What I think about what's going on with Meghan Markle.
I feel like one of the things that happens when people say, " I don't understand what she's done wrong. She hasn't done anything", is that for Hollywood standards, no, maybe she hasn't done anything wrong, the babyshower, the demands, all that, based on the standards of Hollywood could be okay. The point is that she is now one of the faces of the British monarchy, she now represents it, and all this she is doing is not something that is usual in British royalty, they are reserved but still make the people feel that they are part of that family, they tend to solve their problems in silence or at least without so much scandal (most of the time)
And if you ask me, I think that Meghan has been over-criticized in some aspects, she has been expected to be perfect from the beginning and that she doesn't make any mistakes (which is a bit stupid because there are many protocols and rules that royalty must follow), they have compared it to Catherine, and I personally think that comparisons make no sense by the simple fact that no one is the same person.
So to say that "Meghan is not like Catherine" is a bit stupid, because they obviously are different people, different women, with different nationalities and that are used to different cultures
And no, I'm not a fan of Meghan, or Harry, in fact I support the Cambridge's. But that doesn't make me blind to everything that is happening around Meghan, and everyone in the royal family. Did Meghan make a mistake? Yes, several times. But that doesn't mean she should be sent to hell because of it. Put yourself in her shoes and you probably won't take the critism that far, remember that she hasn't stopped being a human being. Does Meghan deserve what's happening to her? No, not entirely, at least. But their fans have to stop being so defensive, must accept that she has been wrong, and that she IS NOT A HOLLYWOOD STAR, no anymore, and that the "right ways" of behaving have changed
And also, if you want that Meghan and Harry to be respected, if you want them to stop being so criticized, you have to stop paying with the same coin, that does not make you better, but the same or even worse. Not all of you do it, but I got to see people criticising the dress of Catherine at the tour of Pakistan when she was dressed in the TRADITIONAL CLOTHING of that country, I saw people criticising their children, and I think that this is a general rule, CHILDREN DON'T GET INTO THIS FIGHTS. And another thing, not all the criticism Meghan receives is for racism, stop thinking that, if we want to make racism cease to exist first we must stop thinking that ABSOLUTELY everything is about racism, that there are people who criticize her for being racist? Yes, there are. But not everyone is like that.
With this I'm not saying that the Cambridge's fans are saints, it's just that I'm talking about Meghan and her fandom, we all have to stop all this critism, if you don't care about MM and PH then don't look for pictures on Instagram to criticize them, if you don't care about the Cambridge's stop making critics about what they do and what they don't, because if you DON'T CARE about someone, you literally give a f**k about what they do, or about what they wear. And if you are going to make critics (because, of course, you're free of doing them) make them in the most constructive way. They are not perfect, they are going to make a lot of mistakes, but again they're only humans, being part of the monarchy don't make them robots.
And finally remember that at the end of the day they are a family, one that has suffered way too much, never forget about it.
All this is obviously just my opinion.
And I'm so sorry if there are grammatical mistakes 😊.
And please, don't hate me for this, or start saying horrible this about this in the comments.
