lowkey teacher crush UwU

tc: we'll call him either, B, V or Fox, 29, my english and photography teacher (HE'S GAY YAY) \|/ me: Jitse, 15 and 3 years into middle/highschool UWU (ALSO GAY)

[fruitytc]

true story: when you have inside jokes with your tc about kidnapping you 😫😫😫

[fortunatelyimdead]

Can you please tell us stories sksksks :000

[blueeyedtcs]

Me: *never communicates my feelings with you but still expects you to shove your tongue down my throat*

[fortunatelyimdead]

18.12.19

Whoah it's been a while, hi! So I don't have Fox's class anymore 😓 if I chose french as modern language insteadof German there was a 50/50 chance I'd get him but noOo.

Well things are weird now tbh, he's being way closer with me this year, maybe it's because this will be my last year, maybe he's developing feelings for me?? I sure hope not.. that's really unprofessional, he already got a warning from the principal for being friends with other students.

I want to wish him a happy new year in person but Friday he has a christmas lunch with all the teachers and won't have time for me, as usual. And I wanted to talk to him about certain behaviours that he shows when he's with me, especially when we're alone,

- Usually when we say goodbye he pats me on the back, under my shoulder blades, but yesterday he went a bit low, at my lower back

- his hugs are getting tighter and closer, in 2nd only our shoulders would touch, but last time we hugged our legs and hips touched

- there's only a small group he now calls "sweetie" and I'm a part of that little group, along with darling, but only with me

- when he greets me from afar he winks and smirks or smiles with his teeth (only at me, he only smirks or smiles at me), this isn't necessarily "romantic" maybe the smirk but i've seen alot of teachers wink as a greeting.

And yesterday when I was talking to another teacher he came by and stood really close to me, almost uncomfortably close, he keeps saying he's so proud of me every time we have a conversation

I love him too much, he needs to get out of my head. I'm going to talk about his behaviour with him soon.

- Jitse

[loving-tc-deactivated20210421]

Dear TC

I know it’s not okay, not “right” for us to be together. I’m not dumb, I know the law. I know that I could get expelled and forever ruin my reputation, I know you could get arrested and never be allowed to teach again.

I promise you, I will never act upon my feelings, I will never try to kiss you, touch you inappropriately, say something out of order. I will never do anything stupid out of jealousy.

But that doesn’t mean I can’t live a fantasy in my head. In my mind, when I get home, you come home with me and hug me. You don’t go back to your own home. In my head, I get to think that I matter to you more than a student, that I’m on your mind as much as you’re on mine. See, I know this isn’t true. But please, don’t take my fantasy away.

[suffering-tc]

Does a song ever remind you of someone?

Not because of the lyrics, or the mood, or the vibe.

It just feels so utterly them.

[fortunatelyimdead]

Leave a light on by Tom walker

Saint Bernard by Lincoln

-Jitse

[shitilikemyteacher]

I’m new to the teacher crush community

In fact, I’m also new to tumblr, this is my first post ever. I recently found the the tcc hashtag and I now can confess that I have a crush on my maths teacher (just to clarify, I’m 16 and I’m never going to act on these feelings).

I’m going to post some tcc imagines, probably not many stories about what happened at school because I’m too paranoid someone could find it lmaooo

If you are an active member of the tcc, you can reblog this if you want, so I can follow some tcc accounts uwu

[rendezvous-ramblings]

Hi, so I'm in a bit of a pickle. Me and Fox hugged at the front entrance at school because he was proud of me for being open about my coming out story. This year he's been awfully close, and I'm comfortable with it but I don't want him to get in trouble because of me. This is my last year and in October I'm going to be of legal age. There's a pretty small chance he likes me but the signssssss omfggggg 😩😩😩 I just like him too much and the crush is only getting more intense. Any advice? -🧶

I’ve replied to a lot of asks similar to yours. You already acknowledged that you would never want to get your tc in trouble. It doesn’t matter if you’re going to be of legal age because there’s still an authority/maturity gap between you and your tc. Your tc should never show any signs that they reciprocate your feelings that’s highly unprofessional. Also, a very bad red flag if they have supported you emotionally through a personal matter and all of a sudden they’re showing signs of romantic interest. There are instances of exploitation/manipulation and the tcc tends to forget about that. Regardless, of how you feel you need to keep your guard up in case your tc turns out to be someone you didn’t expect. I’m not saying this is your case but I’m using “you” in a general sense for whoever reads this as well. Deep down you all know an adult male/female in an established career where they’re responsible for your education/wellbeing should not be crossing any professional/physical boundaries. Especially while you’re still their subordinate in a professional dynamic.

I personally thought I was mature to handle my situation when I graduated from high school. In reality I wasn’t especially since that was my first time responding seriously to my feelings. I never had a boyfriend or any experience of the sort. I thought all my peers were ridiculous for entering so many short term relationships. I’ve listened to endless boy troubles and gave all the advice even though I was never the one in the relationship. It got extremely complicated when I was exploring my feelings with E and it took a decent amount of time for us to get past our mentality from our previous professional relationship. I’m definitely not the same person I was in the initial stages of the relationship and I had growing up to do regardless of how mature I felt I was. E still argues that I was very mature in comparison to my peers but there were times where I handle conflicts between us poorly in a juvenile way. I didn’t realize I was mimicking toxic behavior that I grew up around and how that hurt E. I’m still learning effective communication with him to this day. Thankfully, as I got to know him outside of the classroom I realized he was still someone I wanted to be around. I learned a lot of things about him that I had no idea about when I was his student and we were considered “close friends” when he still taught me.

It wasn’t all hearts and flowers and when you’re crushing on a teacher you idealize them in varying degrees (some people do it slightly others extremely). You can’t possibly know them on a highly personal level since there are a lot of things they can’t share with you given the boundaries and norms. They should be filtering themselves when sharing their personal lives/issues given your age and the professional relationship they have. Be wary of people who overshare as they may be looking for your sympathy and some individuals use that was a window for manipulation. I know this all sounds awfully negative but it’s true in unfortunate incidents.

To help with your intensifying feelings you may have to reframe your thinking. Be grateful of the friendship you have. Remind yourself of how you would never want to do anything to get your tc in trouble. That includes doing overly friendly gestures or spending excessive time with him to the point where other students and his co-workers might start talking. You definitely don’t want to put a target on your back and be a subject scrutinity. Tone things down if you have to because you don’t want others to be aware or even your tc to be aware of your crush. As that may jeopardize your friendship and ongoing professional relationship.

Hugs are a friendly gesture and amorous hugs are completely different. It would definitely register if it was amorous one. Accept that small friendly gestures such as a hug means more to you given your intense crush. That’s completely okay as you should be embracing how you feel as suppressing strong feelings is very unhealthy for your mental health. I’m glad your tc is supporting you with your coming out, however, please try not to frame all your interactions as romantic or as potential signs of him reciprocating. Be aware of moments where you’re reading too much into things or overreacting over a rather normal moment between the two of you. We’ve all been there and I’ve been guilty of that myself. Once you learn how to tone your emotional reactions down and over analyzing your interactions, the friendship becomes much more enjoyable and smoother. I’m speaking from personal experience as well since I know how overwhelming it is to have all these feelings while trying to reason with yourself. Literally feels like having an angel on one shoulder and a devil on the other. I wish you all the best! Don’t hesitate to send another ask or dm if you need more personal help. My inbox is always open!

[monochromerowan-deactivated2021]

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we stan when your TC tells a bad joke in class and looks over at you for validation (”WAS IT FUNNY”) 

[donttrustteacherswhodatestudents]

me: it’s just a platonic crush i swear

also me: *can’t stop thinking about how he’d be in bed*

[bluejaha]

like/reblog if you are an account based on, post, or have posted ANY of the following

- lolita (1997 mainly) - age gaps - the crush (1993) - older actors - teacher crush community - nymphets

and I’ll follow you back

[starker-obsessions]

Because I got bored

[tc-impossible-desire]

issit just me or whenever i see anything related to my tc my heart just beats faster? Like- i see her car parked by the hall every single day and i can even get anxiety from seeing it

. I see her name on a paper and I literally died .

is this normal..

[fortunatelyimdead]

Duuude sameeee

[wqqqx-deactivated20210420]

Imagine…

Sleeping with your tc in his bed, at a rainy night. He gives you soft kisses and caresses your hair, whispers into your ear “I love you to the moon and back, my little darling.”

[teachercrush-xx]

The TCC Pledge

I, as a part of the teacher crush community, will not:

- put my tc’s job at risk with innapropriate behaviour

- encourage others to persue their tc’s romantically or sexually

- put my tc in uncomfortable situations

- reveal any private information about them that they wouldn’t want shared

Instead, I will:

- respect them as a teacher first and foremost

- respect their partner (if they have one)

- acknowledge and understand the fact that persuing anything romantic or sexual with them is wrong and illegal

- understand that they view me as a child (or very young person at least)

- respect their personal boundaries, whether it’s physical or even the subject matter of a conversation

Reblog to pledge

[whatfreshhellisthis-tc]

found this on the internet but damn if it isn’t the most relatable thing-

[tc-star-blog]

haha😂

[lustingtc]

[always-tc]

you know when...

you know when you really need a hug from a particular person....

but that person happens to be your middle aged married teacher ahaha fml :)

[sidneysfavouriteghostface]

😩😩 mood