Finding Myself

Finding myself is a blog that documents an individual’s journey to find her highest potential along with her reader, and whoever wants to join. All you get here is the truth, love and positive vibes.

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Pour Me Some Wine and Let's Talk About Unicorns (AKA Relationships)

Oh, honey, pour yourself a glass and settle in because I have news. You know how relationships are supposed to be all magical and sparkly, like riding off into the sunset on a glittery unicorn? Lies. Sometimes it’s more like getting bucked off and landing in a puddle of mud. But oh, the stories we gather along the way. If you’re expecting a fairy tale, let me stop you right there. This is more…

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The Emotional Journey of a Forgotten Pizza Slice

Ah, the quintessential symbol of young adult life: Pizza. A circle of cheesy, saucy, crispy magic that has saved many a young soul from the brink of hangry meltdowns. But today, dear readers, we aren’t talking about just any slice of pizza. We’re embarking on the tumultuous tale of the forgotten slice. Every pizza slice has its story, and this is its Odyssey. 1. The Anticipation:Just like us in…

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Snooze Button Society: The Unsung Heroes of 5 More Minutes

If only hitting the snooze button burned calories. I'd be an Olympic athlete by now.

The snooze button: The most optimistic invention ever. Every 9 minutes, it believes you’re getting up Hello, beautiful procrastinators of the Snooze Button Society! If you’ve ever whispered a sweet “five more minutes” to your blaring alarm and wrapped yourself even tighter in your duvet fortress, welcome home. You’re among kindred spirits. Spoiler alert: membership is open to everyone, but…

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Being Okay with Being 'Not Okay': The Unsung Anthem of 20-somethings

Your 20s: Where it's socially acceptable to be a hot mess, and we call it 'personal growth.

Currently setting my status to ‘not okay’ with occasional bursts of ‘still winging it’. Yesterday i was laying upside down on my bed watching some Instagram reels, and I came across a cooking show. You know that moment when the chef says, “Now, gently fold the eggs,” and your idea of “gently” turns the whole batter into a soupy mess? Welcome to your twenties! The modern world has this glitzy…

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Indoor Plants: The Unspoken Trials of Adulthood 🌱🙈

Morning: Whispers of sweet encouragement to Phil. Midday: Full-blown panic, wondering if I'm giving him a hydrating spa day or drowning him. Evening: Late-night Google searches: "Do plants appreciate dad jokes?"

Hey there, my green-thumbed (and not-so-green-thumbed) readers! Thought adulting was just about paying bills? Meet Phil, my plant, teaching me it’s also about… not killing green things. When we envision adulthood, it’s often filled with visions of office wars, deciphering taxes, and questioning why avocados are SO expensive. But no one, I repeat, no one warned me about the emotional whirlwind…

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Sock Monster and Lost Dreams: Where Do They Really Go?

Hey there, dream chasers and sock enthusiasts! It's your favorite keyboard clacker back with a topic that has baffled humanity for ages: the mysterious case of the sock monster and the even more elusive lost dreams

Today, we’re tackling two of life’s greatest mysteries: the inexplicable disappearance of socks and, more dauntingly, our vanished dreams. Yep, buckle up, because we’re diving deep into the Bermuda Triangle of laundry and life. The Notorious Sock Monster First things first, where do all our missing socks go? Just last week, I put a pair of sparkling unicorn socks (don’t judge, they’re fab!)…

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Why Your Failures are Actually Your Best Fashion Accessory

In the intricate tapestry of life, every stumble stitches a unique pattern; wear your failures like a vintage charm, for they are the most authentic jewels of your journey.

Step over, Gucci belts! There’s a new statement piece in town: experiences. Learn why every stumble and fumble can be your greatest accessory in the journey of life. There’s something intensely personal I’ve been wanting to share, something born from those quiet moments we often shy away from discussing. A memory that has shaped me, though initially, it left me scarred. Today, we’re venturing…

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Adventures in Solo-Dating: Finding Yourself Amidst the Candlelight and Soft Melodies

Whisk yourself away on a solo date, where candlelit corners meet the whispers of self-love. Dive into the embrace of solitude, where every moment is a rendezvous with the soul.

Dating myself is a win-win situation: No awkward conversations, and I always agree on what movie to watch. Picture this: soft, mellow lights, the gentle strumming of a guitar playing in the background, a delicious meal laid out in front, and you, in all your glory, soaking in every bit of this experience. No, this isn’t your typical date night scene with whispered sweet nothings across the…

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Friendships in Adulthood: Why’s Everyone Playing Hide and Seek?

I’d love to hear your tales of adult friendships. Ever had an unexpected reunion or a surprising new connection? Share away in the comments! 🌼💌

Adult friendship is just saying ‘I’ve got wine!’ and suddenly, everyone’s free. If you’ve ever stared at your phone, waiting for it to light up with a message from a friend, only to be greeted by a random promo message from that app you recently installed, this one’s for you. Today, we’re pulling up a cozy chair, grabbing a virtual cup of coffee (or tea, if that’s your jam), and delving deep…

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Stumbling down the road.

I hope to give you solace with my writing and also keep reminding you that you are not alone.

Hello dear reader, it has been a while hasn’t it? Things were hectic for me and I had to focus on life. I wonder how you have been. This post doesn’t have a particular topic, it’s just me and you having a chat, about life. Have you ever gotten something so easy, as if it was meant for you? Everything clicked together for you and presented to you on a silver platter? But as soon as you were about…

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Before the Starting line

Change can be scary, and so can growth, But once you realise how this can help you and how much it can change your life, it can be equally rewarding. Hi, Nice to meet you, dear reader. Hope everything is going well for you, cuz for me, it’s not. You see, I’ve been a student for 22 years of my life, and all I’ve ever known were books, assignments, schools and college. So in April when I graduated…

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To pay or not to pay.

Hi Again, it’s been a while, I got busy with life and studies. That reminds me, what do you do dear reader? What’s your profession or are you still a student? either way, I’m sure you must be familiar with certification courses and various ways to upskill or reskill yourself. If you are not familiar with these terms, allow me to explain. Upskilling refers to providing oneself with additional…

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