9 Tips That’ll Adapt You Into “Lady” Society
Have fun, and don’t take yourself too seriously!
Class knows no income, and high society is not a physical place.
Sit at a slight angle when in an armchair, push your chest out when sitting in a bench/booth, armless chair. Move to the front of your chair if you have to so it won’t be instinctual to slump.
Sip your drink or pasta instead of slurping. Sipping is distracting, and we tend to do so when we are in a rush or our drink is too hot.
Avoid fighting yourself when performing basic movements. If you walk so fast it hurts or takes you out of your natural movement, you’re forcing yourself to walk unnaturally. If flailing your arms hurts when you talk, that’s out of your basic movement. Learn how to move in your own movement and make your motions more comfortable.
Learn about other’s cultures. Instead of flying to different countries to learn, visit real Mexican, Jamaican, Haitian, etc. restaurants!
Be willing to learn. Holding a conversation with a rigid listener is difficult because they will interject and discredit your dialogue.
Dress how you would dress if social media didn’t exist. If social media didn’t exist, my style would be polished. For others, if social media was nonexistent, they’d dress for parties! It’s your life!!
Live life without the fear of judgement. It breaks my heart to listen to older people saying they regret living to please others and not enjoying their style, careers, bodies and income because they felt cornered 24/7 by past bullies.
Exist for yourself. You are not an object to be enjoyed, gawked at, displayed or berated. No matter what items you do or don’t have, being treated as a human is your birthright.
Have your own likes, disposition and character. Becoming more ladylike should never make you become a shell of yourself.
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