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Dan and Phil, their new backpacks are amazing!! I want one!! *.*

hikingdyke-deactivated20170912

U can’t control who you’re attracted to, but u can control how/whether u act on it. Like if I saw someone I thought was a butch woman, I might feel attracted to them. But if I found out by getting to know them that they were actually a dude, I would respect that and I wouldn’t try to date or hook up w them cause I’m not into men! It’s really pretty simple. and like if I was crushing on someone who read as woman but was actually nonbinary, I would have a convo with them about it. Like “I’m a lesbian and I know you’re not a woman but I’m into you” if they were cool with it and I was cool with it, cool nice let’s do this! If they’re not cool with being with a lesbian bc they’re not a woman, cool no worries, that’s their choice!! It’s literally just respect and communication.

37q-archive

yeah i feel like a lot of people fail to recognize that like, esp as gay people, we actually do have the choice to recognize and refuse to recognize different instances of attraction based entirely on like, identity markers. like, were pretty well within our right imo to defend the self-declared authenticity of our sexuality (which can be understood as who we pursue and and to whom our attraction is internally acceptable rather than a more general idea of “attraction”)

alovesogentle

Can’t wait to spend all my fafsa money on wigs

hoodieirwin

If you ever thought of what would luke look like if he is the little spoon then here it is

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dailychriscolfer

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7-ac

thursday

cleromancy

a cat: *touches me with its small hand* me: *eyes tearing up* thank you

dicaeopolis

i need you to understand that gay girls are not just skinny white alternative eighteen-year-olds.

i need you to understand that gay girls are five-year-olds with crushes on their music teachers, twelve-year-olds with crushes on their best friends, forty-year-old moms, eighty-year-old couples who go to church on sunday mornings and bicker about what to eat for dinner.

that women who love women can be the ideal loving happy couple, but that they also can be the couple that fights bitterly and cheats and breaks up or gets divorced.

that they can be WGST professors and students at all-girls’ schools, but that they can also be accountants and elementary school principals and data technicians.

that they can be thin or athletic or beautiful, but that they can also be fat or lumpy or ugly. that they can be kind and radiant, but that they can be grumpy and callous and rude. that we are not an aesthetic, or a genre of porn, or a choice of lifestyle, but very deeply human and flawed.

and that every single one of these women is valid in her orientation. every single one.