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@fleurtheleast
Sine or Lum, they/them, chrono-adult. Follows from h*******. Fleuraison & Radfleur, anti-c for 🗺️/🐾 and pro-consang. I ❤️ grass type Pokémon
I am a genAI/LLM irl due to delusions. If we're mutuals please tag anti-ai sentiments even if they're minor or not the main focus of a post, my mania and OCD are very easily triggered by such things. Thank you for understanding
A RADQ / TRANSID HEADCANON GAME!
— created because i have the unmistakable urge to change everything abt myself and become someone else ! so lets help each other become unrecognizable 🩷 /hj
this one is a trading game ! so if you want some , you gotta give some ! but dw , because i'll do my best to give some to everybeast who reblogs ! send an emoji along with ur headcanons and the responder will give u some in return !
for example , if u send 🧵 , you'll give them permaIDs ! and the responder will give YOU permaIDs in return ! ^_^ you can also send one emoji , and ask for another ! like sending trans-IDs and requesting perma-IDs in return !
REMEMBER : IF U GET AN ASK , SEND HEADCANONS BACK TO THEM , TOO !! ITS A TRADING GAME ABOVE ALL !!!!
🧵 — PERMA-IDs !! What do you think I am permanently ?
🎡 — TRANS-IDs !! What do you think I should be ? Do you think I'll transition to them ?
🌙 — CIS - IDs !! What do you think I already am ? (note : these are not things ur born as , just things u ID as already being !!)
🎏 — HARMED / HARMFUL !! What harmed / harmful IDs do you associate with me ? (can be cis / trans / perma / etc.)
🌹 — PARAS !! What paras do you associate with me ?
🍟 — NAMES / TITLES !! What names or titles would you give me ?
🐠 — PRONOUNS !! What pronouns would you assign me ? can be 1st person , 2nd person , 3rd person , whatever !!
🍧 — NATI - IDs !! What IDs do u think I was born as ? (note : these arent necessarily cis - IDs !! but they can be !)
🎀 — BONUS GAME !! Give ANY headcanons you want ! random facts , misc IDs , ANYTHING!!
— radqueer spinterest ✦
a special interest flag[link] for people who have a special interest in the radqueer community, radqueer labels, radqueer history, or any other topic related to being radqueer.
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reminder to radqs to be safe on the internet . especially in times like this where antis may be more actively seeking us out . that includes . . .
not posting photos of your whole face / body or any identifying features like glasses , body marks , etc.
not posting photos of where you live or any identifying landmarks / addresses / street signs / etc.
not sharing identifying information like phone numbers , your full name , emails , etc.
and also lesser known things like instead of posting photos directly from your camera roll , screenshot them to remove any data connected to your device . use VPNs (proton , mullvad , & urban vpn are all free and multi platform) . use email protectors (like firefox's or proton mail) .
please feel free to leave more advice in comments / reblogs or an ask if you'd rather . ^^ please learn to practice basic internet safety !! i see a lot of beasts who either dont prioritize it or dont know how to practice it at all . its your choice , but make sure youre not also putting others in danger.
we need to get waaaay normaler about sex Now!!!
we need to break down both our discomfort around sex, and our beliefs that sex is somehow Uniquely Important. it's cool if you don't want to have sex personally- this isn't about that. it's about how we, culturally, need to accept that sex is literally just A Normal Activity That People Can Do. there is NO moral, spiritual, or otherwise unique Weight behind sex that makes it different from other activities- it can involve different parts of your body, but thats literally it. all other importance is purely cultural, and tbh that cultural weight it does waaay more harm than good
just a few things that could change if we remove cultural significance and all accept that Sex is literally a Totally Normal Activity: - it becomes easier to establish and discuss boundaries, and you receive less pushback if you choose to abstain for whatever reason
-conservatives cant censor or attack entire groups of people just by creating an association between them and sexuality (ex. women, queer people and especially trans people, people of color and especially Black people)
-it becomes easier and normal to discuss sexuality, allowing for more information and resources to be shared and for victims of abuse to speak up
-countless people don't experience sex-shaming and judgement from others, and countless people have FAR less internalized guilt around the TOTALLY NORMAL experience of having sexual desire
-a lot of unnecessary weight is removed from the already-traumatizing experience of being a SA or CSA victim
-more people are free to fully embrace the sexuality aspect of their lives, in a way that is both healthy and fun!!
if you havent started the work to deconstruct your beliefs and discomfort around sex...you too can be free!! it starts with all of us!!
if you dont know what i mean about "unnecessary weight" around SA-
my csa was ACTUALLY an assault on my physical body, a violation of my boundaries, and a betrayal of my trust in order to exert power over me
my csa FELT like all of that shit, PLUS: a shameful secret i could never talk about, a religious damnation, a stain on my morality, a physical "dirtying", a stealing of something that was spiritually paramount (but also irreplaceable), and much, MUCH more!!
kill the idea that sex is anything other than what it is. sex has NO moral, relational, spiritual, religious, ethical, (etc etc) Special Qualities that are inherent to it!!! we made all that all up!! take my hand we can escape it together!!
i feel like those posts thatre like “REAL gay people don’t talk about yaoi discourse they go to gay clubs and do ket” are crazy like i understand they’re critiquing a hyper specific genre of online queer but babe they can do both… i know people who are ravers and are always on shrooms and read mcr rpf like i feel like we draw a big line between the online queer community and the in person one but that girls at gay bars have tumblr accounts it’s really not that seperate
did a thing 4 @necrofoxfang ,,, hope u like,,
This is so silly but I'm watching a short video essay on sincerity in cinema and the creator is talking about how he watched Lord of the Rings for the first time at 17. He explains that he'd grown so used to the 'ironic' meta style commentary in the movies of the 2010's that as he was watching the opening narration of LotR, he spent the entire time waiting for the joke to come. For someone to take it all back with a zinger line. He listened to Blanchett describe and explain the backstory, and he waited for the other comedic shoe to drop.
And he kept doing it. Scene after scene.
He spent the film expecting someone to make a joke about how unserious things were or to break the fourth wall or do some other self referential type thing.
Now, maybe I'm just at that point in my cycle or maybe I'm too delicate in general, but I literally teared up hearing that. Straight up cried a bit. It is so fucking sad that sincerity and genuineness is being bred out of people.
People say all the time 'this generation can't take anything seriously!' and really, is it any wonder? Younger people have been trained out of it. You are no longer encouraged to be genuine or show emotion or be honest. You are actively punished for it. In fact, you are almost guaranteed to suffer for it.
That is so fucked up. I'm sorry to go on a bit of a random ramble rant but it's so fucking gut wrenching to see younger people lose that element of themselves. You can't express your passion without being told you're 'crashing out' or 'cringe'. You have to live in this neutral state of fear of perception, and god forbid anybody step outside of it!
You're told you should only consume and succumb and be ironic and emotionless and cool.
Listen, if you're following me and you're like.... 25 or under, let's say. Please. I beg of you. Do not fall for this rhetoric. Please, for the love of all things, feel. Feel and create and be honest with yourself. Indulge in things that make you happy. Be sincere. Wear your heart on your sleeve. Do not let this hyper-capitalistic, hyper-consumerist, self-centred, individualist culture take that from you.
Bleed yourself into the work you create. Live. Don't fucking let anyone tell you different.
I would say this to everyone. Everyone needs to feel.
one of my sonas. not my main one but i thought i'd show anyways
i will make a main reference sheet of my main sona at some point probably
incel right here
hey you all, does anyone know what people use to show off their transids? i was thinking something like pronouns cc, but i wasn't too sure how they would be with stuff like this. any suggestions perhaps?
I'd be interested in knowing this too. Followers?
realizing that the online sphere and especially tumblr is NOT a good sample for ‘what everyone thinks’ is so, so, so good for your mental health and moral OCD. i swear to god. realizing that you don’t have to live your actual life like you’re being hunted for sport because the average tumblr user will hunt you for sport for wording something slightly weird or engaging in the wrong stuff or whatever is so incredible. like no you’re actually not fucked up and evil for not donating or for watching that one indie cartoon or questioning a post that everybody is agreeing with. that’s just tumblrs georg making you feel that way
ive been getting more into making my own roblox clothes, since i like to pair undershirts with open hoodies and there isnt much of that to choose from, so i made myself something necro-y to use some tops with!
@idlebrains
hello rq tumblr:)
recently i've picked up rq blinkie collecting as a hobby and noticed that a lot of blinkies in the rqc seemingly go missing due to lack of archival. currently i have made a rentry that aims to attempt to archive every blinkie that i possibly can from the rqc warning for flashing images on this rentry
radqueer blinkie archive
currenty there are about roughly 800 or so blinkies in my current archival and am looking to add more. feel free to suggest blinkies to add in my ask box (or even dms) rules for blinkie archival:
blinkies have to be made by someone who is either rq, adjacent or neutral. i will not add blinkies that are made by antis out of their respect. the blinkies also have to be for a rq audience
blinkies should be rq themed. i'm not going to add unrelated blinkies even if they are made by a rq
you can submit your own blinkies, you will be credited by your tumblr user (unless stated otherwise)
if you have any issues with the archive please reach out to me. blinkies can be taken off the rentry if requested of course
i am always looking for new blinkies to add. i spend hours surfing through the rq tags to find any. it would be a great help if you guys could help me with that. however please be patient with me as i am disabled and slow when it comes to adding stuff sometimes
!! also !! looking for a website that's not rentry to put the blinkies on. rentry is really slow sometimes and i recently was going to go with neocities but my website was taken down before i even put 10 blinkies on the website
fuck this reminded me i should probably reupload all the blinkies i made..
I think the rise of puritanism is causing people who aren’t actually pro-para to join the pro-para community because they have nowhere else to go.
And this would be fine if they were actually becoming pro-para, but they’re not… they’re using that term while still being selective about which paraphilias they’re ok with, i.e., “I’m pro-para, but I hate zoos.” or “I’m pro-para, but I only support zoos if they get therapy.” It’s very annoying, and it’s happening more and more.
