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beguines

Paul van Dongen, Crown of Thorns (2) / Crown of Thorns (3) / Crown of Thorns (4) / Crown of Thorns (5)

mirelhamirelha

Void, 2019

10,5 x 12 cm

Pencil and graphite

www.instagram.com/banchsgual

#art

prxttypeony

I was tagged by the wonderful @calcifersfire to post a lil selfie 🌻

I know I was also tagged by the lovely @flammaelunae a little while ago to post selfies (sorry I’m so late to this, had a case of the uglies for a little while there)

I’d like to tag: @rainbowmoonshadow , @peace-and-plants , @tinytealight , @forlornes , @kronky , @verdi-gris , @iwant—tobelieve , @porcelaintears , @harley-likethemotorcycle , @notdefeatedyet , and @luna-rabbitheart 💕💕💕

forlornes

at ur request m'lady

#bussin bussin outfit i wore to the veronica's concert last month ^^#hehe ty again for the tag cutie 🤗🌙💭

sioltach

catididnt

Transcript:

“Most of what you think you know about Maslow’s hierarchy of needs is wrong.

This is the model that we all learned in psych 101 is wrong [image of Maslow’s pyramid is shown] where our basic physiological needs are at the bottom of the pyramid and achieving one’s full individual potential is at the apex.

What you may not have known is that Maslow spent 6 weeks with the Blackfoot First Nation in the summer of 1938. He learned about their worldview and the Blackfoot Tipi, appropriated and misrepresented their perspective to establish his own Maslow’s hierarchy, and then didn’t give them credit.

[Image of Maslow’s pyramid and Blackfoot tipi shown, described below]

According to the Blackfoot Tipi, self-actualization is at the bottom of the pyramid. In the middle we have belonging and community actualization, where people take care of each other and help each other with their basic needs. And at the top, we have cultural perpetuity, which is teaching each other how to live in harmony with the land and achieve community actualization through generations.

It makes so much sense, right? Taking care of oneself is not enough. We need to take care of each other and our community.

This is why we need to decolonize psychology.”

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amandab653

Metamorphosis

Doing what is best for you doesn't always feel good. It is fucking painful. It can feel like your insides are being ripped out of you. It can empty you, make you feel like the shell of the person you once were

But it replaces the emptiness with something better, something healthy, something extraordinary

You have to keep going

#it's... very hard... but growth and change can only occur outside of the comfort zone. i have to keep going #what would i do if i wasnt afraid?#p

n3krom0-deactivated20210626

電磁祭囃子 in NEO TOKYO 2020

thecartonizer

The band is ELECTRONICOS FANTASTICOS if yall wondering about them

#so sick

kestalsblog

Not every story is about seeing yourself in it. Sometimes it’s about learning to see other people too.

melaninexcellence

WILLOW SMITH at the IHeartRadio Music Awards (2022)

mulletlove-deactivated20200811

all i can do is keep putting love into the universe

auntymurda

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ratcity

The OBSESSION with identity is so crazy like the view that when you do something it immediately becomes part of your identity and all the parts of you have to click together to become “person who wakes up early” or “person who reads” no you can literally just do something without restructuring your whole performance of personhood around it. I don’t know what to tell you except that you will never be able to have an entirely unfractured view of yourself or that you will be able to rationalize all the complex parts of yourself into the phrase “person who x” like you should just be doing things without performing them. Or aestheticizing them. Just try different things on and keep what works for you. Otherwise you will never learn and grow!