duskpigeon

20 they/it/he propara anti-c i'll block if i dislike your words!

[duskypigeon]

INTRO TO ME!!

CW for flashing blinkies at the bottom!!

NO-ACT

I WILL block you if you misuse medicals terms or use microaggressive language! (including the r slur)

this is what i support:

- proship/profic/darkship/darkfic (except nonconsensual RPF)

- anti-contact/pro-consent

- paraphilias (including big3!)

- recovery/rehabilitation (not conversion therapy)

- abolish the death penalty/ACAB/not a fan of prisons...

- theriantropy/alterhumanity/otherkin

- bodily autonomy

im an open-minded person and i believe everyone should have rights no matter what, however,

I AM RADQUEER CRITICAL!!

my opinions may change when i learn more info about stuff. feel free to educate me! but even so i have my social limits. BUT i have empathy for all people/things, i do not wish harm on anyone/anything just because we disagree.

thank you for understanding :3

and with that out of the way...

WHO AM I?

hello! my name dusk and my pronouns are they/it/he

- age: 20

- my sexuality in fiction: ficto-MAP, auto-ficto-biastophile, and insects. my interests fluctuate between species, ages, sexes, genders and "genres" so im abrosexual in fiction :3 (like my ADHD hyperfixations)

- my sexuality in non-fiction (IRL): non-exclusive epheb0phile :p

- my sexuality in both: canines, horses, auto-MAP, aromantic, allosexual, and VERY pan. i take hearts not parts seriously /silly.

- gender: agender and transAMAB

- identity: human-wolf hybrid therian, cat otherhearted!

- some things i have: ADHD, OCD, real bad anxiety, the works :p (currently in treatment!!)

also i really REALLY love flags, identities and especially tagging all my posts to absolute hell. I LOVE TAGSSS

MY TAG GUIDE

#dusks ocs - posts about my OCs!! (eventually..)

#resquawks - reblogs :p

#para pride - art with paraphile pride flags!!

#yapping - when im yknow.. yapping

#op has ocd - yapping about my ocd

#dusky art - MY ART!!!

#smut posting - yapping about NSFW stuff

#when my disability disables me - complaining about my disabilities/disorders

idk what the hell else to add. ive never used tumblr before wagghhhh. i swear im so cool. i will edit this later so check back for updates haha /nf

[duskypigeon]

HELLO ALL ON TUMBLR THAT USE PICREW!!!

i am trying to make an all inclusive (human) picrew!! what are features or other things you hate being missing from picrews? tell me EVERYTHING.

(also this will only be for human related things, i plan on making other picrews for other species n whatever!)

idk how to get reach here but yall pls drop suggestions in the comments! :3

[polymerclay]

Postfurry flag critters

[froggiforgot]

"LARP" used to actually mean something and now people just use it as a way to call people posers and it makes me kinda sad :(

As far as I'm aware, LARP is an abbreviation for Life Action Role Playing, and the only reason I know that is because of Homestuck lmao.

This also makes me realize that I, to the most literal sense of the term, was LARPing Minecraft Sonic the Hedgehog and Warrior Cats in the 3rd grade behind the rock wall they had on the playground. Shoutout to 3rd grade me for being real as fuck.

[duskypigeon]

yes. poser was already a good enough word😔

[duskypigeon]

how do i get tumblr to stop showing me the same posts. YES I SAW IT. I ALSO LIKED IT BY THE WAY. IN CASE YOU DIDNT NOTICE

[duskypigeon]

me when paraphilia corner in paralives

para lives?? 👀

para?? /silly

(my graphics are turned down all the way cause my laptop is shit)

[still-thinking-about]

I sure hope I don't lose my distinguishability between fantasy, memory, and reality... that would be psychologically torturous. Ivan, are you Still Thinking About him? No?? Okay, but are you sure? I mean, well — is it really him? Are you really you?

You don't really remember, do you?

[duskypigeon]

my friend: ageplay is kinda weird me: well as long as its two consenting adults then who cares

(very subtle i know)

[ocdiscourse]

[domestic-werefox-1985]

The shimmerqueer community's fundamental misunderstanding of no-act's necrophilic contact stance is incredibly harmful. Just like their anti-consang stance, it is labeling innocent people as abusers and taking away the sexual rights of consenting people.

People cannot change their mind about anything after they die.

They cannot change their mind about what/who is in their will, they cannot change their mind about how their remains are preserved, they cannot change their mind about where they're buried, they cannot change their mind about whether they donate organs, they cannot change their mind about whether their ashes are spread and where.

But people know this before they die. They choose before hand to consent to these things, knowing they will not be around to change them. We do our best to respect these wishes because ultimately the person's body is their property, and what they want done with it after they move on is what we should respect.

I'm a zoo-exclusive necro, so this debate doesn't even involve me. I'm not looking to fuck any dead humans now or honestly ever. But who knows, maybe when I die I'll want a necro lover to have some fun with me, and I sure as hell am not going to let other people decide what I can and cannot let happen to my body.

Stop ignoring people's sexual rights because you don't like what they consent to.

[duskypigeon]

on the context of this and some of my thoughts,

1. im not sure how often the stuff actually happens so im not sure why people get so worried about it. (i dont mean to be insensitive or anything im just not sure how common these agreements are)

2. the point is informed consent. they discuss everything beforehand

3. if the necro person violates what was agreed upon, thats not bc theyre a necro its bc they dont care about consent

[alchemistdoctor]

I am begging you. Please learn about stress/discomfort tolerance. Practice raising it. You need this to survive. If someone online can ruin your day with a throwaway comment, you desperately need to understand discomfort tolerance and consciously, systematically build that shit.

Also! Stress tolerance is such an important skill that having a learning disability in that area is a major symptom of a whole lot of other disabilities/mental illnesses! Struggling with it is a huge part of life! It sucks!

Am I saying everyone with misophonia needs to listen to chewing noises all day? No. But you need to find ways to tolerate it enough that you don't treat others like shit if they make a mouth noise near you.

No, you don't have to read the fic with your trigger tags. But you do need to be able to handle scrolling past the tags without being upset.

It is hard! But not having it also makes you so so so easy to manipulate. That grandma is racist AF because her mom raised her to be uncomfortable around black people and she never fought that discomfort. Trans people make so many cis people uncomfortable and that discomfort turns into bigotry real fast.

Letting your discomfort dictate your actions and beliefs about things is a great way to become a terrible person. Learn. Discomfort. Tolerance.

[allthingswhumpyandangsty]

[123gocat]

this was on the reblog of the last post but i'll put it here, too. because people need this reminder

contact stances have NEVER meant anything anti roleplay or anti-kink . anti contact is not against zoo4therian. anti contact is not against insys relationships . anti c doesnt include innerworld, spiritual, or psychological identity . anti contact is not against acting on any sexual contact that wouldn't be harmful to act upon (plushophilia, podophilia, etc)

these rules were made up for safety reasons, and its not good to be changing the meaning of them.

https://pache-definitions.carrd.co/

[duskypigeon]

and give me more smut that has awkward and embarrassing moments

[woosh-floosh-art]

Situation that happened in class this semester that was so funny I immediately sketched it out in my notes

[maplethecatwrites]

And for this disability pride month, I want us all to become radically accepting of Body Identity integrity disorder (BIID)

BIID isn't romanticizing disability. It's a disability in itself.

[helelmcgrippers]