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[rai-r]

[lamignonette]

[zagrebinaa]

[sweet----lie]

[theambitiouswoman]

Your friends are constantly influencing you, whether you realize it or not. That’s why it’s so important to make sure you’re on the same page with them. If your goals, values, or mindsets don’t align, they can end up dragging you down instead of lifting you up. Choose your circle wisely.

[lilcowgirl7-deactivated20210223]

You cannot live alone on the fantasies you feed to your mind, eventually you have to touch your life for real, assess and analyze your habits, understand your character, try not to hate yourself for your character as it was shaped when you were very young by circumstances outside of you, and begin learning how to cope with your character, how to build habits that work for you, finish small projects, finish big projects, expose yourself to more uncomfortable situations, assess why you want to leave that friendship before you leave it, raise your anxiety levels on purpose, so that you can grow, raise your work load on purpose, so that you can grow, so that you can build resilience, so that your life expands, and can be experienced by you in full and in reality

[04k96]

[wiionme]

[theambitiouswoman]

You pay the price for staying too long in environments that do not stimulate your growth

[florenctts]

[foxeia]

Valeria

[remanence-of-love]

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[desactivemaintenant-deactivated]

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[stuckinapril]

being uncomfortable becomes easier when you realize that’s literally the point. it’s like working out. if you work out & it becomes easy for you, you already got all you could out of that workout. your body adjusted & is strong enough to handle it now. you’re not improving anymore. that’s why you up the ante with harder workouts, where you’re uncomfortable & not quite strong enough yet. bc eventually you will be strong enough. but if it’s not a challenge, there’s no gain. & that’s exactly how it is with situations out of your comfort zone. the more you put yourself in them, the easier they get—but that in-between phase where you’re struggling is still completely valid and ok and natural. it’s what’s supposed to happen. it’s what’s going to change you as a person. and you should keep doing it

[houseofnadeen]