at the end of the day, it doesn't matter what you say about some fictional character. but if you watch a story written by a trans woman that is clearly about the closet and the intense pain being unable to escape from it brings, and insist that a character who clearly has complicated desires about wanting to be more feminine isn't transfem because no one ever looked at the camera and told you the character's pronouns than i think there IS a problem of, as a viewer, finding the idea of someone being transfem so outrageous and unrelatable that you cannot see the most obvious hansel and gretel bread crumb trail of a character arc then there is absolutely SOMETHING in your heart you have to fix
















