Own Who You Are

❤️raw open honest❤️ ❤️45 with health issues❤️ ❤️My constantly evolving reality❤️

[findingmoreofmyselfeveryday]

I dreamt about you last night ❤️

[findingmoreofmyselfeveryday]

It’s the time of year when motorcycles in the distance take me back to the days of hearing your Harley from blocks away 🥰

[findingmoreofmyselfeveryday]

Something in the heavens tells me that we’ll be together again ❤️

[thepersonalquotes]

[mississippigurl-blog1]

[lonergirlmonologue]

"i wonder if we ever think of each other at the same time."

[stricatul]

maybe intimacy isn't taking off your clothes. maybe it's taking off your "i'm fine." maybe it's being naked in ways that have nothing to do with skin.

[iglovequotes]

https://iglovequotes.net/

[infinitelyhisgirl]

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[b-e-b-b-l-e]

shoutout to the hotties with chronic pain and fatigue 💖💞💝💘💕💗

[prettyboy-slut]

Hey, just for the general public.

There's like emotional aftercare right and most people who do aftercare- this is what they think about right?

Emotional aftercare is extremely important but you Need to make sure your partner is physically taken care of afterwards as well!

I see a lot of doms talking about aftercare but not mentioning anything more than a shower of Bagh as far as taking care of their partner physically afterwards.

You need to make sure they go pee right after a scene!

For impact play if they're bruising, inflamed, or raw afterwards put ointment on it Before you put lotion on it. If their skin's just a bit red it's okay to just put lotion on.

For bondage, you need to make sure you put ointment on rope burns and massage out the joints and muscles that have been trapped in place for the past hour.

Sometimes your partner is too drained for a shower in which it's Your job to clean them up! Get a damp warm wash cloth and make sure their all clean.

If your partner has a chronic illness you need to make sure their getting the right care for that afterwards!

The point is, take care of your partner after a scene

[hell-hound-bites]

this this this

on terms of aftercare mental check ins are so good. if they arent responsive make sure to ease them back into reality slowly, gently, be kind and get them things they wont be able to ask for like water

remind them even if you do an extra rough scene that they are safe and can be comfortable, and they arent hated or despised or only a sex object. that they arent dirty or awful for liking the things they do

[sleepigoblin]

As someone who has a whole arsenal of health and medical problems yes please.

[findingmoreofmyselfeveryday]

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[drumcorpshero]

Spoopy Season Safety

[massacre-girlypop]

Oh my god reblog to save a me thank you

[cotardkindrome1999]

Reblogging even though it's way past Halloween bc this is an important reminder!

[suotar]

Stay away from anything with charcoal during this season if you are on ANY medication!!!

[athelind]

Extra kudos for providing alternatives for Spooky Black Food.

[infinitelyhisgirl]

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[thepersonalquotes]

[onelittlekingdom]

Repeat After Me...

It is better to have no Daddy, than a shitty Daddy… It is better to have no Daddy, than a shitty Daddy… It is better to have no Daddy, than a shitty Daddy…

I speak to far too many little ones who come tell me about how they are afraid their Daddies, who are treating them with little regard, are going to leave them. Here’s the truth little girl/man: I hope they do. That type of dynamic is damaging. 

Gaining any old half ass Daddy, isn’t the prize that validates your submission. Gaining a good Daddy, who sees who you really are, and treats your submission with respect, is what will validate your submission. 

Don’t sit on the pot, when you deserve the throne.

JerseyDaddy🌹

[zoddamnlt]

As a dom, you've no right to break a sub, if you don't hold them together afterwards.

Aftercare is not only a must, it's something every dom should sincerely want to give and share with their sub. If you want a sub to truly open up and be vulnerable with you then you need to put sincere effort into making them feel safe doing so.

In my experience, nothing makes a sub more willing to not only give up control but turn the filth up to 10 while doing so, than being made to feel completely safe and cared for by their dom. That extremely slutty and nasty side of your sub resides within their emotional vulnerability.

Do your fucking job and show your sub you're worthy of being let past their defenses to said vulnerability and you will see a side of them nobody else ever will, fulfilling your own needs in the process.

[the-lushs-one-always]