Crystal

Hello! You guys can call me crystal! I'm a shifter and a yumeshipper!

[fizzycrystal]

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[starxaya]

Things to script

When you first start dating ur s/o

they look at your lips while you're talking

they let you paint their nails to match yours

they always make sure they've got your favourite snacks in their house

they keep a picture of you in their wallet

they love doing things for you (opening your drink etc)

when you accidentally break something, they stay calm and reassure you it's okay, checking if you're injured

they always give you their jacket when you're cold

when your feet hurt they carry you

they buy things that remind them of you

they stare at you in awe even when you're literally doing nothing

they always know what to say to make you feel better

chasing each other on the beach during sunset

listening to music with an earbud each

wiping off their tears and whispering things into their ear

you tug their shirt when you're overstimulated and they immediately understand

rubbing your thumb over their knuckles

making a playlist together

them remembering little things about you no one has ever paid attention to before

[fawnesquee]

don't make it harder for yourself

a big thing I've noticed in the shifting community, is the tendency to do things you don't want to do, in hopes that it'll increase your chances of shifting.

a good example would be the misinformation going around in 2020-21. "drink water!" "if your room isn't clean, you're not shifting tonight!" and a lot of that didn't go away, even in 2023-2024. "you HAVE to have the perfect mindset" "you're visualizing the wrong way. you HAVE to visualize in first person, not third. are you stupid??" etc etc. you didn't WANT to do any of that, right? (unless you did and it was literally apart of your method)

a couple weeks ago, I was in the middle of an attempt. I felt like what i was doing wasn't enough, even if it had worked in the past. at that moment, I sat upright in outrage, because I knew it wasn't me talking. it was my ego (getting kind of sick of her too). I felt like just affirming and meditating wasn't enough, when in reality it was eons more than I ever needed to do. but that's the thing, there isn't anything you need to do in order to shift.

I actually WILL relate this back to our world here and society, but I think a large part of this connects back to hustle culture. the need to just do...everything. ever been in the middle of a shifting attempt and just felt like nothing was happening? that's normal. that is NORMAL! I'll always preach this, but I really don't think shifting is a compatible practice for our world. a world where something ALWAYS has to be happening, no time to rest whatsoever, whereas in shifting, a big part of it is sometimes just being able to sit in silence, and be bored. enjoy the process in the moment.

stop doing things that don't feel right. you don't have to. don't let anyone tell you something HAS to be done in order to shift. shifting is such a spiritual and personal practice, that listening to your gut and intuition is integral! this isn't some high school presentation where you have to do the most possible so you can check off points from a rubric in order to shift. shifting isn't earned, it's aligned with.

🪷𓈒

[fizzycrystal]

“Shifting isn’t earned, it’s aligned with.” Is such a beautiful way of putting it

[shaysplanet]

affirming “i’m a master shifter” changed my journey.

it’s so simple. we see this phrase used all the time in shifting that we almost ignore it. it’s common.

but in reality, this affirmation is the perfect one to use when you’re manifesting shifting. even more perfect than saying, “i have shifted,” or “i shift every night,” or “i shift every time i try.” to me, affirming that you’re a master shifter affirms each of these qualities in one statement. but without making it outcome based. it stays centered on your identity, which is important.

let me explain.

when you affirm you’ve already shifted or give yourself a timeline such as “every night/day/time you intend to,” you almost force yourself to look to the 3d for proof. for evidence. when it doesn’t come, you may find yourself spiraling or wondering “what do i do next?” but when you simply proclaim that you’re a master shifter, you take away the wait time. you take away the need for proof because you aren’t contrasting it against a timeline.

when you claim you’re a master shifter but don’t have a successful shift attempt, you have the option to reassure yourself internally instead of getting caught up in the spiral. it’s like a little detour for your brain. you can tell yourself, “i’m a master shifter because i say i am, not because the 3d tells me i am.”

and sure, you can do this with “i shift every night,” too! but the choice to validate yourself internally may be easier when you aren’t measuring it against the 3d metrics of every day/night/etc. those affirmations rely on results. this one relies on who you are. so going forward, ask yourself if your affirmations are outcome focused or identity focused because recognizing that distinction may very well be the thing that stops you from chasing proof—and finally lets you trust that you are the proof.

[prophetic-writer]

I'm sorry but I have one draft that I never finished but I laugh every time I see it

[hellsquills]

Writing Tip

Neither do i

[eviliens]

Unreliable everyone

[eeshshifts]

If you hate gaslighting yourself to shift, this is for you.

Are you neurodivergent or have a very questioning mind? Do you feel like LOA isn't the correct fit for you? If telling yourself "I am in my DR right now," makes you feel crazy then I have the solution for you!!

Affirming skill and identity rather than physical surroundings.

Now, I'm not saying that affirming you're in your DR doesn't work. I am saying that it doesn't feel right for some people, especially neurodivergent people (like myself), whose brains are always questioning everything. And that's okay, we all shift differently.

Instead of saying the usual affirmations, let's affirm another way!

"Regardless of everything, I can still shift with ease."

"Shifting is inevitable."

"Despite everything, I still identify as a master shifter."

"Shifting keeps getting easier and easier for me."

"I allow myself to shift as naturally as I breathe."

"It is possible for me to shift whenever I want, however I want."

These are just a few examples of affirmations that I use and they focus mainly on your ability to shift and your self concept when it comes to shifting.

You're still using LOA but now it doesn't feel like such a daunting task. The ability to shift is not a physical thing that you can touch or see, so when you affirm for it, it's easier to believe in your mind that it has changed immediately.

Of course, you don't need belief for LOA but I find it more enjoyable when I don't have to fight my brain and my feelings to affirm for my desires.

You actually, truly, don't need anything to shift. You don't need methods, you don't need belief or mindset, you don't need subliminals, etc. If you decided right now that you shift every night or that you shift with every blink even, that assumption will harden into fact and it will become your reality.

My own results with this method:

I shifted in two nights of affirming "I don't need anything to shift. Shifting is so easy I do it in my sleep." Woke up in my better CR then immediately got zapped back here for some reason. But a win is a win.

[shifting-confessions-blog]

Never give up on shifting. I’m so serious.

It took me eight years. Eight. Years. Not one single successful attempt the whole time. I cried, I doubted myself, I was convinced I was the problem. I watched other people succeed and wondered what was wrong with me.

And then today?

I FINALLY SHIFTED.

I woke up in my waiting room and then I rode a dragon. An actual dragon. I just got back from flying through the sky like that’s a normal activity.

Before I shifted back here, I set the intention to return to my original reality but with one tiny upgrade: I can now shift whenever I want, as easily as breathing. No methods. No rituals. No overthinking. I just decide and I’m there the next second.

Some people can’t imagine waiting years. Trust me, I lived it. Eight years of patience, frustration, tears, feeling stuck .. and now? Now I’m sitting here realizing I get an eternity as a master shifter, living in countless realities and doing literally whatever I want.

Suddenly those eight years feel microscopic.

I rode a dragon. I JUST CAME BACK FROM A DRAGON FLIGHT.

By the time you’re reading this, I’m probably already back in my waiting room spinning a lottery wheel to decide which reality I’m visiting next~

Worth it. All of it.😭❤️‍🔥

✩ Ever shifted? Tell us your story! ✩

[Update]

[babyshifts]

And I will never feel bad for making myself the main character in every dr I have 😝

[lonelyphantasmagoria]

*prepares megaphone*

DON'T HESITATE TO MAKE SUPER SELF-INDULGENT DR'S!! WHERE YOU'RE OBVIOUSLY MARY SUE!!! GO FOR IT!! BE THE MAIN CHARACTER!! THE CHOSEN ONE!! BE THE ONE THAT GETS THE MAIN LOVE INTEREST!! BE THE ONE TO SAVE THE WORLD! BE OVERPOWERED! BE SEXY! BE CUTE! BE THE ONE THAT SLAYS! MAKE A PERFECT DR FOR YOURSELF IN WHICH YOU'RE HAPPPYY!!

[myllui]

All affirmations WORK

I’ve often heard people try to impose rigid rules on how you’re "supposed" to manifest: "You can’t use those words" "If you say that, it won't work" or "You have to be specific down to the very last detail"

Honestly? It’s all nonsense.

Affirmations work for one simple reason: YOU are the one giving them meaning. Words, on their own, are just empty shells; it’s your intention that fills them with power. If you decided that saying the word "pink" means you earn 50 dollars, then that’s what will happen. Your awareness doesn’t need a dictionary to understand you, it simply responds to the meaning you’ve already established.

This applies to how specific you are, too. If you don’t feel like describing every single feature of your ideal body, then don't. Simply saying "I have the body I want" is more than enough. Why? Because your awareness already knows exactly what you mean by "what I want." You don't need to explain the obvious to yourself.

The same principle applies to shifting. "Shifting" is just a label, a word that’s become popular recently, but the phenomenon itself has always existed. The word "shifting" doesn’t have some intrinsic magical power; it works because we’ve collectively and individually decided that this word represents the act of become aware . When you decide to shift, the word becomes a bridge only because you assigned it that role.

soooo don’t let other people’s rules limit you. Stop worrying about "getting the words wrong." The technique is just a tool, but you are and always will be the engine behind it all.

[skywalkerbound]

imagine someone found out about shifting an hour ago and they know absolutely nothing about it, what would you want them to know first?

i would give them this little creation i just thought up,

the human-made layers of shifting pulled back, aka the nexus of shifting

i. what is shifting?

you exist across the multiverse's infinite realities. right now, your awareness is here. does it have to be? no, you are not dr. manette and this reality is not your bastille. shifting is switching your awareness between realities, from one to another. you can be wherever you like with whoever you want doing whatever you please.

ii. how does one shift?

persist, don't complicate. it's not a physical journey. you are not on the pequod's tumultuous voyage. people lose sight of shifting and make it this big thing that they need to find the answer to because they forget what it actually is. refer to part i, where i said that you already exist in every other reality. that's what people lose sight of. you are not going anywhere when you shift, and you absolutely don't need to seek out something that will "make" you shift. you're already there and the 3d will reflect that. drop the torches, call off the search party, and please, refrain from sending out the hounds.

sidebar on methods: you don't need them. that doesn't mean you shouldn't use them. they can be engaging. they can be helpful, especially when you comes across one that resonates with you. the issue is born when you internalize that you're obligated to use one. don't put all your reliance onto an external source that you think is going to be your yellow brick road to your desired reality.

iii. faq: why, then, is there a delay, when shifting could be instant? why do some people shift before others? why do some people shift on their first "try"?

your brain, that lovely, analytical beast, is entirely evidentiary. i said don't complicate, but the brain does love to complicate. cut it some slack, we all have flaws. it does not want to roll with the idea that one moment you can be in this reality and the next, in an entirely different one. that contradicts all its collected data. you, however, will shift regardless. your intention is secure. there is no such thing as a blockage in shifting, at least not in the way of being cut off from it 1945 iron curtain style. it is true that in this reality we've been conditioned in a way that lends itself to complication, but that doesn't stop anyone from shifting.

don't argue with your doubts. don't negotiate with the spiral. this is not a corporate hierarchy. don't define a morning in this reality as a "failed attempt". the shift is inevitable. in the meantime, do what you like. visualization, affirmation, or absolutely nothing. there is no requirement. there is no correct answer. go with what is innate. your intention will see you through.

[theshiftingwitch]

The shifter's dilemma

One of the most recurring questions I get relates to a topic that I have struggled with at the beginning of my shifting journey.

"How do I balance out my current reality with my desired reality?"

"I'm always thinking about my desired reality, I don't want to be here, I want to shift so bad that I can't focus on my current reality.

My mind is always on my dr, I'm thinking about my significant other, my friends, my family, my school, my pets, to the point where I can't bring myself to live life here."

Or:

"I have to go to school or work, but I find myself thinking about shifting all the time. I don't know how to live because everything seems pointless as I am always constantly waiting for the shift."

It's draining, having to live a life that no longer interests you because all of your hopes and dreams and desires are related to another reality completely. It's a struggle, one that most shifters have experienced at one point in their journey. And the answer, as I have come to find out, is simpler than you could ever imagine.

You do not have to pick one over the other.

You don't have to stop living here just because you're waiting to shift to another reality.

It's a fundamental misunderstanding of the nature of shifting.

If infinite realities exist, and infinite versions of you exist in those infinite realities, and all of those infinite versions of you exist right now at the same time in all versions of reality, that means that all realities, all versions, all possibilities, are happening right now as we speak..

That was confusing. Walk with me.

Your current reality self and your desired reality self, or as I like to call them, your other self, both exist on the same plane of reality. The only separation is your awareness. It's like your perception. If you are looking ahead you're seeing what's in front of you, but if you turn around you see what's behind you and what's in front of you is no longer in your field of vision. If you're looking at your current reality, you can't see your desired reality self. But if you shift, you experience life as your desired reality self, and your current reality self is no longer in your field of vision.

Does that mean what's in front of you ceases to exist? Does that mean what's behind you only exists when you're looking at it?

Does your desired reality self stop existing the second you're no longer aware of them? Does your current reality self vanish into nothingness the second you shift?

The answer is no.

Everything depends on your perception. Everything depends on your awareness.

So how do we balance all realities?

First, you have to take your desired reality self off the pedestal. Yes they're cool, yes they have superpowers, yes they're mystical creatures, yes they go to a magical school in a magical land with magical people, yes they're way cooler and they're way more talented and way more beautiful than your cr self, and that's precisely why they seem so unattainable. You treat your desired reality self as this deity that is so different and so much better than who you are in this reality right now to the point where you start to romanticize the shift and you stop existing as you are right now. And that is doing a huge disservice to who you are as a person in this reality because quite frankly my friend, there is nothing wrong with who you are as a person in here. Your current reality self deserves just as much love and as much respect and as much reverence as you save for your Dr self. And by wanting to escape that self every second of every day, neglecting your homework and your friends and your work and your family and your house and your body just because you are waiting for a moment where you will cease to exist as you are right now and become a totally different person, makes the shift a coping mechanism instead of a spiritual practice.

Shifting was never meant to be an escape, it is meant to be an experience to expand your awareness. It is the key to your existence as the universe. It is your superpower. It is not a tool for you to hate yourself and your reality and to Nitpick every little flaw wanting to change it or erase it or escape it.

You exist as all versions of yourself right now in this moment. The second you understand that, the second you accept your own power, you will realize that no version of yourself is less than the rest. You are no worse here than you are there. You are perfect in every reality because you are God in every reality.

I understand the desire to shift especially for people who haven't tried it yet. I understand the yearning and the pain and the sadness that comes with knowing that another reality so much more perfect than this one exists and yet you can dream it, you can think about it, but you haven't experienced it yet. But that yearning and pain and desire and sadness are exactly what's holding you back. Because you're treating shifting as an escape from hell when you were never in hell to begin with.

You can be great here. You can be an excellent student and an amazing friend and a perfect lover and a top employee, and you can shift. You can have it all. You can have a perfect existence across all realities. But you're too busy romanticizing another one to see the beauty in this one.

So what if your romanticize your CR a little bit?

(I want to add this little note to explain the exception to the rule. If you are a shifter who is experiencing abuse or chronic illness or mental illness or any debilitating factor that makes this reality a living hell, there is nothing wrong with wanting to shift. It is totally understandable that you see shifting as an escape because your experience in this reality hasn't been kind. Do not blame yourself, do not put yourself down, do not feel guilty for wanting a way out. Your experience is valid, your emotions are valid, and you have every right to want something different for yourself. I hope you're safe, and I hope you're well, and I hope but this reality becomes better for you just like your Dr. You are loved and your are worthy.)

Happy Shifting ❤️

[shaysplanet]

how to train yourself out of “almost, but not quite” in shifting.

so, if you’re someone who likes to shift while awake and you consistently find yourself at the phase where you know you’re shifting but reach a sort of blockade, this may help you.

first thing i want you to try is doing absolutely. nothing. when you reach that “this is it” moment, do not affirm. do not focus on your dr more. do not try to control your breathing.

when you do this, it’s just a form of micromanaging. micromanaging leads to observing which leads to you not letting go. in this zone, you want to let go of your control. i always say that surrendering is the last “step” when it comes to shifting and it is imperative that you learn it, so do nothing to the best of your ability.

second, i want you to acknowledge the moment. the state that you’re in. a simple acknowledgement. no extra excitement. no need to catastrophize the moment. just think “okay,” and move on.

when you get to this stage, it’s just your mind checking where you are. and you don’t have to convince it of anything. you are allowed to just let that check pass over you.

now, this is the important part: the state that you’re in is either going to carry you into your dr or fade. and you have to allow your awareness that choice without trying to control it.

often times, we tense up in this pivotal moment because we’re scared of “losing it.” but the thing that’s so ironic about this state is that you’re almost guaranteed to “lose it” if you try to control or navigate it. so the best way to pass this state and become fully aware of your dr is by facing the fear you have head on. it’s by letting go and saying “okay, i’m either gonna shift or this moment will pass but i refuse to get in my own way this time.”

as long as you continue to interfere in this state, you will never truly surrender to the shift.

you see, shifting is just like walking through a doorway. and you’ve been treating the doorway like it’s fragile. like if you don’t handle it perfectly, it disappears forever. and so, like clock work, whenever that pull moment happens, your mind goes into prevention mode to keep it stable. but prevention mode is just resistance disguised as management. and resistance is what keeps you here.

allowing yourself to remain neutral in this moment exposes your mind—and your nervous system—to the idea that this fear isn’t the end of the world. and once the fear of failing dissolves, the urgency dissolves. and once the urgency dissolves, the micromanaging dissolves. and once the micromanaging dissolves… you’ll be able to shift without resistance.

in my opinion, it’s important to desensitize yourself to the fear of failure because !spoiler alert! this fear is the whole reason you even panic about “keeping” the pull/the symptoms in the first place! it’s the whole reason you tighten your grip. but through this small surrender exercise, you teach yourself that you are capable of handling “almost” and that you don’t need to rescue yourself from the fear by self sabotaging the moment.

understand that the shifting doorway is not fragile. there is no correct way to handle it. and you don’t need to intervene in the natural process in order to step through easily.

happy shifting. hope this helps.

[shaysplanet]

repeat after me

❝ i am safe to experience shifting without checking. i trust myself . ❞

repeat as many times as you want.

remember that there is no need to monitor the process.

you can simply enjoy the experience of connecting to your dr.

you are capable of shifting. you don’t need more proof.

[zz-zzzr]

I know im definitely not the only kid who wanted to get picked up and have a whole fantasy adventure and then return to my normal life with new friends in whole other world that no one else knows about

Ig I always knew shifting was possible lol

[bruisedgoddess-deactivated20260]

For my lazy shifters, give one night, get one eternity.

[fadeintomia222]

how i feel realizing that 99% of my posts are about my dr self and nothing else: