Finding Appiness

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[findappiness]

I really wanna get back into posting on Tumblr but I always forget to :(((

[findappiness]

I LIED I might make an entirely new blog to start fresh... See yah there

[findappiness]

I really wanna get back into posting on Tumblr but I always forget to :(((

[based-atticus]

How does one "Boop"?

[findappiness]

You have to opt into it!!!

[findappiness]

I wanna bring back my series of going through every paraphilia on a list of common ones but God I suck at remembering to do things and I'm always so tired :(

[findappiness]

Guys I forgot I had a Tumblr...

[transdove]

Dear antis:

When your queer friend says she doesn’t want to see a therapist because of the rampant queerphobia in the psych field, you don’t question it, right? It makes sense to you that certain people might not want to see a therapist because they’re more likely to be targets of violence.

But when you see a transID person or a paraphile saying that they don’t want to go to therapy, suddenly you’re screaming at them that they need to get help, and that if they don’t, they deserve to die. Why are they so different than your friend, though?

Everyone deserves agency. Stop gatekeeping the anti-psych movement and saying that only “normal” people are allowed to be wary of psych professionals.

[thefakersystem]

Yeah except queerphobia actually exists and paraphiles hurt people

[findappiness]

How do paraphiles hurt people especially anti abuse ones???

[findappiness]

You’ve said don’t look at gore, but autopsy photos are ethical to view and very legal.

OOOO OKAY YOU'RE VERY RIGHT SO QUICK CORRECT

Don't watch unethical or harmful content!

It's completely okay to watch ethical and non-harmful content!

Medical images or videos of surgeries are really good for that! Just like be ethical and cause no harm!

[thefakersystem]

Watching an autopsy not for scientific and educational purposes is not ethical actually. People gave their bodies for the good people of the medical field to learn from and help other people, not for freaks to whack off to or watch like it’s a fucking HBO movie. It’s learning materials and you’re essentially disrespecting a corpse if you just watch it for kicks

[findappiness]

I never said anything about "whacking off" to or glorifying medical videos but I genuinely do not understand the harm of watching medical videos for purposes other than learning I watch them because I think they are cool AND for learning as a sadist!

[floppyponysart]

couldn't think of anything else for this prompt lol

prompt list credit goes to @findappiness

[yourlocalxenomorph]

please can we do inbox trick-or-treating this year. can we make that a thing on tumblr. please please please please please

[yourlocalxenomorph]

literally all it entails is sending people "trick-or-treat" asks and people answering those asks with pictures of candy or those silly spooky plastic toys or whatever else you would give a trick-or-treater. please. please can we have some whimsy

[wizardgoblin]

THIS IS A SIGN TO TRICK-OR-TREAT WHOEVER REBLOGS THIS POST!!!!

[proshippainpara]

TRANSID PPL

Tell me about an id you have and why you id with it!!!

:3

[findappiness]

I don't talk about the fact that I'm transplural/transDID a lot but for the longest time I felt that I would have been better protected from my trauma if my ego states never formed...! And when I was younger I thought I was plural because of my hallucinations...

I have no desire to like transition or become plural at all but I have an entire board on Pinterest with like 300 pins just about what my system would be like if I had one.

I could talk more but I have DnD so gotta goooo!

[findappiness]

Day 3, 4, and 5 of Paratober 2023!

Fictophilia, Achluophilia, and Yearning!

[findappiness]

👁️‍🗨️ Searching for Positivity 𓇗

➥ Positive Quotes 🪽

"Autumn leaves don’t fall, they fly. They take their time and wander on this their only chance to soar."

[findappiness]

👁️‍🗨️ Searching for Positivity 𓇗

➥ Positive Affirmations 🪽

I belong here, and I deserve to take up space.

I can be soft in my heart and firm in my boundaries.

I can control how I respond to things that are confronting.

[findappiness]

👁️‍🗨️ Searching for Positivity 𓇗

➥ Self-care Ideas 🪽

Dance like no one's watching!

Be cringe!!!

Eat your veggies!

[findappiness]

👁️‍🗨️ Searching for Information 🟢

➥ Gamophilia: The attraction to Marriage.

➥ Etymology: Gamos meaning marriage, -philia meaning love.

➥ Care: Get married or have a wedding it can be real or fake! Build up a relationship(s) until it feels like you are a married couple! Research marriage through history! Buy wedding rings!

[findappiness]

👁️‍🗨️ Searching for Polls 𓇗

➥ Which would you rather do: Pick apples, stuff a scarecrow, or go to a pumpkin patch? 🐦‍⬛

Pick Apples!

Stuff A Scarecrow!

Pumpkin Patch!

[See Results] 👁️

Voting ended onOct 5, 2023

[findappiness]

IT'S OFFICIALLY TIME!!! Here is special paraphilia prompt list for paratober 2023. To join in this challenge simply create something inspired by the prompts' theme! You can submit your art to the paratober2023 tag! Good luck !!!

[ID: Paratober. kinda official 2023 prompt list. Closed umbrella, autophilia, fictophilia, achluophilia, yearning, daimonophilia, dendrophilia, dentophilia, ombrophilia, pride, philophilia, coimetrophilia, bibliophilia, selenophilia, shame, mycophilia, traumatophilia, crystallophilia, awakening, teratophilia, goetophilia, spectrophilia, love letter, homiclophilia, nyctophilia, misophilia, big three, sadism, masochism, biastophilia, and open umbrella.]

[strikethwandrer]

this whole thing.

@empirrepostr check it.

[gujituku]

errr...

well i'm gonna struggle on most.

but the first i have at least.

[omar-the-wheat]

i have a youkai thing

chck it

[yithnogearplasmaslug]

autophilia - no, grow up

umbrella time

[kami-the-secretary-bird]

that

[jessica-mack]

those first three are the trinity of cringe

i'm wait this

no thank you

[mariathepolynoid]

with you

[sea-maid1998]

well i have umbrella

[zeb70]

the irony i'm doing 4 days at once

day 2 and 3 are nonsense not worth my time

4 is actually Scotphilia for people who actually know language

and a closed umbrella is so perfectly symbolic here

i have achieved accidental nirvana

oh no i'm still going

dammit i did it again

help i'm turning english

jesus christ i can't stop

and now we have reached the current date

thank you for listening to my rt talk

[findappiness]

I feel like people are confused 😕

This is a inktober prompt list for paraphiles and people that are pro para! All the days are paraphilias or things related to them. For instance closed umbrella is the term for being in the closet as a para! Open umbrella is out of the closet!

I don't understand the part about "growing up" from autophilia either when it's loving yourself??? I have a DNI for antis so if you are antis please leave :(((