Venting. Am I the asshole?
Because thatās pretty much all I use this app for anymore lol
I canāt believe I got tied up in this.
Coworker/ātennentā drama. I ended up having to sell my house since one roommate moved out, and another litterally has been living Scott free and wonāt get a job, so I pretty much canāt afford my bills and Morgage anymore. I have her the move out day, talked to a few cash buyers and started moving out to my moms. With the money I could get from my house I could be dept free again and get a down deposit for a house in the future. This was October.
Well my coworker, who was about to get kicked out of the house where she lives because landlord was selling, didnāt have anywhere to go and didnāt have a car. I was driving her to work and back for some time now. Every now and then sheād get me a drink, this was fine. She kept saying she at least needed a car cause she would probably be living in it. I hesitated to let her stay at my house because one I had cats and a dog that freeroams, two she has a history. With an abusive druggatic dude, who when she broke up with him the first time came crying to me, no where to stay, no family that talks to her, so I asked my mom if she could stay there. She said yes, just until she gets on her feet. My mom only charged her like $300, and was going to give half back to her when she moved out. Well she got comfortable. Was there for months. Started sneaking boys in when my mom told her she was uncomfortable with that. At one point she totaled her car, and I was driving her to work. Occasional gas money but I told her save up for her car. Well she got comfortable with that, and months went by, no car either. My dad gets sick, Iām not only driving her but Iām also visiting my dad so Iām barely home. I finally told her I canāt drive her anymore itās too much. She throws a hissy, ends up after a week or two of ubering (since my coworkers caught on to her game) that she needed to actually purchase a car (couldnāt from dealer because her at the time ex boyfriend had her co-sign for her car and refused to take it off).
And then, I found out she was back together with the abusive, unstable ex who had threatened people with guns. She had him coming over to my motherās house! The biggest rule was not to invite him! So I got pissed told my mom, and she kicked her out. She was more than generous and let her stay a month or two longer since she begged she couldnāt find a place.
Fast ford to new house, she breaks up with him, he ends up stalking her through multiple apps, she finally seems like sheās seeing the light, so come October when she asked me if she could stay at my place she would pay I said yes, only until I could sell it. I needed to sell it. I actually ended up moving in with my mom completely because I knew living with her would be no good. My other roommate is supposed to be out in November. Coworker approaches roommate, told her she could stay as long as she (roommate, no job but had a car) would drive her to/from work. Honestly worked for me because I didnāt have to go out of my way to drive her.
So I try going through open house to sell, which lowballs. Sheās fine staying there so I didnāt push it, figured as long as someone is paying Iām not getting too much further behind. So Iāll try a realtor now, because now it isnāt so urgent. Realtor says wonāt sell until new year. I tell them if they want to stay, they can. They do. Then, coworker ask me if I could just rent it out to her, I said no I need to sell. She says what if she doubles what sheās paying me (which would cover my Morgage and utilities). She then proceeds to tell me this MF ex MOVED IN WITH HER. She knows how I feel about him, Iām livid, this is my house. But at this point I canāt sell yet. She says just until she gets a car. I say ok. Stupidly. But I also felt a little relief with the bills being paid on a house I wasnāt even living in.
January happens, her dad dies. She gets money. Gets a car. She said whenever I want to sell I am good she can find her own place. I said ok, gave eviction notice to roommate to be out by end of February, and start looking at my options. Coworker then asks me if I will just keep renting the house out to her, I said no. Iām selling. She can stay until closing if she wants. She does. So I met with realtor end of February, she tells me I need to do xyz to get ready. Ok, itās going to be work. She wants to go live on the 23rd, soft opening on 9th, I need to get front yard fixed. However, roommate with no job then tells me the moving fell through sheāll be out but needs to get her stuff the following week. Ok. Sheās going to get a moving company. Ok. I had offered to load her stuff on the trailer and drive it somewhere. The day the moving company is supposed to come she texts me she canāt afford it so can I help her move. At this point I need her out, I need the house clean. So first weekend Iām moving her out. And trying to clean up the yard. I work 5 days a week, so weekends are the only time Iām able to really do stuff. I tell coworker I need to do xyz, and when the open house will be (next weekend supposedly), and I was pretty much doing it by myself cause I well I didnāt want to ask her. So I have been over there every weekend since, and took Tuesday, Thursday, and Friday off so I could work on things. Well Tuesday I didnāt do anything, Thursday I came over later in the afternoon, and Friday I came over in the afternoon because I didnāt want to go in the house by myself with the boyfriend. One day I say cigarettes in the front yard, with burnt mulch. I was pissed! The house could have caught on fire, how irresponsible. She still says āitās just dead mulch and we picked the cigarette butts upā. Do you not get it the house could have cause on fire??? If you left and didnāt notice the fire, the house would have been gone. She doesnāt. Just like she doesnāt get the reason why my mom was pissed was not just about boyfriend, but because she literally lied to my moms face??
So Iām over there cleaning yesterday, all day cause shits got to get done, she stays in her room. Ok thatās fine. I get the front door painted, run to Home Depot to grab some things, but it ends up being more than just one run. So I come back later than I intended, put some blinds up, clean up some, say Iāll be back tomorrow.
Then I get a text, ācan you chill with the cleaning I need my personal time youāre over here too much and Iām starting to get pissedā Fucking excuse me??? Iām trying to sell the fucking house. She states Iām rude for having strangers in around her stuff, when she paid for this month in full, and even that I said I had a little extra money in that account that must mean Iām getting extra ābut Iāll probably never see that moneyā.. Iām beyond pissed. Am I really the fucking asshole here? She says I should never agree to let her stay there. Excuse me??? Youāre damn right I shouldnāt have. The extra money I put in that account, her āfull paymentā covers everything with maybe $25 to spare.
I basically told her to gtfo by next weekend and Iāll give her 1/4 of her rent back. I donāt even care. Now Iām postponing everything with the house because this fucking bitch right here. And I can see her smirking because sheās got her way.
Sheās also supposed to get her childhood house back but in August, she has asked me before if she could stay until then. I said no. I know this is why sheās fucking pissed. She said Iām pissed cause Iām not getting what I want for the house. Guess what? Thatās absolutely not. Iāll be getting what I want.
Guess what sweetie, aināt no one is going to help you now when you break up with your boyfriend again.
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