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You know what?

I am annoying sometimes.

And that’s okay. It’s not the death sentence I was led to believe. People will love me even if I can’t read their signals sometimes. Not understanding is forgivable. I don’t have to hold myself back so I don’t annoy anyone ever.

The people who love me know I get excited. And I am still loved.

thesevenumbrellas

In every scooby doo remake they get Fred’s personality all wrong, okay!? He is not the cocky and fearless leader. He lost his brain cells years ago! He’s a himbo to the core! He asks what color pink panther is. He wears a jeans vest (jest?) under his sweater. His bright idea is to split up and look for clues. Not once has that worked and yet he still wants to do it every single fucking time. Please respect the himbo.

hadesfirst

Can somebody put in the scene from the 2002 movie where Scooby is disguised as a grandmother and Fred goes “who’s the ugly chick”

schizopyke

glamrockdyke-deactivated2020021

Give the words femme and butch back to lesbians you cowards. Just say feminine and masculine.

glamrockdyke-deactivated2020021

To clarify: Butch and femme BOTH include a rejection of men as romantic and sexual partners. Both include presenting and acting the way we do EXCLUSIVELY for other women. I'm not going to let anyone just take words that help us shape our relationships and the way we see the world in a way that is inherently OURS and take apart their meaning.

Butch and femme outside of lesbianism don't exist.

And also to make it clear as day. Trans women ARE women and CAN be lesbians, and therefore CAN be butch or femme.

Edit: I want to clarify that I am talking specifically about the lesbian/wlw context of the words butch and femme and not the use of butch and femme in ball culture. I wholly apologize for not making this clear earlier, and I agree that this is an important issue that needs to be adressed better.

#!!!!!

dammitrussellwhy

the greatest earthbender of all time has a message for you

linsbeifong

[an animation of toph bending earth into bubble letters that say “TRANS RIGHTS”]

hedaslayer

“I wanted to challenge politically the kissing scene, which traditionally either has the surprise kiss scene thanks to a rain shower for instance, or the obvious kiss scene thanks to mustard on the corner of the lips, for instance, and it is generally carefully scripted as ‘They kiss.’ Or ‘They passionately kiss.’ And then it’s on the actors’ shoulders. It seems to rely a lot on them because it’s their bodies and fluids and interaction, but it shouldn’t be. It’s fake. It’s not about finding the magic. Actors should always be part of the elaboration of an idea, especially with intimate scenes. So I wanted to craft a scene that would embody the sexiness of consent. People who are questioning the idea of asking for consent in France, they do exist. They are brave fighters for the culture of French gallantry who say that asking for consent would not be sexy, it will break the mood. Some of the French critics thought the film lacked flesh, precisely because to them eroticism is about conflict. […] At some point I came up with the idea of them having to unveil their mouths like they would undress themselves. So I put a scarf, justified by a strong wind, pressed on their lips and thinking you would see their heavy breathing through the moving cloth.”

Céline Sciamma on creating a new first kiss

#i would die for this movie no joke

Local dyke shaves head, cant shut up about it (ft. Bad lightning)

#my face #dyke #buzzcut #butch #wlw #gwlg #lesbian #lesbian tumblr #ldov #lesbian positivity

kaleighfratkins

being a butch means choosing between being misgendered and being treated like shit, it means your heart races and your palms sweat when you walk towards a public bathroom, it means you’re nervous to talk to kids in public because what if their parents think you’re a predator, it means people have no idea how the fuck to talk to you so they just don’t, it means clothes shopping is seven kinds of hell, it means your family’s at least a little bit ashamed of you, it means you were bullied before anybody even knew what “lesbian” meant, it means you’re hungry for even a glimpse of somebody who looks like you and speaks your language, it means strangers calling you a dyke if they have the guts to do more than stare, it means dysphoria and confusion and pain

but it’s worth it all and more to hear a woman call you “handsome”, to lock eyes with a butch stranger who’s not quite your sister and not quite your brother, to step outside in a suit for the first time, to strip off years of disguises and discomfort, to have a “Ring of Keys” moment, to be someone’s “Ring of Keys” moment, to play with a child who doesn’t care what you’re wearing or what’s in your pants, to fight back against the world for once and let go of your shame, to start to like the person you see in the mirror, to dance with a woman, to hold hands with a woman, to kiss a woman, to make love to a woman, to love a woman and be loved in return, to find community and solidarity and home when you never even thought you’d live to see adulthood. I love butches and I love being butch.

#butches i love you