Redoing my introduction/pinned post cause apparently someone ated it 🙄
(Me infodumping about me time :333)
DNI: minors, bigots. (Remind me if I should add anything.) (Wont interact if u dont have age or smth about age in bio)
(Quick ps. If i send you any meme or anything, I wanna be friends with you. Im just bad at talking and very awkward at first.. Just talk about stuff to me)
Anyways, hai haii, prefer to be called Lizziah, though often get called Liz/Lizzie.
I'm 21 (ughh I dont wanna think about it), NB, autistic and adhd (diagnosed), anxious, moody and probably unstable :3
Sapphic (womnen,,,), aro-spec (romantic feelings are :( hard) (please don't expect me to say the L word to you, its hard for me, dont mind friends saying it to me though)
From the EU, ever so slightly more specifically, the Nordics + Baltics area. (if u know where do me a favor and keep it private).
Some of my fav bands/artists are Tally Hall, Penelope Scott, Los Campesinos!, STYXII, Mother Mother, The Living Tombstone (zero_one specifically), and many more. Feel free to recommend me stuff.
Media im into: Limbus Company (Limbus Company my beloved), Fate (taken a bit of a liking to it, Fate GO primarily). Anime: Dungeon Meshi, the Frieren elf one, Bocchi the Rock and Steins; Gate (it hit me so hard in the emotions TwT)
I own manymanymany (unnamed) plushies, use linux (dont fuck around w/ it much), have a clock that goes tick tock in my room.
WILL REBLOG HORNY POSTS, DONT FOLLOW IF U DONT WANT TO SEE THAT (kinks im into list on horny blog)
So fuckin subby that even other subby people wanna dom me. (The dictionary definition of the word submissive is just a pic of me)
I'll tag my own enby selfies with #enbylizziah, vent posts with #vent and #vent post, asks to #asks and #ask and #lizziahlizziahs for my own unique posts.
I avoid: nudes (uncomfy), sharp objects around bodies/self mutilation (gore? I dont know), stuff thats asking for donations or to "spread the word" and politics (with Eu stuff being an exception). I block/unfollow often, usually ppl who post stuff that I avoid.
Don't develop any feelings more than platonic for me. I'm aromantic and it will not end well for you.
Mmh yeah I'll add to this later, lemme know if I should add something. And if u read through all of that, send me an ask or dm or else you'll go to jail for a thousand years!!!!!!
watched three girls who reblogged its new blog mutual aidpost (made literally 15 minutes ago) already disappear from its notifs. transfems are not included in their pride :/
It wouldn't surprise me if this all came down to just one manager who's a transphobe and everyone else just cowardly following along because they like having an income
instead of "manager" try CEO. matt mullenweg had been openly participating in a harassment campaign against a transfem user and after terminating her tumblr, even chased her over to twitter to harass her a bit more there. that was 2 years ago.
since then mass termination and nuking* of transfems' blogs have picked up a lot, and haven't ever stopped. every week there is a mass-banwave, usually hitting transfems for being victims of mass harassment campaigns. some transfems get terminated even more frequently, like every few days to even down to every few hours on some days. the blogs up there in the reblog chain from puppet were all made and terminated within hours of each other.
the transmisogyny comes from the top down AND from the userbase
*nuking here refers to the "higher tier" of termination that retroactively deletes all images and reblogs from that blog off of other people's accounts. amd this one cannot be appealed either
ADHD affects how I experience time, not how I experience attachment. I love you. I miss you. I just don't realize how long it’s been since I last said that, let alone messaged.
I understand that most normal functioning brains need regular engagement to maintain a bond. Absence doesn’t diminish my affection. My silence isn’t neglect or disinterest. It’s time blindness and object impermanence. The contact gap is purely neurological, not emotional. Thank you for being patient with my inconsistency and holding a seat in your heart for me.
ADHD affects how I experience time, not how I experience attachment. I love you. I miss you. I just don't realize how long it’s been since I last said that, let alone messaged.
I understand that most normal functioning brains need regular engagement to maintain a bond. Absence doesn’t diminish my affection. My silence isn’t neglect or disinterest. It’s time blindness and object impermanence. The contact gap is purely neurological, not emotional. Thank you for being patient with my inconsistency and holding a seat in your heart for me.
ADHD affects how I experience time, not how I experience attachment. I love you. I miss you. I just don't realize how long it’s been since I last said that, let alone messaged.
I understand that most normal functioning brains need regular engagement to maintain a bond. Absence doesn’t diminish my affection. My silence isn’t neglect or disinterest. It’s time blindness and object impermanence. The contact gap is purely neurological, not emotional. Thank you for being patient with my inconsistency and holding a seat in your heart for me.
ADHD affects how I experience time, not how I experience attachment. I love you. I miss you. I just don't realize how long it’s been since I last said that, let alone messaged.
I understand that most normal functioning brains need regular engagement to maintain a bond. Absence doesn’t diminish my affection. My silence isn’t neglect or disinterest. It’s time blindness and object impermanence. The contact gap is purely neurological, not emotional. Thank you for being patient with my inconsistency and holding a seat in your heart for me.
so today a public health official guy came into my class to give a lecture on disaster awareness and he was talking about house fires and mentioned that the reason people most likely die during a house fire is because they refuse to leave their pet inside or they go back to get their pet. and right when he said this my friend immediately turned his head and looked at me and in that moment I had the most complete and genuine acceptance take over my body. I would 100% in front of my family and Jesus himself walk straight back into some raging inferno that was once my house to go get my fat cat. I nodded back
the best part of this post is reading all the tags from animal people who would also go back to save their pets. like no hesitation. walk backwards from heaven straight back into hell. someone even said they would go back for their fish. amazing
If you are a person who would walk into a blazing inferno for your animal, and your pet has free movement around the house, here’s a training exercise that could help save you both:
1) Set off your smoke alarm or play the sound on your phone (if your home has no smoke alarms, pease get some!)
2) stand BY THE FRONT DOOR to hand out treats
Do this a couple times and then keep it up NO EXCEPTIONS. Accidentally set the alarm off cooking? Treats by the door. Smoke alarm sound on TV? Treats by the door. Changing your smoke alarm batteries twice a year like you’re supposed to? Give them a test run and your pets get treats by the door.
Most dogs and cats will clue in VERY quickly that hearing that specific sound means go to the front door and wait for treats.
If there’s an emergency and even if you leave by another way, you will still know the most likely place your pet(s) is and can direct first responders to help.
You can also do this for any other kind of emergency alarm. My friend had both her cats trained to go to the front door for a tsunami siren.
I want you to imagine receiving a big hug from a dragongirl. Your face is going to be squished between her boobs. She is strong and will be squeezing you almost painfully into her with her arms.
It's important you dont forget that her fat tail is going to wrap around both of you and hold you even closer
You will feel her wings also wrap around you, enclosing you completely.
given the current climate this pride especially i feel i must mention that i love my trans friends, i stand with trans people in the fight against transphobic legislation and those who would enforce it, and this blog is not a good place for you to be if you do not vibe with that
now now i know we hate pjackk but if were getting serious here it WAS a character sideblog run by a transfem & i genuinely have to assume thats why pjackk was banned in the first place. i hope we all know this is another case of staff nuking a popular transfem blogger & not just like "lol pjackk got killed because he sucks"
I think when a sub says "you can do whatever you want to me" what they're actually wanting is to not make decisions anymore, and they think by saying this they can foist the decision making off on the dom without having to do any of the work beforehand. But unfortunately to get to the Not Making Choices part of kink you do in fact have to make a Lot Of Choices beforehand and communicate those choices to your partner. This is an essential part of the process and skipping it is both unsafe and unfair for whoever you're playing with.
Not Making Choices is the reward for communicating clearly, not the default