Aressida

Australian. Wears hearing aids. Homeschooler mum. Follower of Christ and Watchwoman. Descendants of farmers, Viking, and royalty. Digital Soldier (since 2017) - Illiesyra/Aressida. 17/Q. Sigma INFJ-T. Truthseeker. Likes to share memes. #aressida Garde Bien.

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Stopping to appreciate the extraordinary and the ordinary. It is in the balance of both that I have found my peace.

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It's been a year since we went our separate ways. Not because the past didn't matter, but because it did. Thank you for the years we shared. I cherish the good memories and accept the path life has taken. I wish you peace.

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One year later. It has not always been easy, and the journey has been full of twists and turns, but I am grateful and am in a better place than ever. Jesus is so good, and his grace has carried me to a place of peace I did not think was possible.

I have been holding onto the promise of John 14:27: 'Peace I leave with you; my peace I give you. I do not give to you as the world gives. Do not let your hearts be troubled and do not be afraid.' Wishing everyone reading this that same deep, lasting peace.

To anyone currently in the middle of their own storm: keep going. Your peace is waiting for you on the other side.

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The greatest barrier to your own healing was your own hand in the audit. True strength is the refusal to trade your character for a win.

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Q: How does this shift from seeking vindication to seeking peace feel as you continue your own journey of healing?

A: More peace within myself than I ever found in being right. I hope others will one day walk the same path, and not becoming what wounded ourselves. May our souls remain anchored in Him. I am at rest.

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The Final Audit.

"There is a profound clarity that arrives only after you stop fighting to be understood.

True strength is not found in winning arguments or correcting the record. It is found in forgiving the parts we played and in the courage to abandon the hunt for vindication.

You cannot find life while tethered to another’s deceit. As long as you are carrying their baggage, you remain dead to your own potential - you are simply fighting a ghost. True liberation is not being understood by those committed to your distortion; it is the clinical realization that you do not require their witness to validate your reality. When friends and family have already made their choices and shown their hands, the truth becomes self-evident. You stop looking for justice in the same places you found your wounds.

To let go is to finally dismantle the trauma-coded compulsion to manage another person’s perspective. It is the final withdrawal of labor from the exhausting project of proving your humanity to those who never intended to see it.

I am releasing the pen. This is the final audit, and may our souls be placed safely in the hands of Jesus Christ. I am done." - Aressida. 1/6/2026.

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Life keeps moving forward, even when part of us still lingers in the past. But healing cannot grow where hate is continually fed. True peace cannot be found apart from Jesus Christ.

My prayer is that, by the finish line, there will be peace, forgiveness, healing, and continual growth for the family.

That hearts would soften instead of harden, wisdom would overcome pride, and love would remain stronger than division.

Some wounds take time, but God is still able to restore what has been broken and guide toward grace, truth, and reconciliation. Not deeper bitterness shaped by the company they choose to keep.

The absence of someone can be endured with God's strength, but the absence of God leaves a void nothing else can fill. What we feed our hearts, the voices we follow and the company we keep, will either lead us toward peace or further from it.

At the end of it all, only truth, grace, and the condition of the heart before God will truly matter.

This is how I choose to hold onto hope, and that the weight of the past will not define who we become.

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I’m filling your heart with quiet confidence. —God