I’m so disappointed in everyone. For years we saw Bob and Eliza as nothing but kind, loving and caring people. Loved by their familys, the cast, everyone. Bob has helped so many of you and it takes only one person which possible false accusations or at least not telling the whole truth to turn your back on them? It’s just sad.
Anyway, if anyone wants to talk about this, I’m always here. Your support helped me to make up my own mind and not caring about those hypocrites, so I’ll be there for anyone who needs support.
In this house, we stand with Bob and Eliza.
i met a guy. he was super charming with great smile that could’ve sucked you in. he bought his wife on vacations, spoiled her with gifts. dogs loved him. he was extremely generous with me and paid for my meals.
his wife lost a kidney because of his physical abuse. he threatened to kill his own children. that was only the tip of the iceberg.
now... he wasn’t horrific to me specifically, therefore he couldn’t have been horrific to other people. so i’m gonna tell my friend she’s a liar? no, i believed her the first time.
that is what abusers do. they do it behind closed doors. but in public, they’re extremely charming and generous, often pillars of the community. they break down the people they claim to love, then go out for a friendly beer with a friend who does not know.
you know how often people like arryn lie? the number is less than 2%.
please educate yourself on this and read up statistics of domestic abuse because what you read will horrify you. maybe you will find it in your heart to gain empathy for what people like arryn go through every day.
this post makes a mockery of what survivors like her go through. it’s why so many of them hold it in and wait literal years, sometimes decades to tell their story because we have people like you that claim it’s not possible for someone who presents themselves as a nice person to be a horrific piece of shit. because you demand a burden of proof and ask them to relive the horrors they went through.
it’s extremely foolish to think he can’t be horrific because he wasn’t horrific 100% of the time.