepla-deactivated20180521]

sam this post literally changed my life now 99% of the time when there’s a gay character being played by a straight person I can see the incredible reluctance in their eyes. it literally chews thru the acting like a termite ajsjsb

[notable-spinster]

of course you wear makeup “for yourself”, but only because you like the way you are looked at and treated when you do

conforming to beauty standards to maintain respect is understandable, but by no means liberating or ~empowering~

[ithelpstodream]

[femfang]

me: writing an essay abt new femininity and how fashion/cosmetic industries are masqueraded as empowering but trample on women 

me: literally saving up for 4+ plastic surgery procedures 

[wormcourt]

Lgbt positivity: It’s going to be okay. You are amazing and beautiful. You are not a predetor. You are not gross. We support you. Stay strong.

Ace positivity: You are VALID. Everyone wants you DEAD! You are oppressed and hated and dont let the gays tell you differently!!

[transgender-harms-women]

[bisexual-radfem-blog]

I hope this is someone’s peak trans moment. Seriously, what the fuck.

[auntiewanda]

Liberal “feminism” is all about appeasing men at the expense of girls and women.

[e9ch3-deactivated20170607]

ONLY

FEMALES

HAVE

CLITORISES

ONLY FEMALES EXPERIENCE FEMALE GENITAL MUTILATION 

IF THESE LITTLE GIRLS COULD JUST IDENTIFY OUT OF IT I AM CERTAIN THEY FUCKING WOULD 

[auntiewanda]

Right. These girls aren’t having this terrible thing done to them because they “identify as girls”, it’s because they were born female. 

[hellsite-yano]

You weirdos: i tasted this post and so far it’s explicitly acephobic and inherently terfy while carrying flavors of transmisogynistic queerplatoniphobism combined with a side of exclusionist homophobia while maintaining eerily racist capitalist propaganda that enables psuedofascists

Me:

[sangredesirena78463748-deactiva]

no VICE i would very much like to not meet the polyamorous unicorn people of london, in fact, id like them to stay very far away from me

[femfang]

me: observes a """ship war,""" laughing quietly at these silly fools squabbling about some fake shit that is made up and not real like its some actual serious shit that merits Fighting Over or something

me, also: i know who is wrong

[liketwopeasinapod2-deactivated2]

when people be like “don’t unfollow me without doing this and this this and this ” like. Who are you ?

[wizzard890]

Sometimes you hear that statistic about how if Barbie were a real person, she would fit the weight criteria for anorexia and her boobs would be so disproportionately big that she wouldn’t be able to walk upright. There’s a less fantastical version of that idea, though, that a generation of girls like me saw play out in Britney Spears: If you did everything you were supposed to do to become the Perfect Girl — did just enough sit-ups and cooed just so and showed just enough skin and kept up the lie that you were born only to make someone else happy — it all just might send you completely over the edge. I hear a strain of this idea in the macabre of Lana Del Rey’s music, which blurs the borders between life and death, between the American dream and a nightmare: “Will you still love me when I’m no longer young and beautiful?” But Britney’s music explores this deep a darkness in only its subtext; her sad songs like “Lucky” and “Everytime” strike me as so intensely devastating because even in their darkest moments, they still put on the façade of pretty, like the girl who early on learned that trick of how to blot away tears without smudging even a smidge of mascara. Britney’s meltdown happened when I was in college, learning to hate the game more than the player, finally able to see larger and more systemic threats to my liberation than the feigned innocence of a pretty girl from Kentwood, Louisiana. Still, something about her breakdown felt too traumatic to fully process it at the time. Only when she managed to miraculously come out the other side of it could I acknowledge the terrible pain she must have been going through, could I admit that I didn’t know how Britney Spears didn’t die of it, of being a girl.

Lindsay Zoladz, Leaving Britney Alone (via wizzard890)

[89584957294589425-deactivated20]

One of the things I hate the most about the sex positive movement is this irrational, iron-hard insistence on severing any relationship between sex & love/intimacy. There’s just so much focus on how to fuck & how to get off & the biggest problem for these people is not being ashamed about it. You can’t talk about the pressure to participate in hookup culture or male entitlement to casual sex with women without sex pox idiots screeching about “slut shaming.” It’s exhausting. God forbid we acknowledge that having sex actually affects you emotionally, that someone treating your body like a toy to play with & cast aside when they’re bored is potentially deeply hurtful & psychologically distressing. But nah, if you even suggest that being in a loving relationship enriches sex, you’re a grim, conservative puritan brainwashed by religious prudery. Sex pozzies want to introduce BDSM in sex education & encourage teenagers to watch porn because tying up & beating your partner (& being unashamed!!!) is more important than stupid love & feelings. Sex pozzies are garbage & I hate them all.

[angryfuckingwoman-deactivated20]

A really big part of the DDLG community is insecure women. No one can deny that. It’s main target is young women who want unconditional love, something ‘daddy doms’, tend to preach but don’t know how to practice. They search for people they can manipulate. I’ve seen it happen so many times, myself included before I snapped the fuck out of it and grew into the woman I am today. Nonetheless, while I may be stronger now, I feel so much guilt about the point I reached, so desperate for love and attention that I went to every wrong person who ultimately screwed me over and damaged me more. This occurs to me after hearing that an old friend of mine is into DDLG. I knew her and still do deep down. She’s hurt, doesn’t receive love from her family, needs attention and love to feel safe and content, and sex is a vast part of it. DDLG is so toxic, promising love and care for submission. It’s so sickening.

[angryfuckingwoman-deactivated20]

Thought I’d share again.

[liberal-lesbophobia-deactivated]

“want to have stranger sex?” is my new pick-up line

[lgunity]

classic homophobia: homosexuality is a sin woke™ homophobia: homosexuality is transphobic and fetishistic

[wit-witch]

what does "believing in monogamy so badly" mean? can you elaborate? like you wanted to believe that you could be happy with one person?

Yes, I wanted to believe in that cultural romantic idea of a soul mate.

But instead this causes unhealthy idealization.

[femfang]

there is such a huge difference between negotiated monogamy and 'soul mate' idealism